喜欢别人要表白么？怎么表白？被拒绝了怎么办？ Like other people to express it?How to express?Was refused to do?

　　

“爱的权利”大讨论，昨天在一群大孩子当中举行 "The right to love"Big discussion,Yesterday in a group of older children held among

　　

十八岁时候的爱情，原来是这样的 18 years old time love,It is such

　　

光棍们加油哟，再不努力追女生，男孩们就长大了 The single oil well,Don't work hard chasing girls,The boys will grow up

　　青春是一只透明的玻璃杯，里面装着最纯真的季节和风景，盛满了最率真的性情和最温馨的心动。

Youth is a transparent glass,Containing the most pure season and scenery,Filled with the most sincere disposition and the most warm heart.

　　昨天光棍节，不少大龄青年男女们忙于“脱光”，杭州开元商贸职业学校里，在主题为“爱的权利”的开放日上，十七八岁的少男少女们大大方方地说起对“爱情”的理解：喜欢别人要表白么，怎么表白，被拒绝了怎么办？

Single day yesterday,Many older young men and women are busy"off",Hangzhou kaiyuan trade vocational school,In the theme of"The right to love"On the opening day of the,Seventeen-and eighteen-year-old boys and girls who be big enough to speak of"love"understanding:Like other people to express it,How to express,Was refused to do?

　　少男少女们给出的答案，说不定能给在爱情路上奔波的剩男剩女们一点启示。

Boys and girls who gives the answer,Maybe can give in love the way with male with female are a little enlightenment.

　　

学生们的恋爱理论比宅男牛 The students love than igawa theory of cattle

　　给孩子们讲“爱情”的，是富阳富春三中的缪群老师，他从一个虚拟的爱情故事，引出了主题：纠结的男孩张天，喜欢上了漂亮可爱的女孩晓菲，该表白吗？

Tells the children"love"of,Is the room of fuyang three teacher et al,He from a virtual love story,Elicit the theme:Ravel boy a day,Like the beautiful and lovely girl xiao fei,This profession??

　　孩子们的答案五花八门，一个皮肤黑黑的男孩子说，"我建议先不要表白，先提高自身的魅力，比如说学吉他、钢琴或者提高自己的成绩，像童话里的王子一样，然后多帮助晓菲同学，让她慢慢在意自己，才选个时机表白。”旁听的大人嘿嘿一笑：“很有手段和预谋！”还有男生说，“我觉得他会表白，把感情压抑在心里会很抑郁，所以他需要表白，宣泄情感。”

The children's answers ranged,A skin black boy said,"I suggest that you don't express,To improve their own charm,Such as learning to play the guitar/Piano or improve their results,Like the fairy tales of the prince,Then help xiao fei students,Let her slowly care about themselves,To choose a time profession."Sit on the adults hey hey a smile:"Is a means and premeditated!"And the boy said,"I think he'll profession,The feelings of depression in the heart will be very depressed,So he needs to express,emotions."

　　如果张天决定表白，用什么方式？

If a day decided to express,Use what means to?

　　还是那个皮肤黑黑的男孩子说：“我觉得可以有三种方式：写信虽然老土，但很多女孩喜欢。第二是约她看爱情电影，等到高潮部分表白。第三是QQ留言：比如我以前不相信一见钟情，可是见到你之后，我相信了。”话音刚落，台下掌声四起。

Is the skin black boy said:"I think can have three ways:Write though vulgar,But a lot of girls like.The second is about her see love movie,Until the climax profession.The third is the qqmessage:For example, I didn't believe in love at first sight,But after met you,I believe that the."Voice just fell,The applause of four.

　　他们懂的表白方式还有：通过朋友传达爱意；以玩笑表白，被拒绝还下得来台。

They understand and express way:Through a friend convey the love;To do a joke,Be still refused to climb down.

　　还没追到姑娘的光棍们，快点加油吧，新一代的男孩子们已经长大了。

Haven't catch up with the girl's the bachelor,Come on come on,A new generation of the boys has grown up.

