一些大学生毕业后不工作，习惯在电脑前“宅”（资料图片） Some students don't work after graduation,Habit in front of the computer"curtilage"(Material picture)

　　读书念大学，自然是为了日后的工作，可有这么一群人，大学毕业，却瞬间卡壳了。他们并非找不到工作，而是主动放弃了就业机会，赋闲在家，衣食住行全靠父母，他们的统一代号，叫“啃老族”。

Reading college,Nature is for the future work,Can have such a group of people,Graduated from the university,But the moment to get stuck.They are not find a job,But the initiative to give up the employment opportunity,Sit at,Basic necessities all by parents,Their unified code,call"Neet group".

　　《2012年中国大学生就业报告》显示，在2011年毕业的大学生中，有近57万人处于失业状态，10万多人选择“啃老”。

[In 2012, the Chinese university students' employment report]display,In 2011 graduates from university,Nearly 570000 people in unemployment,More than 100000 people choose"Nibble at old".

　　10万多，这仅仅是相对于2011届毕业生而言，近几年来，这个社会累积的“啃老族”群体究竟有多庞大，我们不得而知。但“10万多”已足以让人震撼。他们缘何“啃老”？记者走近了几个往届毕业学子。

More than 100000,This is only relative to for 2011 sessions of graduates,In recent years,The social accumulation of"Neet group"How large group,We don't know.but"More than 100000"Already enough to make people shock.Why they"Nibble at old"?Reporter approached several past graduate students.

　　

“急什么，反正我爸养得起我” "What's the rush,Anyway, my dad sustainable I"

　　2010年夏天，思思(化名)从集美某大专院校毕业，那一年，身边的同学都陆陆续续找到了工作，可是思思却没有。那时候，她不是不想上班，而是觉得父亲有“门路”，能把她弄进知名企事业单位。

In the summer of 2010,Think think(alias)Jimei from a technical college graduate,That year,The students around all one find a job,But think thoughts but no.At that time,She is not don't want to go to work,But think father has"opportunities",Can she get into the well-known enterprises and institutions.

　　不幸的是，父亲的“门路”远没有思思想象中那么管用。首先，“大专文凭”就让她被毫无余地地拒之门外。所以当时，思思暗自发誓，一定要自考本科文凭。可是到了今年初，她最终还是放弃了，因为“我拿英语科没辙”，反复考了三次，依然不及格。

unfortunately,Father's"opportunities"Far from thinking thoughts like so useful.First of all,"College diploma"Let her be no room to close the door on.So at that time,Think think swore,Must from tests the undergraduate course diploma.But the earlier this year,She finally gave up,because"I take English department can find no way out",Repeated test three times,Still don't pass the exam.

　　对此，思思妈很生气，她说，为了支持思思自考，家里从没要求她要像其他孩子一样出去闯荡，“每次报名时，她都干劲十足，可是接下来的每一天，都是晃晃悠悠无所事事，每回都到了考试前一周才要恶补，怎么来得及？”

this,Think think mom is very angry,She said,In order to support from think thoughts,Home never asked her to get out and make like other children,"Every time when signing up,She is a fireball,But the next every day,Are swaying doing nothing,Every time a week before the exam will be evil complement,How could?"

　　那么，既然这个“门路”用不了，也该找其他工作了吧？

so,Since the"opportunities"It won't,Should also find other work now?

　　就在今年5月份，思思听说到家附近的证券公司上班“挺好”，就想着要先考个证券从业资格证。可是，准备了三个多月，考试结果又让大家失望透顶。查到成绩的当天，思思觉得“没脸见人了”，可是第二天，她又开始恢复了浑浑噩噩的状态。

In may this year,Think think heard near the home of the securities company"good",Just want to want to take an examination of a securities from job seniority card.but,For more than three months,Test results and absolutely let you down.To check the results,Think think think"Small the",But the next day,She was beginning to recover the ignorant condition.

　　朋友问：“你都毕业两年多了还没上班，有什么打算？”思思摇摇头说：“不知道，目前没发现有什么是我感兴趣的，急什么，反正我爸还养得起我。”

My friend asked:"You graduated more than two years still didn't work,What's going to?"Think think shake to say:"Don't know,At present didn't find what I'm interested in,What's the rush,Anyway, my dad still afford I."

