新华网太原11月14日电（记者吕梦琦）6岁女童小如是一名留守儿童，今年8月才与在温州乐清打工的父母相聚。不幸的是，几天前小如因为犯了一点小错被父亲张某体罚并原地跑步6小时致死。这使中国传统“棍棒式成才”的教育观念引发了巨大争议。张某被媒体和公众称为“狼爸”，日前以虐待罪被乐清警方刑拘。

Xinhuanet taiyuan November 14 dec(Reporter LvMengQi)6 years old girl's small if a left-behind children,August before and in wenzhou yueqing working parents together.unfortunately,A few days ago small as because made a little mistake was father zhang corporal punishment and place run six hours to death.This makes the traditional Chinese"Sticks a type"The education concept caused great controversy.Zhang mou by the media and the public called"The Wolf dad",A sin to abuse by police XingJu yueqing.

　　小如的死亡是个意外，并非张某本意。这位父亲因为女儿的死受到巨大刺激，短时间内精神无法恢复。在他看来，体罚是对女儿的爱，是为了她未来能够成才。在中国，这是一种无论是在城市还是农村都比较普遍和被认可的教育方式，只是并不像张某这样极端。

Small as the death was an accident,Not zhang original idea.The father for the daughter's death by huge stimulus,A short time spirit can't recover.In his view,The corporal punishment is to her love,In order to her future can become.In China,This is a kind of whether in the cities or the countryside are universal and recognized education mode,Just don't like zhang such extreme.

　　就在小如的悲剧发生前几天，武汉一名4岁的男童因为超乎同龄人的表现走红网络。这名男童名叫王鼎森，在一场徒步比赛中一口气走完18公里，将不少大人甩在后面，引发一片震惊。王鼎森的父亲王劭彦被媒体称为“武汉鹰爸”，每天都强迫儿子跑3000米，并且经常洗冷水澡。王劭彦坦言，自己对孩子确实比较严苛一点，但这会有助于孩子未来成为一个成功的人。

In small as the tragedy of a few days ago,Wuhan a four-year-old boy because more than their peers performance popular network.The boy named WangDingSen,In a hiking game breath through 18 km,Many adults will be left behind,Trigger a piece of shock.WangDingSen father WangShaoYan called by the media"Wuhan eagle dad",Every day force son ran 3000 meters,And often cold shower.WangShaoYan said,His children to is really a little tough,But this will help child future become a man of success.

　　许多事实似乎也验证了王劭彦的这种做法。一些父母的棒喝和严管确实促使他们的子女取得成功，这其中最有名的要属“狼爸”萧百佑和“虎妈”蔡美儿。

Many facts also seems to be WangShaoYan verified the this kind of practice.Some parents and run off really make their children succeed,This one of the most famous belong to"The Wolf dad"Hsiao the save and"Tiger mother"CaiMeiEr.

　　在棍棒之下，萧百佑4个孩子中有3个考上了北京大学，创造了外人眼中“一门三北大”的奇迹。蔡美儿的两个女儿则保持着门门功课皆“A”的全优纪录，女儿索菲娅14岁就在卡内基音乐大厅演奏钢琴，女儿露露12岁成为耶鲁青年管弦乐团首席小提琴手。

In under the club,Shaw on the four children have three admitted to Beijing university,Created to outsiders"A three north"miracle.CaiMeiEr two daughters are maintained a jack of all lessons"A"Straight-a record of,Daughter Sophia 14 years old in Carnegie music hall to play the piano,Daughter lulu 12 years old become Yale youth orchestra chief violinist.

　　“棍棒式成才”获得接受和认可一方面是源于中国千百年来这种传统教育方式的影响，另一方面则来自于一些父母自身成长和成功的经历，“狼爸”萧百佑便是如此。

"Sticks a type"Get accepted and approved on the one hand is rooted in one thousand years of Chinese the traditional education influenced by the way,On the other hand comes from some parents their own growth and successful experience,"The Wolf dad"Hsiao the save is so.

