晶报记者调查两名女生跳楼悲剧始末， 探寻90后的内心世界 Crystal news reporter investigation two girls jumped from a whole tragedy, In the 90's inner world

唐洁 李果

TangJie LiGuo

晶报记者 唐洁 李果/文、图

Crystal news reporter TangJie LiGuo/text/diagram

    9月21日晚，没有人知道，两个少女是怎么爬上20多层居民楼顶，然后纵身跃下的。

    On September 21 night,No one knows,Two young girl is how to climb the top 20 multilayer residents,Then under the jump leap.

   A和B分别出生于1997年和1995年。对更多的人来说，她们这个“生命玩笑”开得太大了，她们对待生命怎能轻如鸿毛？

   A and B respectively was born in 1997 and 1995.For more people,They the"Life joke"Open too big,How can they treat life as light as a feather?

    她们学习成绩不好，她们与家人曾发生冲突，她们在懵懂的感情上遭遇波折……在中国应试教育的标尺下，她们在“品学兼优”的同龄人身后的阴影下一路走来，短短的人生被烙上“差生”的印记。这无疑是一场“廉价”的悲剧，她们用这样一种意想不到的结局来显示她们的力量，表达她们的无奈与愤怒，争取尊重和重视。

    They learn bad grades,They have with family conflict,They are ignorant emotional encounter twists and turns……China's exam-oriented education in the scale down,They are"excellent"Peers behind the shadow along the way,A short life is branded"difference"mark.This is undoubtedly a"cheap"tragedy,They use such an unexpected ending to show their strength,Express their helpless and anger,To respect and attention.

1 不想未来 1 don't want to future

    校方家庭调查显示，九成以上家长有房有车。这些上世纪90年代出生的少年们能享受的物质生活丰富，消费主义、网络和游戏的刺激更明显。

    The school family survey,More than ninety percent of parents with room have a car.Those born in the 1990 s teenagers can enjoy rich material life,consumerism/Network and the stimulation of the game more obvious.

    A和B的同学在网上给她俩建了一个灵堂，他们用虚拟的鲜花、蜡烛来寄托哀思，用90后的特有语言来怀念同学。他们不能接受两个花季同学的离开。A是寝室里的开心果，“很疯，很爱笑”，是几个同学对她的一致印象，而那个文文静静，嘴角露着淡淡微笑的B，也让大家喜欢。

    A and B of the students on the Internet to they built A mourning hall,They use virtual flowers/The candle to their grief,In 90 after the special language to yearn for students.They can't accept two adolescent students left.The bedroom is A joy,"Very crazy,Love to laugh very much",Some students are to her consistent impression,And that WenWenJingJing,The corners of the mouth open the light smile B,Also let you enjoy.

    今年秋天，A和B初中毕业，成为深圳一所技校的一年级新生。中考结束后，选择各类技工学校的学生占了三分之一，因为这里对学习成绩没有太多要求，宽进宽出。

    This autumn,A and B graduated from junior high school,Shenzhen become a technical school a freshman.After the mid-term exam,Choose all kinds of mechanic school students accounted for a third,Because here to study result without too much requirements,Wide into the wide.

     这所学校处于关外一个自然村里面，没有熙熙攘攘的商业步行街，有的只是种满荔枝树的小山头；没有柏油铺就的康庄大道，有的只是瓦房砖屋夹着的狭窄巷陌。但学校内设施齐全，在全市30多所技术学校中收费较高，一学期学费上万元，在校学生2000多人。“来学校就读的学生家境都不错，有的学生吃的进口食品我都没见过”，石校长说。

     This school in the commissioner of a natural village inside,No bustling commercial pedestrian street,Some just is a kind of full litchi little cap;No paved with asphalt high-road,There is only the old brick house clamp with narrow HangBai.But the school facilities,In the city more than 30 technical school of higher fees,A semester tuition tens of thousands of yuan,More than 2000 students."Come to school students family circumstances are good,Some students eat of imported foods I have never seen",Stone's President says.

    出事的两个女孩分属企管班和幼师班，今年五六月份她们都被分在刘老师管理的预科9班。读预科的学生大多因为成绩不佳，直接放弃中考，提前入校熟悉学校环境。刘老师也是B目前幼师班的班主任。事发前，两个女孩和C均请假没有搭乘校车离开学校。C是B的初中同学，这三个90后女孩在这个预科班相识，逐渐成为各自的好朋友。她们有共同爱好——不太爱看课外书，讨厌考试，喜欢留着齐刘海的披肩长发，喜欢唱歌，喜欢玩微博，喜欢手机自拍，喜欢湖南台的《快乐大本营》，周五离校后也有时会约上几个同学去KTV。

    An accident two girls belong to corporate governance class and fine class,This year they are points of June or may in the management of liu preparatory 9 class.Read preparatory of students are mostly because of poor grades,Directly give up tests,Familiar with the school environment enrolling in advance.Liu is currently the head teacher of class B fine.Before the,Two girls and C all leave no take school bus leave school.C is B of junior high school students,The three 90 girls in the prep school acquaintance,Gradually become their good friends.They have common hobbies - not too like kinds of extra readings,Hates exams,Like to keep neat bang cape long hair,Like singing,Like to play with micro bo,Like mobile phone autodyne,Like hunan Taiwan[Happy camp],Leave on Friday after sometimes about on a few students go to KTV.

