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　　这些天，一对芳华正茂的姐妹花，赫然登上了众多搜索引擎的搜索榜榜首，力压莫言以及“元芳”。没错，她们就是清华twins学霸：马冬晗、马冬昕。

These days,A pair of in its heyday sister flowers,Impressively on the many search engines search top the list,Mo yan and pressure"Yuan fang".That's right,They are twins tsinghua learn bully:MaDongHan/MaDongXin.

　　我相信，有那么一部分人，包括我在内，看到这篇文章的题目，心里会咯噔一下，如果我们当真产生了同样的悸动，我建议我们建一个群，群的名字我已经想好了，就叫“那些年，我们一起追过的姐妹花的文章”。

I believe that,So some people,Including me,See this article topic,Heart will thumped,If we really produce the same throb,I suggest that we set up a group,Group name I have wanted to good,Just call"In those years,Together we overtake sisters flower articles".

　　

父母们的口头禅：你瞧瞧人马冬X…… The pet phrase of parents:You look at Sagittarius winter X……

　　马冬晗、马冬昕，这两个如雷贯耳的名字，这两个神一般的存在，这两个“别人家的孩子”们中的佼佼者，一直是以她俩为中心(上下两届)的大连孩纸的梦魇。

MaDongHan/MaDongXin,The two like a thunderclap piercing the ear of name,The two god general existence,The two"Other people's house of in children"The top of the,Is they as the center(Fluctuation two session of)Dalian child paper's nightmare.

　　我先我所知道的二位神的光荣事迹：保持了我们初中几年的女子800米纪录;作文不是满文就是接近满分，一个是当年大连市中考榜眼，另外一个是探花;进入高中以后，通过竞赛先后保送到清华大学精仪系和化学系;在每年清华仅有的5个特等奖学金名额中，俩人是去年的第一名和第三名(三万块钱啊!!我为什么不是人家的爹!)

I first I know two glorious deeds of god:Keep our junior high school a few years of women's 800 m record;The composition is not manchu script is close to full marks,One is the examination of dalian city 2 pick,Another is TanHua;Into high school,Through the competition has walked to tsinghua university fine instrument system and department of chemistry;Every year in tsinghua only five card in the scholarships,Two people is last year's first and third(Thirty thousand dollars ah!!Why do I not somebody else's dad!)

　　再说说本人，年方二十又一，正好处在两位马姐大招的作用域内。童年时期很幸运，因为爸妈没有听说过马冬X，于是我得以在小学快乐而开心地犯傻，踢网球，钻防空洞，哥甚至还放跑过学校动物园的梅花鹿(这个牛大发了有木有!)。一言以概之：不认识马冬X，或者更确切地说，是爸妈不知道马冬X的日子， 是无忧无虑的!

Say again I,The twenty another,In just two MaJie big recruit role within the domain.Childhood is very lucky,Because my parents never heard of MaDong X,So I can be in elementary school happy and happy to be silly,Play tennis,Drill bomb shelter,Elder brother even put ran the school zoo sika deer(The bull with a wood has!).In a of almost:Don't know MaDong X,Or to be more precise,The parents don't know MaDong X days, Is carefree!

　　命运的转折，发生在我迈入大连理工大学附属中学七年二班的大门那一刻起。七年二班，为什么我的眼里常含泪水?不是因为我爱那个班级爱得深沉，拽 一句英文叫作：we share the same head teacher.还!偏偏!是!语文老师!两位马姐作文强悍到完爆我等工科男啊!两个人初中的所有习作都被人整理成书了啊!

Twist of fate,Happened to me entering dalian university of technology attached middle school seven years class two doors that moment.Seven years class two,Why there are tears in my eyes?Not because I love the class deep love,Ye called a word of English:We share the same head teacher. Also!are!is!Chinese teacher!The two MaJie composition tough to finish for blasting engineering male ah!Two junior middle school's all assignments are finishing writing ah!

　　我初中参加的第一次工附中考庆功会，“马冬昕马冬晗”这一串名字便深深刻印在了与会的所有家长的脑海里，包括我爸妈，毫无疑问。我的父母属于特别开明的那一类，不大动辄就搬别人家孩子，但也是少不了因为逼我报这个班报那个班而把马氏姐妹挂在嘴边，“你瞅瞅银马冬昕马冬晗，银怎么就能个个儿学”、 “你瞅瞅银马冬昕马冬晗，银怎么就能不让爸妈操心”、“你瞅瞅银马冬昕马冬晗，银怎么不天天瞧叫唤累啊!”

