从7岁开始每天刷碗，中学放假到宾馆当清洁工，每天早上到操场跑一千米，不许照镜子、要背诗背古文……这些父亲曾带给董卿的童年“阴影”，让她一度怀疑自己是否是亲生女儿？直到有一天，父亲举起酒杯向她致歉，“这么多年不应该用这种方式对你……”。如今，董卿感叹，自己的成功源自父亲的“魔鬼”教育，让她学会了坚持。

From the age of seven dishes every day,The middle school to the hotel when the cleaner,Every morning run meters to the playground,Forbid to look in the mirror/Back to back the ancient prose...The father has given DongQing childhood"shadow",Let her once doubt whether he is his own daughter?Until one day,Father raised his glass apologize to her,"So many years should not use this way to you......".now,DongQing exclamation,His success comes from his father's"The devil"education,Let she learned to insist.

　　入行18年来，董卿采访过无数嘉宾，她自己却很少坐在被访谈席上。北京卫视《BTV秀场》栏目邀来董卿走进演播室，她首次畅聊自己的心路历程。不少网友感慨，看完节目重新认识了这位成熟、知性的主持人，也再次证明了每个人都不是随随便便成功。

Into line and years,DongQing interviewed many guests,She seldom sat in interview table.Beijing TV[BTV shows]Column invited to DongQing into the studio,For the first time she chang talk about their journey.Not a few net friend feeling,Finish see programs to meet the mature/Intellectual host,Also proved once again that everyone is not casually succeed.

董卿罕见素颜照 (资料图) DongQing - rare element (Material chart)

父亲太严厉：不许小董卿多照镜子 Father is too strict:No more little DongQing look in the mirror

　　董卿在节目中几度落泪，皆和“爸爸”有关。这也是整个节目让观众感到最亲切、最意外也最印象深刻的部分。按照今天的说法，董卿的爸爸绝对可以算做一位“虎爸”，用她自己的话说，“我的爸爸是一位特别特别特别严厉的父亲”。作为家里独生女儿的董卿，从来都没尝到过被视为“掌上明珠”的滋味。

DongQing degrees in programs in tears,All and"dad"relevant.This is also the whole program let the audience feel most kind/The accident is the most impressive part.According to today's statement,DongQing father can definitely is, of course, a"Tiger dad",In her own words,"My father is a very very special strict father".As the only daughter of the family DongQing,Never tasted is regarded as"apple"taste.

董卿罕见卸妆照 (资料图) According to DongQing rare discharge makeup (Material chart)

　　她讲述，自己在上海出生，一直生活在外公外婆身边，7岁被父母接到工作地安徽。父亲要求她承担家务劳动，每天刷碗、擦地，让幼年董卿最难以接受的是，父亲命令她每天不许多照镜子，“我爸爸有一句名言，马铃薯再打扮也是土豆，他说你每天花在照镜子的时间还不如多看书”，此外，爸爸还不让妈妈给董卿做新衣服，认为女孩子不能过多心思放在穿衣打扮上。

She tells,Himself was born in Shanghai,Has been living in the grandpa and grandma side,Seven years old was received in anhui province where parents.Father asked her for housework,The dishes every day/To wipe,Let DongQing youth is the most difficult to accept is,His father ordered her look in the mirror every day not many,"My father has a famous saying,Potato to dress up and potatoes,He said you look in the mirror every day spent longer than many books",In addition,Dad is not let mother to do DongQing new clothes,Girls don't think too much idea on the dress.

董卿接受采访落泪 (资料图) DongQing interview tears (Material chart)

　　董卿稍微能识字了，爸爸就让她每天抄成语、抄古诗，还要求大声朗读并且背诵下来。稍微大一点，又让她抄古文。除了文学素养，身体锻炼也让董卿从小就抱怨不已。有时天没亮，爸爸就把还在梦乡的董卿从床上提了起来，让她到家门口淮北中学的操场上跑一千米，“那时候学生出早操，我一个人在400米的跑道上跑步，感觉特傻，整个学校的同学、老师好像都看着你，像阿甘一样。”董卿说，有时候她抖小机灵，下楼以后就找个门洞躲着，估摸着时间差不多了，再喘着气跑回家，假装上气不接下气地说“我跑完了”。

DongQing slightly to the literacy,Father let her daily copy idiom/Copy ancient poem,It also requires reading aloud and recite down.Slightly bigger,And let her copy of ancient prose.In addition to literary accomplishment,Exercise also let DongQing grew up complain unceasingly.Sometimes the day did not have brightly,Dad is still in the dreams of the DongQing raised up from the bed,Let her to the door of huaibei middle school run meters on the playground,"At that time the students out of the morning exercises,I am a man in his 400 m running round the track,Feel stupid,,The whole school classmates/The teacher seems to be looking at you,Like forrest gump as."DongQing said,Sometimes she shake small clever,Go downstairs and then find a door opening hide,Figured maybe it's about time,Then gasped for air ran home,Pretend to gasp for breath to say"I ran out".

