昨日，“黑皮蔓”的《华师一，你再与我无关》主题帖，点击超过7.8万人次，跟帖800多条。“佩服楼主的父爱”、“没有几个毛头小伙子受得了10万字的关怀”、“我们夫妻与楼主相比，差太远了”……多名家长留言说。

yesterday,"Black tendril"of[no.1,I have nothing to do with you again]Subject placard,Click on the more than 78000 people,More than 800 of the post."Admire the host's father"/"Few feather young man stand 100000 words of care"/"We compared with the husband and wife,Difference too far"……Many famous speech to grow.

从儿子上高中首日起每天发短信 The first son from high school up to send a text message every day

　　从儿子2009年到武汉上高中第一天起，老郑每天给孩子发短信。短信内容包罗万象，既有文学典故，也有家长里短。每条末尾还附了天气预报，“这是为了提醒孩子明天该穿什么衣服”。

Son from 2009 to wuhan in high school the first day,LaoZheng child every day to send a text message.Message content all inclusive,Both literary allusions,Also have small household affairs.At the end of each is attached to the weather forecast,"This is to remind the children tomorrow what to wear".

　　这10万字手机短信，老郑前后敲打了两遍：第一遍是用拇指按下，用手机发给儿子；第二遍是手机信息储量接近上限时，他再从手机里一个字一个字地敲键盘“抄”到电脑上。

This 100000 words SMS,LaoZheng knock before and after the two times:The first time is to use thumb press,To use a mobile phone to son;The second time is close to the cell phone information reserves on time limit,He again from mobile phone in a word a word on the keyboard"copy"To computer.

　　老郑用的是“老古董”手机。他不知道现在的智能手机可以直接转移信息，“要是能直接像U盘那样转移信息该多好”。

LaoZheng use is"Museum piece"Mobile phone.He didn't know now smartphone can directly transfer information,"If can directly like U disk that transfer information should be much good".

　　已在北京的对外经济贸易大学读大一的小郑回忆，3年前刚到武汉上学时，“自己非常不适应”。后来，父亲的短信渐渐让他在外感受到家的温暖。

Has set up a file in the Beijing foreign economic and trade university read a freshman small memory,Three years ago just to wuhan when to go to school,"His very does not adapt".later,Father's message gradually let him out feel the warmth of home.

　　老郑说：“孩子基本上不会回复我的短信。有一次，我发了一个当地的方言典故，他看后回了两个字‘何解’。”

LaoZheng said:"Children basically won't reply my message.once,I sent a local dialect allusions,After he read back to the two words‘Any solution’."

　　儿子上大学后，老郑把每天一条短信改为每周一次。

After their son to go to college,LaoZheng every day a message instead of once a week.

　　“我很习惯，不知他大学过得咋样？”老郑说。远在北京的小郑认为，父亲的每条短信都很用心。“如果我不让他发短信，会伤害他”。

"I'm used to,Don't know everything going his university?"LaoZheng said.Far Beijing's small think,Father's every text messages are very attentively."If I don't ask him to send text messages,Will hurt his".

晒账单：高中3年花了15万元 Sun bill:High school three years spent 150000 yuan

　　老郑发给儿子的短信，在网上连载到了第273次。他还晒出的“3年高中孩子累计花费在15万元左右”的账单，引来众多家长“围观”。

LaoZheng to son's message,In the online continued to 273th.He also the sun drying out of the"Three years of high school children accumulated spent 150000 yuan or so"bill,Draws many parents"onlookers".

　　收到华中师大一附中录取通知书后，有熟人对老郑说：“听说3年读下来要花十四五万元。”老郑觉得这是开玩笑，说：“哪会要那么多钱？吓我们穷人吧？”

Central China normal university received a affiliated after admission notice,Have the acquaintance to LaoZheng said:"Heard that 3 years read down to spend 14 or 15 ten thousand yuan."LaoZheng feel this is kidding,said:"Which meeting to so much money?It scared us the poor?"