My junior high school in the first time working with tests victory meeting,"MaDongXin MaDongHan"This a series of name and deeply impressed on the participating all parents mind,Including my parents,There is no doubt that.My parents belongs to special enlightened that kind of,Not easily moved someone else's child,But it is also not because force me to this BanBao that class and the markov sisters in noises,"You Chou Chou silver MaDongXin MaDongHan,Silver how can learn this"/ "You Chou Chou silver MaDongXin MaDongHan,Silver how can not let parents worry about"/"You Chou Chou silver MaDongXin MaDongHan,Silver why not call every day look tired!"

　　因为报班的事情，我甚至跟爸妈打过不少架，后来不仅仅是因为报班，更是因为比比比，比毛线啊比，我作为一名普通得不能再普通的学生，对于家长这 种攀比做法表示深恶痛绝。对比这种修辞手法，在高考作文里面都很少用了，用在教育子女上简直是胡闹，荒唐。换个角度说，做家长的什么时候看见自家孩子说：你看人谁谁的爹，给那小谁谁又买这又买那。道理很简单，但好多人就是不懂，或者说，不愿去懂。

Because the sign up for a class of things,I even with my parents played a lot of frame,Later, not just because of sign up for a class,But because than Amy,Than wool ah than,I, as an ordinary couldn't be ordinary students,This kind of practice for parents "keep up with the joneses" said detest.Contrast this rhetoric,In the college entrance examination composition inside are seldom used,In the education on children is simply nonsense,absurd.Change an Angle said,Do the parents when see their children:You look who's dad,Give the little who and to buy it and buy that.Reason is very simple,But many people just don't understand,or,Don't want to go to understand.

　　

追着马氏姐妹的“阴影”，我也上了清华 Chasing the markov sisters"shadow",I was on the tsinghua

　　相对于众多惨受“别人家的孩子”荼毒的孩子来说，我觉得我还是相当幸福的，至少我的父母只是说说，最终在我的誓死捍卫下都向我妥协，而且事实证明，报班什么的，是本世纪自《无极》以来最无聊的一项活动，一群人挤在一个狭小的空间里学习学校里学过的或者将要学到的知识，父母们排着队去交钱，生怕别 人家的孩子学了，自家的孩子没学。

Relative to the numerous by"Other people's house of in children"Torment for children,I think I was quite happy,At least my parents just about,Finally, in my defend next to me compromise,And the fact that,Sign up for a class of what,Since the turn of the century[promise]The most boring since a activities,A group of people crowded into a narrow space learning school or going to learn knowledge,Parents are lined up to go to make money,For fear that don't somebody else's child learned,His children don't learn.

　　我记得我当年就是用这样一句话镇住我爸妈眼中的“别人家的孩子”的，有类似经历的同学可以参考：“你要报班，我不拦着，但是当我不想听课的时候 我也可以像报班的其他人一样在课上玩手机、看小说，浪费的又不是我自己的钱。”这句话我也不知道为什么对于家长有着如此强大的杀伤力，我觉得这就好比有人 在你面前炫耀一个小瓷罐，一个劲儿地说：我从古董店淘的，周朝的，周朝的…然后你深藏功与名地说，这是我卖给隔壁吴老二的那只夜壶，上周的，上周的…

I remember I was is to use such a word dominate my parents eyes"Other people's house of in children"of,Have a similar experience classmates can reference:"You want to sign up for a class,I don't block,But when I don't want to attend a lecture of time I also can sign up for a class as the others in the class play mobile phone/Reading a novel,Waste is not my own money."The words I don't know why to parents have such strong damage,I think this is just like someone in front of you to show off a little porcelain jar,With a said:I'm from antique shop of the tao,Zhou of,Zhou of…Then you deep work and name to say,This is my next door to sell to wu Lao two one chamber pot,Last week's,Last week's…

　　之后，我追随着马姐的步伐，在一定程度上也可以说是在马姐的阴影下，一路从工附，到育明高中，再到清华。看到网上好些人在膜拜两位大神，我在提到两位马姐是我一个高中一个初中甚至还是同一个初中班主任这件事实的时候，心情，很复杂，真心。

after,I followed the pace of MaJie,To a certain extent, also can be said to be in the shadow of MaJie,All the way from working with,To brood Ming high school,To tsinghua.Many people see online in worship two great spirit,I mentioned in the two MaJie is one of my high school a junior high school or even the same junior high school teacher in charge this fact,mood,Very complex,really.

