想实话实说却不知如何把握度的问题，专家建议孩子“问到哪，答到哪” Want to call a spade a spade but don't know how to grasp the degree the problem,Experts suggest children"Asked which,Answer to which"

　　“我从哪里来？ ”很多孩子都曾问过父母这样的问题。近日，央视一则关于“我从哪里来”的街头调查引发热议，在记者采访的200多名孩子中，85%的人被父母告知是“捡来的”。记者就此问题询问了上海的多位“80后”父母，这些年轻爸爸妈妈表示，已经不会再用类似“捡来的”的话搪塞孩子，但是怎么说，说多少，其中的尺度问题，仍然使他们纠结。

"I come from?? "Many children have asked parents this problem.recently,CCTV about a"I come from?"Street survey trigger hot debate,Reporters in the more than 200 children,85% of the people are parents told is"To pick up".The reporter asked the more than Shanghai"After 80"parents,These young mom and dad said,Has won't use similar"To pick up"Words fence with children,But how to say,To say how much,One of the scale problem,Still make them ravel.

　　家有四岁女儿的陈女士就是听着“你是捡来的”的答案长大的，尽管30多年过去了，但当时失落的心情，陈女士记忆犹新。女儿在三岁时，重复了陈女士幼年的问题。“有一天女儿从幼儿园回来跟我说，小朋友都说宝宝是从妈妈肚子里出来的，是不是真的？”陈女士一下子愣住了，“捡来的”念头在脑海里闪过，“但我已经被骗过一次了，不能再骗孩子。我就告诉她，是的。”说完以后，她紧张地看着女儿，“如果孩子接着问，我是怎么进到你肚子的？我该怎么回答，该说到什么程度？”幸好，女儿得到答案后就满意地去玩了。

The home has four years old daughter's ms. Chen is to listen"You are to pick up"Answer grew up,Although more than 30 years past,But then lost the mood,Ms. Chen fresh.Daughter in three years old,Repeated ms. Chen the problem of youth."One day daughter from kindergarten to be back with me,The children said baby belly inside come out from my mother,really?"Ms. Chen dumb at,"To pick up"Thought in the eyes,"But I have been cheated once,Can't cheat children.I will tell her,yes."And after that,She nervously looking at her,"If a child immediately after ask,How do I into your stomach?How should I answer,The said and to what degree?"fortunately,Daughter get an answer after the satisfaction to play.

　　记者随机采访了10多位“80后”的年轻爸妈，发现对于“我从哪里来”这个问题，绝大多数都不会选择“捡来的”这个欺骗、敷衍式的答案，而更愿意说实话。但是，怎么讲，讲到哪里，却让他们纠结。“我可能会对孩子说，爸爸身上的一个细胞，遇到了妈妈身上的一个细胞，就有了你。”家长丁先生说，关于男女生殖器官、精子和卵子的话题，自己会回避掉，“最怕孩子刨根问底，到时候就招架不住了”。

Reporters interviewed more than 10 random"After 80"Young parents,Found for"I come from?"The problem,The vast majority are not choice"To pick up"The cheat/Elaborate type answer,And more willing to tell the truth.but,How to speak,where,But let them ravel."I may say to the kid,My dad's a cell,Met mom a cell,Have you."Mr. Ding said that parents,Men and women of reproductive organs/The topic of sperm and egg,You will avoid off,"The most afraid of confronting the child,I'll answer not to live".

