本学期，武汉大学通识选修课系统中增加了一门新课程“恋爱必修课”，引起众多大学生的兴趣，也成为了今年武大热门通识选修课之一。然而，正式开课后，授课教师和部分学生都感到了一丝困惑。

This semester,Wuhan university general elective course system added a new course"Love a required course",Cause many college students interest,Have become popular this year wu3 da4 general elective course of.however,Formal after class,The instructor and some students feel a little confused.

学子热报“恋爱必修课” Students heat to"Love a required course"

　　据了解，这门“恋爱必修课”是由武汉大学医学部第一临床学院知名专家、硕士生导师李爱斌教授发起的一门通识选修课，由数位老师共同执教，每周六上两节课。“恋爱必修课”一经武大教务部网站公布，便迅速受到大学生关注，共有189人选报了这门课程。“其中男生占了接近一半”，李爱斌教授回想起第一次开讲“恋爱必修课”的情景时说，如此多的男生选择了这门课，多少令她有些意外。而接下来，课堂就变得有点儿尴尬了。

It is understood,The door"Love a required course"By wuhan university is the first clinical medical college of famous experts/Master tutor professor LiAiBin launched a general elective course,By digital teacher teach together,Two lessons in every Saturday."Love a required course"Once wu3 da4 educational administration department website,He quickly by college students' attention,A total of 189 candidates for this course."The boy accounted for nearly half",LiAiBin professor recalled first began"Love a required course"Said the scene of,So many boys chose this course,Much to her some accident.And the next,Classroom becomes a little embarrassed.

女性生殖知识羞煞男生 The female reproductive knowledge to shame down boy

　　原来，这门“恋爱必修课”的主讲内容是女性生殖健康，涉及月经的形成、痛经的处理、如何安全避孕等，旨在提醒并帮助女生保护自身生理安全。“感觉就像是在听婚前培训”，一名男生红着脸概括了自己的上课感受：如坐针毡。

The original,The door"Love a required course"On the content in the female reproductive health,Involved in the formation of menstruation/Dysmenorrhea treatment/How to safely contraception, etc.,Aims to remind and help girls to protect their own physical safety."Feels like listening training before marriage",A boy is red the face summarized their experience in class:On pins and needles.

　　化学与分子科学学院学生小王说：“选课时，没仔细看课程内容说明，光看了课名，以为是讲恋爱心理，没想到是讲生理卫生。”“尤其讲的还是女性生殖知识，我一个男人和一群女同学坐在堂下一起听这个，实在有点尴尬”，男生小刘说。

Chemistry and molecular science college student wang said:"When choosing courses,Don't watch carefully course description,Light see the class name,Thought is about love psychology,Thought is about physical health.""Especially speak or female reproductive knowledge,I am a man and a group of female classmate sitting under the hall together listen to this,Was a little embarrassed",Boy xiao liu said.

　　而部分女生，也感到郁闷。该校动力与机械学院学生小宋说：“原以为是专门指导情感问题的课程，我选上这门课时，室友们还挺羡慕我的，可听完课后，我才发现，原来我们都想错了。”

And some girls,Also feel depressed.The school power and mechanical college students say happy:"Thought is specially guiding emotional problems of the course,I chose this subject,Roommates is quite envy me,But after hearing after class,I just found out that,For we all want to wrong."

教授开课初衷关爱女生 Professor course purpose caring girls

　　多数学生认为，这门“恋爱必修课”应该是进行情感与社交方面的指导，可课程内容却是医学专业知识，这让他们的心理反差“有点儿大”。殊不知，授课老师也同样觉得尴尬。

The majority of students believe that,The door"Love a required course"Should be emotional and social aspects of guidance,But the course content is medical professional knowledge,It makes their psychological contrast"A little big".Little imagine,The instructor is also feel embarrassed.

　　“我当初开设这门课主要是针对女生的，完全没想到上第一堂课的时候下面居然会坐着那么多男生”，在谈及开设这门课程的初衷时，李爱斌老师说：“在我看来，不以婚姻为目的的谈恋爱就是耍流氓，恋爱最终都是要走向婚姻殿堂的，而女生提前掌握生殖知识对于恋爱和婚姻来说都是必须的。”

"I had set up this course is mainly aimed at the girl,Don't think first lesson time below should sit so many boys",In reference to set up this course when the original intention,LiAiBin teacher said:"In my opinion,Not to fall in love for the purpose of marriage is blackguard,Love is finally all want to matrimony,And the girl early master reproductive knowledge for love and marriage is a must for all."

