今年的“11·11”光棍节在创造电商疯狂销售191亿纪录之余，还意外创造了网络新词“十动然拒”。

This year's"11 11,"Single day in creating electric quotient crazy sales record more than 19.1 billion of,Also accident created network new words"Ten dynamic but refused to".

　　“十动然拒”的由来是因为一段爱情故事，故事的主人公是华中科技大学文华学院工程管理专业大四男生王文瑾，号称“史上最悲催屌丝男”，他向心仪的女生送出了一封他用212天时间写的16万字情书。这封情书的内容包括散文、诗歌等多种文体，内容主要是回忆两人在一起做的事或借景抒怀，还将其装订成册并取名《我不愿让你一个人》。女孩十分感动，但最终还是拒绝了他。

"Ten dynamic but refused to"Because the origin of a love story,The protagonist is central China university of science and technology institute of mandarin engineering management major WangWenJin senior boys,claims"History is the most sad reminder prick silk male",He asked the right girl sent out a letter he 212 days time to write 160000 words of love letters.This love letter content including prose/Poetry and so on the many kinds of style,The content is mainly recall two people together to do or lines around,Will also be bound into a book form and its name[I don't want to make you a people].The girl is very touched,But eventually rejected him.

　　该消息在微博中流传时，却“节外生枝”偏离了主题。由于发布微博消息的网友多使用“十分感动，然后拒绝”作为微博的结尾，结果浓缩诞生出一个网络新词：“十动然拒”，指“十分感动，然后拒绝了他”，用来形容被拒绝后的自嘲心情。这个既有喜剧色彩又充满悲催意味的网络新词，掀起了无数网友的效仿。

The news in micro bo when spreads,but"Branch off"Deviate from the theme.Due to release micro bo news net friend much use"Very touched,Then refused to"As the end of the micro bo,Results enrichment was born out of a network new words:"Ten dynamic but refused to",Refers to"Very touched,Then refused to him",Used to describe the mood after be refused to laugh at themselves.This both comedy color and full of sad reminder that network new words,Raised numerous users to emulate.

　　“今天，我写了16万字的申请书，请求老板给我涨工资，老板收到后，十动然拒。”“今天，我写了16万字的投资建议书，请求客户买我的产品，客户收到后，十动然拒。”……

"today,I wrote a 160000 - word application,Ask your boss to give me a raise,The boss after the receipt of,Ten dynamic but refused to.""today,I wrote a 160000 - word investment proposal,Request customers buy my product,After receipt of customer,Ten dynamic but refused to."……

　　在微博14日总结的“最热话题”中，“十动然拒”以19万余帖高居榜首。“十动然拒”的多个拼音域名也在11月12日被抢注。短短时间内，这个可以算做生造词的“十动然拒”为什么人气这么旺？除了网络新词的流行因素外，这个爱情故事本身蕴含的人生启示更值得玩味和思考。

In micro bo 14 summarized"Hottest topic"in,"Ten dynamic but refused to"With more than 190000 post rank high on the list."Ten dynamic but refused to"Multiple pinyin domain name also on November 12, was registered.A short period of time,This can be a coin words"Ten dynamic but refused to"Why person so popular?In addition to network new popular outside factors,This love story itself contains life revelation more worth pondering and thinking.

　　“十动然拒”恐怕是绝大多数人都遇到过的，我们每个人在生活中都会有各种各样的追求，为自己心仪的目标也曾付出不为人所知的努力，然而最终都如愿了吗？未必，相反，很多时候的很多事都不随人愿。“胜败乃兵家常事”，得意或是失意，也只是我们平常生活中的一颗露珠。当时光逝去，会让人铭刻在心，真正有价值的，还是过程本身，并非结果。

"Ten dynamic but refused to"I'm afraid that the vast majority of people are met,We in the life of every person will have all kinds of pursuit,For themselves the right goals also had to pay not known efforts,However were eventually fulfill a wish?May not,instead,Most of the time a lot of things don't work with."Sometimes you win and sometimes you",Proud or frustrated,Also we just ordinary life a dewdrop.At that time the light fades,Can let a person write it on your heart,Of real value,Or process itself,Not results.

　　据媒体报道，因这一网络事件意外走红的主人公王文瑾表示，那名女生对他的态度，也并未因他走红而发生变化。“我对她执着，她也对自己喜欢的人执着，这挺正常的。不管结局如何，我们应该尊重对方的选择。”不得不赞叹，这是多么好的人生态度。

According to media reports,Because the network event accident popular hero WangWenJin said,The girls to his attitude,Also did not because he is popular and change."I told her persistent,She also to oneself of the person you like persistent,This is the normal.How no matter the ending,We should respect the other's choices."Have to praise,This is how the good attitude towards life.

　　212天、16万字，有散文、有诗歌，这是一部青春的留声机，会留下温暖的记忆，其实王文瑾已经有了他的收获。

212 days,/160000 words,A prose/Have the poetry,This is a youth of the phonograph,Will leave a warm memory,In fact WangWenJin have his harvest.

　　或许用不了多久，“十动然拒”红极一时后就被渐渐淡忘。然而，经历一番辛苦、一段时光后，请记得保留一份平常心，得意淡然、失意泰然。(记者 谢樱)

Maybe it will not be long before,"Ten dynamic but refused to"After a red pole was gradually forgotten.however,Experience a hard/After a period of time,Please remember to keep a common heart,Proud indifferently/Frustrated take.(Reporter XieYing)