“学生早恋，老师究竟该棒打鸳鸯，还是听之任之？”“学生喜欢说假话，怎么办？考试作弊怎么处理？……”台下不断有人向台上嘉宾提问。这可不是在记者招待会现场，而是在(湖北)荆州中学阅览室里，11日举行的一场“班主任论坛”该校有着20年班主任工作经验的老师姚其云，正在向50多名新班主任传经送宝。

"Students' early love,The teacher should bastinado mandarin duck,Or leave it as it is?""Students like to say falsehood,do?How to deal with cheating in the exam?..."The audience was constantly to the platform guests questions.This is not in the press conference site,But in(hubei)Jingzhou middle school the reading room,11 at a"Teacher in charge BBS"The school has a 20 year teacher in charge work experience YaoJiYun teacher,Is to more than 50 new teacher in charge transmitting scriptures and delivering treasures.

　　该校高一(14)班班主任刘敏灵首先提问。她提出，关于学生早恋，不知道该怎么处理，挑明了怕伤了学生自尊，如何扼杀在萌芽状态？刘老师的问题，引起在场不少老师共鸣。

The school was(14)BanBan director LiuMinLing first, ask questions.She offered,About students' early love,Don't know how to deal with,TiaoMing the fear of hurting the students' self-esteem,How to kill in the bud?The problem of liu,Cause there many teacher resonance.

　　青春期早恋，是不可避免的问题。与一般老师选择的“棒打鸳鸯”不同，姚其云采取“欲擒故纵”的办法。姚老师说，他曾带的班级有一对有早恋倾向的学生，姚其云并没有强行将两个学生分开，而是假装不知情，故意让他们成为同桌。谁知过了一段时间，女生主动找到姚其云要求换座位。女生称那名男生满身缺点，如不爱学习、上课喜欢脱鞋等，与她之前心里的美好形象大相径庭，不愿与其继续交往。

Adolescence to early love,Is inevitable problems.With the general teacher selection"Bastinado mandarin duck"different,YaoJiYun take"Play hard to get"way.Yao said the teacher,He took classes have a pair of have the tendency of early love students,YaoJiYun and not forced the two students apart,But pretend not informed,Deliberately let them become sit at the same table.But after a period of time,The girl active find YaoJiYun want to change seats.The girl say that boys came to faults,If do not love learning/Class like to take off the shoes, etc,And her heart before the good image vary widely,Don't want to go out with.

　　姚其云说，青春期男女生之间有好感是正常的，宜疏不宜堵。他建议，经常开展一些活动，增加男女生在公开环境中交往的机会，不要个别、单独交往，他们的友谊反而会变得单纯。

YaoJiYun said,Adolescent boys and girls have unpleasant associations between is normal,Appropriate hydrophobic shoulds not be plugging.He suggested that,Often carry out some activities,Increase men and women born in public environment communication opportunity,Don't individual/Separate contacts,Their friendship but will become simple.

　　对于老师们提出的“学生说假话”“考试作弊”等问题，姚其云认为，在某种程度上，“是家长和老师逼的。”当孩子考试不理想时，有些家长恼羞成怒，轻则一顿臭骂，重则棍棒加身。所以，当孩子“内外交困”容易选择作时，弊。他建议，班主任要鼓励这些学生，即使成绩不好，但只要有进步，就应该表扬他们。

For the teachers put forward"Students said lie""Cheat in the exam"problems,YaoJiYun think,To a certain extent,"Parents and teachers are the force."When a child when the exam is not ideal,Some parents become angry from embarrassment,Light is a good scolding,Heavy then club and body.so,When a child"Recounted the inside and outside"Easy to choose when made,disadvantages.He suggested that,The teacher in charge wants to encourage the students,Even if the result is bad,But as long as there is progress,Should praise them.

　　最后，姚老师还开玩笑说，这些招数不可“外传”，否则就失效了。 (楚天民报讯)

finally,Yao teacher also joked,These tips do not"gaiden",Otherwise will fail. (ChuTianMin alarm)

　　(来源:荆楚网)

(Sources: JingChuWang)