导语：就90后某少年拒订盒饭事件，愚以为：一个不敢说对不起，我拒绝的民族是可悲的；一个不习惯说NO，把说NO当做是一种耻辱的民族是没独立性的，一代敢于对权力说NO的少年们则恰恰意味着这个民族从几十年的沉睡中开始渐渐醒来。有点意思的，站起来的少年们，还要被一群卑躬屈膝的前几代思维被禁锢的老人们说是不知礼节，不会圆滑，不懂世故，断乳滞后，诚然不知某个国度在颠倒黑白中，还要迷茫多久？

Guide language:After 90 a young refused to order lunch box event,Fool think:A dare not say sorry,I refuse to nation is sad;A not used to say NO,The said NO as is a shame of the nation is not independent,Generation dared to say NO power of teenagers is just the means that this nation from decades of a deep sleep in begin to wake up.A little meaning,Stand up of teenagers,To be a group of several generations of grovel before thinking imprisoned the old people say don't know etiquette,Not smooth,unsophistication,Ablactation lag,True don't know a country in the upside down in black and white,Also lost long?

　　正所谓：人不轻狂枉少年。以前听时寒冰老师在某高校讲座时，有个片段一直萦绕在我的脑海中，时寒冰老师讲座结束后到了同学提问时间，这时一位同学站起来怯懦了半晌也没有说清楚自己的问题，时寒冰老师说了这样一句话：我想到了奥巴马，他那种活力，那种激情，那种流畅的口才，那种翩翩的风度，你看到这样一个人被选到总统位置上，你可以看到一个民族的，难以抑制的活力，这种力量，这种凝聚力！你反过来再看看？如果一个连话都说不好的人，一个垂死的人坐在领导的位置上，给你是一种什么感觉？现实中这样的领导只会维护自己的利益，无论你怎么提意见都不行。

so-called:People do not frivolous waste young.Before ice while listening to teachers lecture in a university,A passage has been lingering in my mind,Ice when the teacher after the lecture to the students question time,Then a classmate to stand up cowardice a long time also have no clear their own problems,Ice when the teacher said such a word:I thought about barack Obama,He that kind of vitality,That kind of passion,That kind of fluent eloquence,A kind of poise,You see such a man was elected to the President's position,You can see a nation,Can't restrain vigor,This power,This cohesion!You look again in turn?If a even words say bad people,A dying man sitting on leadership position,What you give is a kind of feeling?In reality such leadership will only safeguard their own interests,No matter how you opinion are not.

　　时寒冰老师的这句话，其实已经超出了对那位同学的评价，他更多的是对我们的政体以及我们的社会一种无奈，你无法看到这个国家在正确价值观下的活力，你无法感受到这个国家的族人所拥有所具备的那种特立独行的风度，你无法触摸这个国家的公民所应该含有的公民意识与涵养！为什么会这样呢？我今天早上又重新读了一遍王小波先生的《一只特立独行的猪》，我想中国人太善于生活作出设置，不仅安排自己，也擅长安排别人甚至是动物。在这种文化的操作下，你永远看不到这个国家的新鲜血液不同于他们的父辈，不同于他们的祖辈，如果父辈祖辈拥有正确的价值观还好，很有可能会让一代少年充满精神，如果父辈和祖辈压根就活在一个错误的价值观中，那么新一代少年无论做什么都会被指手画脚，究竟谁在阻碍这个社会进步？谁又在遏制中国真正的崛起？恰恰是前几代人，当然他们厚重，他们更加坚韧，但他们的思想却囿于在固定的角落里，要怪罪当时的政体。

Ice when the teacher of this sentence,In fact have exceeded the to the students evaluation,He is more to our government and our society a helpless,You can't see the country in the correct values of vitality,You can't feel the country people have have that kind of poise,You can't touch the country's citizens should contain citizen consciousness and self-restraint!Why is this so?This morning I read again over Mr. Wang[A maverick pig],I think Chinese are very good at life make Settings,Arrange themselves not only,Also good at arrange another even animals.In this culture under the operation,You never see the country's fresh blood is different from their parents,Different from their ancestors,If parents forefathers have the correct values well,Very likely will make a generation of young full of spirit,If parents and grandparents live in at a wrong in values,So a new generation of young no matter what will be hand painting feet,Who stand in the social progress?Who in the rise of real contain China?Just is a former generations,Of course they heavy,They are more tough,But yet their thoughts in a fixed by the corner,To blame the government.