　　圆满回答 “我从哪里来”这个问题，或许可以成为家庭性教育的一个良好开端。为此，记者采访了儿童性教育专家胡萍。她认为，对于孩子的这个问题，应该“问到哪，答到哪”。比如，孩子到3岁会开始问父母 “我从哪里来？”。一般只要被告知“你从妈妈的肚子里来”，孩子就心满意足，不会再多问，因为这个答案正好符合了这个年龄段孩子的认知能力。到了5岁左右，孩子可能会继续追问 “那我又是怎么进到妈妈肚子里的？”，那么你可以如实告诉孩子，爸爸有个生孩子的器官，里面有精子，妈妈有个生孩子的器官，里面有卵子，两个器官碰了一下，精子和卵子结合，妈妈的肚子里就有了宝宝。到此为止，5岁的孩子也就满足了，因为这个年龄段的孩子关注的是：我的生命从哪里来。 林颖颖（新闻晨报供稿）

Satisfactory answer "I come from?"The problem,Perhaps can become family sex education a good beginning.therefore,The reporter interviewed discovered education experts hu ping.She thinks,For the children of this problem,should"Asked which,Answer to which".For example,The child to 3 years old will begin to ask their parents "I come from??".General as long as was told"You from my mother's belly to",Children will be satisfied,Won't ask,Because the answer exactly corresponds with the age the child's cognitive ability.In 5 years old,Children may continue to cross-examine "That is how I into the mother belly?",You can tell the child,My father has a children organs,There are sperm,Mom has a children organs,There are eggs,The two organs have touched,Both sperm and egg,Mother's belly had the baby.So far,5 years old children will satisfy the,Because this age group is concerned about the children:My life come from. LinYingYing(Morning news contributors)

　　(来源:解放日报)

(Sources: liberation daily)

　　想实话实说却不知如何把握度的问题，专家建议孩子“问到哪，答到哪”

Want to call a spade a spade but don't know how to grasp the degree the problem,Experts suggest children"Asked which,Answer to which"

　　“我从哪里来？ ”很多孩子都曾问过父母这样的问题。近日，央视一则关于“我从哪里来”的街头调查引发热议，在记者采访的200多名孩子中，85%的人被父母告知是“捡来的”。记者就此问题询问了上海的多位“80后”父母，这些年轻爸爸妈妈表示，已经不会再用类似“捡来的”的话搪塞孩子，但是怎么说，说多少，其中的尺度问题，仍然使他们纠结。

"I come from?? "Many children have asked parents this problem.recently,CCTV about a"I come from?"Street survey trigger hot debate,Reporters in the more than 200 children,85% of the people are parents told is"To pick up".The reporter asked the more than Shanghai"After 80"parents,These young mom and dad said,Has won't use similar"To pick up"Words fence with children,But how to say,To say how much,One of the scale problem,Still make them ravel.

　　家有四岁女儿的陈女士就是听着“你是捡来的”的答案长大的，尽管30多年过去了，但当时失落的心情，陈女士记忆犹新。女儿在三岁时，重复了陈女士幼年的问题。“有一天女儿从幼儿园回来跟我说，小朋友都说宝宝是从妈妈肚子里出来的，是不是真的？”陈女士一下子愣住了，“捡来的”念头在脑海里闪过，“但我已经被骗过一次了，不能再骗孩子。我就告诉她，是的。”说完以后，她紧张地看着女儿，“如果孩子接着问，我是怎么进到你肚子的？我该怎么回答，该说到什么程度？”幸好，女儿得到答案后就满意地去玩了。

The home has four years old daughter's ms. Chen is to listen"You are to pick up"Answer grew up,Although more than 30 years past,But then lost the mood,Ms. Chen fresh.Daughter in three years old,Repeated ms. Chen the problem of youth."One day daughter from kindergarten to be back with me,The children said baby belly inside come out from my mother,really?"Ms. Chen dumb at,"To pick up"Thought in the eyes,"But I have been cheated once,Can't cheat children.I will tell her,yes."And after that,She nervously looking at her,"If a child immediately after ask,How do I into your stomach?How should I answer,The said and to what degree?"fortunately,Daughter get an answer after the satisfaction to play.

