1998年，在克林顿总统访问北京大学时，北大中文系94级的女生马楠曾当面痛斥美国人权状况的“恶劣”。反美女愤青马楠两年后本科毕业，很有意思的是，她却选择了到“人权状况恶劣”的美国去留学，后来还嫁给了一个美国人，现在已育有一子。

In 1998,,As President Bill Clinton visit Beijing college,Peking University level 94 girls MaNan have denounced the United States face to face the situation of human rights"bad".Back beauty cynical MaNan two years undergraduate course graduation,Very interesting,But she chose to"The human rights situation bad"To study in the United States,Then married to an American,Now already had a son.

　　10月初，马楠的博客有更新，新发文章《请帮我寻找这个美国人》。

At the beginning of October,MaNan blog update,The new hair[Please help me look for the American people].

以下是博客原文： The following is the original blog:

　　寇白龙 (Byron Ross Cole)已于我在2011年5月协议离婚。我们约定孩子先由我抚养一年。抚养权另行协商。但他于2012年5月15日在我们的女儿寇禅音Cataleya Cole放学后，未经我同意把孩子带走(此前他一年未看过孩子也不履行抚养义务)，至今不让孩子同我联系，拒绝告诉我孩子下落，不让孩子上学，也拒绝美国大使馆对孩子的安全派人福利探视。 我已经就孩子的抚养权问题，向厦门市湖里区人民法院起诉。但需要送达传票。请知情的网友帮忙，告诉我他的住址及通讯方式。

Curtis white dragon (Byron Ross Cole)Already to me in May 2011 divorce agreement.We agreed first by the children raised me a year.Custody separately.But in 2012 he May 15, in our daughter KouChan sound Cataleya Cole after school,I agreed to take away without children(After a year he has not seen the children were not to perform their obligations),Has not let the child with contact me,Refuse to tell my child falling,Don't let their children to school,Also refused to admit a U.S. embassy for the child's safety send welfare visitation. I had custody of the child problems,To xiamen's huli district people's court.But need served a summons.Please the knowledge of the net friend for help,Tell me his address and communication mode.

　　(白龙，发这个帖子，我的心在滴血。毕竟我们是十年夫妻我希望你从此能走上正路，我也祝愿你在新的太太和新的孩子那里找到幸福。可我们俩的孩子永远是我们的孩子，需要来自父母双方的关爱才能健康成长。你说过，他们是中美之间的小桥，我们俩拆不散的“小钉子”。白龙啊，为了孩子，请与我联系沟通)

(White dragon,Hair this post,My heart is bleeding.After all we are ten years and I hope you from now on can to step onto the right way,I also wish you in the new wife and children there new find happiness.But both of us children are always our children,Need to come from both parents love to healthy growth.You said,They are the bridge between China and the United States,The two of us and not scattered"Small nail".White dragon ah,For the children,Please contact me communication)

　　马楠，曾就读于北京大学1994级中文系。

MaNan,Has studied at Beijing university Chinese level 1994.

　　1998年6月29日，克林顿在北京大学演讲。马楠对克林顿提问： 总统先生，欢迎您光临北大。刚才您曾提到过胡适说，不要为了国家的自由而牺牲自己的自由。但是我们的前任校长蔡元培先生还说过这样一句话，他说：道并行而不相悖，万物并育而不相害。我并不认为，国家的自由和自己的自由有什么冲突，不是说为了国家的自由就一定要牺牲自己的自由。我认为自由是自己一种主动的选择，认为是最好的最适合自己的情况。象中国现在的繁荣发展正是我国人民自由的选择，主动贡献他们的力量的结果。我想自由的定义应该是，为了真理和正义选择那些最适合自己情况的道路，不知道您是否同意我的观点。另外我想最后说一句，只有真正懂得自由的人才会更加尊重别人的自由。谢谢。

On June 29, 1998,Clinton speech at Peking University.MaNan questions to Clinton: Mr. President,Welcome to Peking University.Just now you mentioned hu shi said,Don't for the country's free and sacrifice their freedom.But our former President Mr. CAI yuanpei also said such a word,He said:Word parallel and not contrary,All things and brood without phase damage.I don't think,National freedom and freedom of his own what conflict,Not to say that in order to national freedom must sacrifice their freedom.I think freedom is one kind of active choice,Think is best the most suitable for their own situation.As China is now the prosperity and development of the our country people's free choice,Active contribution to the result of their strength.I want to free definition should be,In order to truth and justice choose the most suitable for their way of situation,Don't know whether you agree to my point of view.And I want to have the last word,Only truly understand free talent will be more respect other people's freedom.thank you.

