每天定时给孩子发短信 Every time give children to send a text message

　　“黑皮蔓”姓郑，是湖北孝感的一名公务员。郑先生介绍，起初是因为儿子周一到周六课都很满，晚上还要上自习，所以打算用短信的方式交流，周日才打个电话。“这短信一发就是三年，每天10点钟发，我像上了闹钟样的。只有几次因为工作忙耽误了，不过第二天都会给孩子解释。”

"Black tendril"Surname zheng,Hubei xiaogan is a civil servant.Zheng is introduced,At first because son, Monday to Saturday classes are very full,Night also top self-study,So going to use a short message to communicate,Sunday to make a phone call."This text message service is three years,Every ten o 'clock hair,I like the kind of the alarm clock.Only a few times for work favour the delay,But the next day will give children explanation."

　　郑先生说，他发的短信内容有些是报纸、网上看到的俗语，有些是小知识点，因此不需要孩子花回复。

Zheng said,He sent the message content some newspapers/Online to see proverb,Some are small knowledge,So there is no need to reply children spend.

全家人没有超过百元的鞋 The whole family no more than one hundred yuan of shoes

　　帖子里关于孩子高中三年的花费问题也引起了争议。郑先生昨日给记者作了详细介绍，孩子三年的学习，花了15万元，包括进校费、学校收费、衣服穿戴、水果饮食、往来路费、看孩子时校外进餐、房租费等。

In the post about child high school three year cost problem has caused the dispute.Zheng to reporters yesterday were introduced,The baby is three years of study,Spent 150000 yuan,Including school fee/School fees/Clothes wear/Fruit diet/Current expenses/See a child external table/Rent etc.

　　“这里面最大一笔开支是进校费，由于是专县生(非武汉考生)，所以要交两万多元的进校费。”郑先生说：“我们是工薪阶层，两个大人从来不穿贵衣服，孩子的衣服除了袄子，没有一件超过100元的，全家人的鞋子没有超过100元一双的，但我们在教育上舍得花钱。”

"It is the largest a spending school fee,Because is designed county was born(Non wuhan examinee),So should pay twenty thousand yuan of enter a school fee."Zheng said:"We are working class,Two adults never wear expensive clothes,The child's clothes in addition to ao son,No one more than 100 yuan,The whole family shoes no more than 100 yuan a pair of,But we are willing to spend money on education."

“要‘蹲下来’与孩子说话” "to‘Squat down down’And children to speak"

　　“如果家长在学识和技能上不够，起码应该加强自己的性格修养。”郑先生认为，家长需要"蹲下来’跟孩子说话”，孩子的教育不仅是学校的事，老师大多以教授课业知识为主，而性格的培养就在于家长。有了好的性格，即使将来考不上好的大学，孩子也能够自己弄到一碗饭吃。

"If parents in the knowledge and skill is not enough,At least should strengthen their personality cultivation."Zheng think,Parents need to be"Squat down down’With children to speak",The child's education is not only a school,The teacher professor mostly with academic knowledge is given priority to,And the cultivation of personality is that parents.Have a good personality,Even if the future not take an examination of a good university,Children are also able to get a bowl of rice to eat.

　　昨晚，记者联系到郑先生的孩子。他说此前还不知道爸爸把短信发到了网上，“有10万字？刚才爸爸电话告诉我，我吓了一跳。”

Last night,Reporter relates to zheng children.He said previously don't know dad put text messages sent to online,"There are 100000 words?Just call my father told me,I was shocked."

　　“这三年的短信，给了我一种无形的力量，让我在遇到困难时，感觉到支持和鼓励。”郑先生的儿子说：“现在爸爸每周才发一条短信，不过每次都很长。我知道爸爸是感觉我长大了。”

"This three years of SMS,Gave me an invisible force,Let me when meeting difficulties,Feel the support and encouragement."The son of zheng said:"Now dad every week to send a message,But every time is very long.I know dad is feeling I grow up."

新闻评论 News commentary

　　看到这则消息，理论上讲应该对这位家长肃然起敬，但是，看看现在的年轻人，什么都依赖父母，更传出某某大学生把脏衣服、脏袜子寄回家给爸妈洗，每次放假除了回家还是回家。这些难道跟家长的教育方式没有关系吗？人们都在抨击中国现在的教育体制，可是学校里同样的老师，教育出来的学生却不一样，这是为什么？是老师偏心吗？我看不见得，很大程度上是受家长的教育方式的影响。三年来，每天一条短信，这是伟大吗？我不知道如果突然有一天短信停止了，这孩子会怎样呢？

See this message,In theory for the parents should respect,but,See young people nowadays,What all depend on their parents,More efferent so-and-so college students put the dirty clothes/Dirty socks sent home to mom and dad wash,Every holiday in addition to go home or go home.These are the education mode with parents without relationship?People are against China's current education system,But the same teacher in the school,Education out of the students are not the same,This is why?Is the teacher eccentric?I don't think,Is to a great extent by the parents' education influenced by the way.Three years,One message every day,This is a great?I don't know if suddenly one day message stopped,The child do?

微言大义 Sublime words with deep meaning

　　@邱小病儿：感动，佩服，这样的坚持，不仅需要毅力，更需要自身充足的能量

@ high little sick children:moved,admire,Such adhere to the,Not only need willpower,Need more their own enough energy

　　@汀蓝水榭雨：家的爱的力量是伟大的！

@ statins blue waterside pavilion rain:Home of the power of love is great!

　　@亲轻的爱：如果突然有一天短信停止了，这孩子会怎样呢？

@ close light love:If suddenly one day message stopped,The child do?

　　@白水静伊人：真让人感动，我自认为自己难以做到。这么多条短信，不单单是与儿子的互动，更多的是倾注在对儿子身上的爱！

@ BaiShuiJing a:Really make the person touched,I think it difficult to do.So many messages,Not only is the interaction of the son,More is to pour into in the son love!

　　@lihuaer：感动之余想的更多的是，这样被父爱包裹的孩子，会不会也有压抑的一刻呢？

Lihuaer @:More than moved to more,This is the father loves the parcel children,Can also depressing moment of it?