　　首先是骄傲，大连银，还四俺们高中初中的，跟牛人沾上点光，多少是一件让人开心的事情。但是当想到自己弱爆了的事实，唉…给母校丢人了!好多清华的同学在问及我跟马冬晗马冬昕当了这么多年的校友是什么感想，我笑而不语，我只是大学、高中、初中校友，而已。还有那么一些人或许在个人履历上可以加上 “从小学开始跟马冬昕马冬晗成为校友”这浓重的一笔。

The first is proud,Dalian silver,Also four the ans high school junior high school,People with cattle with point light,How much is a make people happy things.But when the thought of weak burst facts,alas…A to his Alma mater!A lot of tsinghua students asked me to MaDongHan MaDongXin when so many years of alumni is what you think of it,I am smiling without a word,I just university/High school/Junior middle school alumni,just.And then some people perhaps in resumes can add "Start from the primary school with MaDongXin MaDongHan become alumni"This strong a pen.

　　我有时候在想，我跟两位马姐差了两届，就已经受到了如此强大的范围伤害，那么真真正正和这两位姐妹同届甚至同班的同学呢?岂不是要郁郁寡欢惶惶 不可终日?纵观八字班(2008年入读清华的学生)这一届，除马氏姐妹之外，我们还出了一个计算机系学分绩第二。除此之外，还有其他的牛人们。这些人，都算是“别人家的孩子”吧!

I sometimes wonder,I with two MaJie sent two terms,Will have been such a powerful area damage,So really with the two sisters are even with the students??Will he not sullen be on tenterhooks?The general character 8 class(2008 years into read tsinghua students)This session,Except outside martensite and sisters,We have a computer system credit the achievement.In addition,There are other cattle people.These people,All be regarded as"Other people's house of in children"it!

　　

小时候父母说“别人家的孩子”，长大了孩子说“恨爹不成刚” When I was a child parents said"Other people's house of in children",Grown up children said"Hate daddy don't the test of fire makes fine steel"

　　在我看来，“别人家的孩子”是一种不了解的体现，但是当“别人家的孩子”活生生地出现在我的周围，甚至是食堂吃饭坐在我对面的那个呆呆傻傻的二货，我相信那时候我会对“别人家的孩子”免疫。再换一种方式说，或许，在一些人眼里我们自己也是那个传说中只爱读书不爱打游戏琴棋书画斧钺钩叉样样精通的 “别人家孩子”，但实际上呢，熬夜打过游戏，白天翘过课，不见deadline不落泪，小学就放过学校的梅花鹿。这些在家长眼里属于绝对不可容忍级别的， 了解我的人都知道，所以我在他们眼中，在一定程度上来说完全没有资格来成为“别人家的孩子”。算来算去，可能成为我们这些人的榜样的人选，也只有像马姐这种神龙见首不见尾的人物了。

In my opinion,"Other people's house of in children"Is a kind of don't know reflect,But when"Other people's house of in children"Animatedly appear around me,Even is the dining hall sitting opposite me that silly silly two goods,I believe that I will to"Other people's house of in children"immune.And in a way,perhaps,In the eyes of some people we ourselves are the legends of the only love reading does not love to play the game qinqi painting of being killed hook fork everything proficient "Someone else's child",But the fact is that?,Stay up late playing a game,The day become warped class,No deadline not to shed tears,Primary school leave school sika deer.These parents eyes belong to absolutely not tolerance level, People who know me know,So I in their eyes,To a certain extent, no qualification to become"Other people's house of in children".Computation is to,May be we are an example of the candidate,Also only like MaJie this be secretive in one of the characters.

　　其实对于我自身来讲，我是真真正正对马冬昕马冬晗(至今没记住谁是姐姐)佩服得五体投地，无关智商，无关梦想，仅仅是她们这三年如一日的坚韧。 这一点我想即便是那些不屑于努力的人来说也是不得不承认的。至于两位马姐为什么事隔一年再次红遍网络，我强烈怀疑是有怀有特别用心的人刻意而为之，最近又流传一个传说中的马冬晗学习计划时间表，你认为这么理智的人会允许自己多年以前的计划表流传到网上吗?再说，大神抑或是学霸是不需要计划表来约束自己的， 挂时间表的，都是些啥?大家都懂……

Actually for me in terms of their own,I am really is to MaDongXin MaDongHan(Has not remember who is the elder sister)Was blown away,IQ has nothing to do,Dream has nothing to do,Only they this three years like one day the tough. This point I think even those who disdain effort is also had to admit.As for the two MaJie why after a year again becoming popular network,I strongly doubt is a have special attentively painstakingly for the people and,Recently spread a legendary MaDongHan learning schedule,Do you think so the rational man will allow myself many years ago schedule spread to the net?besides,The great god or is to learn is not to need to schedule to restrain their own, Hang schedule,Are what?Everyone knows……

　　我记得我对马姐的态度从可望不可及到由衷佩服是从我听到的那个不太好笑的笑话：说两位马姐分别在精仪系和化学系担任二字班的辅导员，说一个二字 班(2012年入读清华的学生)小新生来精仪系报道，先是经历了几天马冬晗大导的摧残，披荆斩棘成功转系到了化学系，见到化学系二字班辅导员，大喊：我去!怎么又是你!!!