　　记者随机采访了10多位“80后”的年轻爸妈，发现对于“我从哪里来”这个问题，绝大多数都不会选择“捡来的”这个欺骗、敷衍式的答案，而更愿意说实话。但是，怎么讲，讲到哪里，却让他们纠结。“我可能会对孩子说，爸爸身上的一个细胞，遇到了妈妈身上的一个细胞，就有了你。”家长丁先生说，关于男女生殖器官、精子和卵子的话题，自己会回避掉，“最怕孩子刨根问底，到时候就招架不住了”。

Reporters interviewed more than 10 random"After 80"Young parents,Found for"I come from?"The problem,The vast majority are not choice"To pick up"The cheat/Elaborate type answer,And more willing to tell the truth.but,How to speak,where,But let them ravel."I may say to the kid,My dad's a cell,Met mom a cell,Have you."Mr. Ding said that parents,Men and women of reproductive organs/The topic of sperm and egg,You will avoid off,"The most afraid of confronting the child,I'll answer not to live".

　　圆满回答 “我从哪里来”这个问题，或许可以成为家庭性教育的一个良好开端。为此，记者采访了儿童性教育专家胡萍。她认为，对于孩子的这个问题，应该“问到哪，答到哪”。比如，孩子到3岁会开始问父母 “我从哪里来？”。一般只要被告知“你从妈妈的肚子里来”，孩子就心满意足，不会再多问，因为这个答案正好符合了这个年龄段孩子的认知能力。到了5岁左右，孩子可能会继续追问 “那我又是怎么进到妈妈肚子里的？”，那么你可以如实告诉孩子，爸爸有个生孩子的器官，里面有精子，妈妈有个生孩子的器官，里面有卵子，两个器官碰了一下，精子和卵子结合，妈妈的肚子里就有了宝宝。到此为止，5岁的孩子也就满足了，因为这个年龄段的孩子关注的是：我的生命从哪里来。 林颖颖（新闻晨报供稿）

Satisfactory answer "I come from?"The problem,Perhaps can become family sex education a good beginning.therefore,The reporter interviewed discovered education experts hu ping.She thinks,For the children of this problem,should"Asked which,Answer to which".For example,The child to 3 years old will begin to ask their parents "I come from??".General as long as was told"You from my mother's belly to",Children will be satisfied,Won't ask,Because the answer exactly corresponds with the age the child's cognitive ability.In 5 years old,Children may continue to cross-examine "That is how I into the mother belly?",You can tell the child,My father has a children organs,There are sperm,Mom has a children organs,There are eggs,The two organs have touched,Both sperm and egg,Mother's belly had the baby.So far,5 years old children will satisfy the,Because this age group is concerned about the children:My life come from. LinYingYing(Morning news contributors)

　　(来源:解放日报)

(Sources: liberation daily)

