近来,幼儿园虐童事件频发。先是,媒体曝光山西太原一幼儿园5岁女童被老师半小时内打耳光70次。然后,是一张幼儿园女老师扯着男孩双耳往上提的照片在网上流传。很快网友人肉出这位浙江温岭女教师的个人信息,还发现了数百张涉嫌虐童的照片。

recently,Kindergarten child abuse event recurrent.first,Media exposure of shanxi, taiyuan a kindergarten 5 years old girl was the teacher half an hour box 70 times.then,Is a kindergarten teacher female at the boy ears up pictures of carry on the net spread.Soon net friend of human flesh out the zhejiang possessing female teachers' personal information,Also found in hundreds of a child abuse photos.

　　这些虐童事件当然与所在幼儿园的管理直接相关,也需要教育部门加强对幼儿教育的管理、检查。但是,只要对体罚孩子仍然存在着一种职业性的麻木乃至社会性的麻木,虐童事件恐怕还会发生。

These child abuse event of course and the kindergarten is directly related to the management,Also need to education department to strengthen the management of children education/check.but,As long as to corporal punishment children are still there exists a kind of occupational numb and even social numb,I'm afraid I've child abuse event will occur.

　　实际上,虐童事件并不仅仅发生在幼儿园内,也大量发生在家庭之中。前不久,一位父亲体罚幼女原地跑步6个小时,导致女儿死亡；最近,又有一位父亲因将两岁的女儿打成肾衰竭被判刑。这些事件已经勾画出了一条暴力教育、体罚教育代际传递的路线图。

In fact,Child abuse event not only occurred in kindergarten inside,Also a lot of happened in the family.Not long ago,A father corporal punishment infant daughter place run six hours,Lead to daughter death;recently,And have a father for two year old daughter into renal failure were sentenced.These events have sketch a violent education/The corporal punishment education of intergenerational transmission route.

　　在太原女童被扇耳光事件发生后,有人发起了一项“你被老师打过吗”的网络调查,大多数网友选择了“是”。其实,这样的经验无需调查,只需要问问我们自己和身边的朋友就是了。多少人小时候没有被体罚过呢?

In taiyuan the girl was fan a slap in the face after the incident,Someone launched a"You are a teacher"Network survey,Most of the net friend chose"is".In fact,This experience without investigation,Only need to ask ourselves and nearby of friend is.Many people when I was a child were not corporal punishment for it?

　　然而,吊诡的是,那么多的人受过体罚,不但没有带来对体罚的反感,没有让他们对体罚说不,反而带来了对体罚的某种认同。某网站针对“你赞成适当体罚孩子吗?”发起网络投票,结果显示92%的人赞成“适当体罚”。“适当体罚”是个很模糊的概念,何为适当?扯耳朵算不算适当,打耳光算不算适当?

however,Paradoxical is,So many people received corporal punishment,Not only did not bring the corporal punishment antipathy,They didn't let them to say "no" to corporal punishment,But it brings the corporal punishment of a certain identity.A website for"Do you approve of appropriate corporal punishment children?"Launch network voting,The results shows that 92% of people approve of"Appropriate corporal punishment"."Appropriate corporal punishment"Is a very vague concept,What is appropriate?Pull the ear is not appropriate,Box is not appropriate?

　　我不想纠缠于何为“适当体罚”,但所谓“适当体罚”的自辩,大大减轻了体罚者的道德压力,也更真实地呈现了当下社会对体罚教育的认同。

I don't want to go to what is"Appropriate corporal punishment",But the so-called"Appropriate corporal punishment"Since the contend,Greatly reduced the corporal punishment of moral pressure,Also more truly present the current society to corporal punishment education identity.

　　虐童的背后是麻木,麻木的背后是对体罚的广泛认同。现在,那些在体罚教育中长大的一代,又开始体罚下一代。又一轮体罚教育的代际传递似乎已经完成,而且可能继续传递下去。这恰恰是最值得警惕的。虐童事件频发固然教育部门有责,幼儿园、学校有责。然而,最难对付的敌人或许是我们心中被体罚的童年阴影,最急迫的事情就是阻断体罚教育的代际传递。

Child abuse is behind numb,Numb is behind the corporal punishment to widely recognized.now,Those in the corporal punishment education grew up in a generation,Began to corporal punishment the next generation.Another round of corporal punishment education intergenerational transmission of seems to have been completed,And may continue to pass it on.This just is the most alarmed.Child abuse event recurrent is education department is responsible for,kindergarten/The school is responsible for.however,The toughest enemy may be our hearts be corporal punishment childhood shadow,The most urgent thing is to block the corporal punishment education intergenerational transmission of.

　　我特别感谢我的父亲,他从来没有打过我。父亲小的时候很调皮,没少被脾气暴躁的祖父暴打,有次甚至休克过去。父亲长大成人后就发誓,将来绝不打孩子。当然,这也只是我从父亲那里得来的幸运。你可以免于父亲的体罚,却可能不免于被老师体罚。

I especially thank my father,He has never hit me.Father little time is very naughty,No less grumpy grandfather beat up,Once even shock in the past.Father grew up after the swear,The future will never play the child.Of course,This is my father come from the lucky.You can from his father's corporal punishment,But may not to be the teacher corporal punishment.

　　说这些其实只是想说,身为人师者,身为父母者,或将为人之父母者,如果对体罚教育缺乏深刻的自省,那么,就无法清除潜意识中对体罚的认同。因而,也就不可能终止体罚教育的代际传递。

Say these actually just want to say,As people think,As parents are,Or will the parents are a,If the corporal punishment education lack of deep introspection,so,Can't clear subconscious in the identity of corporal punishment.therefore,Also can not be terminated corporal punishment education intergenerational transmission of.

　　不再让暴力的受害者爱上暴力,不再让被体罚者继续体罚下一代,每一个人都有责任。也希望每一个人,都能用爱的教育代替体罚教育,让孩子们的心中充满阳光,而不是留下被体罚、被羞辱、被伤害的阴影。 于德清(新华每日电讯特约评论员)

No longer let victims of violence in love with violence,No longer let be corporal punishment person continue to the next generation of corporal punishment,Everyone has responsibility.Also hope that every one,They can love education instead of corporal punishment education,Let the children's heart is full of sunshine,Instead of leaving was corporal punishment/Be shamed/The shadow of being hurt. YuDeQing(Xinhua daily telegraph guest commentators)

　　(来源:新华每日电讯)

(Sources: xinhua daily telegraph)