“鉴于男女儿童智力发育速度不同，男童普遍晚于女童2年左右，同性学童之间也有智力发育差异，因此全国统一规定男女儿童7周岁入学违反教育规律。建议女童可在6~7岁入学，男童可在7~8岁入学。现在大学招生女生普遍高分于男生，需反思。”9月24日，北京大学教授吴必虎在微博上公开发表观点，认为男孩应该比女孩晚入学。在随后的一条回复网友的微博中，吴必虎又表示，同一个年级中，女生5岁入学、男生8岁入学，更适合双方相处。这一观点，迅速在网络上形成了热点话题。昨天，现代快报记者就此展开采访，各方也持不同的观点。

"In view of the children's intelligence development of men and women at different speeds,Boy's common later than girls 2 years,Gay children have developmental differences,So the national unified regulation 7 years old children of men and women in violation of education law school.Suggest girl can be in 6 ~ 7 annual income study,The boy can be in 7 ~ 8 annual income study.Now the university admissions girls generally high scores than male ones,Need to reflect on."On September 24,Beijing university professor wu will tiger in micro bo published on view,That boy should be later than girls entrance.In the subsequent a reply to the Internet in micro bo,Wu will tiger said,In the same grade,Girl 5 annual income study/Boy 8 annual income study,More suitable for both sides get along with.This view,Quickly on the network to form the hot topics.yesterday,Modern express the reporter expansion interview,Each party also hold different opinions.

　　现代快报记者 金凤 黄艳

Modern express reporter jinfeng HuangYan

　　快报调查：小学低年级阶段，女孩确实比同龄男孩更成熟，表现更好 Express survey:The elementary school lower grade stage,The girl did more than their peers boy more mature,better

　　专家观点：“错龄入学”难以操作，不妨考虑改变一下评价体系 Expert view:"Wrong age entrance"Difficult to operate,You might consider a change of evaluation system

　　调查 survey

　　小学里，女生表现确实更好 Elementary school,The girl really better performance

　　“小学里，女生普遍更听话，在守纪律、完成作业方面都优于男生。”一位小学老师说，特别是小学低年级，女生的表现更为抢眼。“比如我们收择校生，就更愿意要女生，如果太调皮的男生，一般是不收的。”

"Elementary school,Girls generally more obedient,In the discipline/Finish the homework aspects are better than the boys."A primary school teacher said,Especially the elementary school lower grade,The girl performance more grab an eye."For example we accept ZeJiaoSheng,Are more willing to to the girl,If you are too naughty boy,The general is not reap."

　　南京师范大学金陵女子学院院长钱焕琦表示，有关男女童智力发育的研究是在脑科学研究基础上进行的，全国有好几个重点实验室在做，老早就有结果了。根据研究成果，男女童在同一年龄阶段，女孩要更成熟一些。

Nanjing normal university jinling women's dean of college QianHuanQi said,For boys and girls about developmental research in brain research is based on,There are several national key laboratory in do,Old would have come out.According to the research results,For boys and girls in the same age stage,The girl to be more mature some.

　　一年级四个班，班长都是女的 A grade four class,The monitor is female

　　6岁半的小女生畅畅，是南京一所小学的一年级学生，入学前，她就识1000多个汉字，会100以内的加减法，更厉害的是，她胆子大，从来不怕陌生人，大人让她唱歌跳舞从不怯场。才入学不到一个月，活泼的畅畅就被老师指定为小班长，做老师的小助手。

6 years old half little girl chang chang,Nanjing is a primary school students of grade one,Before admission,She know more than 1000 Chinese characters,Will 100 less than addition and subtraction,worse,She get a nerve,Never are not afraid of strangers,Adult let her singing and dancing never stage fright.Less than a month before admission,Lively chang chang was the teacher designated as small monitor,Do the teacher's little helper.

　　“一年级四个班，全是女班长。”另一所小学的老师说，今年一年级入学的四个班，全是选的女班长。“现在还没考试，谈不上谁成绩更好，但选班长会选一个群体中比较显眼、说话大胆的孩子。女孩子语言表达能力强，课堂上主动举手，而且领悟力、执行力都不错，又跟老师比较亲，所以女班长很多。”这位老师表示，即使到了民主选班干部阶段，在低年级阶段，那些调皮的小男生也不会得到太多选票。

"A grade four class,Is full of monitress."Another primary school teacher said,This year a grade entrance of four class,All selected monitress."Haven't the exam,Far from who performance better,But choose the monitor will choose a group is conspicuous/Speak boldly children.Girls language expression ability,Class active hands up,And perception/Executive force is pretty good,And with the teacher is closer to you,So monitress many."The teacher said,Even in the democratic choose the class cadre stage,In the junior stage,The naughty little boy also won't get too many votes.

