如何能培养一个有教养而又模范的孩子？美国父母网站总结发表了25条注意事项，只要孩子在九岁前学会这些礼貌语言和行为，他们就会成为人见人爱的模范孩子。

How to cultivate a educated and model children?American parents site summary published article 25 matters needing attention,As long as the child at the age of nine former learn these polite language and behavior,They will become a beloved child model.

　　1， 如果孩子要什么，要很有礼貌地请求，一定能够要加个“请”字。“我要吃糖”不行，应该说“请给我一点糖”。最好还做个友好的努力，带着微笑请求。

1, If the children want,To very politely request,Must be able to want to add a"please"word."I want to eat sugar"no,Should say"Please give me some sugar".Had better do a friendly efforts,Smiling request.

　　2，人家给你什么，不要马上离开，给东西的人会感觉被冒犯了，一定要说声“谢谢”。也可以很有创意地道谢，比如说画张画，或者回送张卡片。

2,The somebody else give you what,Don't leave,Give things will feel offended,Must say"thank you".Can also thanks very creative,For example painting picture,Or back to send card.

　　3，孩子不能随便打断父母的对话，等大人说完话了，他们会回答孩子的问题。但是如果是个紧急情况，那么允许马上发言。

3,The child can't literally interrupt parents' dialogue,And adults with words,They will answer your children's questions.But if it is an emergency,Then allowed to speak at once.

　　4，如果需要发言，那么要有礼貌地引起别人注意力，比如说“对不起，我能够说点什么吗？”

4,If need to speak,So be polite to cause others attention,For example"I'm sorry,Can I say something?"

　　5，如果孩子不知道什么被允许，那么问一下父母就清楚了。

5,If the children don't know what is allowed,So ask parents clearly.

　　6，一个人应该说实话，但是没有人喜欢听反面意见，太伤感情。你可能有自己的意见，但是为了顾全别人的感受，最好不要说出来。

6,One should tell the truth,But no one likes to listen to adverse opinion,Too hurt the feelings.You may have your own opinion,But in order to save other people's feelings,Had better not say out.

　　7，不能随便评论别人的外表，可能会伤人感情。但是表扬人家外表的话一般很受欢迎。

7,Can't literally review the appearance of other people,May hurt feelings.But praise somebody else's appearance does very popular.

　　8，如果别人向你问好，你要有礼貌地回答，然后问一下对方好不好。

8,If others say hello to you,You want to politely answer,Then ask each other well.

　　9，上朋友家去玩，离开的时候要谢谢人家父母，“多谢让我在这里玩”。

9,To play on a friend's house,Left to thank somebody else's parents,"Thank you for let me play here".

　　10，不要随便闯入房间，也许人家正在忙碌，敲敲门，得到许可再进去。

10,Don't barge in the room,Maybe people are busy,Knock on the door,Get permission to enter.

　　11，打电话的时候说一句“和您说话的是……”，加上一句打电话原因，对方就会很友好地回答你。

11,Call the word"And you are talking……",Add a call reason,Each other will be very friendly to answer you.

　　12，不要说脏话，不管感觉怎么糟糕。

12,Do not say dirty words,No matter how bad feeling.

　　13，收到礼物都要表示高兴，不要马上开始抱怨礼物。

13,Receive gifts all want to say happy,Don't get right to complain that the gift.

　　14，不要骂别人，不要对别人说你自己不想听到的话。别的小朋友和你一样，也有感情，不喜欢被伤害，不喜欢哭泣。

14,Don't scold people,Don't say to someone you don't want to hear.Other children and you are same,Also have feelings,Do not like to be hurt,Don't like crying.

　　15，不要欺负别人，这反而表明你的弱小。多一点同情心，你的朋友会更多。

15,Don't bully others,But this shows that your weak.More sympathy,Your friends will be more.

　　16，“真无聊”，一个人一生中有很多时刻会感到无聊，但是不需要故意捣乱。

16,"So boring",In a person's life there are many moments will feel boring,But do not need to deliberately make trouble.

　　17，如果和别人撞起来，马上要说“对不起”。你可以问一下对方疼不疼，说你不是故意撞上去的。

17,If hit up with others,Immediately say"I'm sorry".You can ask the other painful not painful,Say you didn't mean to bump up.

　　18，不要掏鼻子，也许觉得好玩，但是这不是礼貌的行为。如果你咳嗽或者打喷嚏，要把嘴捂着。

18,Don't dip nose,Maybe feel fun,But this is not polite behavior.If you cough or sneeze,To your mouth with.

　　19，进门的时候回头看看，后面有人的话就把门开着等他们进来，不要看也不看就关门。

19,As you look back,There is someone behind, you can open the door waiting for them in,Don't see also don't see is closed.

　　20，如果你看到邻居、老师、家长在忙碌，询问一下你还能帮忙。如果他们让你帮忙，你能够学到一些东西。

20,If you saw the neighbors/The teacher/Parents in the busy,Ask you can help.If they let you help,You can learn something.

　　21，如果父母叫你做什么事情，不要抱怨，好好做好，脸上还要微笑。

The 21st,If your parents call you do about it,Don't complain,To do,Face and smile.

　　22，如果别人帮助了你，要说声谢谢。那么下次人家也愿意来帮你的忙。

22,If others to help you,To say thank you.So the next time the family also willing to give you a hand.

　　23，吃饭的时候不要玩刀叉，这不是玩具。

and,Have a meal of the time don't play with knife and fork,This is not the toy.

　　24，吃饭的时候不要把衣服搞脏，胸前放一块餐巾。

24,Have a meal of the time don't get your clothes get dirty,Chest put a napkin.

　　25，吃饭的时候需要盐，但是够不到，那么就很礼貌地向别人请求把盐递过来。

25,Time of have a meal need salt,But not enough,Then politely request to others the salt.