家长高考五要五不要 Parents college entrance examination five five don't

一、五要 a/The fifth is to

　　1、要制造良好的家庭气氛：把4月份看做平常的日子，夫妻之间，与孩子之间的对话要和平常一样和谐。

1/To make a good family atmosphere:In April the as day,Between husband and wife,And the dialogue between children and usual harmonious.

　　2、要重视孩子的心理健康：多做积极的暗示，使孩子以一颗平常心去对待高考。

2/Attention should be paid to the mental health of the children:Do more positive hints,The child with a common heart to treat the university entrance exam.

　　3、要经常和老师交流：特别是一模、二模后，家长要和老师多交流，发现差距和不足后，家长要充分利用这两个月的时间，和老师共同把孩子的成绩提高上去。

3/To often and teacher exchanges:Especially a die/After two mode,Parents and teacher exchanges,After that disadvantages,Parents should make full use of these two months time,And the teacher work together to improve children's performance go up.

　　4、要注意孩子的饮食和睡眠：吃平常吃的，晚上复习不要熬夜，睡眠好，注意力才集中。

4/Attention should be paid to children's diet and sleep:Eat normally eat,Don't stay up late in the evening review,Sleep good,Attention to focus.

　　5、要整理搜集填报志愿的信息，然后和孩子沟通、交流。

5/To finish collect fill volunteer information,Then and children communication/communication.

二、五不要 two/5 don't

　　1、不要叨唠：整天把高考挂在嘴边，时时对孩子说，要抓紧时间复习，其实孩子的心理也非常紧张，越说孩子越紧张，越说孩子越烦躁。

1/Don't DaoLao:The college entrance examination in noises all day,Always say to the kid,To take the time to review,In fact the child's psychological also very nervous,More say children more nervous,The children said the be agitated.

　　2、不要许愿：一些家长总想用一些奖赏来调动孩子的积极性，比如，“考得好，我给你买个笔记本电脑”，“考上北大，我带你到国外去玩”，这些并不能起到什么实际的效果。

2/Don't make a vow:Some parents always want to use some reward to mobilize the enthusiasm of the children,For example,"Does well,I'll give you buy a notebook computer","Admitted to Peking University,I take you to go abroad to play",These does not actual effect.

　　3、不要威胁：一些家长为了给孩子制造压力，就威胁孩子，“考砸了，我们就不管你了”，诸如此类，会使孩子产生恐惧心理，不利于孩子复习。

3/Don't threaten:Some parents to give children manufacturing pressure,Children will threat,"Flunked the,We don't care you",such,Can make children produce fear,Against child review.

　　4、不要盲目给孩子买辅导材料：家长对学校复习的程序和内容并不了解，认为多复习辅导材料会有效果的，结果是冲淡了老师的复习计划，只能给孩子增加压力。不要盲目报辅导班，辅导班有时能起到一些作用，但盲目报辅导班的话，就会分散孩子的精力，没有把老师叮嘱的内容复习全面。

4/Don't to give the child blindly buy guidance materials:Parents to school review procedures and contents do not understand,Think more review guidance materials will have effect,The result is diluted the teacher's plan for the review,Can only give children increase pressure.Don't blind to the remedial class,Remedial class sometimes can play some role,But blind to the remedial class words,Will disperse the child's energy,Not the teacher told the content of the comprehensive review.

　　5、不要请假在家照顾孩子：这样的话会给孩子造成太大的心理压力。

5/Don't leave the house to take care of the children:Such words will give the child cause too big psychological pressure.

　　来源：中国教育在线

source:China education online