　　

“工作累，在家待着比较舒服” "Work tired,Stay home for a more comfortable"

　　“本科毕业，居然连通知的格式都搞不清楚，你大学到底都在干些什么？现在的大学生能力怎么那么差！”毕业后，这句话就成了小陈心里“永远的痛”。

"Undergraduate course graduation,Incredibly even notice format all don't know,You really are in the university to do???????Now college students ability how so poor!"After graduation,This sentence became Chen heart"Forever pain".

　　去年，小陈告别大学后就在一家私企找到了文秘的工作。上班第二周，因为一份通知的格式没弄对，小陈被情绪不佳的经理劈头盖脸臭骂了一顿。

Last year,Chen farewell after university in a private companies found the secretarial work.Work in the second week of the,Because a notice to the format didn't get,Chen was in a bad mood manager scold mercilessly swept over a meal.

　　不承想，这一骂不但把小陈骂哭了，还把她骂得一走了之了。“不就一份通知吗？有必要这么大动干戈吗？我从小就没受过这种气，他以为他是谁？大不了不干。”现在说起来，小陈气不打一处来。

Don't ChengXiang,This scold not only the Chen scold cry,Also she scold a walk it the."Not a notice?So it is necessary to get into a fight?I've never had this kind of gas,He thought that who he is?Not big deal."Now it,Chen spirit not dozen 1 come.

　　小陈妈妈说：“别看就那么一句话，可把她给骂怕了。”从去年辞职后，小陈就再也不愿意出去上班。她觉得，上班老是要受气，“还要每天给领导装笑脸，我实在受不了，还是在家舒服”。

Chen mother said:"Don't look so a word,Can give her to scold'm afraid of."From last year after the resignation,Chen will no longer willing to go out to work.She felt,Work is always to suffer indignities,"Also a day to lead a smile,I really can't stand,Or at home comfortable".

　　这一年多来，小陈父母感觉这样下去不是办法，也曾多次劝过小陈出去工作，但她就是不愿意，“她不愿意，我们也没办法啊，总不能把她扫地出门吧？”

This for more than a year,Chen parents feel so down is not a good way,Also has repeatedly advised to Chen go out to work,But she is not willing to,"She didn't want to,We didn't also way ah,Total can't leave her, sweep the floor?"

　　在小陈看来，父母的担心都是多余的，因为“在家也有在家赚钱的办法”。

In Chen seems,Parents' fears were all for naught,because"Be in, the home also has to stay at home to get money".

　　今年过完年，小陈就在大型购物网站注册了一家网店，向父母要了1万多元“生意本”进了一批女装，准备大干一场，可是快一年了，惨淡的经营让她血本无归。

This year over the years,Chen in large shopping site registered a shop,Turn to their parents for 10000 yuan"Business this"Into a group of dress,Prepare gets a,But nearly a year,Cheerless business let her lose everything.

　　现在，小陈还是过着天天向父母伸手要钱的日子，但她开始觉得，“换个思路，改卖化妆品可能会比较好……”

now,Chen or live every day to their parents out his hand to the day of money,But she began to think,"Change your way of thinking,Change the cosmetics may be better……"

　　

“钱太少，我绝不只值这个价” "So little money,I will not only value the price"

　　这几年企业招聘时，有些大学生谈起待遇是羞答答，有些则拒绝“雾里看花”，黄硕就属于后者。

Over the past few years when enterprise recruitment,Some college students talk about treatment is coy,Others refused to"in",HuangShuo belong to the latter.

　　黄硕，2011年厦门某高校本科毕业生，虽说他所就读的学校还不错，但黄硕却至今还迟迟未能找到工作。不过更确切地说，应该是他还迟迟找不到自己满意的工作。

HuangShuo,In 2011, xiamen a university graduate,Although his school is good,But HuangShuo but still can not find a job.But more specifically,He was supposed to also can not find their satisfactory work.

　　黄硕很直白，是个有一说一有二说二的人，所以每次应聘，他都要先把薪酬和企业谈清楚，一旦这点谈不拢，他就觉得没有继续沟通的必要了。

HuangShuo is fairly straightforward,A spade a spade has two said two people,So every time to apply for,He will be the first salary and enterprise talk clearly,Once this talk about not approach,He felt he didn't continue with the necessary communication.

　　“我要找的工作，每个月的工资怎么说也要在4500元以上，要让我看到职业的发展前景，不要每天都忙得焦头烂额，能正常休双休日，公司的地段不要太鱼龙混杂，工作环境稍微高档些就可以了。我想，凭我的能力有这样的要求也不算太苛刻，我有同学就已经找到了这样的工作。”

"I'm looking for work,Each month's salary how to say will be in 4500 yuan of above,Let me see the development of the career prospects,Don't every day busy scorched,Can the normal Hugh double cease day,Company location not too good and evil people mixed up,Working environment a little high-grade some is ok.I want to,With my ability to have such a request is not too demanding,I have a classmate who has found such work."