　　挺聪明的男孩，进了小学总挨批 A clever boy,Into the elementary school always be criticized

　　“我的一年级过得太失败了。”小男生睿睿今年上二年级，是正常年龄入学。在幼儿园阶段，动手的活动比较多，他经常被老师表扬。到了小学，他有坐不住的毛病，还喜欢上课插嘴，招来了老师的多次批评。妈妈非常着急，老师一告状，就把孩子打一顿。

"One of my grade have too failed."The little boy, this year, on the second grade,Is the normal age entrance.In the kindergarten stage,Begin activities more,He often praised by the teacher.The primary school,He had sit still problem,Also like the class get a word in edgeways,Brought the teacher's many times criticized.Mother very worried,The teacher at,Children play a meal.

　　“我现在成绩也不好，老师和同学都不喜欢我，我不想上学了。”睿睿闹着要转学，或者重上幼儿园。“他的智力没问题，就是习惯不好，管不住自己。”妈妈一边心疼儿子，一边也束手无策。

"I now result is bad also,Teachers and students don't like me,I don't want to go to school."Gruppo, make to transfer,Or heavy in kindergarten."His intelligence is no problem,Is bad habit,Tube could not help myself."Mother side son love dearly,Side also at a loss what to do.

　　许女士和丈夫都是研究生毕业，小时候都是好学生。可儿子却不一样，上幼儿园大班的他在幼儿园里经常打同学，还在课堂上大叫。老师说他开窍晚，很多方面比不上其他小朋友。

Xu woman and her husband is graduate,When I was a child are good students.But the boy but not the same,In kindergarten group of him in the kindergarten students often play,Also in the class shouted.The teacher said that he begin to understand night,Many ways can't compare with other children.

　　“孩子智商没有问题，主要是情商方面还不够。想让他晚一年上学，但如果晚一年上学，也会影响孩子的自尊心。”许女士在犹豫该怎么办。

"The child intelligence quotient (IQ) no problem,Mainly is the emotion quotient (eq) is not enough.Want to let him go to school a year later,But if a year to go to school late,Also can affect a child's self-esteem."Ms xu in hesitate to do.

　　专家声音 Experts voice

　　校长：小学阶段的评价更利于女生 The headmaster:The evaluation of primary school is more advantageous to the girl

　　南京市鼓楼区第一中心小学校长王学金表示，虽然男生“开窍”是比女生稍晚，但到了小学高年级，一些男生就会“冒”出来，在各方面的表现开始突出。

Nanjing GuLouOu first center primary school principals WangXueJin said,Although the boy"Begin to understand"Is later than girls,But in the elementary school higher grades,Some boys will"take"out,In all aspects of performance began to highlight.

　　“‘错龄’上学，有一定道理，但实施起来不太可行。”王学金说，“错龄”上学，会带来一系列操作难题，如果男生晚一至三年入学，还得晚一至三年入幼儿园，或者是幼儿园得多上几年。这不是所有家长都乐意的，也比较乱。而且到了初高中阶段，一般男生都赶上来了，不会比同龄女生弱，如果“错龄”入学，男生们毕业也晚，工作也晚。

"‘Wrong age’school,There is something,But the rise not feasible."WangXueJin said,"Wrong age"school,Will bring a series of operation problem,If the boys late one to three years admission,Also late one to three years into the kindergarten,Or is much more kindergarten for several years.This is not all parents are willing to,Is disorderly.And to the junior stage,The general boy are catching up with,Not more than their peers weak girl,if"Wrong age"entrance,The boys graduation also night,Work late.

　　“问题还是出在评价上，现在小学阶段的评价更利于女生。”王学金表示，女生在表达上比较占优势，因此在小学阶段获得的锻炼机会也多，教师应该把这些机会给更多男生参与。在学业方面，不仅仅评价文化成绩，包括一些男生擅长的活动也应该占重要位置，给他们自信。“我们学校，在游泳和足球方面，男生占优势，男生也有自己可以骄傲的地方。”

"The problem was out in the evaluation,Now the evaluation of primary school is more advantageous to the girl."WangXueJin said,The girl in the expression on the comparison,So in primary school get training opportunities also many,Teachers should have the opportunity to participate in more boys.In academic aspects,Not only evaluation culture results,Include some of the boys are good at activities should also accounts for an important position,Give them confidence."Our school,In swimming and football,Boy predominate,Boy also have their own can be proud of place."

　　王学金还表示，他一直不赞成不能输在起跑线上这句话，人的发展是一场长跑，也许有些男生起跑时慢一些，不等于后面就赶不上。

WangXueJin also said,He always did not approve of cannot lose in the starting line this sentence,Human development is a long distance,Maybe some boys when start slowly,Is not equal to the back'll miss.