　　萧百佑出生于广州的一个传统家庭，母亲没读过书，只认一条古训：不好好读书就打。所以从小学到中学，萧百佑都是在母亲的棍棒之下度过的，这让他成了一个不折不扣的好学生。高考时，他以广东省文科第8名的优异成绩考入了暨南大学，并最终成为一名成功的商人，在金融、地产领域成绩斐然。

Shaw was born in guangzhou on the a traditional family,Mother didn't read books,Only know a ancient precept:Not good reading play.So to acquire high school,Hsiao the save is in the mother's club spent under,This let he became a real good student.When the university entrance exam,His appointment in guangdong province, eight of the excellent result was admitted to the jinan university,And finally to become a successful businessman,In the financial/Real estate has made brilliant achievements.

　　可以肯定的是，在中国还存在更多的“狼爸”和“虎妈”。不久前，重庆市某家庭教育研究中心公布了《重庆市中小学生家庭教育发展报告》。报告显示，在如何看待家长打孩子现象这一问题上，42.1%的家长认为是轻微的处罚、吓唬一下有必要，21.7%的家长认为该打时就打、让孩子长记性，认为教育孩子不能采取打的方式的只有36.2%。这反映出中国“棍棒式成才”的传统教育方式仍然深入人心。

To be sure,In China there are more"The Wolf dad"and"Tiger mother".Not long ago,Chongqing a family education research center announced[Chongqing primary and middle school students family education development report].The report shows that,How to treat children in parents play phenomenon this problem,42.1% of their parents think that is a slap on the wrist/Scare is necessary,21.7% of their parents think that this play is play/Let the children long memory,Think education the child cannot take dozens of ways of only 36.2%.This reflects China"Sticks a type"Traditional education mode is still deeply rooted in the hearts.

　　在采访中，许多家长都表示会用打的方式教育孩子，而许多小学生也表示自己有因为不好好学习而挨打的经历。萧百佑就在自己家里常备着藤条和鸡毛掸子，用来教育孩子。他始终相信，在中国长大和发展的孩子必须用这种传统方式来教育。

In the interview,Many parents have said will use way of playing children education,And many students also says you have because don't study hard and take a beating experience.Hsiao the save in his own house standing the cane and feather duster,Used to education child.He always believe,Grow up in China and the development of the child must use the traditional way to education.

　　耶鲁大学法学院终身教授、“虎妈”蔡美儿则认为必须“采用咒骂、威胁、贿赂、利诱等种种高压手段，要求孩子沿着父母为其选择的道路努力”。为此，她给两个女儿制定了“十不准”戒律，女儿一首钢琴曲弹不好就会被强迫从晚饭后一直练到深夜，中间不许喝水或上厕所。她甚至并将自己的育儿经写成《虎妈战歌》一书出版，引发了世界范围内对东西方教育方式的大讨论。

Yale university law school professor for life/"Tiger mother"CaiMeiEr argues that must be"The curse/threat/bribery/The wait for a variety of high pressure method,Requiring children along the parents for the choice of road efforts".therefore,She gave two daughters made"Ten no"precepts,Daughter a piano playing bad will be forced from after dinner always practice late into the night,Intermediate forbid to drink water or go to the toilet.She even and will own the written child-rearing[Tiger mother warsong]Published a book,Triggered worldwide in the east and west education in way of discussion.

　　山西省社科院教育专家赵雨林认为，这种教育方式并不值得推广，也不能代表中国子女教育的主流，而且弊大于利，很容易导致孩子的逆反心理，也很容易因为偏离孩子的兴趣而毁了孩子未来的幸福。

Shanxi Province academy education experts zhao rainforest think,This kind of education mode is not worth extending,Also cannot, on behalf of the Chinese children education mainstream,And do more harm than good,Very easy to cause the child's psychological inversion,Because of the deviation is also very easy to the interests of the child and destroyed a child future happiness.

　　父亲用体罚教育后代遭质疑 4个孩子3个进北大

Father use corporal punishment education offspring has been questioned four children three into Peking University

　　中式“悍母”教育更好？美国上下反思育儿观

Chinese style"Welding mother"Education better?The United States and reflection parenting view

　　武汉"鹰爸"特训4岁儿子 每天跑步3千米洗冷水澡

wuhan"Eagle dad"Trained 4 year old son running every day 3 km cold shower

　　温州“狼爸”体罚女儿跑步 6龄童跑6小时后夭折

wenzhou"The Wolf dad"The corporal punishment daughter run six age child run 6 hours after aborted

　　作者：吕梦琦http://news.xinhuanet.com/2012-11/14/c_113684551.htm

The author:LvMengQi http://news.xinhuanet.com/2012-11/14/c_113684551.htm