扬子晚报记者　刘 浏 摄

Yangzi evening news reporter liu clear perturbation

　　继“中国式过马路”之后，“中国式接孩子”又成网络热门话题。昨天，南京华侨路茶坊将这一话题置顶到首页，立即引来众多网友的跟帖热议。而类似的话题，在全国各地的论坛中，也都吸引了众多家长吐糟。事实上，每到下午放学时间，全国各地小学门口，便会上演“中国式接孩子”，家长们开着二轮、三轮、四轮等各式交通工具，早早就在翘首以待，人群之众、秩序之嘈杂彷如集贸市场。与之相对照，在国外多数地方的小学门前，几乎不可能看到这样的景象。扬子晚报记者昨日街头随机采访，试图探寻这又一中国特色式现象背后的问题。 扬子晚报记者 谷岳飞

the"Chinese cross the road"after,"Chinese joint children"And into network hot topic.yesterday,Nanjing overseas Chinese tea way will this topic stickies to the first page,Immediately draws many users to post hot debate.A similar topic,In all parts of the country in the BBS,Also attracts many parents vomit worse.In fact,Every class in the afternoon time,All over the country at the door of the primary school,Will stage"Chinese joint children",Parents open two wheel/Three rounds/Four-wheel etc a variety of transport,In early perked up,The crowd/Order as noisy as trade market.By contrast,In a foreign country where most of the elementary school door,Almost impossible to see such a scene.Yangzi evening news reporters yesterday street random interviews,Try to explore it a Chinese characteristic type phenomenon behind the problem. Yangzi evening news reporter GuYueFei

　　贴上“中国式”标签的“接孩子” Labeled as"Chinese"label"Pick up the kids"

　　昨日，网友“郗宝贝”在南京华侨路茶坊发帖，类似连日来引发热议的“中国式过马路”，她要批评的主题是“中国式接孩子”。这篇帖子很快被该网站置顶到首页，数百位网友点击评论。

yesterday,Net friend"Xi baby"Overseas Chinese road in nanjing post tea,Similar days cause of hot debate"Chinese cross the road",She is the theme of the criticism"Chinese joint children".This post was soon the website stickies to the first page,Hundreds of users click on the review.

　　这篇帖子写道："中国式接孩子’的场景每天都会在不同城市、不同学校的门口上演相同的内容。众多家长无论男女老幼，在孩子放学的时间聚集到学校门口，你拥我挤互不相让,其热闹程度不亚于街头闹市。” “大家都翘首期盼眼巴巴地盯着学校门内的孩子，有时因为学生太多令家长眼花缭乱，还要在队伍中仔细搜寻。此时此刻，还有哪个家长顾得了什么交通规则和礼让三先的风范?因此，发生交通拥堵，甚至交通事故似乎也就在情理之中了。”

This is the post wrote:"Chinese joint children’Every day the scene in different cities/Different schools on the door of the gate of the same content.Many parents regardless of men, women and children,In the time of school children gathered to the school gate,You hold me crowded eyeball over,The busy downtown street as degree." "Everyone -- -nikita Khrushchev eagerly looked stared at the school gate of children,Sometimes for students' too much make parents dazzling,Also in the team search carefully.At this moment,What other parents to get what the traffic rules and comity three first style?therefore,Happen traffic jams,Even the traffic accident it seems that there is in reason the."

　　“前几天,媒体上热议的‘中国式过马路’对国人的规则意识、文明素养,以及交通现状进行了深刻的反思与争论。国人这种可以贴上‘中国式’标签的日常行为与生活习惯不在少数,‘中国式接孩子’自然也应该在反思与理性解决之列。”

"A few days ago,The media of the hot debate‘Chinese cross the road’To people's consciousness of rules/Civilization accomplishment,And the traffic status of a deep reflection and debate.People can be labeled as such‘Chinese’Label daily behavior and habits and customs is not a few,‘Chinese joint children’Nature also should be in the reflection and rational solution of the column."

　　这篇文章引发网友的热议，网友纷纷对自己身边已经见怪不怪的“中国式接孩子”吐槽。微博网友“在别处”直指这种现象的交通隐患：“在中国大多数学校门口，都会有大量的自行车、电动车、摩托车、汽车毫无秩序地停在学校附近，更有不少小商贩夹杂于人流、车流之中，不仅瘫痪了交通，还给孩子们的安全埋下了隐患。”

This article cause net friend's hot debate,Have net friend to your side already inured to strange"Chinese joint children"Vomit tank.Micro bo net friend"elsewhere"Directed at this kind of phenomenon traffic hidden trouble:"In China most of the school gate,There will be a large number of bicycles/Electric car/motorcycle/Car no order to stop near the school,More many vendors inclusion in people/Of traffic,Not only has paralyzed traffic,Back to the children's safety the hidden trouble."

