冰冰自制的信封。

Ice ice homemade envelope.

10岁女儿写道歉信 妈妈哭得稀里哗啦 10 years old daughter written apology letter mother cry sparse inside hua

母女两在网友见证下签订温情版“约法三章” Mother and daughter in net friend signed two witness warmth edition"Draw up three chapters"

　　近日，一篇《看了女儿的信眼泪都下来了》的图文帖子在镇江某知名论坛被发出后，立即被网友定义为温情限量版好帖，并得到了超高人次的点击量。在接受了数百网友的批评教育后，昨日，发帖人又在网上发布了“四个欣慰”，并再次走火。

recently,a[Look at her daughter's letter tears down]Pictures of the post of some famous in zhenjiang BBS is issued,Immediately be net friend defined as warmth of edition of set limit to certain stage,And the ultra-high visitors click on the quantity.In accepting the hundreds of net friend criticism after education,yesterday,Post on the Internet and released"Four gratified",And again refuge.

考差了女儿写封道歉信 Take an examination of sent daughter write letter of apology

　　“我打开一看，难过死了，我的宝贝啊！”6日晚上，网友“孙尚香”的这篇关于四年级女儿因测试成绩不佳而写给自己的讨打道歉信在镇江市某论坛发出后，立即爆红。截至金陵晚报记者发稿前，该帖子的点击量已经接近8万人次，数百名网友参与了话题讨论。这则仅仅40余字的温情版帖子引得无数网友叫好的同时，也使得网友们陷入了如何教育孩子，尤其是如何面对子女不理想分数的沉思。

"I open a look,Sad dead,My baby!!"6 night,Net friend"Still joss-stick"This article about four grade daughter because of poor test scores and wrote to his own please play an apology letter in zhenjiang a BBS issued,Immediately detonation red.By jinling evening before a reporter,This post click volume has nearly 80000 people,Hundreds of net friend to participate in the discussion topics.It is only 40 word warmth edition post yinde countless net friend's good at the same time,Also makes net friends into how to education child,Especially how to face child not ideal score meditation.

　　昨日上午，金陵晚报记者与发帖人范女士取得了联系。她告诉记者，6日晚上一回到家，10岁的女儿冰冰就小心翼翼地把已经写好的作业交给她，让她检查后签字。接着，冰冰递给她一个用A4纸自制的信封，上面写着“请妈妈看我的信”几个大字。感觉到女儿有想说却不好当面说的心里话要向自己倾诉，范女士便装作若无其事的样子独自走进电脑房拆开信看。

Yesterday morning,Jinling evening news reporters and post man van lady made contact.She told reporters,6 got home in the evening,10 year old daughter ice ice will be careful to have written assignments to her,Let her examination signature.then,Ice ice handed her a use A4 paper homemade envelope,The top write"Please mother read my letter"Several characters.Feel the daughter has to say but not a chance to talk to yourself,Van ladies casual make as if nothing has occurredly appearance alone into the computer room open the letter to see.

　　“亲爱的妈妈，您好！谢谢您看我的信！……对不起，妈妈！”

"Dear mother,How do you do!Thank you read my letter!……I'm sorry,mother!"

妈妈感慨多将信传上网 Mother feeling much will believe the Internet

　　一读完女儿的信，范女士的眼泪止不住地流了出来。“想到女儿递信时的紧张神态，我就觉得自己特别对不起她。”范女士告诉记者，平时她很少打骂孩子，今年7月份，看到女儿因马虎而丢了许多分数的考卷，她生气地打了女儿。

A read her daughter's letter,Van woman's tears can't help to flow out."Think of daughter mailing the tension expression,I will feel special sorry for her."Van lady told reporters,Usually she seldom beat and scold the child,In July this year,Seeing his daughter because of careless and lost a lot of points test paper,She angrily hit a daughter.

　　“这个月初女儿参加了数学小测试，当时她只考了八十几分，回到家里，我一道一道地和女儿分析她的错题，结果发现，几乎所有的错题都是因为粗心导致的，因此很生气的我又忍不住打了她的屁股。看了孩子这么懂事的信，我深感内疚。”范女士发帖说。

"This month daughter attended the mathematical small test,At that time she only took an examination of eighty somewhat,Back to home,I a a land and daughter analysis her the wrong topic,The results showed that,Almost all the wrong topic because of carelessness led to,Therefore very angry and I can't help but played her ass.To see the child so sensible letter,I feel guilty."Van lady post said.