　　以至于新一代少年，不愿意像老一代人一样唯唯诺诺，更愿意真真切切的表达自己的情绪，展示自己的行为艺术，但却要被说成是不懂得圆滑，我们可以试想一个圆滑世故这样的贬义词却要一直沿用在一代代后人身上，我们怎么可能看到这个民族可以真正的崛起，腾飞？每个人都为了讨好他人而卑躬屈膝，一旦自己得了势又岂会谦卑的对待其他人？如同寒窗苦读十载，散金千两为功名，最终不捞够本又岂能消停？这些不是中国人所想的，大家想的是如何在潜规则中规规矩矩，老老实实的做好奴才，这种观念是可悲的。

So that a new generation of young,Don't like the old generation as obsequious,Real are more willing to express my emotions,Show your behavior art,But it will be said to be don't know tact,We can imagine a sleek sophistication such a derogatory term will have been used in a generation of later generations body,How do we could see the rise of this nation can really,boom?Everyone in order to please other people and crouch,Once you have potential and would not humble treat others?As cold window study hard to ten years,Scattered gold thousand two fame,A final break even again how could persist?These are not what Chinese people,You want to is how to in the latent rules exactitude,Honest make minions,This idea is sad.

　　用礼数来数落这位90后的做法也是可笑的，何谓之礼？一个裸官遍地的国度又何谈礼？我们无视上层的腐烂，却一直要求下层要道德，如同不许老百姓们暧昧，却默许官员包养二奶是正常的，这样的观念岂非为高墙垒砖？说实在的，我作为一个90后第一份工作做了一个多月后，毅然与老板决裂，我做的工作就是写文字，而不是兼职打杂，打杂要给打杂的钱，否则少年不伺候！我们有时候要理解什么是工作，而不是吃苦耐劳就是优秀的传统，所谓的勤劳却是为了适应潜规则而卑躬屈膝的话，那这种勤劳不要也罢！当然我辞职后，父母会数落我，但我会毅然的告诉他们：我所做的就是我工资分内的工作，而不是一个人做三个人的活，却得一个人的工资！当然我写出这段，还会有人数落我，但希望数落的人始终呀明白：不要自己习惯了做顺民就要求新一代少年一起做顺民，这对于中华来说无异于又一种深深的伤害！

Use courtesy to grumble and after the 90 practice is ridiculous,What is the dedication of?A bare officer throughout the country and any talk about ritual?We ignore the decay,But have been demanding lower to moral,As the common people not ambiguous,But acquiescence officials mistresses is normal,This idea not for high wall base brick?honestly,I, as a 90 after the first job for more than a month,Resolutely break with the boss,I do work is writing,Rather than part-time char,Char to fetch and carry money,Otherwise, young did not take care of!We sometimes to understand what is the job,And not to bear hardships and stand hard work is excellent traditional,The so-called industry is in order to adapt to the latent rules and kowtow words,The industry do not want!Of course I quit,My parents will grumble,But I will tell them resolutely:What I do is I pay their fair share of the work,And is not a person to do three people's live,But a person's wages!Of course I write this section,Would anyone I grumble,But I hope people grumble always ah understand:Don't be accustomed to do Chen will innovation generation of young do together Chen,This is for the Chinese, and a kind of deep hurt!

　　如果不愿代买盒饭，被认为是怕吃苦或偷懒，并且认为是一种毛病，甚至搬出现在的90后少年们对父母太过轻浮等等，我只能说这是价值观取向的问题，并非什么毛病。有时候我们把吃苦、偷懒用在不愿本职工作以外的定义上，无非是偷梁换柱，这些人所认为的好品质更多的是在绑架一个人的思维，你不可以站起来，你只能跪着做领导让你做的事，不许拒绝，不许说不，透过这种现象我们所看到的本质就是如此。在对父母、前辈轻浮这个观念上，我只能说家庭与学校千万不可做少年们的第一个、第二个专制场所，你们不懂得教育不是你们的错，但你们千方百计的顺从洗脑教育那就是洗不干净的罪孽！

If you don't let on behalf buy lunch box,Considered fear hardship or lazy,And that is a problem,Even move out of 90 now after the young parents too frivolous, etc,I can only say that this is the value orientation of the problem,Is not anything wrong with.Sometimes we have to bear hardships/Lazy in not let his own work outside of the definition,It is perpetrate a fraud,These people think that good quality more is in the kidnapping of a person's thinking,You can't stand up,You can only kneel do leadership let you do,No refused to,Forbid to say no,Through this kind of phenomenon the essence of what we see is so.Parents in the/Senior frivolous the ideas,I can only say that family and school never do teenagers first/The second authoritarian places,You don't know education is not your fault,But you leave no stone unturned the obedience of brainwashing education that is washed sordid iniquity!