　　他说，最初记账是为了看看能否有计划地度过这3年，最后一算账花费确实在15万元左右。

He said,First is to see if I can charge in a planned way through this three years,The last accounts spend really is in 150000 yuan or so.

　　老郑说：“儿子从不培优，一对一培优收费很高。”他解释，花费包括进校费和其他收费，以及日常开支、高三陪读费、两次鼻炎手术费及买营养品的费用等。“我平时半个月左右来武汉一次。孩子读高三时，奶奶来汉陪读了1年，房租花了1.7万元”。

LaoZheng said:"Son never the pew,One-on-one the pew charge high fees."He explained,Cost including school fees and other charges,And daily spending/Three or relatives can apply for fee/Two rhinitis operation and buy nourishment of expenses, etc."I usually half a month to wuhan a.The child read the senior year,Grandma to han or relatives can apply for 1 year,The rent spent 17000 yuan".

　　老郑和妻子分别是科级公务员和护士。“孩子读高中这3年，过得比较困难。”他在帖子中写道，“两个大人从来不穿贵衣服。孩子的衣服除了袄子，没有超过100块钱一件的。全家人的鞋子没有超过100块钱一双的。但我们在教育上舍得花钱。”

LaoZheng and his wife were middle-level civil servants and nurse."The child read the three years of high school,Have a more difficult."He wrote in the post,"Two adults never wear expensive clothes.The child's clothes in addition to ao son,No more than 100 dollars one.The whole family shoes no more than 100 yuan a pair of.But we are willing to spend money on education."

　　网友“老九”感慨：“读高中比读大学贵多了。”一家长留言：“家长对孩子的付出是无法算账的。”

Net friend"Old nine"regrets:"High school much more expensive than reading university."A parents leave a message:"The parents to the child's pay is not outside."

觉得小学在整个教育阶段中最重要 Think primary school in the whole education stage is the most important

　　老郑在孩子的小学生活一文中，专门总结了16条育儿经验。他觉得，小学在整个教育阶段中最重要。读小学的孩子像一棵小树苗，如果没长直，理一理就直了；长大时发现弯了，就很难理直了。小学成绩搞不好，初中、高中很难再跟上。

LaoZheng in the child's primary school life in this paper,Special summarizes the article 16 child-raising experience.He felt,Primary school in the whole education stage is the most important.Primary school children like a young trees,If have no long straight,Trimmed it straight;Grow up found bent,It is hard to reason the straight.Primary results maybe,Junior high school/High school is hard to keep up with.

　　云梦县当年考取华中师大一附中的有6名学生，老郑的儿子是其中之一。因此，老郑在熟人中很有名。几年前，一些人希望老郑能帮忙辅导一下自己的孩子，他为此还专门办了一个培训班。后来实在太忙，他就没再搞。今年暑假，又有熟人找到他，希望辅导一下他们的孩子。他说：“找个时间，可以在礼堂内集中讲一次，安排一两百人听一下。”

The yunmeng county in central China normal university with a pass of the six students,LaoZheng son is one of them.therefore,In the LaoZheng acquaintances is very famous.A few years ago,Some people want to LaoZheng can help guidance about their children,He therefore also specially done a training class.Later was too busy,He didn't make.This summer,And an acquaintance to find him,Hope to help me with their children.He said:"Find a time,Can speak a centralized hall,Arrangement is controlled people listen to."

　　为何在整个家庭教育中没看到孩子母亲的身影？老郑说：“家庭教育也要一以贯之，孩子的妈妈主要负责后勤。女同志由于视野和心胸局限，带孩子相对会差一些。”

Why in the whole family education doesn't see the child's mother figure?LaoZheng said:"Family education also want a to the penetration,The child's mother is mainly responsible for logistics.Female comrade due to limited vision and mind,The children relative will sent some."

　　他解释，在网上晒自己发给孩子的短信，是因为“好多家长希望我把孩子3年的生活写出来”。他说，这10万字短信不会全部公布，择其“贤者”录之。

He explained,On the Internet to bask in their child's message,because"A lot of parents hope that I take the children 3 years of life to write out".He said,This 100000 words can't all messages published,Pick the"sage"Record of.

