昨天下午，凤凰国际书城报告厅举办了一场新书发布会。主角是11岁的小学生杨澄子和她父母。杨澄子的父母写了《孩子的幸福从哪儿来》，这一家三口也被称为“幸福三宝”。

Yesterday afternoon,The order of the phoenix international bookstore lecture hall held a new book conference.The protagonist is 11 years of primary school children YangChengZi and her parents.YangChengZi parents wrote[The child's happiness where you come from],This is also called a family of three"Happiness treble".

　　在网上被称为“幸福小达人”的杨澄子是汉口路小学的大队长、江苏首批“四好少年”，多才多艺的她还在学校办起十几个培训班。“你们是怎么把孩子培养得这么好的？”台下的家长围绕着杨澄子的父母请教。“不做虎妈狼爸，让幸福陪伴孩子成长。”杨澄子的父亲杨毅说。

In the online is called"Happy little da"Is the YangChengZi hankou road primary school district chief/The first batch of jiangsu"Four good young",Versatile she is still in school gardens ten several training class."You are how to training children to be so good?"The crowd of parents around YangChengZi parents consulted."Don't do tiger mother Wolf dad,Let happiness accompany children to grow up."YangChengZi father Yang yi said.

　　优秀生没上奥数班 Excellent student didn't on Olympic math class

　　杨澄子是汉口路小学六（1）班的学生，她的成绩很好，特别是语文，常考年级第一。六年级面临小升初，杨澄子却没学奥数，对小升初表示顺其自然。

YangChengZi is hankou road elementary school six(1)The students of class,Her performance is very good,Especially Chinese,Often take an examination of the first grade.Another six grade face,YangChengZi but not learn mathematical olympiad,Another said to let nature take its course.

　　杨澄子的母亲娄晶磊和父亲杨毅合作的新书中就写道，澄子3岁时，上小学三年级的堂姐就上了奥数班，当时看到孩子的辛苦，我们就想，以后不能让孩子上奥数班。

YangChengZi mother and father LouJingLei, Yang yi, cooperation in the new book is wrote,Still child at the age of 3,On the third grade cousin, he went up to the Olympic math class,At that time see their children's hard work,We want to,Don't let the child to the Olympic math class.

　　“我也从来不辅导她任何功课。她有自己的主张，小考不复习，用平时的积累去考，大考则系统复习。”澄子的父母都是大学老师，辅导上小学的女儿不成问题，但他们却从不帮孩子代办学习上的事。

"I never counselling she any homework.She has her own claims,Quiz not review,With the accumulation of at ordinary times to take an examination of,The final exam review system."Still the son's mother and father are both college teachers,Counseling elementary school's daughter is a problem,But they never help children for learning things.

在学校办十几个培训班 In the school to do ten several training class

　　澄子的爸爸大学学的是中国画，女儿一进小学，爸爸也当起了家长义工，每周都到学校开设儿童水墨画兴趣班。热心为学校服务的爸爸是女儿的骄傲，小小的澄子也想有一天成为小老师。

Still the son father university is a traditional Chinese painting,Daughter entered the primary school,Father also worked as a volunteer parents,Open every week to school children wash painting interest.Enthusiasm for the school service's father is proud of his daughter,Small still the son also want to one day become a little teacher.

　　三年级时，杨澄子实现了这个愿望，而且利用自己的特长一下子开了十几个培训班。包括小熊班、灰熊班、公主班、快乐班、提高班、月亮班、美术班……这些班教的都是唱歌、跳舞、表演、说相声。这些培训班的培训对象就是同班同学，上课时间很特别，有的就放在课间，上完了，小老师还布置作业，完成得好，她就拿自己编的工艺品做奖品。培训班很火爆，同学们用学来的才艺参加表演，获得不少好评。

Three grade,YangChengZi realized this desire,And use their own special suddenly opened a dozen training class.Including teddy class/Grizzlies class/Princess class/Happy class/Senior class/The moon class/fine……The class teaching is singing/dancing/performance/Said crosstalk, or xiangsheng,.These training class training object is classmates,Class time is very special,Some will break in,finished,The little teacher also homework,Done well,She took his knitting handicraft do prizes.Training class is very hot,Students learn to use the talent to participate in performances,Get a lot of praise.

　父母：不做虎妈狼爸 parents:Don't do tiger mother Wolf dad

　　不少家长都很羡慕澄子成绩好，又有才艺。不过家长们也纠结，到底是为了孩子的将来去做虎妈狼爸，还是有更好的教育方式？

Many parents are very envy still do well in the son,And talent.But parents also ravel,It is for the child in the future to do tiger mother Wolf dad,Or have a better education mode?

　　“不做虎妈狼爸。”杨爸爸说，虎妈狼爸鹰爸，打着爱的旗号牺牲了孩子的幸福童年。杨妈妈介绍，早有科学研究表明，早期开发学习的文化知识，在三四年级就没有优势了，那时其他孩子都能追上来。先学的孩子不但感到失落，而且快乐的童年也追不回来了。

"Don't do tiger mother Wolf dad."Yang dad said,Tiger mother Wolf dad eagle dad,Under the banner of love to sacrifice the child's happy childhood.Yang mother introduced,A scientific research shows that early,Early development learning culture knowledge,In three or four grade is no advantage,Then the other children can catch up.Learn the children not only to feel lost,And happy childhood also chasing don't come back.

　　“让小树苗慢慢长。”杨妈妈说，很多家长担心，现在为孩子计划得少了，孩子将来会在竞争中吃亏。但她在杨澄子成长过程中的感悟是，在小学培养健全人格和端正品行，并且拥有好的习惯，这样的孩子将来不会让家长担心。

"Let small sapling slowly long."Yang mother said,Many parents worry about,Now for the children plan a little less,Children in the competition in the future will suffer.But she YangChengZi growth in the process of feeling is,In elementary school training healthy personality, and regulate his conduct,And has good habits,Such children will not let parents worry.

　　现代快报记者 黄艳

Modern express HuangYan reporters