“你从小到大，我管你吃、管你住、给你零花钱，我看看你微博怎么了？微博写出来不就是给人看的吗？”近日，皇姑区的徐女士为了解儿子的思想动态，也申请了个微博账号，专门关注自己的儿子。可这事儿让儿子知道以后，母子二人闹得很不愉快……

"Since you,I tube you eat/Tube you live/Give you money,I see you micro bo how?Micro bo write is not give a person to see?"recently,The HuangGuOu ms xu to understand son of the ideological trend,Also apply for a micro bo account,Special attention to his son.But it let the son know later,Both mom and baby make very unpleasant...

　　10月11日，徐女士的儿子小坚在微博上晒出了自己和朋友们聚餐、K歌的合照，哥几个当天喝得畅快淋漓。殊不知，这顿饭就是小坚请的客、结的账，这钱也正是前天晚上他刚跟妈妈要的，理由是周末英语辅导班的教材费。徐女士看了儿子当天的微博照片后，立马就火冒三丈：“我当时这个气啊！这孩子学坏了啊，竟然敢骗我！”

On October 11,,The son of ms xu little nut in micro blog sun out of themselves and friends dinner/K song a photo of,Several elder brother day drink too carefree dripping wet.Little imagine,This meal is small had invited/"Bill,The money is also the day before yesterday night, he just want to mother,Reason is the weekend of the class English learning materials.Xu lady saw son the micro bo after photos,Immediately before the fire emit three zhangs:"I was the gas ah!The child something goes wrong ah,Unexpectedly dare to cheat me!"

　　当天晚上，小坚一回家就遭到了徐妈妈狂风暴雨般的“批判”。“我妈就差让我跪搓衣板了！可是平时每天我只有15块钱的零花钱，朋友聚会我从来都没掏过份子钱，这回我请个客，根本不算什么。可我妈根本不理解。更可气的是，她还在微博上监控我！”小坚一连串的“咆哮体”之后，母子二人陷入了冷战……

That night,A home is little nut by xu mother of the storm"criticism"."My mother has sent let I knelt rub garment board the!But every day I usually only fifteen dollars pocket money,Friends I never take a member's money,This time I ask a guest,nothing.But my mom didn't understand.More can spirit of be,She is still in micro blog monitoring I!"A series of little nut"Roaring body"after,Mother and son two people in the cold war...

　　与小坚的妈妈一样，越来越多的家长开始关注孩子的微博。于洪区的金洁女士觉得在微博上得到的孩子信息更为真实、可靠。“微博上发的，都图文并茂，看一眼就知道孩子在干啥！”

With small jian's mother,More and more parents begin to pay close attention to the child's micro bo.YuHongOu of genger lady think in micro bora get children information more real/reliable."Micro bo on the hair,Are illustrated,At a glance will know that children are doing!"

　　绝大多数的家长认为，其实管住孩子的微博出发点都是想更了解孩子。“孩子每天绝大多数的时间都是在外面，我们作为家长想全方位了解孩子很困难。我们开微博关注孩子，就是想发现孩子身上存在的问题后及时疏导，但又怕孩子反感，所以只能选择悄悄关注。”

Most parents think,Actually control the child's micro bo starting point is to know more about the child."The child every day the vast majority of time is on the outside,We as parents want to know all child is very difficult.We open micro bo pay attention to children,Just want to find children existing problem timely counseling,But again afraid children dislike,So can only choose silently concern."

　　对此，辽宁省法制与社会研究会教授李刚英认为，父母想要了解自己儿女的私生活，完全没必要通过这样的行为。作为家长千万不要把孩子当作自己的私有财产，愿意怎么处分就怎么处分。无论什么事，家长首先要把孩子当做成人来对待，当成朋友来对待……家长应学会多与儿女交流，使他们愿意向你摊开胸怀，把自己的看法，无论是正确的，还是错误的，都要让他一股脑儿倒出来，这时候再进行指导，孩子更容易接受。（见习记者 黄超)

this,Liaoning legal system and social research LiGangYing think professor,Parents want to know their children's private life,No need to completely by such behavior.As parents don't take the children as their own private property,How to dispose it how to dispose.No matter what,Parents should first treat the child as adults to treat,As the friend to treat...Parents should learn to communicate more with their children,So that they are willing to stretch out the mind,The opinions of his own,Whether the right,Or wrong,To want to let him out completely,This time again for guidance,Children are more likely to accept.(Trainee reporter HuangChao)

　　(来源:沈阳日报)

(Sources: shenyang daily)