    学校为全寄宿封闭式管理，学生周五离校，周日返校。尽管学校有校车接送学生，但还有不少家长驾车前来，甚至有家庭安排专职司机接送孩子。每到周五，校门口就像车展一样热闹，宝马、奔驰比比皆是。校方家庭调查显示，九成以上家长有房有车。这些上世纪90年代出生的少年们能享受的物质生活丰富，消费主义、网络和游戏的刺激更明显。

    The school to all the boarding closed management,Students leave school on Friday,Back to school on Sunday.Although school buses are students,But there are a lot of parents to drive,Even have a family will arrange full-time driver shuttle children.Every Friday,School is like auto show as lively,BMW/Benz can be found everywhere.The school family survey,More than ninety percent of parents with room have a car.Those born in the 1990 s teenagers can enjoy rich material life,consumerism/Network and the stimulation of the game more obvious.

    有同学记得，A家的沃尔沃轿车来接过她几次。B是双“I”一族，手持iphone手机，手捧ipad电脑。同学中这样的不少，如果你没有智能机，不能手机上网，你真太“out”了。同学们眼中，B的零花钱总是花不完，她每周有四五百的零花钱，不够父母还会给。

    Some students remember,A family of Volvo cars to come to meet her A few times.B is double"I"gens,Hand-held mobile phone iphone,Holding ipad computer.In such a lot of students,If you have no intelligence machine,Can't mobile Internet,You are too"out"the.The classmates eyes,B pocket money spend not over,Her weekly four or pocket money,Not enough parents will give.

    与其它学生就读是为了将来有一技之长就业不同，这所学校因收费较高，许多学生家庭都有企业，他们并不用担心将来就业、购房等压力。学校甚至有几个学生已是家族子公司的法人，周五回家后法人“签字”成为一个重要的程序。孩子们给石校长留下的最深刻印象不是90后特有的叛逆、独立、非主流，而是对未来的毫无规划，无“攻略”的人生。他们多出生在物质条件更丰富的家庭，物质对他们的影响已经从刺激变成习惯，他们对未来的生活没有忧患。

    And the other students are enrolled for future employment good at something different,This school for higher fees,Many students family has enterprise,They don't use worries about the future employment/Purchase and pressure.The school or even several students already is the legal person of family subsidiary,Home on Friday after legal person"signature"Become an important program.The children to stone principal left the deepest impression is not after 90 unique rebellious/independent/non-mainstream,But there is no plan for the future,no"strategy"life.They born in material conditions more rich family,Material on their influence has become habits from stimulation,For their future life without suffering.

 2 渴望爱  2 the longing for love

    一个女生这样描述她找男朋友的理由：“他不会像爸妈一样冲我发脾气，不会催着我学习，在我不高兴时会买根棒棒糖给我。”

    A girl that describe her looking for a boyfriend reason:"He won't like parents as blunt I lost his temper,Don't push me learning,In I don't when I buy lollipop give me."

    9月23日，博主D一句“各位，不关我事”的微博引来80多条评论，D只有78个粉丝，此前微博内容鲜有评论和转发。“你这种人，猪狗不如”、“垃圾败类，你骗了她”、“你怎么能说出这样的话，你要像个男人好不好？”……诸如这样评论内容充斥着屏幕。该博主是死者B生前的异性朋友。

    On September 23,Bo main D a"you,None of my business"Micro elaborates to more than 80 comments,D only 78 fans,After micro bo content few comments and forwarding."This kind of person you,dog"/"Rubbish scum,You lied to her"/"How can you say such a thing,You will be like a man is good?"……Such as this review content full screen.GaiBo Lord is the dead before B of the opposite sex friend.

    周一，同学们在帮助B收拾行李时发现她留下了一段文字。C回忆说：“内容是她很爱这个男的”。E以B“闺蜜”的身份，在微博上对D谴责不已。D是B生前的异性朋友，开学前夕男方提出分手，理由是家里要送他出国，不想女孩等他太久。然而事后，B发现男友其实是有了新的要好女伴，两人发生冲突，她伤心不已。“就是这个男的间接害了她，这个男的那天跟她说了很多，然后B回家心情不好就和爸妈吵架了，而A也刚好和爸妈吵架了。两个心灰意冷的人在一起能做什么事情呢？”在包括E在内的朋友眼中，感情受挫是B选择死亡的主要原因之一。

    On Monday,The classmates to help B pack found that she left a paragraph of text.C recalls:"Content is she love the man".E to B", honey"identity,In micro bo on D condemned unceasingly.D is B of the opposite sex friend before,On the eve of the man to break up,Reason is home to send him to go abroad,Don't want to the girl he too long.However afterwards,B find boyfriend is actually have a new girl is better,Two people conflict,She was sad."Is the man indirect harm her,The man with that day she said a lot,Then B home in a bad mood and parents quarreled,And A also just quarreled with my parents.Two dispirited and discouraged people together can do things?"In including E, in the eyes of friends,Emotional frustration is B choose one of the leading causes of death.