　　（记者朱建华）

(Reporter ZhuJianHua)

关键词：鼓劲 keywords:Pull for

　　上周家长会后，发现你的情绪不是很好，你可能因为摸底考试的事。我到网上看了，不含国际部，排平行班的正取生1070名，成绩至少保了本还有赚的。不必为此事烦恼。（2009年9月19日）

Last week after the parents,Find your mood is not very good,You may try because of the exam.I went to see the Internet,Does not contain the international department,Exhaust comparable officially enroll born 1070,Results at least protect the and earn.Don't worry for this matter.(On September 19th, 2009)

　关键词：加油 keywords:refueling

　　我们不会盲目地为你欣喜，也不会无端地责怪你！不要急，保持好的心态，像校运会那样，正视对手，强者不惧、弱者不欺，你会有所收获的。调整自己，踏实向前！（2009年10月26日）

We will not blindly for you rejoice,Also not unjustly accusing you!Don't worry,Keep good state of mind,Like sports meeting that,Face opponents,Strong dare/Cheat the weak,You will have the harvest.adjust,Sureness forward!(On October 26, 2009)

　关键词：看望 keywords:visit

　　前天下午3时不到，我从武汉回来，一路不畅，到孝感的火车晚点，孝感城元宵戒严无车，以至于晚8时多才到家。而今天12时多出发，坐火车下午3时30分不到就回了。（2010年3月9日）

The day before yesterday afternoon 3 when less than,I come back from wuhan,Dull all the way,To xiaogan train was delayed,Xiaogan city yuanxiao martial law car free,That night when we didn't get home until 8 more.But today more than 12 when starting,The train afternoon 3 when less than 30 points back.(On March 9, 2010)

　关键词：文史 keywords:Literature and history

　　关于圣：圣人孔子、亚圣孟子、画圣吴道子、书圣王羲之、茶圣陆羽、诗圣杜甫、词圣苏轼、医圣张仲景、药圣李时珍、草圣张旭、史圣司马迁、乐圣李龟年。（2010年6月9日）

About the holy:Sage Confucius/The holy mencius/Painting holy WuDaoZi/Book holy wang xizhi/The tea/Poet du fu/Word holy su shi/YiSheng ZhangZhongJing/Drug LiShiZhen/Zhang xu:/ShiSheng sima qian/Music SAN li turtle years.(On June 9, 2010)

关键词：情感 keywords:emotional

　　初高中学生陷入恋情，十有其九不能善终，一来外部环境不允许，二来他们的自我掌控能力远远不够。还有一个原因大概是抑郁症。（2010年6月15日）

Junior students into love,Ten has its nine can't ending,As the external environment not allowed,Secondly they self control ability is far not enough.There is a reason is probably depression.(On June 15, 2010)

关键词：方言 keywords:dialect

　　霸庄，是个麻将术语。几个人打麻将，每盘做头的那个人称为庄家。如果坐庄的人赢了就继续坐庄，继续坐庄就叫做霸庄。（2010年12月21日）

Master zhuang,Is a mahjong term.A few people playing mahjong,Every dish that a personal called banker.If the dealer who won the dealer will continue,Continue to the dealer is called the village.(On December 21, 2010)

　关键词：乘车 keywords:ride

　　午饭后马上清东西坐公交车，不管570路或903路，见车就上。到武昌火车站后，一楼大厅南边有售票处，有一趟下午3时50分的火车。如没这趟车，就坐10路公交车到汉口火车站，那里车次多。（2011年7月1日）

Immediately after lunch clearly by bus,No matter 570 road or road 903,Saw the car is.After the wuchang train station,The first floor hall south there was a box office,Have a trip afternoon 3 when 50 points of the train.If no this bus,Sit 10 bus to the hankou railway station,There more than train.(On July 1, 2011)

　　（记者朱建华整理）

(Reporter ZhuJianHua finishing)

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