　　所以我们看前几代人指责完了八零后，又开始指责九零后，他们看似狂野的指责，无非是在表露内心的恐惧，他们不明白为什么这些少年们不像他们一样怯懦？不像他们一样唯唯诺诺？不像他们一样对权力毕恭毕敬。他们会搬出歌德对权贵卑躬屈膝的故事教育少年们，然后一直避谈贝多芬对权力者的傲慢，其实质无非是告诉你：一定要听话昂，听话给你糖吃，不听话等着挨教训吧！可悲的是洗脑教育碰上了网络时代，谈笑间，樯橹灰飞烟灭。所以一些人无时无刻不在叫嚣着网络实名制，无论是菜刀实名制还是洗澡实名制，这种种实名制的背后都表达着无限的恐惧，他们到底在怕什么？我想新一代少年80，90,00，一代代的新少年会给出答案！

So we see previous generations after finished accused sits,Began to blame after late,They seem wild accused,It is in disclosure fears,They don't understand why these teenagers don't like them cowardice?Don't like them obsequious?Don't like them to power courtesy.They will move out of Goethe to crony grovel story education teenagers,Then always avoid talking about Beethoven to subordinate to arrogance,The essence of it is to tell you:Must obey the,Obedient to you eat sugar,Not obedient waiting to get lessons it!Sadly brainwashing education meet the network age,Banter between,Qiang oar ashes to ashes.So some people all the time to be absent vociferously network system,Whether the system kitchen knife or take a shower system,This kind of system behind the expression of infinite fear,What in the hell are they afraid of what?I want to a new generation of young 80,90,00,A generation of new young will give the answer!

　　所以我每次谈90后是权贵们闻风丧胆的一代，是中国民主希望的一代时，总有一些人会来扯皮说：乳臭未干，黄毛小子，甚至说我是80后。当我看到他们惊悚而怪异的表情时，我总忍俊不禁，一个90后里最不中用的人都让你们感到恐惧与惊悚，倘若我90后全部觉醒过来，甚至接替了这个国家的权力，尔等又将何去何从？当然你们可以选择将权力带到坟墓里，如果你们有这个能力的话！

So every time I talk about after 90 is the biggie struck fear generation,Is China's democratic hope when a generation,There are always some people will come to schmooze said:Wet behind the ears,Yellow MaoXiaoZi,Even said I am after 80.When I saw them horror and weird when expression,I always cannot help laughing,A after 90 the most safe people make you feel fear and horror,If I awakened all after 90,Even took over from the country's power,And to be true?Of course you can choose will power to the grave,If you have the ability to words!

　　结语：在此希望新一代少年们，要始终明白我们之所以活着是为了改变这个国家的责任，我们没有必要活给别人看，但我们有必要远离权力，保持围观，看清楚它的狂野，看清楚它的可怕，然后用自己的特立独行，天马行空将疯狗一般的权力关进牢笼，这是我们这代人的考验，也是我们这代人的荣耀！

epilogue:In the hope that the new generation of teenagers,Always understand we are alive is to change the country's responsibility,We don't have to live give others to look,But it is necessary for us away from power,Keep onlookers,See clear its wild,See clear its terrible,Then use their independence,A powerful and unconstrained style will be mad dog general QuanLiGuan into the cage,This is our this generation of person's test,And the glory of our generation!

　　或许我们做不到彻底的改变，但我们至少不会让自己的子女再活在错误的价值观下，我们要勇于告诉我们的子女们：在中国，你不关注政治，政治必定关注死你！无论你是谁！同时还要告诉我们的子女：人类最伟大的进步，是将权力关进牢笼，这是任何璀璨的发明与高贵的奢侈品读无法比拟的！90后，中国希望的开始，我始终坚信这个观念，希望更多的同辈们可以用自己正确的叛逆，让他们看到我们的桀骜不驯！一人若怕潜规则没关系，如果人人怕潜规则无异于人人都在保护潜规则，我们这代人如果鄙视潜规则就应该像这位90后一样打破这这样的怪圈，万不可卑躬屈服！

Maybe we can not do completely change,But at least we won't let their children live again in the wrong values next,We must have the courage to tell our children:In China,You don't pay attention to politics,Political will pay attention to you to death!No matter who you are!At the same time will tell our children:The most great progress,Is QuanLiGuan into the cage,This is any bright invention and noble luxury reads incomparable!After 90,China hopes to start,I always believe that this concept,Hope that more over the students can use their right rebel,Let them see our unruly!A man afraid of latent rules it doesn't matter,If everyone is afraid of latent rules is everyone in protecting latent rules,Our generation if despise latent rules should be like the 90 after break this such a circle,All KeBei not bow yield!

　　文/墨黑纸白

Text/jet paper white

　　2012年11月4日落笔于墨辩阁

On November 4, 2012 put pen to paper on ink rebutted pavilion