    一段时间以来，B和几个要好同学讨论得比较多的也是感情的问题，她也答应过C不会因为感情的问题轻生。

    A period of time,B and a few students better to discuss more and emotional problems,She also promised to C not because emotional problems commit suicide.

    对于学生早恋，石校长也有不同的看法。他认为学生早恋，跟家庭有密不可分的关系。这所学校家长大多正处于40多岁年纪，事业有成，忙碌奋进。学生在家庭找不到爱和呵护的感觉时，往往只要谁给予他一点的关怀，就很容易相互依赖起来，“他们不缺钱，缺爱！”

    For students to early love,Stone President also have different opinions.He thinks that students early love,With family has the close relation.This school most parents are in more than 40 years old age,A successful career,'s busy.Students in the family can't find love and care when feeling,Often as long as anyone who gave him a little care,It is easy to rely on each other up,"They do not lack of money,Lack of love!"

    周老师是技校的心理老师，一些学生们有心事会找到她，困扰女学生的常常就是感情问题。一个女生这样描述她找男朋友的理由：“他不会像爸妈一样冲我发脾气，不会催着我学习，在我不高兴时会买根棒棒糖给我。”

    Miss zhou is a technical school psychological teacher,Some students have worry will find her,Problems of female students is often emotional problem.A girl that describe her looking for a boyfriend reason:"He won't like parents as blunt I lost his temper,Don't push me learning,In I don't when I buy lollipop give me."

    A和B的父母分别来自福建和广东，均不是独生子女，A的户口甚至挂在表哥家名下，B并非父母亲生。C有些哽咽道：“她们都说爸妈喜欢弟弟，她们跟爸妈没有什么话说，但和我们在一起说都说不完。”C的说法得到其他同学的证实，两人的多名初中同学都听到过她们抱怨和家长关系不好。

    A and B parents were from fujian and guangdong,Are not only children,A registered permanent residence even hanging in my cousin's name,B is not their own parents.C choked way:"They all say parents like brother,Their parents with no words,But with us all said that can not be finished."C that other students get the proof,Two people's more than junior middle school students heard they complain and parents on bad terms.

3 炫富 3 dazzle rich

    一些孩子则站在宿舍楼下给家长打电话，坚持要家长开车进校接送，目的是要让同学们看得见父母开的“好车”。     

    Some of the children stood in the apartment building next to the parents make a phone call,Parents insisted on driving school shuttle,Purpose is to let the students see parents open"Good car".     

    照片中的A眼睛不大，齐刘海，看上去柔柔弱弱。在选宿舍长时，大家都选了A，这个一直笑呵呵，默默做事的女孩子得到了老师和同学们的喜欢。A的班主任石老师记得，上课时他说讲台旁边有点脏，大家都没有在意，下课就离开教室了，只有A拿来扫把来清扫。

    In the photo A little eyes,Neat bang,Looks soft weak weak.Choosing the long,Everyone chose A,This has been happy and gay,Work quietly girl got the teachers and students like.A teacher in charge teacher remember stone,He said the platform in class next to a little dirty,Everybody did not care about,Class is over left the classroom,Only A broom to clean it.

    与A一样，B也是大家喜欢的对象。刘老师记得，好几次她去宿舍查房，B都在玩iphone，问她在玩什么，女孩也不回答，而是害羞地用被子蒙住脸。上课时，刘老师也希望通过互动环节让B在同学面前更放得开一些，但B总是推脱不参与。“她就是在不熟的人面前话很少，跟我们一起也是很疯的。”B和C是初中同学，在许多同学眼里B是个文静、单纯且很热心的女孩子。好几次有同学忘记带钱往饭卡里充值，B都慷慨解囊主动借钱给别人，也不催着还。

    And as A,B is also the object of people like.Teacher liu remember,Several times she went to the dormitory ward inspection,B are playing iphone,Ask her in the play,The girl also don't answer,But shy covered her face with a quilt.class,Teacher liu also hope that through the interactive link let B in front of classmates put some more open,But B always evade don't participate in."She is not familiar in the face QianHua rarely,With us also is very crazy."B and C is junior high school students,In the eyes of many students B is a gentle and quiet/Simple and very warm-hearted girl.Several students forget to take money to rice cary replenishing,B are generous active lend money to others,Also didn't chase also.

    在该校任校长5年，石校长发现这些成绩不佳的孩子实际上更要面子，更希望引起别人的注意。在学习成绩无法证明自己时，物质上的炫耀成为最直接的手段。石校长叹了口气道：“他们的心态是，有钱要比，没钱也要比，其实就是争口气。”

    In the school President 5 years,Stone principals found these poor grades, children in fact more hadn,More hope to attract attention.In the study can't prove themselves,Material to show off to become the most direct means.Stone principal sighed way:"Their attitude is,Rich than,Have no money to also want than,In fact is a struggle."