　　要求归要求，可实际情况是，至今为止，黄硕所找到的公司不但工资“不达标”，就连其他“附带”的要求也无法一一满足他。

Requirements to request,But the actual situation is,So far,HuangShuo found company not only wage"Not the",Even the other"incidental"Requirements also is unable to meet his one.

　　所以，黄硕决定 “宁为玉碎不为瓦全”，他说，“如果找不到符合我的条件的工作，我宁愿不做，父母花那么多钱培养我，我绝对不只值他们开出的那个价！”

so,HuangShuo decided to "Fight a shameful life",He said,"If I can't find accord with the condition of the work,I would rather not do,Parents spend so much money training I,I absolutely not only value their offer of the price!"

　　对于儿子的做法，黄爸爸颇有微词，但却始终找不到说服儿子的办法，只能任他一边继续花家里的钱，一边苦苦寻觅。

For the son's practice,Yellow dad disapprove,But always could not find the way to convince son,Can only let him side continue to spend money at home,Side looking for hard.

　　

观点先就业，才能为将来打基础 View employment first,For the future to ground

　　对于大学毕业生“啃老”的现象，记者采访了华侨大学社会学博士王嘉顺老师。

For university graduates"Nibble at old"phenomenon,The reporter interviewed the overseas Chinese university dr sociology WangJiaShun teacher.

　　王嘉顺认为，大量的大学毕业生加入“啃老族”，跟整体就业形势有关，跟大学教育有关，也跟父母的态度有关，但最主要的恐怕还是因为一些年轻人贪图安逸、进取精神不足。

WangJiaShun think,A large number of university graduates to join"Neet group",With the overall employment situation about,With the university education about,With parents' attitude,But the main I'm afraid or because some young people seek ease and comfort/Enterprising spirit shortage.

　　“啃老族”被归为一个群体，是因为他们都符合这样的基本特征：或挑肥拣瘦，或嫌工作太累、收入太低，或心比天高、眼高手低，从找不到满意的工作，到后来主动放弃就业的机会，赋闲在家，衣食住行全靠父母。这群人完全没有想过要肩负起他们应该肩负的责任，所以才会被定义为“精神残疾”。

"Neet group"Referred to as a group,Because they conform to such basic characteristics:Or be choosers,Or don't think the job is too tired/Income is too low,Or very ambitious/above,From I fail to find a satisfying job,Afterwards the initiative to give up the opportunity of obtain employment,Sit at,Basic necessities all by parents.This group of people did not want to shoulder they should shoulder responsibility,So would be defined as"Mental disability".

　　如果大学生毕业后不但不工作，还长时间宅在家中，还会对其社交能力造成影响，久而久之，他们将更加难以融入社会。

If college students not only work after graduation,For a long time in the home is home,Will the social impact ability,As time passes,They will be more difficult to blend in society.

　　王嘉顺提醒，有一个奇怪的现象值得关注，那就是在十年前，大学生养猪、种田、掏粪会被视为一种畸形的现象，但十年后，社会却给予他们更多的赞许。而这主要还是因为大多数人都觉得，有平台才有进步机会，有历练才有提升空间，不工作这一切都无所附丽。

WangJiaShun remind,There is a strange phenomenon is a concern,That is in ten years ago,College students pigs/farming/Tao dung may be regarded as a kind of deformed phenomenon,But ten years later,The society is to give them more praise.And the main or because most of the people think,A platform to just have progress opportunity,Have experience to ascend the space,Don't work all this not have belongs to.

　　对于现在的大学毕业生来说，找一份工作并不难，关键在于能否将就业期望值调低，能否担负起一个成年人应负的责任，能否走出就业这一步。只有先就业了，才能慢慢融入社会，得到锻炼，积累经验，为将来找到更好的工作打下良好基础。(海峡导报 记者 梁静/文 张向阳/图)

For now, the university graduates,It is not difficult to find a job,The key lies in whether the employment expectations will be lower,Can take on an adult responsibilities,Whether out of employment this step.Only after the employment,Can slowly into the society,Get exercise,Accumulate experience,For the future to find a better job and lay the good foundation.(Channel reporter gaining LiangJing/text ZhangXiangYang/diagram)