　　网友“钧的爸爸”进一步反思：“送孩子上学，接孩子放学，不管风吹雨打，这已成为很多中国家庭生活的一个模式。可为什么家长都不放心孩子自己上学放学呢？这是一个社会问题，绝对不是家长的问题。”

Net friend"Jun's father"Further reflection:"Send their children to school,Pick up the kids school,Regardless of wind and rain,This has become a lot of Chinese family life of a model.But why parents are not trust to your child from school to go to school?This is a social problem,Absolutely not parent questions."

　　随后，记者搜索发现，这篇名“中国式接孩子：值得社会反思与解决的生活习惯”的帖子在全国各地的地方论坛上均有出现，各地网友对此话题均高度关注。

then,Reporter found that search,This title"Chinese joint children:Worth social reflection and solving living habits"Posts in all parts of the country place BBS all have appeared,For this topic all net friend are high attention.

　　孩子和接送的家长几乎一对一 Children and shuttle parents almost one-on-one

　　昨日下午3时许，记者来到南京凤凰花园城小学。其时，学校门口已经聚集了百余位家长，不少家长开着私家车过来接孩子，他们将车停靠在湛江路马路两边。马路两边原本就停靠有一排车辆，这使狭窄的湛江路更显得拥堵。

Yesterday afternoon 3 when xu,The reporter comes to nanjing phoenix garden city elementary school.time,The school gate has brought together more than a parent,Many parents open private car to pick up the kids,They will car parked in zhanjiang road on both sides of the road.On both sides of the road were parked have a row of vehicle,This makes the narrow road congestion zhanjiang more.

　　更多的家长则选择电动自行车前来接小孩。30多台电动车将学校与湛江路交叉的小空地挤得满满当当，家长们或坐在车上闲聊，或聚集在校门口向校内观望，嘈杂的情形和热闹的集贸市场没有差别。

More parents can choose electric bicycle to come to pick up the child.More than 30 Taiwan electric vehicles will be the school and zhanjiang road cross the small space crowded get full to the brim,Parents sat in the car or chatting,Or to gather at the school gate the wait-and-see,Noisy situations and busy trade market no difference.

　　该校一到二年级是两点五十放学，三年级到六年级三点放学。于是，当校门打开，有学生开始走出学校时，聚集在学校附近接孩子的家长群开始骚动起来，大家纷纷往校门口走去，睁大眼睛，仔细搜寻着自家的小孩。

The school one to two grade is two school fifty,Grade three to six grade school at 3 o 'clock.so,When the school gate open,Have students coming out of the school,Gathered near the school meet the child's parents group begins to stir,You have walked to school,Zheng big eyes,Carefully searching for their child.

　　随着不断有更多的家长赶来，和不断走出的学生流汇合，整个校门口更显热闹。徐女士每天都要来接读三年级的儿子，因为儿子还要上一会儿兴趣班，大约四点多才会出校，这让她在人群中显得不那么着急，这位全职在家带小孩的家庭主妇悠闲地坐在电动车上，百无聊赖地看着眼前嘈杂的人群。

With the constantly have more parents arrived,And constantly out of students flow convergence,The whole school gate more lively.Ms xu every day to meet the son of the third grade,For even the son for interest,About four will be out of school,This let her in the crowd not so worried,The full-time with children at home housewife leisurely sits on the electric vehicle,Bored at sight of the noisy crowd.

　　孩子不小了，为什么还要来接？面对记者的提问，徐女士表情有些夸张，她感觉这问得有些莫名奇妙“你看到有哪个小孩不用接的？”她反问记者，“都是家里的独苗，家长怎么可能放心让他们（孩子）自己回家。”

Small children,Why to meet?Facing journalists' questions,Ms xu face some exaggeration,She felt it difficult to ask some wonderful"You see what children need not answered the?"She asked the reporter,"Are home an only child,How can parents trust them(children)Home on your own."

　　恰如徐女士所说，记者注意到，在学校门口，前来接小孩的家长群和小学生几乎形成一比一的比例，没有人接的学生屈指可数。如此大的人流自然对学校门口的交通造成很大压力。城市的其他地方，路上交通压力最大的时间是上班族们的上下班时间，而对于学校附近的道路而言，它完全由学校上学、放学时间主导。

As ms xu said,Reporter noticed,At the school gate,To meet the child's parents group and elementary school students form a than almost a proportion,No one answered the students can be counted on one's fingers.Such people to nature at the school gate traffic caused great pressure.Other parts of the city,The road traffic pressure maximum time is the office worker's working hours,For near the school in the road,It completely by the school to go to school/School is over time leading.