    家长也许是孩子最好的老师。每周末都有不少学生家长驾车来接送孩子，学校规定接送车辆不能进校。但是就有一些家长，不顾学校要求和保安的阻拦，硬是要把车子开到校园里来，以彰显自己的权威和与众不同。到后来，一些孩子则站在宿舍楼下给家长打电话，坚持要家长开车进校接送，目的是要让同学们看得见父母开的“好车”。

    Parents may be a child the best teacher.Every weekend there are many parents drive to shuttle children,The school rules shuttle vehicles can't enter a school.But there is some parents,Regardless of the school requirements and security block,Just want to put the car to get to school campus,In order to reveal their authority and different.To later,Some of the children stood in the apartment building next to the parents make a phone call,Parents insisted on driving school shuttle,Purpose is to let the students see parents open"Good car".

   此前，一个学生在课堂上直接跟一个教舞蹈的老师说：“你一个月的工资还不如我家保姆高！”这个学生家请了三个保姆。学生零用钱比老师工资还高的情况，在学校并不少见。

   after,A student in the classroom teaching directly with a dance teacher said:"You a month's salary as well my family nanny high!"The student home please three nanny.Students pocket money than the teacher paid high situation,In the school is not rare.

4 手机与网络 4 mobile phone and network

   他们是浅生活、浅阅读的一代，下载视频、听MP3、玩游戏、刷微博、查资料、跟朋友聊天……电脑和手机已成为他们无法离开的工具。

   They are shallow life/Shallow reading generation,Download video/Listening to MP3/Play games/Brush micro bo/Check material/To chat with friends……Computers and mobile phones has become they cannot leave tools.

   “机不离手”，B班主任刘老师感觉手机好像“长”在学生们手上，只要一停下来，他们要干的只有一件事——刷频。的确，这些年纪的学生从他们懂事起，人与人之间的沟通方式就是手机和网络，他们玩微博、传微信、炫QQ。

   "Machine not depart from hand",B the teacher in charge teacher liu feel like mobile phones"long"In the students hand,As long as a stop,They want to do only one thing - brush frequency.indeed,These older students from 1 up them,Interpersonal communication way is cell phones and the Internet,They play micro bo/The micro letter/Dazzle QQ.

    A和B也不例外。不过和许多成年人不同，A和B关注的人当中很少有加V的名人，A关注的241人当中仅有一个加V的人，是湖南卫视《变形记》的主人公，B关注的114人中没有加V的人，其他均是她的同学和朋友。对于她们来说，微博不是获取信息的工具，更多的功能是社交。她们在微博上相约聚会，用她们才看得懂的“火星语”诉说秘密。

    A and B is no exception.But many adults different,A and B concern among the few celebrities add V,A concern in 241 only one plus V people,Hunan TV is[metamorphoses]hero,B attention of the 114 people who didn't add V,Other are all her classmates and friends.For women,Micro bo is not get information tools,More function is social.They in micro blog meet party,Use their see to understand"Mars language"Telling secrets.

    她们不在乎粉丝的多少，更警惕“大人”的关注。有好几次，老师试图关注她们，但是很快就被她们设置为“黑名单”成员。C的解释是，她们不希望“大人”介入她们的真正的生活，知道她们在做什么、说什么、关心什么。

    They don't care how many fans,More alert"adult"attention.There are several times,The teacher tried to protect them,But was soon they set to"blacklist"members.C explanation is,They don't want to"adult"Involved in their real life,Know they doing/Say what/Care about what.

   “这年头不用辜狗写作业是笨蛋”、“原来是酱样子的哦”、“我脚得介个事情很复杂”……这些网络上流行的新词立刻成为A微博中用语的口头禅。在A的微博中还有一些扮萌的自拍照，45度角仰望镜头。这样“款式”的微博在A互相关注的同龄人中很普遍。她们拍照常用的姿势就是侧脸45度角对镜头，不能大笑，要鬼马，这样照片的效果是脸小、眼睛大、动漫化。

   "This year need not koo homework dog is a fool"/"It is like oh sauce"/"My feet have to interface a thing is very complex"……These networks fashion new words immediately become A micro bo in the pet phrase of language.In A micro bo there are still some dress up as sprout from taking pictures,45 degree Angle hope in lens.this"style"Micro bo in A care about each other very common among peers.They take pictures common posture is side face 45 degree Angle of lens,Can't laugh,To ghost horses,This photo is the effects of the small face/Eyes, big/Anime change.

    A和B所在学校的家庭休息调查显示，超过半数以上的学生在家主要娱乐方式是上网。“家长忙于工作应酬，邻居基本不走动，孩子们除了上网还能做什么？”石校长苦笑道，家长们只知道孩子在家待着，但是不会知道他们在网上与谁交谈，或者在做什么。

    A and B school family rest survey,More than half of the students at home is the main entertainment on the Internet."Parents are busy with work,Neighbors basic don't walk,The children in addition to the Internet but also can make?"Stone principal forced smile way,Parents know that a child only stay home,But don't know they are online and who to talk,Or doing.