　　

尊重爱情：说出爱就要负责 Respect love:Say love is responsible for

　　缪老师再接再厉：如果张天很冲动，选择在学校贴吧发帖子，写上“晓菲我爱你，从今天开始我就只爱你一个。”

Samuel the teacher make persistent efforts:If a day very impulse,Selection in school stick post,write"Xiao fei I love you,Beginning from today, I will just love you."

　　这个方式遭到了同学们一致否定，尤其是女生。扎马尾的女生说：“这方式太潦草，从今天开始我只爱你这种话，不能轻易说出口，这是一辈子的承诺。”

This way by the students consistent negative,Especially the girl.Firm horsetail girl said:"This way too illegible,From today on I only love you this kind of words,Can't easily say,This is a lifelong commitment."

　　有位眼镜男生，还剖析了爱和喜欢的层次：“爱和喜欢不样，爱建立在喜欢的基础上，当说出爱的时候，就要对对方负责。”听了这话，谁能把他们当成孩子看？

A glasses boy,Also analyzes the hierarchy of love and like:"Love and like don't sample,Love built on the basis of love,When say love,Will be responsible for the other."Listen to this,Who can put them as their children watch?

　　故事还在继续，不想接受张天告白，女孩该怎么拒绝？女同学们都表示：要果断，不能拖泥带水。而男同学说，拒绝要委婉，得顾着男人的面子。

The story continues,Don't want to accept a confession of the day,The girl how to refused?Female students said:To be decisive,Cannot messy.And male classmate say,Refused to be tactful,To have a man's face.

　　缪老师总结“拒绝秘笈”：明确表达拒绝态度，尊重表白人情感，用不伤害表白人的方式委婉拒绝，时间和地点要合适。

Samuel teacher summed up"Refused to secret":Clear expression refused to attitude,Respect people emotional expression,Don't hurt expression way tactful brush-off,Time and place to be on the right.

　　“不管表不表白，爱都是种美好的情感，爱人与被爱是每个人的权利，应该值得尊重。”缪老师说，青春懵懂的年纪，会对异性产生爱慕，老师更应该引导高中生树立正确的爱情观、道德观，正确认识“爱情”与“好感”、与“友谊”的区别，这是他们的财富，未来也会是他们另一半的福利。

"No matter do not list,Love is kind of happy feeling,To love and to be loved is every human rights,Should be worthy of respect."Samuel the teacher said,Youth ignorant age,Will to the opposite sex makes love,The teacher should guide the more high school students to set up the correct view of love/morality,Correct understanding"love"and"good"/and"friendship"difference,This is their wealth,The future will be the welfare of their other half.

　　

如果被拒，试试这些疗伤建议 If rejected,Try these Suggestions healing

　　光棍节，不少人趁机表白了吧，如果你也和故事中的张天一样被拒绝，怎么调整心态？同学们给出的疗伤建议同样很丰富，我们一一列了下来：

Single day,Many people took the opportunity to express it,If you are and of the story as a day was refused,How to adjust state of mind?Students are also very rich healing Suggestions,We list down one by one:

　　1、在友情面前，什么感情都是浮云，多交几个好兄弟吧！

1/In front of friendship,What feelings are floating clouds,Make a few good brothers!!

　　2、一个人唱歌，把悲伤大声喊出来。

2/A man singing,The sad cried out.

　　3、找好朋友谈谈心，让自己变得忙碌起来，时间是最好的良药。

3/Talk to friends,To be busy,Time is the best medicine.

　　4、拒绝不是全盘否定，通过你的努力，成为一个阳光开朗的魅力男生，加油！

4/Refuse to not negate,Through your efforts,Become a sunshine bright glamour boys,refueling!

　　5、嘿，找哥们去打场电动吧。打地鼠很不错哦！

5/hey,Find a the elder brothers to electric it.Gophers very good oh!

　　6、貌似杭州没有海，到钱塘江边大喊大叫一样有效。(记者 王丽 通讯员 黄海)

6/Seemingly hangzhou no sea,To yell at qiantang river as effective.(Reporter wang li correspondent yellow sea)