　　凤凰花园城小学门口一家小店的老板告诉记者，每天早上7时许、下午3点多，是湛江路最热闹的时候，因为接送小孩的车辆较多，加之不断有车辆违停、调头等，这条路上经常就被堵起来了。

The order of the phoenix garden city primary school the door a store boss told reporters,Every morning at about seven/More than 3 PM,Zhanjiang road is the most busy time,Because the shuttle children more vehicles,Together with constantly have a default vehicle stop/Head back, etc,This road is often stuck up.

　　日本家长不操心小孩上下学问题 Japan's parents don't worry about the child ShangXiaXue problem

　　对于“中国式接孩子”，采访中，不少家长表示，这确实是中国特色，但不必“言必称国外”，美欧校车接送的那一套在中国行不通。不过，也有家长随即指出，不说美欧，我们可以参照从城市形态、交通状况以及人口众多等方面与我国都较为类似的日本，在日本的小学门口，很少见到有家长来接送小孩的，都是小朋友自己上下学。

for"Chinese joint children",interview,Many parents said,It is China's characteristics,But don't"Say foreign",Us and European transportation is the one that won't work in China.but,Also have parents immediately pointed out,Don't say the us and Europe,We may follow from urban form/Traffic condition and population, etc in China and Japan are more similar,In Japan at the door of the primary school,Seldom see have parents to shuttle children,Are children ShangXiaXue himself.

　　这位彭姓家长介绍，她有个亲戚在日本，去年她曾去探亲，看见亲戚家的小妹妹在上小学，因为没什么可帮忙，她自告奋勇表示可以接送小妹妹上下学，没想到亲戚一口回绝：“完全不用，在这边，小朋友都是自己走路上学。”

The PengXing parents is introduced,She has a relative in Japan,Last year she had gone to visit,See relatives little sister in elementary school,Because there is nothing to help,She carried her little sister ShangXiaXue said can pick-up,Didn't expect relatives a rebuff:"Completely don't,In this,Children all go to school on foot."

　　见惯了“中国式接孩子”，彭有些不信，日本的家长就不担心孩子放学回家路上的安全问题吗？她于是跑到亲戚家小孩所上的小学门口一看，结果到了放学时间，真没发现一个家长来接小孩，小朋友都是列好队自己走回家。

used"Chinese joint children",Peng some don't believe,Japan's parents will not worry about the children come home from school on the road safety issue?And she ran to the relatives children go to school the door a look,Results the time after school,True have never found a parent to meet the child,Of children is listed good team walk home on my own.

　　据媒体报道：在日本，孩子们按区域就近上学。大多数日本小学生每天清晨6点半左右就要起床，出门后和住在附近的同学们会合，然后一起走路上学。

According to media reports:In Japan,The children go to school by area nearby.Most Japanese elementary school pupils every morning at 6:30, the or so will get up,Go out and live nearby classmates rendezvous,Then walk to school together.

　　对于有家长担心孩子上学路上的安全问题，在日本，学校专门设有“学童拥护员”，他们的任务是在每天上下学时间，站在校外车流量大、交通比较复杂的路口引导学生们安全通过。

For parents worry that their children to school the road safety problem,In Japan,The school has special"Children support member",Their task is to ShangXiaXue time every day,Standing outside the big traffic/Traffic more complex intersection guide students through security.

　　除了“学童拥护员”外，保护孩子们交通安全的还有个民间组织“PTA”（家长教师联合会）。这个组织是自发的，纯属尽义务，不领报酬，其成员定期轮流担任安全员，在孩子上学放学的时间去交通要道护送孩子。

In addition to"Children support member"outside,Protect the children traffic safety is a folk organization"PTA"(The parent-teacher association).This organization is spontaneous,Is do one's duty,Don't bring remuneration,Its members regularly take turns as a security officer,Children to school in the school time to traffic arteries escort the child.

　　一位定居日本的中国人唐辛子便曾参加“PTA”，她专门著文记下了自己的感受：“今天早上轮到我去站岗，冬天清晨的街头异常寒冷，但站在值班的路口，看到戴着黄色安全帽的孩子们一队一队地由远至近，叽叽喳喳地走过来，心里却感受到一种祥和与温暖。那些在骄阳下风雨中，将自己的身体拦在道路的中间，挥舞小旗指挥孩子们过马路的妈妈们的背影，是我所见过的最美丽的背影。”

A settled in Japan's Chinese TangXinZi he had attended"PTA",Her special article wrote down their feelings:"This morning, it is my turn to stand guard,Winter morning street extremely cold,But standing in the corner on duty,See wearing yellow helmet children were allowed to from far to near,Scenery came,But in his heart he felt a peace and warmth.Those in the hot sun the wind and rain,Her body lies in the middle of the road,With small flag command the children of the mothers of figure,I have seen the most beautiful figure."