　　2006年在接受《南方人物周刊》采访时，马楠承认当时自己站起来提问是有私心的，“我知道全球都在盯着克林顿的北大之行。我之所以站起来提问，是希望在美国的前男友能(从电视上)看到我。”

In 2006, accepted[South people weekly]interview,MaNan admit oneself at that time to stand up questions is the self,"I know all the world staring at Clinton's trip to Peking University.The reason that I stood up and ask questions,In the United States is to former boyfriend can(From TV,)See my."

　　若干年后，两个都已结婚生子的人在电子邮件上聊起此事，前男友说的“我真为你自豪”，依然让现在的马楠眉飞色舞，全然不顾寇白龙在身后的嘟噜：“你又唠叨起他了。”

After years of,The two have been married people on E-mail talk about this matter,Ex-boyfriend said"I am so proud of you",Still let now the MaNan very happy,Not at all GuKou white dragon behind DuLu:"You and chatter on him."

　　“那你为我自豪吗?”马楠不死心地追问走开的寇白龙。

"Then you to be proud of me?"MaNan undead carefully ask away Curtis white dragon.

　　去除掉不实的描写，去除掉煽情和反讽，马楠和寇白龙的爱情其实极为简单：

To get rid of false description,To get rid of poem and irony,MaNan and Curtis white dragon love actually very simple:

　　寇白龙是一名来自美国密歇根州立大学国际金融系的毕业生，家境富裕，不远万里来中国教书，接待他的，正是马楠。当时，马楠一边在北大读硕士一边在美国教育交流协会做兼职老师。

Curtis white dragon is a from Michigan state university graduates of international finance,rich,Has come over to China for the teaching,Received him,It is MaNan.At that time,MaNan side in the north side read a master in the United States education exchange association do part-time teacher.

　　马楠是寇白龙踏上中国后见到的第一个中国女人。婚后，他经常戏谑那个站在机场大厅、高举寻人牌的马楠，像“电视剧里的‘结婚狂’举着牌子高呼：‘谁来娶我’!”

MaNan is Curtis white dragon set foot in China see after the first Chinese woman.After marriage,He often banter that stood in the airport/Exalted without the brand MaNan,like"TV series in the‘Married crazy’Holding brand chanted:‘Who will marry me’!"

　　机场接待后，彼此间的好感陡生。

Airport reception after,Each other's good born steep.

　　勇于尝试水中分娩的全职太太马楠，现在每天做运动、学画画、学京剧、学日语。“自由应该是心无挂碍，走得再远也走不出自己的心。”马楠还希望自己在学习之余，多出去走走，看看失业工人、看看山区农民的生活。

The courage to try to water delivery of full-time wife MaNan,Now do sports every day/Learn to draw/Learning Beijing Opera/Learn Japanese."Free should be a mind to be free from preoccupations,Go to far cannot walk away from his own heart."MaNan also hope that the oneself is in more than learning,Many go out for a walk,Look at the unemployed workers/Look at the mountains peasants' lives.

　　她想到了15年后，自己的生活阅历丰富了，“我要做一名人大代表，去为老百姓说话，能为老百姓说话真是太痛快了。”

She thought about 15 years,His own life experience enriched,"I want to be a National People's Congress,To speak for people,People can speak is really happy."

　　据马楠说，她以这个理由拒绝领取绿卡时，移民官面容惊讶。

According to MaNan said,She this reason refuses to get a green card when,Immigration officer face surprised.

　　马楠希望不管现在还是将来，别人提到自己的婚姻时说，这是一个男人和一个女人的幸福婚姻，至于是美国人，还是中国人，“这有什么重要的呢!”

MaNan hope no matter at present or in future,Others said to their marriage,This is a man and a woman happy marriage,As for is American,Or Chinese,"This have what important!"