10月24日，浙江省温岭市的蓝孔雀幼儿园发生教师虐童事件，颜某拎着孩子的两只耳朵往上提，并叫另一教师用手机拍下这一幕。

October 24,,Zhejiang wenling blue peacock kindergarten teachers happened child abuse event,Yan a carry the child's two ears to up lift,And that the other teachers use their cell phones to take a picture of the scene.

　　这可能是近几天媒体上最热的一个话题了。

This may be the next few days on media one of the hottest topic.

　　下沙不少爸爸妈妈，看了照片不由“杞人忧天”：在自己没顾及的场合，孩子会不会也因他人找开心而受到虐待？

Xiasha many mom and dad,Look at the photo is not"fike":In his own didn't take account of occasions,Children will also because others find happy and abuse?

　　于是，一些家长纷纷对孩子“诱供”，或偷偷观察幼儿园，想了解孩子在生活另一面的遭遇。

so,Some parents of children in succession"Confession by inducement",Or secretly observe the kindergarten,Want to know the other side of the child in the life experience.

　　

从报纸电视聊到幼儿园 From the newspaper TV chat to the kindergarten

　　

女儿总算交代被打的不是她 Daughter finally metasomatism black-and-blue is not her

　　这两天，宋女士老是在担心孩子会不会被幼儿园老师虐待。

These two days,Song lady is always in fear the child can not be the kindergarten teacher abuse.

　　“虽然我平时对幼儿园很信任，但那天看到这个新闻心里咯噔了一下，不由地担心起来。”女儿蓓蓓在幼儿园上大班。

"Although I at ordinary times very trust to kindergarten,But that day to see the news in a click,Not to worry about it."Daughter bud bud in the kindergarten class.

　　“蓓蓓平时是我爸爸妈妈接送的。她情况怎么样，我真不知道。”

"Bud bud at ordinary times is my mom and dad pick-up.How was she,I really don't know."

　　这个周末，宋女士为怎么套女儿的话犯难了。“小孩是很敏感的，不能让她感到妈妈对老师有不信任。万一传话到老师那里，就更不好了。”

This weekend,Ms song for how to set the puzzled daughter words."The child is very sensitive,Can't let her feel mother to the teacher have distrust.One thousand take a message to the teacher there,More bad."

　　想了很久，宋女士找出报纸，翻到登有温岭虐童事件的那一面，在蓓蓓眼前晃来晃去：“哎呀，这个幼儿园名字好有趣，叫蓝孔雀。” 蓓蓓瞟了一眼，说：“这个新闻我在电视上看过了，那个小朋友被老师拎着耳朵，拉得老高。”

Thought for a long time,Song lady find newspaper,Wen's turn to a child abuse event that side,In the bud bud dangling from sight:"oh,This kindergarten is in name good fun,Called blue peacock." Bud bud glanced at,said:"This news I seen on television,The children were the teacher carry ears,Pulled high."

　　“肯定是那个小朋友不听话？”

"It must be that children not obedient?"

　　“也不是的，那个老师不好，要打小朋友。”

"Also not,The teacher is bad,Children will play."

　　“你们班有没有挨打的？”宋女士说了一个小朋友的名字。

"Your class have defeated?"Ms song said a child's name.

　　女儿大笑：“不是他，是XXX，他很皮，不听话，还拉女孩子的小辫子。老师一生气，给了他一巴掌。”

Daughter laugh:"Is not he,Is XXX,He is very skin,Not obedient,Also pull girl's small plait.The teacher got angry and,Gave him a slap in the face."

　　“哦，小孩子皮，打打也是对的，那你有没有挨打过？”到这里，总算切题了。

"oh,Child skin,Some are right,That you have had beaten?"here,Finally to the question the.

　　“当然没有啦，因为我是女孩子嘛，不会不听话的。”

"Of course not!,Because I am a girl's son,Not obedient."

　　蓓蓓的回答，让宋女士松了一口气。

The answer of the bud bud,Let song lady breathed a sigh of relief.

　　

一天五次埋伏在幼儿园外 One day in five times in the kindergarten

　　

观察孙子会不会受欺负 Observation grandson will not be humiliate

　　也有家长为了了解孩子情况，偷偷观察幼儿园。乐乐在星河幼儿园读小班，平时由爷爷负责接送。虐童事件一出，爷爷不由地“暗地里留了一手”。

Also have parents to understand children situation,Secretly observe the kindergarten.Lele in the Milky Way kindergarten read small class,Usually by grandpa is responsible for the shuttle.A child abuse event,Grandpa could not help"Secretly left hand".