    你们业余时间读书吗？C显然对记者提出的这个问题很惊讶，“网上什么都有啊，要东西下载就是了，买书？太土了吧。”他们是浅生活、浅阅读的一代，下载视频、听MP3、玩游戏、刷微博、查资料、跟朋友聊天……电脑和手机已成为他们无法离开的工具。

    Your spare time reading?C clearly put forward to reporters this question is very surprised,"Online what all have,What is to download,To buy books?Too the soil!."They are shallow life/Shallow reading generation,Download video/Listening to MP3/Play games/Brush micro bo/Check material/To chat with friends……Computers and mobile phones has become they cannot leave tools.

5 夜店 5 nightclub

    F表示没有了升学的压力，不用担心考试，周末聚会成了大家消磨时间的主要方式之一，她们的底线是不会随便跟男人回家。

    F says no entrance pressure,Don't worry about the exam,The weekend party became everyone one of the main ways to kill time,The bottom line is they don't just go home with men.

    9月21日中午离校后，A、B跟老师请假没有搭乘校车，她们辗转从宝安来到龙岗布吉。监控录像显示，中午时分她们与另外几个少年人走进龙岗区布吉金利路的星期八KTV，一共九人，有男生有女生，下午约17时30分离开。C也在其中，这不是她们第一次去这家KTV，之所以选择在那里，是因为A和B还约了另外的朋友。C印象中，大家唱得很开心，A和B坐在角落里，捧着爆米花看大家唱歌，一直在笑，没有任何异常。此后，A和B和大家告别后走向了生命的尽头。

    On September 21, since my graduation from the noon,A/B with the teacher leave no take school bus,They toss from baoan came to longgang phuket.Surveillance video display,At noon they and a handful of other young man walked into the longgang district phuket aodelaisi inc road week eight KTV,A total of nine people,Have a boy to have girls,About 17 afternoon when separated 30.C is in,This is not their first time to go to the KTV,Chose there,Because A and B also about another friend.C impression,Everyone sings very happy,A and B sat in the corner,Holding popcorn see everybody to sing,Have been laughed at,No abnormal.Since then,A and B and say goodbye to you after to the end of life.

    这并不是她们第一次去夜店。9月7日，也是一个星期五，晚间23:04A发了一条微博：“好嗨啊，喝了六瓶伏特加”，微博照片中有两个伏特加的酒瓶子，一个已空了，一个有半瓶酒。此前，她还连续发了几条自己和另外女生头像的照片，背景看上去很像酒吧。

    This is not the first time they go to nightclubs.On September 7,,Is also a Friday,Evening 23:04 A hair A micro bo:"Hi! Good,Drank six bottles of vodka",Micro bo in the picture, there are two bottles of vodka,A already empty,A half a bottle of wine.after,She also continuous sent a few himself and other girl pictures of head,Background looks like bar.

    记者通过微博找到与A一起去过夜店的F。“周末晚上，喜欢玩的同学会约上一起出去，刚开始大家在酒吧不太敢说话，去了几次，就能慢慢放开玩了”，F表示没有了升学的压力，不用担心考试，周末聚会成了大家消磨时间的主要方式之一，她们的底线是不会随便跟男人回家。F颇为老练地说：“其实泡吧的不多，如果你要找我们，就去KTV。”

    Reporter through the micro bo find and going to A night club F."Weekend night,Like to play on the homecoming about go out,Just began to everyone in the bar don't dare to speak,To several times,Can slowly release to play",F says no entrance pressure,Don't worry about the exam,The weekend party became everyone one of the main ways to kill time,The bottom line is they don't just go home with men.F rather sophisticatedly said:"In fact a few bars,If you're looking for us,Go to KTV."

    A的歌唱得很好，去KTV她最爱唱张惠妹的《记得》：“谁还记得，是谁先说永远的爱我，以前的一句话，是我们以后的伤口……”

    A singing very well,Go to KTV to sing her favorite of a-mei chang[remember]:"Who will remember,Who is to say love me forever,A word before,Is our future wound……"

6 叛逆 6 rebel

    他们正处于叛逆的年龄，常常希望挑战成年人来证明自己，体现个性。学校规定要穿着校服，学生们为凸显个性就在发型和指甲上下功夫。学校全封闭管理，学生们就网购方便面、饮料、薯片、啤酒等大包食品，甚至烟酒。

    They are in the age of the rebellion,Often wish to challenge adults to prove himself,Reflect individual character.The school rules to wear school uniforms,The students to highlight personality in hair and nails fluctuation kongfu.The school closed management,Students are the net instant noodles/drinks/Potato chips/Beer and bale food,Even wine and tobacco.