　　古平岗小学心理教师刘艳也表示，男生在小学只要度过了一段适应期，就至少能跟上队伍，家长要有耐心去等待孩子的成长。

GuPingGang elementary school psychological teacher liu yan also said,The boy in the school as long as had a adaptive phase,At least can keep up with the team,The parents want to have patience to wait for a child's growth.

　　专家：“错龄入学”没有必要推广 experts:"Wrong age entrance"There is no need to promote

　　南师大儿童发展与家庭教育研究中心副主任殷飞表示，男孩在智力发展初期滞后女孩一两年，是客观现实，但就此从政策层面一刀切，也是有偏颇的，也有男孩发育程度与同龄的女孩相当，甚至超出同龄女孩。“入学年龄滞后，虽然对男生会有一定的保护，但这意味着是让孩子们迁就于教育，但实际上，教育是应该为孩子发展服务的。”殷飞表示。

NaShiDa children development and family education research center deputy director YanFei said,The boy in the early intelligence development lag girl one or two years,Is objective reality,But in this from the policy level one size fits all,Is biased,Also have boy development degree and age girl quite,Even beyond age girl."School age lag,Although to boys will have certain protective,But this means is to get the kids to indulge in education,But in fact,Education should be the child development services."YanFei said.

　　殷飞说，入学年龄前移国际上有趋势，这与课程定位有关。“有些父母望子成龙心切，孩子还没上学前，拼音、基本加减法都完成了。”他认为，在这种情况下，推迟男孩入学年龄，未必能为家长接受。

YanFei said,School age reach international trend,This course orientation and relevant."Some parents used to eager,The children haven't before school,pinyin/Basic addition and subtraction is done."He thinks,In this case,Delayed boy school age,Not for parents to accept.

　　殷飞表示：“男女孩年龄越小，差异越大，但高年级后差距越来越小，所以根子不在年龄上，而是目前教育的考量方式更符合女孩的发展。”他认为，中考、高考的纸笔测试，更适合乖巧的女孩，而男孩容易浮想联翩，优势体现不明显。

YanFei said:"Male girl age is smaller,The difference,But after senior gap more and more small,So certainly is not age,But currently education concerns mode is more suitable to the development of the girl."He thinks,tests/The university entrance exam paper and pencil tests,More suitable for clever girl,And the boy is easy to fall into a reverie,No obvious advantages.

　

　教育部门回应 Education department response

　　6周岁入学政策江苏不会改变 6 years old admission policy jiangsu won't change

　　“法律规定是6周岁。江苏省都是统一的。”江苏省教育厅基础教育处处长马斌表示，6周岁入学是经过多年实践，并且经过专家论证的，有其科学性。而且小学阶段是义务教育，家长应该在合法的年龄送孩子上学。

"Law is 6 years old.Jiangsu province is unified."Jiangsu provincial department of education foundation director MaBin said,6 years old entrance is after many years of practice,And after the expert argument,Has its scientific.And primary school education is compulsory,Parents should in the legal age to send their children to school.

　　“以前江苏也有些地区的孩子，七八岁入学，那是因为当时学校少、生育高峰等原因造成的，现在不会再有这样的现象。”马斌表示，吴必虎的观点是个人观点，但不具有普遍性。马斌表示，基础教育12年，同龄男生女生到了高中的各方面发展情况就差不多了，高考时没有太多差异。因此，他表示，不会因为有些男生在中间有一阶段稍显落后而更改入学政策。

"Before also some areas of jiangsu children,Annual income study of seven or eight onwards,That's because when school is little/Baby boom and reasons,Now won't have this kind of phenomenon."MaBin said,Wu will tiger point of view is a person point of view,But not universal.MaBin said,Basic education 12 years,Their peers in high school boys girls all aspects of development is about,The university entrance exam without too much difference.therefore,He said,Not because some boys in the middle stage of a slightly behind and change the admission policy.

　　网友们怎么说 Net friends how to say

　　有人支持有人反对 Some support opposition

　　还有人调侃…… There are people ridicule……

　　对于吴必虎的建议，微博网友们也持有不同观点，有人力挺，有人反对，还有人对此进行了调侃。

For wu will tiger suggestion,Micro bo net friends also hold different views,A human is,opposition,Others to ridicule.

　　赞成派

In favor of the pie

　　网友“Vivian”：从儿童智力发育的角度说，有一定道理，也有利于保护小男孩的自信。

Net friend"Vivian":The children's intelligence development from the point of view of the said,There is something,Is also advantageous in protects the little boy's confidence.

　　网友“mpdiaoY”：思路对头！如此更有利于培养男孩的自信心！

Net friend"mpdiaoY":Ideas butt!So more conducive to train the boy's self-confidence!

　　网友“广东花非花”：不错呀！总感觉同龄的小朋友男生比女生心理年龄小呢！

Net friend"Guangdong flowers not a flower":Good ah!Total felling age children boys than girls psychological age? Small!