董卿接受采访落泪 (资料图) DongQing interview tears (Material chart)

董卿首揭辛酸“打工”经历：做过营业员当过清洁工 DongQing first strip octylic acid"work"experience:Do shop assistant as a cleaner

　　上了中学以后，每年寒暑假，父亲都让董卿“勤工俭学”。“我那时候各种零工都干过，宾馆清洁工、商场售货员、广播站广播员……”，董卿说，那时候，爸爸在当地报社当副总编，一到放假就给他的朋友打电话，“我女儿放假了，去你那儿打工，不要钱。”对方也不好意思收免费工，说那就一天给一块钱吧，打工两个月董卿拿到六十块钱。她讲起一段最为辛酸的经历，“我当时只有15岁，第一天到宾馆，当清洁工，十个房间，20张床，一个人打扫。”最有难度的就是给床换床单，“那种席梦思床垫，特沉，我两个手抬都抬不动，还要一手抬着床垫，一手迅速地把床单塞进去，然后再把四周叠成平整的90度角，一上午只干了两个房间，别人都去吃饭了，我还在那儿傻乎乎的干着。”当时董卿觉得特别委屈，爸爸还特意到宾馆看了看她，“我一见到他，哇的一下就哭了起来，说太累了，我不干了，他还很难得的摸了摸我的头，说，‘坚持一下"。董卿讲完，在场的观众都笑了，这种苦涩的经历曾让董卿一度怀疑自己是不是亲生的？

After the middle school,Summer and winter vacation every year,Father let DongQing"Part-work and part-study system"."I at that time, all kinds of odd jobs are done,Hotel cleaner/Shop assistant/Radio announcer...",DongQing said,At that time,Father in the local newspaper as deputy chief editor,A holiday will give his friend make a phone call,"My daughter had a holiday,Go to your work there,Don't money."The other side also embarrassed accept free work,Say that one day to a piece of it,Two months to work DongQing sixty dollars.She speaks a the most poignant experience,"I was only 15 years old,The first day to the hotel,As a,Ten room,Twenty beds,A man clean."The most difficult is to change the sheets to the bed,"That kind of xi mengsai mattess,Especially heavy,My two hands up all can't lift,Also carried a mattress,A rapidly the bed sheet plug in,And then again around piled in a flat 90 degree Angle,Morning only dry for two rooms,The other people all to dinner,I was there doing silly."At that time DongQing feel special injustice,Dad also specially to hotel looked at her,"I see him,Wow to crying,Said too tired,I quit,He is still very rare to touch touch my head,said,‘Insist on it".DongQing finished,The audience laughed,This bitter experience has let DongQing once doubt yourself is of his own?

董卿短发早期主持照 (资料图) DongQing hair early as host (Material chart)

父亲为何对自己永远都不满意 Father are for yourself never satisfied

　　此外，最让董卿心理上难以接受的，是爸爸对自己永远都不满意。“我小时候最害怕的，就是吃饭。因为一家三口每天聚在一起的时间很短，也就吃饭那点工夫。一上桌，他就开始唠叨，你这个怎么怎么样，那个怎么怎么样，我经常是一边吃饭一边哭。我小时候最高兴的事儿，就是我爸出差了，乐得手舞足蹈，总算有两天能看不见这个人了。”

In addition,The most let DongQing psychological difficult to accept,Dad is to never satisfied."When I was a child I fear most,Is eating.For a family of three together every day for a short time,Also eat it a bit of work.Serve a,He began to nag,How do you this,That how,I often eat side while crying.When I was a child I the most happy thing,Is my dad was on a business trip,Joy dance,Finally there are two day to be able to see this man."

董卿与父亲合影 (资料图) DongQing photo with his father (Material chart)

　　父亲为何对自己采取这样的教育方法，董卿直到长大后才慢慢理解。她从自己父亲的经历讲起，董卿的爸爸是上海崇明人，从小生长在农村，生活十分穷困。董卿的爷爷英年早逝，奶奶在年龄很大时才生下这个儿子，母子二人相依为命。

Why my father to take such education method,DongQing until she grew up slowly to understand.She from his father's story up,DongQing father is Shanghai chongming people,Grew up in the countryside,Life is very poor.DongQing grandfather at an early age,Grandma in the age when a just gave birth to the son,Mother and son two people depended on each other.

