临近双节，亲友之间都开始赠送礼物。我给亲友的孩子选择了几本书，女儿说："妈妈，这个学期我表现很好，老师给我的全是优，你也送我一件礼物吧。""你要什么样的礼物呢？"现在的孩子，仿佛从小就是用礼物"堆"起来的，过生日家长给买礼物；过节日家长给买礼物；学习成绩好了家长给买礼物；就连成绩下滑家长都要买礼物……　　

Near double festival,Between friends and relatives are beginning to gifts.I give relatives and friends children chose a few books,Daughter said:"mother,This semester I performance is very good,The teacher gave me was full of optimal,You also give me a gift for you.""What kind of gift do you want?"Now the children,As if is since childhood with gifts"pile"up,Parents give birthday gifts;A holiday parents to buy gifts;Study result good parents to buy gifts;Even grades slipped parents buy gifts……

　　很多时候，我们把时间花在为孩子购买礼物上，但这些礼物对孩子是否有用，孩子是否需要我们都不知道。也许做家长的，真的应该认真思考一下什么样的礼物才是孩子必须的真正的礼物。

Most of the time,We spend time to buy gifts for children,But these gifts to children is useful,Does the baby need we all don't know.May do the parents,Really should seriously consider what kind of gift is the children must be real gift.

　　"美国之母"玛丽安·爱德尔曼写过一篇叫《最珍贵的礼物》的文章，文中详细地叙述了应该送给孩子什么样的礼物："小时候，爸爸给了我爱读书的礼物……在爸爸看来，为孩子买些书籍，无疑要比购买玩具和衣物更重要。"玩具只是娱乐，有无对孩子来说不那么重要，有时候一根小树枝，就可以让孩子玩耍半天。而衣物，满足的是生理需要，只要衣能蔽体，挡住风寒，保证孩子穿得干净舒服就足够了。书，满足的是人的精神需求，因为"每一本书都是有灵魂的生命"，相伴一生，受用一生。

"The mother of the United States"Mary Ann love del mann wrote an article called[The most precious gift]article,This paper described in detail the should give children what kind of gift:"When I was a child,Dad gave me the gift of the love of reading……In the father seems to,Buy some books for the children,No doubt than buying toys and clothing is more important."Toy just entertainment,Have children lack is not so important,Sometimes a twig,Can let the child play half a day.And the clothing,Meet is physiological need,As long as the clothes can campaigned,Blocking wind chill,Make sure your child to wear clean comfortable enough.The book,Meet is the people's spiritual needs,because"Each book is a spiritual life",forever,Useful life.

　　"信念这个礼物也是爸爸送给我的……他教导我：信仰需要行动！"

"Faith this gift is dad gave me……He taught me:Belief need action!"

　　"妈妈给了我关爱，是她教给了我如何关爱别人。"

"Mother gave me love,Is she taught me how to love others."

　　"邻居特里萨·凯利夫人给了我勇敢……"

"Neighbors Theresa kelly lady gave me courage……"

　　爱德尔曼出生在一个贫穷的黑人家庭，靠自己打工念完了大学，并创立了儿童防卫基金会，卓越的工作成绩让她获得了"美国之母"的尊称，她的成就的取得，和童年得到的"真正的礼物"是分不开的。

Love del man was born in a poor black families,Work on your own way through college,And founded the children's defense fund,Remarkable achievements made her won"The mother of the United States"father,Her achievements obtained,And childhood get"The real gifts"Are inseparable.

　　童年在圣诞树下找到的礼物大多已不存在，但那些父母及邻居送给她得到的人生教诲如影随形，陪伴她左右。可以说她的成功，源于父母和邻居的影响，因为他们送给了她文化品质修养、信仰需要行动、关爱需要付出、要勇敢地面对遇到的事情，这些"礼物"，也是我们每个家长应该送给孩子的真正的礼物。

His childhood in the tree to find gifts mostly already does not exist,But those parents and neighbor gave her get life lesson ruyingsuixing,Around with her.Can say her success,From the influence of parents and neighbors,Because they gave her culture quality cultivation/Belief need action/Care need to pay/To face up to meet thing,these"gift",Also we each parents should give children the real gift.

　　给孩子良好的文化修养和品德修养，远比送他们一个贵重的玩具重要的多。

Give children a good culture and moral cultivation,Far more than give them an expensive toy more important.