原标题：11天假期11个课外班 长假期间小学生比平时还累

Original title:11 days holiday 11 extracurricular class during the long holiday pupils still tired than usual

　　中秋连着国庆，再加上秋假，杭州中小学生前前后后一共能放10到11天的假！除去寒暑假，这个假期长得可谓“空前绝后”。

For National Day Mid-Autumn festival,Plus autumn false,Hangzhou primary and middle school students can put up and down a total of 10 to 11 days off!Remove winter and summer vacation,This holiday is long"unique".

　　但对一些孩子来说，长假不等于快乐。杭州长寿桥小学女生小晴(化名)这几天就过得很心烦。

But for some children speaking,Long vacation is not equal to happiness.Hangzhou longevity bridge primary school girls small fine(alias)This few days is very upset.

　　“11天假，我要上舞蹈、作文、小提琴、少年领袖……共11个课外培训班，比平时上课还要累呢！再这样下去，我不想上学了。”昨天，小丫头在QQ上向学校的心理老师周佶诉苦。

"11 days off,I want to go to the dance/composition/violin/Young leader...A total of 11 extracurricular training class,The class also tired? Than usual!It's going to,I don't want to go to school."yesterday,On the QQ came to school psychological teacher weeks Ji complaint.

　　为了开解这些放假不快乐的孩子，长寿桥小学的心理老师周佶在这个长假处于待命状态，被同事形容为“24小时校园心理门诊”，但他本人更愿意称之为“快乐屋”。他告诉记者：“这个年纪的孩子谈不上心理问题，只是有很多无法用言语表达的烦恼，‘快乐屋’就是让他们倾诉苦恼，找回快乐。”

In order to KaiXie these holidays are not happy children,Longevity bridge primary school psychological teacher weeks Ji in this long holiday in on standby,Be described as colleagues"24 hours campus psychological outpatient service",But I prefer to call it"Happy house".He told reporters:"This age children far from psychological problems,Just have a lot of can't be expressed in words troubles,‘Happy house’Is let them talk misery,happy."

　　此外，这几天很多父母会选择带孩子出门游玩，也会遇到孩子为买可有可无的东西哭闹的情况。

In addition,These days many parents will choose the children go out to play,Will also meet children to buy dispensable things of crying.

　　昨天，周老师特别提醒遇到这种状况的家长，“其实小家伙只是想通过买东西来肯定一件事，爸妈爱自己。所以爸妈哪怕不满足孩子的要求，也一定要强调一件事，不买不代表爸妈不爱你。”

yesterday,Miss zhou special remind meet this kind of condition of parents,"In fact little guy just wants to buy things to be sure of one thing,Parents love their.So parents even if do not meet the requirements of the children,Also must emphasize one thing,Don't buy do not represent parents do not love you."

想到要和父母24小时在一起，他不愿回家 Want to and parents 24 hours together,He doesn't want to go home

　　放假几天，“快乐屋”连续接到小朋友倾诉。放假第一天，9月29日上午8点，一个瘦弱的男孩步履蹒跚走进“快乐屋”，小声告诉周老师：“我不想回家，不想活了。”

A few days off,"Happy house"Continuous to children talk.The first day of the,On September 29, 8 o 'clock in the morning,A thin boy rolled up into"Happy house",The teacher tell weeks in a low voice:"I don't want to go home,Don't want to live."

　　周老师没多说什么，先陪男孩玩起了俗称“沙盘”的心理游戏利用各种道具在沙子上摆出自己喜欢的一幕场景，再由专业心理辅导师进行分析和心理疏导。一个多小时后，男孩说话嗓门明显大了点：“我现在最期待回家看电视。”然后走出“快乐屋”拉着妈妈的手回家了。

Miss zhou didn't say more??????,With the boy first played the commonly known as"Sand table"Psychological game use of various items in the sand is placed out their favorite scene,Again by professional counseling psychology division analysis and psychological counseling.After more than one hour,The boy speak a clear voice:"I'm the most looking forward to go home and watch TV."Then out of"Happy house"Took the mother's hand went home.