　　网友“慳啲啦Baby_”：我儿子就是6岁读书的受害者，一路走来他读得很辛苦，追得很辛苦。特别上了高中，同比他大的同学比，他的理解能力更显不足。赞成男孩迟一两年读书！

Net friend"Come Baby_ members!":My son is 6 years old the victims of reading,Along the way he read very hard,Recover very hard.Especially in high school,Up his classmates ratio,His comprehension ability more shortage.In favor of the boy late one or two years study!

　　反对派

The opposition

　　网友“洛阳神小龟”：我不赞成男童推迟入学，根据自己读书的经历，班里年龄小的孩子（无论男女）普遍比年龄大的孩子成绩要好很多。

Net friend"Luoyang god small turtle":I don't approve of boy's delayed entrance,According to their own reading experience,Young children in the class(Both men and women)Common than older children much better results.

　　网友”玛雅狐狸“：早入学也有学习成绩好的，晚入学也有学习成绩差的。每个孩子的天资和学前家庭教育程度不同，故不能以生理年龄一概而论。

Net friend"The mayan fox":Early admission also have good grades,Late admission also have learning achievements are bad.Each child's talent and preschool family education at different levels,So cannot treat as the same physiological age.

　　调侃派

Ridicule sent

　　网友“lubaluba”：错开年龄入学，这也许是解决“剩女”问题的一帖药。

Net friend"lubaluba":Stagger age entrance,This perhaps is to solve"Left female"Question 1 medicine.

　　网友“晓洁_余”：哈哈，以后的女生就有福了，同班的男生都是“哦爸”（韩语，哥哥意）。

Net friend"XiaoJie _ more than":Ha ha,The girl after blessed,Class of boys are"Oh dad"(Korean,Brother meaning).

　　大学生这样看

College students look like this

　　女生欢迎“错龄”

Girls welcome"Wrong age"

　　但是否值得推广？

But whether it is worth popularization?

　　对男女童“错龄入学”的建议，大学生们反应不一。南农人文学院思想政治教育研二学生窦靓则坦言，更希望与心智相对成熟的男生交流。窦靓表示，同级同学中“大龄”男生的存在也会让女生们选择男朋友时压力小很多。“毕竟还有很多女孩迫于社会伦理，很少与学弟恋爱。”

For boys and girls of"Wrong age entrance"suggestion,College students have different reactions.South of the ideological and political education research farmers of liberal arts two students sinus beautiful is said,More hope and mental relatively mature boys exchange.Sinus jing said,Classmates at the same level"older"The existence of the boys will also let the girls boyfriend choice when little a lot of pressure."After all, there are a lot of girls are under the social ethics,Few students with love."

　　但窦靓认为，男女孩“错龄上学”是否真正值得推广，还值得商榷，“这也牵扯到性别平等的问题，女孩凭什么不能跟自己的同龄男孩一起竞争呢？”

But sinus beautiful think,Male girl"Wrong age to go to school"Really is worth popularizing,Still worthy of,"It also be involved in the problem of gender equality,The girl with what I can't be with my counterparts boy competition together?"

　　虽然在大学中，女生数量在许多专业开始“攻城略地”，但是窦靓觉得，男生的后发优势很强，而且女生也有自身的局限性。

Although in the university,Numbers of women in many professional began"Capture territory",But sinus beautiful feel,Boys very strong advantage of backwardness,And girls have their own limitations.

　　“女生普遍勤奋，刻苦努力，但是大三时，男生女生的表现有一个分水岭，有些男生会顿悟，后程发力，成绩会忽然从中游拼到前三，平常看起来默不作声，保研时成绩却特别优秀。”

"Girls generally diligent,Hard work,But the big three,The boy the girl performance have a watershed,Some boys will insight,HouCheng hair force,Result will suddenly from middle reaches spell to the first three,Common look silent,When the research result is outstanding."

　　窦靓说，在大学，虽然拿奖学金的以女生居多，但在学校的学生活动中，挑大梁的往往是男生。

Sinus jing said,In the university,Although the majority of the scholarship to the girl,But the students at school activities,Play the leading role is often the boy.

　　此外，有部分学生觉得“错龄入学”没有必要，“有时男生成绩比女生差，是因为男生的精力更分散，投入在学习上的精力不同，有的喜欢打游戏，有的忙着谈恋爱，但是女生比较专一，成绩更好一些。”南京大学大一学生小张说，“错龄入学”并不是解决男女生成绩差异的对策。

In addition,Some students feel"Wrong age entrance"There is no need to,"Sometimes the boys than girls performance difference,Because the boy more energy dispersion,Investment in the study of different energy,Some like to play the game,Some busy fall in love,But the girl is exclusive,Performance better."Nanjing university freshmen joba chamberlain said,"Wrong age entrance"Is not the solution to the men and women living result difference countermeasures.