    A的遗物中，好几个书本中都写下“你怎么能够偷看？”、“×××是我最好的朋友”的字迹，下笔很用力，连着几页纸都有痕迹。在与学校、C的谈话中，她们都提及A的母亲撬开其房间的柜子，看了A的日记以及与另外一个同学的通信，认为其中有思想不健康的内容。9月14日，从学校返家的A受到家长的问询，她与母亲为此发生激烈的争执。悲剧发生后，有同学才向班主任和校方反映了这一情况。A的亲属在9月21日与老师的通话中，也提到了这件事情。与A通信的同学在接受警方的调查称与A是好朋友，A母查看她们信件，侵犯了她们的隐私。

    A relic of,Several books are written"How can you peek?"/"XXX is my best friend"handwriting,Writing very hard,For a few pages have trace.With the school in/C conversation,They all mention A mother unclench its room's cabinet,See A diary and another classmate communication,Think it thought unhealthy content.On September fourteenth,Home from school A inquiry by parents,Her mother and this happened intense dispute.After the tragedy,Have the students to the teacher in charge and the school to reflect the situation.A family on September 21, and the teacher's phone,Also mentioned this matter.And A communication classmates by police officers in the survey said with A are good friends,A mother to check their letters,Infringement of their privacy.

    也许A的妈妈不知道，对方是一个女生，是女儿的初中同学，也是她微博关注的第一个人。她的微博中有不少两人的合影，教学楼前、地铁屏蔽门前、一同雨中打着伞……镜头中两个女孩亲密而开心。C很能理解A的感受，在她看来，这个年龄的女孩子总有自己的几个“死党”，她们互相之间称谓“亲爱的”，表达“我爱你”，不过是关系好的表现，她也常常这样对自己的“死党”说。“并不是大人想的那样，就是互相很喜欢，好朋友的那种”，所以她推断，A因为遭到母亲的误解而十分难受。

    Maybe A mother don't know,The other is a girl,Is her daughter's junior high school students,Is she micro bo concern the first man.Her small bo has a lot of two people's photo,Teaching building/Subway shield door/In the rain with a umbrella……Lens two girl close and happy.C is to understand the feelings of A,In her eyes,The age of the girl always have several of his"Sworn brother",They each other appellation"dear",expression"I love you",But is related to the good performance,She also often do this to his own"Sworn brother"said."And adults are not want it,Is mutual love,The kind of good friends",So she deduced that,A mother was because of misunderstanding and very uncomfortable.

    石校长总结三条和这个年龄段孩子相处的大忌：一是不要居高临下的过分批评；二是不要选择公开场合批评；三是不要扭曲事实。C觉得A的母亲犯了其中两条。

    Stone principal summarizes three and this age children get along with big fear:One is not commanding too much criticism;The second is don't choose public criticism;Three is not to distort the facts.C think A mother made the two.

    事发后，一个同学在微博中这样写道：“呵，人情冷漠的社会，我有点能理解她的离开了，对家人的那种心寒。也许她傻，同时她也解脱了、自由了，这样的世界，没什么值得她留恋的，我妈对我说‘世上千千万万人死去怎么不见我死！’多好笑啊，×××，我真的能体会到你那种心情，希望你下辈子遇到的都是对你最好的人，把温暖给你。这样的世界，心寒了。”

    After the incident,A classmate in micro bo it said:"oh,And the social indifference,I'm a little bit can understand her left,The kind of chilling to his family.Maybe she silly,At the same time she also relieved/free,Such a world,Nothing is worth her wistful,My mother said to me‘The thousands of ten million people die why can't I die!’Many funny,XXX,I really can feel you of that kind of mood,I hope you meet next life is the best person to you,The warm to you.Such a world,Chilling the."

    E是B的初中同学，两人要好。在她看来，B和她父母的关系并不太好，父母更喜欢弟弟，“就算给她零用钱，她也不是亲生的啊。”班主任刘老师记得，新生报到时，B是自己来的学校，而很多学生都是家长陪同前来。

    E is B junior high school students,Two people better.In her eyes,B and her parents' relationship is not so good,Parents prefer younger brother,"Even if to her allowance,She also is not one's own ah."The teacher in charge teacher liu remember,Wichita state,B is oneself to school,And many students are parents to accompany.

    在石校长眼中，成年人在对待这些少年时尊重和倾听太过重要，他们正处于叛逆的年龄，常常希望挑战成年人来证明自己，体现个性。学校规定要穿着校服，学生们为凸显个性就在发型和指甲上下功夫。学校全封闭管理，学生们就网购方便面、饮料、薯片、啤酒等大包食品，甚至烟酒。最让他头疼的是，晚间学生想方设法电话订外卖，校外的小店送餐到门口，保安制止，学生们就从宿舍后窗用绳子将钱吊下去，把外卖吊上来。如此，学校只能安排一个保安一直至凌晨三点驻守在宿舍后窗一侧，阻止小贩。

    In the stone in the eyes of the principal,In dealing with these young adults when respect and listen too important,They are in the age of the rebellion,Often wish to challenge adults to prove himself,Reflect individual character.The school rules to wear school uniforms,The students to highlight personality in hair and nails fluctuation kongfu.The school closed management,Students are the net instant noodles/drinks/Potato chips/Beer and bale food,Even wine and tobacco.The most let him have a headache is,Evening students tried to telephone ordering take-out food,Outside the store room to the door,Security stop,The students from the rear window with the rope will money hanging down,The take out hanging up.so,Schools can only arrange a security until three in the morning stationed in the dormitory rear window side,Prevent vendor.

