“孩子的家庭作业，家长到底该不该全程参与辅导？”

"The child's homework,The parents should participate in counseling?"

　　26日上午，正在办公室忙着整理数据报表的张先生，突然接到儿子数学老师打来的电话，称儿子在课堂上无法回答所提问题，被质问“为什么孩子不会？家长双休日里怎么没有辅导？”

26 morning,Is the office busy sorting data report Mr. Zhang,Suddenly the son received a telephone call from a math teacher,Son said in class can't answer their questions,Were being questioned"Why the child won't?Parents in the double cease day how no counseling?"

　　从事会计职业的张先生是河南郑州人，因工作原因时常会推迟下班时间，妻子是一名医院护士，昼夜两班倒，辅导孩子功课的事，常常心有余而力不足。

Mr. Zhang is engaged in accounting profession of henan zhengzhou person,Because working reason often delayed quitting time,His wife is a hospital nurse,Two shifts day and night,Counseling children of homework,Often the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.

　　“真的抽不出时间全程辅导孩子功课，就是最不忙的时候也只能偶尔盯一下。”自己没辅导，导致儿子功课“不完美”，张先生颇感困惑和迷茫。

"Really can't spare the time the whole counseling children homework,Is the most busy time also only occasionally staring at once."Not their guidance,Son to work"Not perfect",Mr. Zhang was confused and confusion.

　　无独有偶，河南洛阳市民甄女士近几日也在被孩子作业的事情困扰。甄女士女儿上小学一年级，每天女儿放学回家，她就变身“第二任老师”，陪孩子做作业，辅导孩子复习、预习。因为孩子每天带回的家庭作业都有老师留言，要求帮助孩子完成。

similarly,Henan luoyang citizens zhen lady in recent days by children homework with things.Zhen lady daughter elementary school grade one,Every daughter come home from school,She would change"Second teacher",Accompany the child to do homework,Counseling children review/preview.Because the child back to homework every day there are teacher message,Help children complete requirements.

　　在中国内地，有一个被称为“校信通”的手机短信平台，专用于中小学生家校联系。郑州小学三年级男生许旭东的妈妈，26日向中新社记者表达了对“校信通”的“失望”：“本来，‘校信通’是家校联系的平台，是帮助家长老师双向了解学生在家庭学校的情况的，现在成了老师布置作业的平台了。我每天接收的‘校信通’短信，都是老师发布的学生作业。”

In mainland China,There is a known as"School XinTong"The mobile phone short message platform,Special in primary and middle school students home school contact.Zhengzhou the primary school is grade three boys XuXuDong mother,26 to China news agency reporter expressed"School XinTong"of"disappointed":"was,‘School XinTong’Is the family school contact platform,Is to help parents teacher two-way understand a student in the family school situation,Now the teacher homework to the platform.Every day I received‘School XinTong’message,Are issued by the teacher student work."

　　许旭东妈妈说，在短信里，老师会专门交代“请家长督促完成、检查签字”，第二天，如果孩子作业中错误很多，会被请到学校“说明情况”。

XuXuDong mother said,In the message,The teacher will be special replacement"Parents please urge finish/Check the signature",The next day,If a child assignments mistakes,Will be please to the school"Explained the situation".

　　家长要不要担当“第二任老师”全程辅导孩子写作业？中新社记者访问到12位中小学生家长，除3位家长认同应全力陪护孩子做作业外，其余均表示困惑：难道孩子作业的完美是家长辅导出来的？

The parents want to bear"Second teacher"The whole counseling children write operation?China news agency reporters access to 12 primary and middle school students' parents,In addition to three parents identity should be full to * * cept for children,The others all said confused:Don't children homework perfection is parents coach out?

　　走访中，佟灵向记者介绍一个这样的情况：她小学五年级女儿的作文经常被老师退回重写，后来她亲自帮助润色修改，力争交到老师手里的作文都是完美的成品。老师对女儿作文的满意度提高了，但到考试时，女儿的作文却总是一塌糊涂，无任何长进。

Visit in,TongLing introduces to the reporter such a situation:Her primary school grade five daughters composition is often the teacher returned to rewrite,Then she personally help embellish change,Strive to make the inside of the teacher's hand composition is the perfect product.The teacher to her composition satisfaction improved,But when he took the exam,Daughter composition is always in a mess,Without any progress.

　　因此，佟灵认为，家长过分辅导会给老师造成“学生都学会了”的假象，从而放松对学生的责任。

therefore,TongLing think,Parents too edition to the teacher cause"Students learned"Illusions of the,Thus to ease the duties of a student.

　　和佟灵有着一样看法的马振江说，孩子在学校知识的教育，就是老师的事，不是家长的事，况且家长的知识水平参差不齐。

And TongLing have the same view MaZhenJiang said,Children in school knowledge education,Is teacher's matter,Not the parents,Besides parents level of knowledge is uneven.

　　“现在的学校特别是小学，把家长拉进去过多地参与孩子知识的学习，是老师推卸责任的表现。”马振江呼吁，学校应该改进这种家长参与的“作业方式”。

"Now the school especially elementary school,The parents back in too much involved in their children's learning knowledge,Is the teacher shirk responsibility performance."MaZhenJiang called for,Schools should improve the parents to participate in the"Mode of operation".

　　对此，常年从事课外小学奥数辅导的潘老师说，老师让家长辅导孩子学习，总是以班里学生太多顾不过来为由，但其实这是很不负责任的做法，因为有些作业题不是所有家长都有能力辅导的。

this,Perennial engaged in extracurricular elementary school aoshu tutorial pan teacher said,The teacher let parents coach children learn,Always in class students too much to not come for,But in fact, this is very irresponsible practice,Because some operations that not all parents have the ability to coaching.

　　“不辅导，孩子作业‘不完美’会挨批；辅导吧，又辅导不了。课外培训班市场红火，很大程度上是这一因素导致的。”潘老师认为，现在学校的部分老师对学生太不负责任，热衷当“甩手掌柜”。

"Don't guidance,Children work‘Not perfect’Will be criticized;Counselling,,And counselling not.Extracurricular training market prosperous,To a large extent is the result of a factor."Pan teachers think,Now part of the school teacher to student too irresponsible,Keen when"Shopkeeper stopped".

　　学校老师对家长的质疑怎么看呢？郑州市纬五路一小杨静老师认为，形成学习习惯，培养学习兴趣，是一定需要家长来帮助的；至于写作业，主动权还是在孩子手里。

School teachers to the home long questioned how see?Zhengzhou weft five road a small giudice lc teacher think,To form the study habits,Cultivating students' interest,Is must need parents to help;As for homework,The initiative or in children hand.

　　记者查询有关资料获悉，在美国，大多数教师是不喜欢家长辅导孩子写作业的。他们认为，让家长“加工”过的作业，老师根本就看不出学生懂了多少，孩子们如果需要辅导，那是教师的工作，不是父母的工作。因此，美国教育专家指出，家长不要把孩子的作业“修理”得太完美，让孩子在作业中锻炼自己，练就学习技能。(完)

Reporter inquires the relevant material learned,In the United States,Most teachers are not like parents coach children write the homework.They think,Let parents"processing"Over homework,The teacher simply can't see students understand how many,The children if need guidance,That is the teacher's work,Not parents work.therefore,The United States education experts say,Parents don't put the child's work"repair"Too perfect,Let the child in the assignments exercise myself,Practice learning skills.(finish)