　　值得反思 Deserves reflection

　　应用时间来纠正的“中国式习惯” Application of time to correct"Chinese habit"

　　对于“中国式接孩子”，一项有意思的数据值得相关部门深入研究。记者昨日在南京多所小学、幼儿园观察发现，幼儿园的接送率可以说是100%，而小学尤其是低年级的学生，接送率目测至少在九成以上。一个城市有几十万乃至百万的小学生以及幼儿园小朋友，那么，每天要往返学校两次人流将是数百万计，这对城市的交通压力可想而知。

for"Chinese joint children",An interesting data is worth further study the relevant departments.Reporters yesterday in nanjing much primary school/Kindergarten observation found,Kindergarten transfers rate can be said to be 100%,And elementary school especially young students,Shuttle rate visual at least in more than ninety percent.A city has hundreds of thousands and even millions of primary school children and kindergarten children,so,Everyday round the school two people will be millions,The city traffic pressure cans be imagined.

　　既然日本的经验证明，小学生可以自己上下学，而为什么我们的家长还是坚持接送呢？在南京清凉门一所幼儿园门口，一位正在上幼儿园大二班的储彦（音）小朋友告诉了记者答案。他每天都是爷爷接送的，小男孩童声童气地说，他自己一个人可以从幼儿园走回家，但妈妈告诉他，路上有“小偷”，会偷小朋友，把你嘴巴一捂就偷跑了。小男孩一本正经地说着还做出捂嘴巴的动作。

Since Japan's experience proved,Students can ShangXiaXue,And why our parents insisted on shuttle?In nanjing cool and refreshing door a nursery school door,A was in nursery school sophomore class ChuYan(sound)Children told reporters the answer.Every day he is grandpa pick-up,The little boy TongQi children's chorale said,He himself a man can from kindergarten walk home,But his mother told him,The road there are"The thief",Will steal children,Put your mouth a wu will steal ran.The little boy said bravely to also make wu mouth movements.

　　事实上，记者采访多位家长，家长均表示，之所以要接送孩子，小孩放学路上的安全是他们最担心的，在听闻一些小孩被别人拐走的消息后，这使得家长们对孩子上学放学更是不愿意“放手”。

In fact,Reporters many parents,Parents are said,The reason why shuttle children,School children on the road safety is their most to worry about,In some of the children heard by others after the news of the abducted,This makes the parents to the child to go to school is not willing to school"To let go".

　　归结起来看，除了孩子上学、放学路上的安全问题外，家长坚持接送还有多项原因，诸如城市交通复杂，不按规矩行驶的车辆很多；路边有些“不良”小店，担心小孩学坏以及孩子还没长大，还不能独立回家等等。

Boils down to see,In addition to their children to school/On the road outside the school security problems,There are several reasons why parents insist on transportation,Such as the urban traffic complex,Not according to the rules of driving vehicle many;Roadside some"bad"shop,Worry about the child that which is evil and the children haven't grown up,Can't independent home, etc.

　　于是，尽管国外让孩子自己上下学看起来很美好，但在现实中，中国的家长还是愿意坚持“中国式接送”，而这种接送又往往和“中国式过马路”掺杂在一起，于是各所小学的门口，每到上学放学时间，嘈杂、拥堵的景象显得更中国。

so,Although foreign let the children themselves ShangXiaXue looks very beautiful,But in reality,China's parents prefer to adhere to"Chinese transportation",And this kind of transfers and often and"Chinese cross the road"Doping together,Then the door of the gate of the school,Every school to go to school time,noisy/Congestion scene appears more Chinese.

　　上述彭姓家长告诉记者，在当前的大背景下，她不可能真的让自家的小孩独立上下学，“大环境不允许”，但她真心希望“中国式接送”能够有所改变，应该设一个时间表，废除这种“中国式的生活习惯”，想一想，家长不用操心、孩子自个儿安全的上下学那该多好啊！

The above PengXing parents told reporters,In the current background,She can't be really let their children ShangXiaXue independence,"Environment are not allowed to",But she really hope"Chinese transportation"Can change,Should set a timetable,Abolished the"Chinese living habits",Think about,Parents don't worry about/The safety of child alone ShangXiaXue that this much good!