　　“在青年人的恋爱中，女方承担的风险和压力要比男生大得多”，李爱斌说，之所以将这堂讲授生殖科学的课程起名为“恋爱必修课”，就是想强调并提醒女大学生们在恋爱中注意保护自己。“因为我同时也是一名妇科医生，见过很多在恋爱中受到伤害的女性，而这些伤害大多数都源自她们生理知识的欠缺”。

"In the young people in love,The woman's risk and pressure to much more than boys",LiAiBin said,The reason this hall teach reproductive science course called"Love a required course",Just want to emphasize and remind female college students in love pay attention to protect yourself."Because I am also a gynecologist,Seen many in love hurt women,And these hurt most are derived from their physiological knowledge lack".

课程内容计划按需拓展 Course content plan according to the need to develop

　　“在课堂上，几名男生向我询问有关爱情和柏拉图的精神恋爱的话题，这让我有点儿尴尬，因为我是研究医学的，对哲学领域的话题，难以给出合适的答案”，李爱斌坦言，尽管学生们的反应令她感到意外，但也反映出了大学生们在情感交流和爱情心理指导上，存在较大的需求。

"In the classroom,A few boys to I asked about love and Plato's spiritual love topic,It makes me a little embarrassed,Because I am study medicine,On the topic of the realm of philosophy,Difficult to given the right answer",LiAiBin said,Although students' reaction to her surprise,But it also reflects the university students in the emotional communication and love on psychological guidance,There is greater demand.

　　“我正在考虑，在下学期将课程的内容进行拓展，适当增加一些关于男性生理健康的知识，如可能，还想邀请学校研究心理方面的专家参与到授课中来，尽可能使学生们能从这门课中，收获到他们想获取的知识和指导。”李爱斌说。

"I'm thinking of,In the next semester will expand the content of the course,Appropriate increase about male physiology health knowledge,If possible,Also want to invite school study psychological expert to participate in the teaching to,As far as possible to make the students from this class,Reap the they want to obtain knowledge and guidance."LiAiBin said.

高等教育正视情感需求 Higher education face emotional need

　　“大学是培养各种人才的地方，但也应该是培养贤妻良母和好丈夫的地方！”湖北知名心理专家、武汉理工大学文法学院副教授雷五明表示，李爱斌老师和“恋爱必修课”遇到的尴尬，其实折射出了高校对大学生如何与异性交往教育的缺位。

"University is to cultivate all kinds of talented person's place,But should also is to foster understanding wife and loving mother and her husband's place!"Hubei famous psychological experts/Wuhan polytechnic say: associate professor of law school, five thunder Ming said,LiAiBin teachers and"Love a required course"Meet awkward,Actually reflected for college to how to and heterosexual contacts the absence of education.

　　在雷五明开设的“大学生健康心理学”这门选修课中，就设有专门的课时用来指导学生如何与异性交流，因此他也被外界戏称为“教大学生谈恋爱的教授”。

In thunder five bright open"College students' healthy psychology"The door in the elective courses,It has special class used to guide students how to communicate with the opposite sex,So he was also known as the outside world"Teach students fall in love of professor".

　　“这是一种悲哀，其可悲之处就在于，学生到了青年时代，还要通过学习的方式，来了解与异性相处的知识”，雷五明直言，身心健康、事业健康、家庭健康，是人在社会的立身之本，缺一不可；而如果大学对学生的情感教育不全面，就谈不上教书育人之所，顶多只能算是“岗前培训机构”。

"This is a kind of sorrow,The sad part is,The students came to youth,Also through the way of learning,To understand and get along with the opposite sex knowledge",Ray five Ming straight,Physical and mental health/Career health/Family health,Is the person in society and the basis to success of smee,integral;And if to university students' emotion education is not comprehensive,There would be no of imparting knowledge and educating people,At most can be"Pre-job training institutions".

　　对此，武汉大学“四大名嘴”之一的尚重生教授也直陈利害：“高校目前真正涉及学生精神和情感层面的课程并不多，尤其是在情爱方面，学生中小学时被各方压着没法了解，到了大学开始互相交往后，产生了困惑却又找不到答案，不客气地说，他们的情感正在校园里流浪。”

this,Wuhan university"The four most famous mouth"One of the professor ShangChongSheng also narrative interest:"The current university students really involved in mental and emotional aspects of the curriculum is not much,Especially in the aspects of love,Primary and middle school students when the parties pressure can't understand,The university began after interact with each other,Produced confusion, but can not find the answer,You're welcome to say,Their feelings are campus stray."

　　人的情感是复杂多样的，到了社会更是如此。受成长环境的影响，新一代的90后青年在思想和行为上更加独立，高校只有正视学生的这种需求，才能更好地帮助他们树立健康的世界观和价值观。(楚天金报 记者赵飞 通讯员何智琦)

Human emotion is complicated,The society is even more so.The influence of the environment by growth,A new generation of 90 youth in the thoughts and behavior more independent,University only to face up to the needs of students,To better help them to establish a healthy world outlook and values.(Chutian 27 reporters ZhaoFei correspondent HeZhiQi)