想实话实说却不知如何把握度的问题，专家建议孩子“问到哪，答到哪” 　　“我从哪里来？ ”很多孩子都曾问过父母这样的问题。近日，央视一则关于“我从哪里来”的街头调查引发热议，在记者采访的200多名孩子中，85%的人被父母告知是“捡来的”。记者就此问题询问了上海的多位“80后”父母，这些年轻爸爸妈妈表示，已经不会再用类似“捡来的”的话搪塞孩子，但是怎么说，说多少，其中的尺度问题，仍然使他们纠结。 　　家有四岁女儿的陈女士就是听着“你是捡来的”的答案长大的，尽管30多年过去了，但当时失落的心情，陈女士记忆犹新。女儿在三岁时，重复了陈女士幼年的问题。“有一天女儿从幼儿园回来跟我说，小朋友都说宝宝是从妈妈肚子里出来的，是不是真的？”陈女士一下子愣住了，“捡来的”念头在脑海里闪过，“但我已经被骗过一次了，不能再骗孩子。我就告诉她，是的。”说完以后，她紧张地看着女儿，“如果孩子接着问，我是怎么进到你肚子的？我该怎么回答，该说到什么程度？”幸好，女儿得到答案后就满意地去玩了。 　　记者随机采访了10多位“80后”的年轻爸妈，发现对于“我从哪里来”这个问题，绝大多数都不会选择“捡来的”这个欺骗、敷衍式的答案，而更愿意说实话。但是，怎么讲，讲到哪里，却让他们纠结。“我可能会对孩子说，爸爸身上的一个细胞，遇到了妈妈身上的一个细胞，就有了你。”家长丁先生说，关于男女生殖器官、精子和卵子的话题，自己会回避掉，“最怕孩子刨根问底，到时候就招架不住了”。 　　圆满回答 “我从哪里来”这个问题，或许可以成为家庭性教育的一个良好开端。为此，记者采访了儿童性教育专家胡萍。她认为，对于孩子的这个问题，应该“问到哪，答到哪”。比如，孩子到3岁会开始问父母 “我从哪里来？”。一般只要被告知“你从妈妈的肚子里来”，孩子就心满意足，不会再多问，因为这个答案正好符合了这个年龄段孩子的认知能力。到了5岁左右，孩子可能会继续追问 “那我又是怎么进到妈妈肚子里的？”，那么你可以如实告诉孩子，爸爸有个生孩子的器官，里面有精子，妈妈有个生孩子的器官，里面有卵子，两个器官碰了一下，精子和卵子结合，妈妈的肚子里就有了宝宝。到此为止，5岁的孩子也就满足了，因为这个年龄段的孩子关注的是：我的生命从哪里来。 林颖颖（新闻晨报供稿） (来源:解放日报) Want to call a spade a spade but don't know how to grasp the degree the problem,Experts suggest children"Asked which,Answer to which" "I come from?? "Many children have asked parents this problem.recently,CCTV about a"I come from?"Street survey trigger hot debate,Reporters in the more than 200 children,85% of the people are parents told is"To pick up".The reporter asked the more than Shanghai"After 80"parents,These young mom and dad said,Has won't use similar"To pick up"Words fence with children,But how to say,To say how much,One of the scale problem,Still make them ravel. The home has four years old daughter's ms. Chen is to listen"You are to pick up"Answer grew up,Although more than 30 years past,But then lost the mood,Ms. Chen fresh.Daughter in three years old,Repeated ms. Chen the problem of youth."One day daughter from kindergarten to be back with me,The children said baby belly inside come out from my mother,really?"Ms. Chen dumb at,"To pick up"Thought in the eyes,"But I have been cheated once,Can't cheat children.I will tell her,yes."And after that,She nervously looking at her,"If a child immediately after ask,How do I into your stomach?How should I answer,The said and to what degree?"fortunately,Daughter get an answer after the satisfaction to play. Reporters interviewed more than 10 random"After 80"Young parents,Found for"I come from?"The problem,The vast majority are not choice"To pick up"The cheat/Elaborate type answer,And more willing to tell the truth.but,How to speak,where,But let them ravel."I may say to the kid,My dad's a cell,Met mom a cell,Have you."Mr. Ding said that parents,Men and women of reproductive organs/The topic of sperm and egg,You will avoid off,"The most afraid of confronting the child,I'll answer not to live". Satisfactory answer "I come from?"The problem,Perhaps can become family sex education a good beginning.therefore,The reporter interviewed discovered education experts hu ping.She thinks,For the children of this problem,should"Asked which,Answer to which".For example,The child to 3 years old will begin to ask their parents "I come from??".General as long as was told"You from my mother's belly to",Children will be satisfied,Won't ask,Because the answer exactly corresponds with the age the child's cognitive ability.In 5 years old,Children may continue to cross-examine "That is how I into the mother belly?",You can tell the child,My father has a children organs,There are sperm,Mom has a children organs,There are eggs,The two organs have touched,Both sperm and egg,Mother's belly had the baby.So far,5 years old children will satisfy the,Because this age group is concerned about the children:My life come from. LinYingYing(Morning news contributors) (Sources: liberation daily)