董卿与母亲合影 (资料图) DongQing photo with her mother (Material chart)

　　“我爸爸每天上学之前，都要先到池塘里抓鱼、抓虾，跟着我奶奶到集市上把它们卖掉，挣些生活费再去上学。高中时，爸爸问学校的老师，我应该考什么大学，老师说，你这么喜欢文科，就考复旦大学新闻系吧。”当时，董卿的爸爸并不知道这座名牌大学的名牌专业有多难考，倾尽全力后，最终考上了。董卿的父母双双毕业于这所高等学府。

"My father before I go to school every day,All want to go to catch fish in the pond/Catch shrimp,Follow my grandma to the market to sell them,Earn some living to go to school.High school,The father asked school teacher,I should check what university,The teacher said,You so like liberal arts,Tests a fudan university department of journalism it."At that time,DongQing father did not know the famous university famous professional test how difficult is it to build it,Best after,Finally admitted to the.DongQing parents both graduated from the university.

董卿接受采访 (资料图) DongQing interview (Material chart)

　　“我爸爸自己的经历，让他特别笃信一点，就是人的命运要靠自己改变，一切都掌握在自己手中。他就是这么一步步走来的，所以对我也有着这样的期望，觉得你一定要好好读书。”董卿说，爸爸是个很严谨、很坚忍也很善良的人，很庆幸自己身上继承了他的这些优点。

"My father own experience,Let him special believe a little,Is the destiny of man must depend on oneself change,Everything is in the hands of themselves.He is so coming nearer,So I also have such expectations,Think you must study hard."DongQing said,My father is a very rigorous/Perseverance is also very good person,Glad myself inherited his these advantages.

董卿罕见素颜照 (资料图) DongQing - rare element (Material chart)

大一放假回家 父亲开口致歉 Freshman year holiday home father open apology

　　董卿和爸爸的关系发生了微妙的改变，是从她上大学开始。父亲送她来到杭州，入学报到后，进宿舍收拾床铺。帮女儿料理妥当后，爸爸要离开校园了。“我当时特别高兴，觉得总算离开你们了，心里巴不得他早点走，我可以认识新同学、开始新生活了。”和爸爸走在夕阳西下的小路上，董卿第一次发现爸爸变得有点依依不舍，“眼里突然有了泛泪花的感觉”。“我是后来才想起来那一幕，他看着我说，你自己小心点吧。然后他脸上突然有了一种我从没见过的表情，但是他实在不知道该怎么说，因为他从来没有尝试过用一种更温柔的方式对待我，跟我交流。”

The relationship between the DongQing and dad had had a subtle change,From her college started.Father sent her to hangzhou,Admission after report,Enter dormitory make one's bed.Help daughter food after it,Dad wanted to leave the campus."I was very happy,Think to leave you,Hoped he leave early,I can meet new students/Start a new life."And dad walking in the setting sun on the road,DongQing found out for the first time that dad to get a little,"Eyes suddenly a flood of tears feeling"."I was then remember that scene,He looked at me and said,You be careful it.And then his face suddenly have a kind of I've never seen expression,But he really don't know how to say,Because he never tried to use a more gentle way to me,Communicate with me."

董卿素颜主持照 (资料图) DongQing plain yan as host (Material chart)

　　大一放假回家，一家三口在爸爸的提议下，难得出门下餐馆吃了顿饭。“我们坐在一个安静的小角落，吃着吃着，父亲突然举起酒杯，说，我敬你一杯吧。我当时有点意外，他说，我跟你道个歉，我想了想，这么多年，我对你有很多方式不对，你别往心里去。”讲到这儿，董卿的眼泪立刻掉了下来。她说，那顿饭，从来不喝酒的自己和爸爸一起喝光了一瓶白酒。

Freshman holiday home,A family of three in the father's proposed,Rare go out the restaurant to eat a meal."We sat in a quiet little corner,Eating eating,Father suddenly raised his glass,said,I respect you a cup of it.I was a little surprised,He said,I tell you an apology,I'd like to think,So many years,I have a lot of wrong,You don't take it to heart."Step here,DongQing tears fell down at once.She said,The meal,Never drink myself with my father drank a bottle of white wine.

董卿幕后化妆照 (资料图) According to the DongQing makeup (Material chart)

入央视十年 父母从没来过北京 In the ten years of parents have never been to Beijing

　　爸爸的教育，让董卿学会了坚持和忍耐，她从毕业后考入浙江省话剧团、浙江省电视台，到两年后被上海电视台、东方卫视录取，再到离开已经生活安逸、小有名气的上海，进入不知前途几何的央视西部频道，经过十年的打拼，最终站在央视春晚的舞台上。那一刻，她彻底理解了父亲的良苦用心，“我不知道有一天，我有了小孩以后，会不会用这种方式对他，我很害怕，因为我本能的觉得，我会，因为我认同了我父亲的这种方式，我现在觉得，他让我做的每一件事都是对的。”

Father's education,Let DongQing learned to insist and patience,She admitted to zhejiang modern drama troupe from after graduation/Zhejiang TV station,To two years later was Shanghai television station/Oriental TV admission,To leave has been living at ease/A little famous Shanghai,Into the future do not know the geometry of the western channel of CCTV,After ten years of fight,Finally standing on the stage of CCTV day television gala.At that moment,She thoroughly understand the father's great effort,"I don't know one day,I have a child later,Will not use this way to him,I'm afraid,Because I instinctively feel,I'll,Because I agree with my father's this way,I now feel,He let me do everything is right."

