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中小学生性教育难倒“羞涩”的家长--亲稳舆论引导监测室
2012-11-29

  冷默 Cold vision

  日前,福建泉州市安溪县某17岁男孩在家中挥刀自宫,经过手术,小军已脱离生命危险,随着时间推移,性器官和性功能有望恢复完好。这一事件引起社会对家庭性教育的讨论。很多家长表示苦恼,不知道该怎么引导孩子才算适度。

a,Quanzhou city in fujian province AnXiXian a 17 year old boy at home with knife from the temple,After surgery,Small army already out of danger,With the passage of time,Organs and sexual function to restore intact.This event cause social to family sex education discussion.A lot of parents said misery,Don't know how to guide your child to be appropriate.

  

困惑:孩子问我问题不知道怎么回答 confused:The child asked me questions don't know how to answer

  家长王女士来信说,我的儿子快上初中了,有一天他回家问我什么叫“遗精”、什么叫“特殊情况”,男孩与女孩有什么差别。当时我不知道孩子在学校听到了什么不该听的话题,还训斥了孩子,不要问这些与学习无关的事情。

A letter from wang parents said,My son ahead of the junior high school,One day he came back home and asked me what is"spermatorrhea"/What is"Special circumstances",What is the difference between boys and girls.At that time I don't know the child in the school heard what not to listen to topic,Also scolded the child,Don't ask these to have nothing to do with study things.

  

解答:家长羞答答,导致孩子寻求网络 solutions:Parents bashful,Cause the child to seek network

  从国外留学回来的张女士说,有研究表明,从人出生到生命结束,性贯穿于整个人的人生之中,尤其是对于孩子来说,他们对于性充满了好奇。而我们很多的家长在这个方面总是羞答答,比孩子还感觉难以启齿。从小到大,孩子们就一直被家人灌输这样一种教育,即男孩子跟女孩子是有差别的,但是小时候这种差别更多地体现在服装和头发上。当孩子成长到12岁左右的时候,身体进入青春期发育,性别特征更加明显,让孩子们对于“性”更加好奇。但是家长与老师们反而更加地避讳,很多孩子在向家长提出此类问题时,一般家长都会“糊弄”过去。一方面家长们欲语还羞,一方面孩子们又对性充满好奇,这种矛盾逐渐演化成了另一个问题,即孩子们通过其他方式来偷偷地了解“性”,比如说网络,而网络上的所谓的性知识,又是良莠不齐的,很容易对孩子产生误导。

Come back from abroad to ms. Zhang said,Some studies have suggested that,People from birth to the end of life,Sexual throughout the people's life,Especially for children,They are curious for sex.And we a lot of parents in this respect is always shy,Than children feel hard to speak out.size,The children have been by his family infusion such an education,That is the boy with the girl is discriminating,But the difference when I was a child more reflected in clothing and hair.When the children to grow up to 12 s,The body into puberty,Gender characteristics more apparent,Let the children for"sex"More curious.But parents and teachers instead more taboo,Many children in the offering made such problems,General parents"deceive"In the past.On the one hand parents desire language also to shame,On the one hand the children and to sex is full of curiosity,This kind of contradiction is gradually evolving into another problem,That is the children through the other ways to secretly to understand"sex",For example network,On the network and the so-called sexual knowledge,Is the good and bad are intermingled,Very easy to the child misleading.

  当真正面对孩子出现问题时,害怕、恐惧、回避无益于问题的解决。此时为人父母者最明智、最有效的方法,是学习有关学生的性健康知识或请教专家,在生活中寻找恰当的时机,很自然地与孩子交流有关青春期发育的一些问题,并适当地表明自己的观点和看法,给孩子以正面指导。否则,就会如“福建自宫少年”那样出现负罪感。心理专家分析,这种负罪感很可能会对孩子今后身心发展产生不利影响。

When children really facing problems,fear/fear/Avoid conducive to solve the problems.The parents are most wise/The most effective method,Is to learn about students' sexual health knowledge or consult experts,In the life looking for the right time,Naturally and children exchange about some of the problems of puberty,And properly show that their comments and ideas,Give the child is based on positive guidance.otherwise,Will such as"Fujian from the temple young"That appear guilt.Psychological expert analysis,The guilt is likely to the child body and mind produce unfavorable effects on the development in the future.

  

困惑:孩子问我“我从哪里来”? confused:The child asked me"I come from?"?

  很多家长来信咨询,为什么小孩子在长到一定阶段就会问“妈妈,我是从哪来的”。面对孩子这样的问题,很多家长敷衍了事,到底该怎么回答孩子?

Many parents letter consultation,Why the child in the long to a certain stage will ask"mother,I come from".In the face of the children such a problem,Many parents perfunctory,Exactly how to answer child?

  

解答:应根据孩子年龄进行针对性的性教育 solutions:Children should be based on specific age and sex education

  家长安妮建议,家长可以带孩子看看动画片《大耳朵图图》。在这个故事里,图图的爸爸妈妈也不知道怎么回答图图的问题,但是为了抓住这个教育机会,爸爸妈妈查了不少资料,还画了幅人体图,结果半天也没解释清楚。图图却在老师那得到了一个完美的答案。老师说,妈妈的肚子里有个小房子,有了爸爸的爱,宝宝才愿意住到这个小房子里来……

Parents Anne suggested,Parents can bring children see animation[Big ears Desmond tutu].In the story,Desmond tutu father and mother also don't know how to answer Desmond tutu problems,But in order to seize the education opportunity,Mom and dad checked many material,He painted a picture of the human body figure,Results the along while also didn't explain clearly.Toto was the teacher that got a perfect answer.The teacher said,Mother's belly has a small house,A father's love,The baby to live to this small house……

  专家表示,很多少年儿童的性知识不是来自父母、学校,而是在与同伴的交流或者是从书刊影视中得来的。由于没有正确的引导,这些从非法渠道获得的性知识往往带给孩子更多疑惑,从而产生更多好奇。性教育应该开始于儿童和少年时期,父母应积极参与性教育,使孩子从小就得到正确的性教育。心理学家认为:父母应根据孩子的年龄进行针对性的性教育。

Experts say,A lot of young children's sex knowledge is not from their parents/The school,But with his communication or from books and periodicals from film and television.Since there is no correct guidance,These from illegal sources in the sexual knowledge often bring children more doubts,Thus produce more curious.Sex education should start in children and young period,Parents should actively participation education,Make the child get the correct sexual education.Psychologists think that:Parents should be based on the child's age and pertinence of sex education.

  对于5岁前的孩子,性教育主要是解决性别认同问题。父母应在洗澡、睡前很自然地让孩子认识自己的身体,不要有意地把女孩扮成男装或将男孩扮成女装,以免孩子从小对自己和他人形成性朦胧意识,从而影响孩子的性取向。

For before the age of five children,Sex education is mainly solve the gender identity problems.Parents should in the bath/Bedtime naturally let the child know his own body,Do not deliberately put the girls dressed as a men's clothing or will the boy's play,In order to avoid the child to himself and others formative hazy consciousness,So as to affect a child's sexual orientation.

  对于5-7岁的孩子,求知欲总是驱使着孩子向父母提出各种关于性的问题。此时父母应该根据自然现象,简单明了地回答他们的问题,不能过分详细地讲述性、生殖等情节,如果讲不透,孩子的好奇心得不到满足,会更觉得神秘。

For five to seven years old,Thirst for knowledge always drive their children to their parents put forward various about sex.The parents should according to natural phenomenon,Simple and clear to answer their questions,Not too much detail about sex/Reproductive circumstances,If you don't through,The child's curiosity is not satisfied,Will be more feel mysterious.



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