20年来，她默默替亡友尽着女儿的责任，无微不至地照顾全家老小，用孝行演绎了一场跨越血缘的大爱故事。她叫方亚儿，浙江省宁波市鄞州区高桥镇高峰村妇女，被人们誉为“最美女儿”。

20 years,She silently for his deceased friend do a daughter's responsibility,Hand and foot to take care of the whole family,With filial conduct deduced a cross blood love story.Her name is FangYa son,Zhejiang ningbo yinzhou district GaoQiaoZhen peak village women,Was lauded"Most beautiful daughter".

　　【镜头一】 [Lens a]

　　狭小的屋子里，八仙桌上供着好友董雪云的遗像，失去女儿的章勉芬跪在地上，抱着桌角不肯放手，哭哑的嗓子一声声喊着“女儿”。20年前，迈进因罹患白血病去世的好友的家门，方亚儿被眼前的情景惊呆了。她抱着章勉芬哭着说：“妈妈别哭了，雪云走了，以后我就是您的女儿。”

Narrow the room,Square table an offering with friends DongXueYun's portrait,Lost her ZhangMian Finn kneeling on the ground,Holding the table Angle will not let it go,Cry dumb voice cried out eclogue"daughter".Twenty years ago,Towards deeloping leukemia for the death of his best friend's house,FangYa son be immediate scene shocked.She held ZhangMian Finn cried:"Mom, don't cry,Snow clouds go,Later I is your daughter."

　　“妈妈当时就像疯了一样，我能做的就是安慰她。”当时，年少的方亚儿（见图。资料照片）唯一的想法就是安慰老人。可让章勉芬没想到的是，“她真的会给我当20年女儿！”

"Mother was like crazy,I can do is to comfort her."At that time,Young FangYa son(See chart.Material photos)The only idea is to comfort the old man.Can let ZhangMian Finn thought is,"She really will give me when 20 years daughter!"

　　方亚儿和董雪云相识在1991年。那时她们同在高桥村一家针织厂打工，一块吃饭、上下班，情同姐妹。朴素的姐妹情谊，因为董雪云的过世，变成了孝道。善良的方亚儿走进董家，20年来，默默地替亡友尽着作女儿的责任。

FangYa son and DongXueYun acquaintance in 1991.Then they GaoQiaoCun work with a knitting,A piece of eat/commuters,Feeling with sisters.Simple and sisters friendship,Because of the DongXueYun died,Into a filial piety.Good FangYa son into the DongGu,20 years,For his deceased friend do a silently for her daughter's responsibility.

　　这份责任并不轻。董家有一儿一女，儿子从小患有小儿麻痹症和轻度智障，女儿是全家的希望，却不幸早逝。虽然儿子娶了媳妇，可儿媳妇右肢残疾。屋漏偏逢连夜雨，2011年2月，家里的顶梁柱、董雪云的父亲董圣华突然中风，左半部身体瘫痪，失去了劳动能力。

This responsibility does not light.DongGuYou a son and daughter,From son with polio and mild retarded,Daughter is the family of hope,But unfortunate premature death.Although the son to marry the daughter-in-law,Our daughter-in-law right leg disability.The house leaks it never rains but it pours,In February 2011,Mainstay of our home/DongXueYun father DongShengHua stroke,Left side body paralysis,Lose labor ability.

　　方亚儿用自己的爱心和细心，将一大家子照料得妥妥帖帖。章勉芬喜欢吃蛋羹，方亚儿就在自家院子里养了鸡、鸭，把最新鲜的蛋送给她吃；看到章勉芬思念女儿，方亚儿就留在董家陪她一起入睡；逢年过节，方亚儿给婆家、娘家人买礼物，也一定不会落下董家；章勉芬的大孙女每周上学放学，方亚儿和丈夫会准时出现在校门口接送，而自己的儿子却要独自骑车去上学。

FangYa son with his own love and care,Will a large family to take care of TuoTuoTieTie.ZhangMian Finn like to eat DanGeng,FangYa son in their own yard have chicken/duck,The most fresh egg gave her to eat;See ZhangMian Finn missing daughter,FangYa son will stay in DongGu accompany her to sleep together;holiday,FangYa son to the husband's family/Natal home the person buy a gift,Also won't fall DongGu;The big Finn ZhangMian granddaughter weekly school to go to school,FangYa son and her husband will appear on time transport at the school gate,And his son will alone go to school by bike.

　　方亚儿的义举得到了丈夫包成军的理解和支持：“谈恋爱的时候她就告诉我，逢年过节要多备一份礼，因为她还有一个娘家。”

FangYa son kind act to get her husband package them understanding and support:"Fall in love when she told me,Holiday to prepare a gift,Because she has a maiden."