董卿 (资料图) DongQing (Material chart)

　　“当时央视西部频道，是一个冷门的频道，而且在上海不落地，我做了两年的节目，我父母都看不到，我那阵特别难过，有人会问他们，听说你女儿去央视了呀，怎么看不到她呢。”董卿咬着牙坚持着，直到有一天，央视综艺频道的主任给她打电话，面谈后通知她被调入综艺频道。“我当时高兴的呀，从央视大楼的台阶上几乎是一蹦一跳下来的，我给我妈打电话，说你等着吧，马上就能在中央三套看见我了。”

"At that time the western channel of CCTV,Is a dark horse channel,And don't be born in Shanghai,I did two years program,My parents couldn't see,I the wonderful special sad,Someone will ask them,I hear your daughter to CCTV ah,How to see her."DongQing bite a tooth persistence,Until one day,The director of the variety of CCTV channel to call her,After the interview notice she was callin variety channel."I was happy ah,From the CCTV building is almost on the steps of a leap to jump down,I make a phone call to my mom,Said you wait,Can immediately in the three sets of see me."

董卿 (资料图) DongQing (Material chart)

　　成名后，有了越来越多的荣誉和掌声。对父母，董卿却始终心里留存着一份难过。“今年是我到北京整十年，但我父母一次都没有来过北京。我总是在电话里动员他们，你们来吧，来现场看看我录节目，看看春晚，看看青歌赛。他们老是怕给我添麻烦，怕我在台上想着他们，注意力会分散。”董卿经常给父母塞钱，但他们仍是节俭惯了，一分都不肯浪费。“我爸妈现在出门都是挤地铁，有时我心情不好，就冲我妈嚷嚷，给你们钱干吗的呀，看呀。心情好的时候就劝他们，给你们钱就是让你们花的，别省着。有一次，我爸去医院拔牙，拔了好几颗，出来以后咬着棉花球，腮帮子肿着，就这样，俩人还是挤地铁，再转公交，都不舍得打车。我当时在电话里听我妈说完特别难过。觉得我要是在上海就好了，我可以自己开车带他们过去，但是我现在做不到。”

fame,Have more and more honor and applause.For parents,DongQing has always retained a sad heart."This is I came to Beijing to go to the whole ten years,But my parents not even once been to Beijing.I'm always on the phone they mobilization,You come,Look at my record to the program,Look at its,Look at QingGeSai.They were always afraid to add to my trouble,Afraid that I keep them on the stage,Attention will disperse."DongQing often give parents plug money,But they are still used to thrift,Willing to waste a minute."My parents go out now are crowded subway,Sometimes I'm in a bad mood,Blunt my mom yell,Give you money why ah,behold.When I'm in a good mood will persuade them,Give your money is let you spent,Don't save the.once,My father went to the hospital to tooth,Pulled out several star,Come out later bite a cotton ball,Swollen cheek with,so,Two people or crowded subway,Turn again bus,Are not willing to take a taxi.I was on the phone to listen to my mother with special sad.I think if it is good in Shanghai,Can I drive them in the past,But now I can't do."

董卿主持照 (资料图) DongQing host as (Material chart)

　　谈到深情处，董卿说，我想想自己这么多年，真是把最好的笑容都留在台上了，给父母的太少了，“不少人对我爸妈说，你们生了个这么好的女儿，真让人羡慕。但其实，他们从我这得到什么好处了，年纪这么大，不舍得雇保姆，看病、买菜、做饭、洗衣服都是两个人相互扶持着。有时我一回到上海，经常有人叫我出来吃个饭，我一般都推掉了，希望多陪陪他们。但只有医院院长请我吃饭，我一定去，而且我见到他们都是同样的话，我爹妈拜托给你们了。”

When it comes to deep place,DongQing said,I think of so many years,Smile is the best in the stage,To parents is too little,"Many people said to my parents,You gave birth to such a good daughter,Really envy letting a person.But in fact,They get that from me any good,Age so big,Do not be willing to part with or use hiring a nanny,doctor/Buy vegetables/cooking/Washing clothes is two people with mutual support.Sometimes I returned to Shanghai,People often call me out for dinner,I generally push away,Hope to spend more time with them.But only the hospital dean invite I to have a meal,I must go to,And I see they are all the same thing,My mother and father come on to you."