I remember I to MaJie attitude from you can and to sincerely admire from I hear that not too funny jokes:Said the two MaJie respectively in fine instrument system and the department of chemistry at second word class of counselor,Say a word class(2012 years into read tsinghua students)Small new born fine instrument system reported,First experienced several tianma winter Han large guide trample,Blaze a trail success turn system to the department of chemistry,See department of chemistry word class instructors,Shouting:I went to!How is your!!!

　　瞬间大神形象变可爱了有木有!

Instant manito image become lovely have wood has!

　　上个学期大连育明的反清复明校友会在桃三搓饭，席间马家姐姐爆出有男朋友的事实，马家妹妹便暴走八卦了有木有!!!这些人在尔等看来是不是根本就是无厘头啊!

Last semester dalian yu Ming against qing dynasty and reinstate Ming dynasty alumni association in peach three rub rice,Table ma's sister was the fact that have a boyfriend,Ma's sister was heeling gossip a wood has!!!These people are in your looks just) ah!

　　随着对两个人了解的深入，大神的形象在我脑海里崩塌，取代的名片是一个简简单单的特别厉害的校友。我也希望这对双胞胎能完成她们的梦想，这样我以后再不争气也能多一份谈资。

With a better understanding of the two,The image of the great god in my mind collapse,Replace card is a simple special severe alumni.I also hope that the twins can accomplish their dreams,So I later don't fight can also a more than talk.

　　其实，“别人家的孩子”，这个广大群众恨不得杀之而后快的一类人，就是这样因为了解而逐渐被我们意识到他们其实和我们一样，只是个平凡的人，只不过某种优秀的品质促使他们成为我们中的佼佼者，这在家长的眼中，就约等于“别人家的孩子”。我不想讨论中国目前的这种教育观念，首先我父母的教育方式我 很喜欢，我没有经历过那种一直都活在“别人家孩子”阴影之下的生活，我也没有能力去评判哪种教育更适合中国的儿童。

In fact,"Other people's house of in children",The broad masses to kill of the then fast kind of people,This is because understand and was gradually we realize that they actually like us,Is just an ordinary man,Just some good quality prompted them to be the top of the us,This long eyes at home,Is approximately equal to the"Other people's house of in children".I don't like to talk about China's current this education idea,First of all my parents' education way I like,I have not experience anything that has been living in"Someone else's child"Shadow life,I don't have the ability to judge what kind of education more suitable for China's children.

　　回到主题，作为一个孩子，虽然已经老大不小，依然对“别人家孩子”存有强烈的反感心理。我也请求家长，或许你能看到这篇文章，或许你能忍受文中无数次跑题最终看到这个位置：

Back to the theme,As a child,Although have eldest brother not small,Still to"Someone else's child"Being a strong dislike psychological.I also ask parents,Maybe you can see this article,Perhaps you can endure the countless times finally see the subject to this place:

　　我请您稍稍换位思考，如果你的孩子长大了毕业了要找工作了，回家无意间念叨了一嘴：我们宿舍那傻帽他爸把他弄到某某国企去当主任了，连面试都不 用。你听到这些会怎么想?请相信，他也不是有意说给你听，也不是要刺激你做些什么，只是无意，正如同你当初无意间就把“别人家的孩子”蛮横地拉过来与自家 孩子比较，一样。

I asked you a little transposition thinking,If your child grow up graduate to find work,Home inadvertently talking of you a mouth:Our dormitory the chav his father made him to so-and-so state-owned enterprises to be the director,Even the interview all don't use.You hear these will be how to think?Please believe,He also didn't mean to say it to you,Also not to stimulate what do you do,Just has no intention of,Just as you had inadvertently put"Other people's house of in children"Peremptorily pull over to their own children comparison,as.

　　当父母学会了不说“别人家的孩子”，孩子长大了，也就不会说“恨爹不成刚”了。毕竟，在一个正常的社会里，每个人的路都是要靠自己走出来的。

When parents learned to say"Other people's house of in children",Children grow up,Won't say"Hate daddy don't the test of fire makes fine steel"the.After all,In a normal society,Each person's road is all must depend on oneself go out.

　　讲述人：板上钉钉(清华大学计算机系2010级学生)

Tells people:Board nailing(Tsinghua university computer science department 2010 a grade of students)

　　

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