　　乐乐的爷爷说：“我以前还听说有个幼儿园，会把孩子的头摁到厕所的蹲坑里冲水。外地有老师自己偷懒，不给尿裤子的孩子换衣服，快放学了才给换。”

Lele grandfather said:"I've heard that there is a kindergarten,The child's head is press the to the toilet in the crouch hole flush.A foreign teacher themselves lazy,Don't give urine trousers children change clothes,Fast the school to give in."

　　看来，实地探访才是最牢靠的，于是，一天早上，爷爷把乐乐送进教室后，没有像往常一下去菜场，而是绕到了幼儿园一侧的栅栏边，刚好可以看见乐乐的教室。

It seems,On-site visit is the most reliable,so,One morning,Grandpa the lele send after came into the classroom,There is no one like usual a down market,But went around to the kindergarten on one side of the edge of the fence,Just can see lele classroom.

　　看了很长时间，一直是老师带着孩子在唱歌跳舞。

See for a long time,Has been the teacher took the children in singing and dancing.

　　爷爷也不敢再待，“我怕被老师看到，那就难为情了。”

Grandpa also dare not stay another,"I'm afraid I see by the teacher,That is embarrassing."

　　不过这几天，爷爷还会在不同的时间段里，去栅栏边偷偷观察乐乐在幼儿园的情况，最多的一天往幼儿园跑了五趟。

But these days,Grandpa will be in different period of time,To fence edge secretly observe lele in the kindergarten,Most of the day went to kindergarten run five times.

　　最后，爷爷确信孙子在幼儿园没被人欺负。

finally,Grandpa sure grandson in the kindergarten are not bullied.

　　

想让宝宝和你坦白 Want to let the baby and you frankly

　　

资深幼教给出具体方法 Senior preschool education specific method

　　那么，做爸妈的怎么做，才能让孩子如实坦白自己的遭遇呢？

so,Do parents how to do,Can let the child truthfully to confess to experience it?

　　张老师工龄10多年，经验丰富，在杭州某甲级幼儿园任教。她认为：“首先，你要让孩子信任你，让孩子知道，你是爱他的。避免孩子对爸爸妈妈产生惧怕心理。”

Teacher zhang length of more than 10 years,experienced,In a hangzhou serie a at the kindergarten.She thinks:"First of all,You should let the child trust you,Let the children know that,You is to love his.Avoid the child to mom and dad have psychological fear."

　　张老师提供了一些具体的方法，家长可参考一下：

Teacher zhang provides some specific methods,Parents can consult:

　　

1、和孩子交流： 1/And children exchange:

　　可以问问孩子，今天过得开心吗？如果孩子说不开心，再问他为什么不开心。那么他就会一五一十地把不开心的事情说出来。

Can ask the child,Have a good time today?If the boy said not happy,Ask him why not happy.Then he will lay it on the unhappy things that happen.

　　孩子如果只是被轻微地打了，别急着去质问老师，应该问问孩子为什么被打，是不是在幼儿园里淘气了。

The child if only be slightly played,Don't be in a hurry to query the teacher,Should ask why children were playing,In the kindergarten is naughty.

　　家长要告诉孩子，碰到这些情况，一定要和爸爸妈妈说：一是老师碰了身体，下手特别重；二是老师拉扯你，让你觉得特别痛。

The parents want to tell the children,Encounter these conditions,Must my mom and dad said:One is the teacher touch the body,Laid hands on him special heavy;The second is the teacher pulling you,Make you feel special pain.

　　

2、让孩子诉苦： 2/Let the child complaint:

　　如果孩子经常心情不好，不愿上幼儿园，家长就要重视了。这个时候需要让孩子知道，爸爸妈妈会在任何情况下保护你。

If children are often in a bad mood,Don't let in kindergarten,Parents should pay attention to the.This time need to let the child know,Mom and dad will be in any case protect you.

　　可以和孩子说，“是不是有什么秘密不能告诉爸爸妈妈？可以偷偷和妈妈说，妈妈会给你保密的。”

Can and the boy said,"Is there any secret can't tell mom and dad?Can secretly and mother said,Mother will give you confidential."

　　在接孩子回家的时候，在幼儿园门口问问别的孩子，自己的孩子为什么最近不开心。

In the joint child came back home,In the kindergarten the door ask other children,Their children recently why not happy.