　　周老师告诉记者，这是一个患了小儿麻痹的孩子，被妈妈照顾得太好，反而觉得自己与众不同，非常自卑。从小，只有外公外婆支持他自己的事自己做。最近外公生病了，男孩顿时觉得自己的‘天堂’要消失了，有点绝望。

Miss zhou told reporters,This is a had polio children,Be mother take care of too good,But feel different,Very self-abased.from,Only grandpa and grandma support his own things to do.Recent grandpa was ill,The boy felt his own‘heaven’disappeared,A little despair.

　　周老师建议：长假前夕，害怕回家的案例并不少，原因么，都是家庭问题。这些孩子平时上学时，和父母的关系还好些，可一到长假，24小时都和父母在一起，矛盾就爆发了。

Weeks the teacher suggested that:Long holiday eve,Afraid of home and many cases,Reason yao,Are family problems.The children usually go to school,And parents relationship is better,Can a holiday to,24 hours and parents together,An outbreak of the contradiction.

　　很多时候，父母以爱为出发点，结果却伤害了孩子。那名小男生的自卑心理，就是被妈妈过度保护造成的。趁着这个假期，父母应该和孩子多点沟通。

Most of the time,Parents with love as the starting point,Results but hurt the child.The young boy's self-abased psychology,Mother is caused by the excessive protection.Under the cover of this holiday,Parents should and children multipoint communication.

长假补习班太多，家长赶紧踩刹车 Long vacation cram school too much,Parents slammed on the brakes

　　每次过完长假，一些学生会出现厌学情绪，也就是俗称的“长假综合征”。在这个长假，周老师提前遇上了，11天上11个补习班的小晴就是最典型的例子。

Every time after the long holiday,Some students appear weariness,Also is common"Long holiday syndrome".In this long holiday,Miss zhou met in advance,11 heaven 11 cram school of small clear is the most typical example.

　　“长假后厌学的孩子，主要有两种情况，一种是像小晴这样，家长把长假当成孩子查漏补遗的黄金时段，补习班一通乱报，逼孩子用力过猛，比上学还累，让孩子觉得实在没力气继续往下学了。”周老师分析说，“如果还有像小晴这么夸张的情况，请家长尽早踩刹车。”

"After the long vacation school children,There are two major kinds of cases,One is like a small fine so,Parents send long vacation as children leak supplement during prime time,A cram school fiddling,Force their child to overexert,Than school also tired,Let children feel that there is no strength to continue to learn downward."Miss zhou analysis said,"If there is like a small fine so exaggerated situation,Parents please as soon as possible on the brakes."

　　另一种是彻底放松型。暑假结束，上了一个月课，刚收了心，又放11天的假，打乱了孩子的学习节奏。普通孩子，假期结束后3周内，能自动调整好，但个别孩子会一下调整不过来，排斥回到校园。

Another kind is completely relax type.End of the summer vacation,A month class,Just accept the heart,And they put 11 days off,Upset the child's learning rhythm.Ordinary children,Three weeks after the holidays,Can automatically adjust,But individual children will not come and the adjustment,Rejection back to campus.

　　周老师建议：长假期间每天维持1到2小时学习，就能避免这种情况发生。需要提醒父母的是，这个最佳学习时间应该是晚上。很多父母在长假后半段要上班，让孩子白天写作业，晚上看电视。可白天没人盯着，很多孩子学习效率不高，等爸妈下班回来肯定挨批，闹得全家没心情吃晚饭。还不如白天让孩子玩，晚上好好学。(记者沈蒙和)

Weeks the teacher suggested that:During the long holiday every lasts 1 to 2 hours learning,To avoid this kind of circumstance happening.Need to remind parents' is,The best learning time should be in the evening.Many parents in the second half to work long,Let children homework during the day,Watch television at night.But the day nobody stared at,Many children learning efficiency is not high,And parents to get home from work must be criticized,Too much family not in the mood to eat dinner.As well the day let the child play,A night to learn.(Reporter ShenMeng and)