7 轻生 7 commit suicide

    傍晚时分，两个女孩在小区超市购买了20多瓶啤酒后上楼。天台上，警方发现有啤酒易拉罐及少量个人物品，两侧墙壁上发现有一些流露出轻生念头的字迹。

    In the evening,Two girls in the village supermarket bought more than 20 earthquake drunk upstairs.Roof on,The police found a beer cans and a few personal items,On the wall on both sides have some reveals the suicidal idea's handwriting.

    尽管表面上没有表现出任何异常，但在生命最后一周中A已出现了一些轻生的端倪。她的微博中写道：“真的对不起，尽管我有多不舍得。”事发后，同学们才隐约想起，她还跟B讨论过自杀的方式，安眠药、毒药还是跳楼。“我们只当她是说说，劝了劝，没有当真啊”，C语气悲切，哽咽道。A的班主任石老师为此也很自责，“一点征兆都没有啊，上周要是我能和家长通个电话，学校掌握孩子情绪反常的情况提前介入，也许悲剧就不会发生。”

    Although on the surface showed no exception,But in the last week of life in A already appeared the beginning of some commit suicide.She wrote in the micro bo:"I'm really sorry,Although I have not be willing to part with or use."After the incident,Not only the students of faint,She also discussed with B way of killing,Sleeping pills/Poison or jump."We ought to say she is,Advised the advised,Not really!",C mournful tone,SOB way.A head teacher stone teacher for this is also very self-reproach,"A little sign all have no,Last week, if only I could and parents pass a phone call,The school of the child's emotional abnormal situation early intervention,Maybe tragedy would not happen."

    但是，这些仅仅是如果。

    but,These are only if.

    9月21日11时许，学校放学。A、B和另一个同学分别跟班主任请假后，没有搭乘校车。“她们没有任何异常，有说有笑的”，B的班主任刘老师记忆中，那是一个再平常不过的中午。下午3时，刘老师打了一个电话给B的家长询问孩子是否已到家，对方说没有。B的爸爸在电话中跟老师说，家里每周都给B零花钱，四五百的给，但孩子还是话很少，不开心，不愿意陪妈妈逛街，他希望老师多关照孩子。

    On September 21, at about 11,school.A/B and another classmate, director of the footman respectively after the leave,Did not take the school bus."They don't have any abnormal,and",B's teacher in charge teacher liu memory,It is a common but again at noon.Afternoon 3 when,Teacher liu made a phone call to B parents ask him whether already home,Say that there is no other.B's father on the telephone with the teacher said,Every week at home to B pocket money,- to,But the child still few words,Not happy,Don't want to go shopping with my mother,He hope the teacher much care children.

    刘老师马上电话联系B让她尽快回家，到家发个短信，B说“好”，语气很正常。晚8时过后，刘老师还是没有接到B的短信，再次致电家长，家长说，下午跟孩子通了几次电话，B要么直接挂断，要么关机。刘老师感到不妙，再次拨通B的手机，电话中B已泣不成声：“对不起，老师，对不起！”B哭得太厉害，上气不接下气，刘老师只模糊听到一句“我和×××在一起”后电话被挂断，再打就已经关机了。 刘老师马上联系与两人一起离校的同学。电话中她也哭得厉害，她收到了A发给她的一条短信：“对不起，原谅我，你们要好好的，以后不能再见面了，不要害怕，不要想我，我永远爱你们，好好照顾好自己，原谅我。”此后，同学们也加入寻找的队伍。一个同学在20时30分发出微博：“两个宝贝，你们回家好吗？你知不知道你们爸爸妈妈担心你们，现在连学校的老师也集体找你们！你们回家好吗？别为了家里的事情就不回家，让大家担心，各位能不能看到她们电联下我，大家帮忙下、她们手机都关机了！”157个同学转发了这条微博。

    Teacher liu immediately telephone connection B let her go home as soon as possible,Home send a message,B said"good",Tone is very normal.Night after 8,Teacher liu or not received B of message,Once again call parents,Parents say,Afternoon with child through the several phone call,B or direct hang up,Or shutdown.Teacher liu smell a rat,B cell phone dial again,The phone B has choked with sobs:"I'm sorry,The teacher,I'm sorry!"B cry too much,All out of breath,Teacher liu only fuzzy hear the phrase"I and XXX together"The telephone has been hung up,Again dozen have shut down. Teacher liu immediately contact and two people together to leave school classmates.The telephone she also cry badly,She received A send her A message:"I'm sorry,Forgive me,Your very good,Later can't meet you again,Don't be afraid to,Don't think I,I always love you,Take good care of yourself,Forgive me."Since then,Students also join looking for team.A classmate in 20 30 distribution of the micro bo:"Two baby,You go home?You know not to know you mom and dad worry about you,Now even the school teacher also collective looking for you!You go home?Don't to home things will not go home,Let you worry about,You can't see them I itu,Under the help/Their mobile phones shut down!"157 students transmit this article micro bo.