　　20年来，方亚儿将董雪云的家人当成自己的家人，不计回报地细心照顾一大家子，帮着这个家一次次渡过难关。方亚儿的事迹感动了邻里，但她却很淡然：“我是她的女儿，她是我的妈妈，我只是做了一件再平常不过的事。”

20 years,FangYa son will DongXueYun family as of her family,Regardless of the return to carefully take care of a large family,Help the house again pull through.FangYa son deeds touched neighborhood,But she is very insignificant:"I was her daughter,She is my mother,I just made a more ordinary things."

　　【镜头二】 [Lens two]

　　2011年，这个家再度风雨飘摇章勉芬查出胰腺癌晚期，她和董圣华一个月的医疗费就要四五千元。“医生说妈妈的病不好治，可能活不到过年，我整个人都懵了。”方亚儿是第一个得知妈妈病情的人。在董家，大事小事章勉芬都喜欢跟女儿商量，身体不舒服，她也第一个告诉女儿。

In 2011,,This home again ZhangMian precarious Finn find out late pancreatic cancer,She and DongShengHua a month of medical expenses will be four or yuan."The doctor said my mother's illness cannot be cured easily,May not live New Year's day,I the whole individual all into a cocked hat."FangYa son was the first to know that mom's health condition of the people.In DongGu,Big things ZhangMian Finn all like to discuss with her daughter,Body uncomfortable,She is also the first told her daughter.

　　“方亚儿得知这个消息后，常常一个人坐在房间里对着电话簿发呆。”丈夫包成军说。那段时间，方亚儿几乎翻遍了家里的电话簿，联系亲戚朋友，打听治疗胰腺癌的专家和医院。她和丈夫曾经驱车4个多小时专程赴金华寻找一家肿瘤医院，只因为“那家医院开的药方是中草药，对身体的刺激小一些，可以让妈妈舒服一点”。一趟下来，他们就买了近万元的中草药。

"FangYa son learned this news,Often a person sitting in the room to the telephone directory in a daze."Husband package them said.time,FangYa son almost went through the home address book,Contact friends and relatives,Inquire about treatment of pancreatic cancer experts and hospital.She and her husband had drove four hours flew to jinhua looking for a tumor hospital,Just because"The hospital is open prescription of Chinese herbal medicine,On the body of stimulate smaller,Can let mother comfortable".A trip down,They bought nearly ten thousand yuan of Chinese herbal medicine.

　　两口子有个家庭作坊，从事塑料包装袋加工。为了照顾章勉芬，方亚儿白天几乎都待在医院，晚上等章勉芬入睡了才匆匆赶回家加班加点地工作。有时候为了赶出货，她和丈夫一直忙到早上四五点，天一亮，她又出现在病房里。

The couple have a family workshop,Is engaged in the plastic bag processing.In order to take care of ZhangMian Finn,During the day FangYa son almost all stay in the hospital,In the evening, etc ZhangMian Finn asleep just hurried home working overtime.Sometimes in order to catch shipment,She and her husband have been busy in the morning to SiWuDian,At dawn,She appeared in the hospital ward.

　　“每次带饭菜来医院，连剥螃蟹、挑蟹黄都是她女儿来做，喂饭、洗脚、接屎接尿，她什么都干。”章勉芬的病友陈柏泉甚至不知道这对母女的特殊之处。

"Every time I took the food to the hospital,Even stripped crab/Pick crab roe is her daughter to do,Hello rice/Wash feet/Joint excrement joint urine,What does she do."ZhangMian Finn patients ChenBaiQuan don't even know the mother and daughter of the special place.

　　在方亚儿夫妇的悉心照料下，章勉芬的病情奇迹般地好转，癌细胞扩散的迹象消失了！原本消瘦的章勉芬也渐渐胖了起来。“多亏了亚儿，不然这个家，都不知道会怎么样。”章勉芬说。

In FangYa son couples under the care,ZhangMian fenn was miraculously better,The spread of cancer cells signs disappeared!Originally thin ZhangMian Finn also gradually fat up."Thanks to the son,Otherwise the house,All don't know."ZhangMian Finn said.

　　董家老人年纪越来越大，照料的难度也越来越高。有熟人替方亚儿担心她肩上的担子会越来越重。“雪云走的时候，妈妈需要人陪，我来到了他们的身边。现在，爸妈都生病了，是最困难的时候，更加离不开我，我永远不会舍弃他们。”方亚儿平静地说。

DongGu old man is getting older and older,The difficulty of the care more and more is also high.Have the acquaintance for FangYa son worry about the burden on her shoulders will be more and more heavy."Snow cloud went,Mother need a person to accompany,I came to their side.now,Parents are sick,Is the most difficult time,More can't leave my,I will never abandon them."FangYa son said quietly.