　　让范女士没有想到的是，帖子发出后短短几个小时，就引来数万网友的点击关注。“真懂事的女儿！看过以后好感动！你女儿学到了“诚实”和“勇敢面对”，这两点比数学考100个100分还重要。”“成绩好不好不重要，做人好不好最重要，坦诚的孩子值得表扬。”

Let fan the women did not think of,Post issued in just a few hours,Would attract tens of thousands of users to click on the attention."Really sensible daughter!Since I saw it very touched!Your daughter learned"honest"and"face",These two points than math exam 100 points and important.""Results not very important,The most important person is good,Honest child deserves praise."

妈妈和女儿“约法三章” Mother and daughter"Draw up three chapters"

　　“欣慰的是，女儿很懂事；欣慰的是，大家给我敲响了警钟；欣慰的是，我还来得及改正自已的不足；欣慰的是，女儿能坚定地和妈妈一起努力。”这是范女士认真反思后给关心她的网友写的留言。没想到范女士认错版的“四个欣慰”发出后，再次走红，得到众多网友的肯定。

"Gratified is,Daughter is very sensible;Gratified is,You gave me was a wake-up call;Gratified is,I had time to correct his own deficiency;Gratified is,Daughter can firmly and mother together."This is normal after the earnest resonsideration lady to care about her net friend write message.Didn't expect van lady mistake version"Four gratified"issued,Once again rising,Get many users must.

　　范女士感慨地告诉记者，看了网友的评论，她感觉上了一课。“以前看到孩子做加减法的题目，常常犯一些低级错误，比如将115＋115看成115＋15，这让我无法理解，认为她实在是不用心，因此会不由得发脾气。但是通过这件事情后，我突然明白了，我总是站在自己的角度来思考孩子的问题，以一个成年人的心理来要求一个10岁小孩子的心理，这是我亟需改正的地方。”

Van lady regrets ground told reporters,Look at the net friend's comments,She felt a lesson."Before children do see the topic of addition and subtraction,Often make stupid mistakes,Such as 115 + 115 as a 115 + 15,This let me can't understand,Think she is really not attentively,So will can't help his temper.But through this things,I suddenly understand,I always stood in their Angle to think the child's problem,With an adult psychological to request a 10-year-old child psychology,This is my place which needs to be correct."

　　在网友的见证下，范女士与女儿签订了温情版“约法三章”。“首先我就本月初打女儿屁股的事向女儿认真地道了歉，并希望得到女儿的原谅。其次，我向女儿保证以后遇到事情会和她讲道理，不再动粗。同时，我也要求女儿和我一起努力，什么事情都能尽自己所能做到最好。女儿开心地接受了我的‘条约"。

In the net friend testimony next,Van lady and her daughter signed warmth edition"Draw up three chapters"."First of all, I was the beginning of this month daughter playing the hehind of daughter to seriously tunnel apologized,And hope to get her daughter's excuse.secondly,My daughter to ensure that in future it will and her about it,No longer rough.At the same time,I also request daughter and I together,What thing can do what I can do the best.Daughter happily accepted my‘treaty".

家长应时常换位思考 Parents should often transposition thinking

　　记者就此话题采访了江苏大学心理健康中心的李晓波教授。李教授认为，家长应该多与孩子进行沟通，站在孩子的角度换位思考问题。如今的孩子学习压力也很大，很多孩子成绩不理想并非由于其主观上的不努力所致，如果孩子一肚子的委屈遇到了家长的棍棒，只会使得孩子承受更大的压力，因此，当家长的应该多与孩子进行沟通，主动去舒缓孩子因为成绩不理想而造成的心理压力。(记者 李静 在镇江市现场发回报道)

The reporter interviewed the topic of jiangsu university mental health center LiXiaoBo professor.Professor li think,Parents should have more children and communicate,Standing in the child's Angle transposition thinking.Today's children learn pressure is very big also,Many children result is not ideal is not due to its subjective caused by don't work hard,If a child of a grievance met parents' club,Only makes children bear greater pressure,therefore,Take charge of long should communicate with their children,The initiative to relieve children because the result is not ideal and cause psychological pressure.(Reporter li in zhenjiang field back reports)