     随后，家长报警。晚间约22时，龙岗警方传来消息，有两个女生跳楼……

     then,Parents alarm.About 22 at night when,Longgang police to spread the news,There are two girls jump off a building……

    跟同学分手后，为何又前往龙岗中心城的某小区。C记得两人好像去找另外一个同学。警方调取的监控录像显示，傍晚时分，两个女孩在小区超市购买了20多瓶啤酒后上楼。天台上，警方发现有啤酒易拉罐及少量个人物品，两侧墙壁上发现有一些流露出轻生念头的字迹。

    After break up with students,Why again to the center city longgang a village.C remember two people seem to find another classmate.Surveillance video shows police obtained,In the evening,Two girls in the village supermarket bought more than 20 earthquake drunk upstairs.Roof on,The police found a beer cans and a few personal items,On the wall on both sides have some reveals the suicidal idea's handwriting.

□相关链接 - relevant link

    今年90后自杀事件 2月9日，深圳宝安区富瑰园小区F2栋7楼一少女坠楼身亡，据了解，死者为90后港籍女子，疑因感情问题趁家人不备跳楼轻生

    This year after 90 suicides on February 9,,Shenzhen baoan district rich rose garden plot F2 building and building a girl died after falling from a building,It is understood,The dead woman after 90 port records,Doubt for emotional problem while family suicidal jump off guard

    3月24日，云南曲靖一对90后恋人相拥坠楼身亡

    March 24,,Yunnan qujing a pair of lovers embrace each other after 90 died after falling from a building

    3月28日，江苏胜浦一小区发生惨剧，90后男子疑因女友与妈妈吵架跳楼身亡。

    On March 28,,Jiangsu - pu village a tragedy happened,After 90 suspected man because his girlfriend and mother died quarrel jump.

    8月15日，在长沙市河西天马安置小区，21岁的林云疑因父母离异自己感情遭遇不顺跳楼。

    August 15,,In changsha city in hexi tianma resettlement area,21 year old LinYun doubt parents divorced because of her own feelings encounter not jump.

    9月7日下午1点40分许，深圳福田彩田学校一名6年级女生，在彩田村3栋与4栋之间的空中花园，翻越1.2米护栏，纵身从16楼跳下，当场身亡。

    On September 7, 1 PM made 40 points,Shenzhen futian color field a school grade 6 girl,In the color tamura 3 and 4 building between the house air garden,Over 1.2 meters fence,Jump from 16 floor jump down,Killed on the spot.

    网上祭奠摘录

    Online memorial excerpts from

    ◎呜呜，你这个傻瓜，怎么就这么走了？好难受，有什么事不能解决？

    T money,You fool,How so go on?Good uncomfortable,Have what thing cannot be solved?

    ◎会想你的。

    Money will miss you.

    ◎为什么要选择逃避呢？能活着就是幸运了，用这种方式结束自己的生命，好难过。

    Money why to choose to escape?Can to live is lucky,In this way to end his own life,Good sad.

    ◎风停了，路上留着我们幼稚的微笑，曾经连拒绝都不会的你，离开我们会舍得吗？我欠的你钱还没有还，你回来好吗？

    The wind stopped money,The way we keep childish smile,Once even refused to won't you,Leave we will be willing to part with or use?I owe you money still have,You come back??

    ◎下辈子，记得别喝酒了，会遗憾的。

    Money next life,Remember don't drinking,Will regret it.

    ◎一路走好，希望你在另外一个世界快乐生活。

    All the way walk good money,I hope you in another world happy life.

    ◎走好，兄弟一世情。

    Money go,Brother a world.

    ◎前面的路很黑，我为你引导。

    Money the road ahead is black,I for you to lead the.

    ◎你可知道你的离开我们有多伤心？懵懂的三年，我们一直是同学，路上风雨我们一起挡，好吗？

    Money you can know your leave we have sadly?Ignorant three years,We have been are classmates,The road rain together we stop,please?

    ◎你这个笨蛋，为什么要离开，好玩吗？ ◎笨蛋，笨蛋，你就这样走了，我们这些同学怎么办？

    Money you moron,Why do you want to leave,Fun?? Money idiot,idiot,You're gone,We these students do?

    ◎一路走好，或许那里才是你想去的地方吧。

    All the way walk good money,Perhaps there is where you want to go.

    ◎为什么你看不到那么多在乎你的人，选择了永远的离开？我们要用多少眼泪才能把你还回来？

    Money why you can't see so much care about you,Choose the forever leave?We use many tears can make you back?

    ◎想不通你为什么要走，你太自私了，会不重视生命那么傻。我欠了你一个学期的饭，你再也吃不到了。

    Money think impassability why do you want to go,You are too selfish,Will not take life so silly.I owe you a term of the rice,You never eat not to.