中新网10月3日电独自一人飘洋过海求学难免孤单无助，学习与生活却一直挑战处处。据美国《星岛日报》报道，中国留学生蒋小姐(化名)近日陷入感情危机，又恰逢生活上处处碰壁，精神几近崩溃的她在脸书(facebook)扬言自杀，被警方紧急送院接受评估与治疗。仍留院观察的她1日以瘦弱的身躯撑起宽大的病袍，在精神科病房里四处游荡的重患中强作镇定，对离开的期盼已远远超过畏惧。

Beijing on October 3, alone across the seas to study hard to avoid lonely and helpless,Learning and life has been challenge everywhere.According to the American[Sing tao daily]reports,Chinese students JiangXiaoJie(alias)Recently in emotional crisis,And the attention of life is up against the wall,She seemed to go to pieces in the face of books(Facebook)Threatened to commit suicide,Be the police rushed to the hospital for evaluation and treatment.Still leave courtyard observed her 1 to emaciated body hold up wide disease robe,In the psychiatric ward wandered around in the heavy with forced calm,To leave hope has far more than fear.

　　“一个人在这里，处处碰壁。”蒋小姐说。这时候，一位罹患精神科疾病的华人女患者慢慢走了过来，面色惨白，对蒋小姐咧嘴一笑。蒋小姐不时要用手提一提病袍宽大的裤腰，她瞥了一眼那患者，摆摆手，近两周的病房生活已令她镇定了许多。

"A person in here,Everywhere up against the wall."JiangXiaoJie said.At this time,A deeloping psychiatric disease Chinese female patients slowly walked to come over,Complexion is pale,To JiangXiaoJie said with a smile.JiangXiaoJie from time to time to use portable mention disease robe wide top of trousers,She glanced at the patients,Put a hand,Nearly two weeks of ward life has made her calm many.

朋友报警送院 Friends alarm hospital

　　四年前，就读大学三年级的蒋小姐从南京大学转学来到纽约，入读州立大学位于水牛城的Fredonia分校。两年后她报考了位于曼哈顿的德瑞大学(Devry University)，今年刚刚开始第二年的会计与金融课程。只是生活重压恰遇感情触礁，她走到了情绪崩溃的边缘。

Four years ago,Attend the university three grade JiangXiaoJie from nanjing university transfer came to New York,In reading state university is located in buffalo leaves at Fredonia.Two years later she enter oneself for an examination the Manhattan drea university(Devry University),This year has just started the second years of accounting and finance course.Just life weigh just encounter affection on the rocks,She walked to the edge of the emotional breakdown.

　　19日，她在脸书主页上留下对生命感到绝望的留言。朋友看到后十分担心，立即拨打她的手机，但情绪低落的蒋小姐没有接听，后来还关了电话去散心。

19,Her face in the book on the homepage of life left a message of despair.After friends see very worried,Immediately call her mobile phone,But depressed JiangXiaoJie no answer,Then pass the telephone to relax.

　　直到入院时才知道，原来朋友报了警，而警察当日下午曾到过她在华埠租住的柏文。

We don't know until to the hospital,The original friends called the police,And the police that day afternoon have been her rented BaiWen in Chinatown.

　　20日凌晨时分，警察再度拍响了她的家门。蒋小姐回忆，睡眼惺忪的她被送上了救护车，还记得急诊室的护士对她说了一句“你可能还要等一段时间”。结果这一段时间，直到今天。

20 at dawn,The police again take rang her house.JiangXiaoJie memories,Bleary-eyed her into the ambulance,Still remember the emergency room nurse said to her 1"You may have to wait for a period of time".The result of this period of time,Until today.

　　蒋父1日终于日夜兼程赶到纽约。在两重铁门深锁的精神科病房，他终于见到了唯一的爱女，眼泪不禁决堤。

JiangFu 1 finally arrived at the New York day and night.In two iron gate deep lock of the psychiatric ward,He finally met the only beloved daughter,Tears can not help but burst.

　　蒋小姐表示，经此一役人看开了很多，希望能够尽快离开医院，并打算停学一个学期，与父亲到周边城市旅游散心，然后继续学业。

JiangXiaoJie said,After the service people cheer up a lot,Hope to be able to leave the hospital as soon as possible,And going to suspended for one semester,And the father to the surrounding city travel trip,And then to continue with their schooling.

留学生压力值得关注 Students pressure is a concern

　　协助蒋小姐联络家人和院方的联成公所顾问赵文笙表示，现在的中国留学生大多是家中唯一的孩子，父母倾注所有的心血培养，而孩子一人在外面临许多压力，两方面都不容易。当前有数十万留学生在美国，蒋小姐的例子值得警醒大家对这个团体心理健康的关注。

Assist JiangXiaoJie contact of the family and the hospital to be ccba consultant ZhaoWenSheng said,Now the Chinese students are mostly the only child in your family,Parents all their efforts to cultivate,And the child though facing many pressure,Two aspects are not easy.The current hundreds of international students in the United States,JiangXiaoJie example is worth alerting you to the group mental health concerns.

　　刚刚成立了留学生心理互助小组的哥大未来中国社副社长周圆认为，当今留学生的心理压力归根到底来自于“失衡”两个字，特别是理想与现实的失衡，社交圈子与学术圈子的失衡，实际投入与期望产出的失衡等。也只有内心强大的人，才能有准备地把握好生活的中心，找准一个平衡的支点，从而战胜生活中的种种压力。

Just set up students psychological group's big future Chinese club vice President zhou round think,Today's students psychological pressure in the final analysis from"imbalance"Two words,Especially the ideal and the reality of unbalanced,Social circle and academic circle imbalance,The actual input and expected output imbalance, etc.Only the heart strong men,Can be equipped to hold the center of the good life,Find a balance fulcrum,Thus win over the stresses in your life.