“我在爷爷和奶奶的墓碑上用红油漆写字来发泄对父亲的不满和失望。我再次就我的鲁莽行为向公众真诚道歉，同时我也要向我爷爷和奶奶的在天之灵真诚道歉。”昨天，陵园管理方起诉吴山索赔9万元墓碑维修费一案在延庆法院开庭，冰心之孙吴山委托的律师当庭宣读了吴山的致歉信，双方同意庭下调解。

"My grandpa and grandma in the tombstone with red paint write to vent to his father's dissatisfaction and disappointment.Once again, I will my reckless behavior sincere apology to the public,At the same time I want to my grandpa and grandma by the soul of a sincere apology."yesterday,Memorial park management prosecution wu claim 90000 yuan tombstone upkeep a case in yanqing court,The sun bing xin wu court by the lawyer read a letter of apology from the wushan,The parties agree that the court mediation.

　　昨天9时30分庭审开始，北京长城华人怀思堂派出一名律师出庭，冰心之孙吴山没有出现，他也是委托一名代理律师出庭。

Yesterday and the trial started 30 points,Beijing Great Wall Chinese bosom think hall sent a lawyer to appear in court,The sun bing xin wu did not appear,He is also entrust an agent attorney to appear in court.

　　陵园方索9万元清理费

Cemetery party line 90000 yuan cleaning fee

　　北京长城华人怀思堂诉称，今年5月，冰心、吴文藻之孙吴山，在没有告知原告的情况下进入纪念园，并在冰心、吴文藻夫妇的墓碑上用红油漆刷上8个大字“教子无方枉为人表”。

Beijing Great Wall Chinese bosom think hall v. says,In may this year,Bing xin/The sun WuWenZao wushan,In failing to inform the plaintiff's case JiNianYuan into,And bing xin/WuWenZao couple of tombstone with red paint brush on eight characters"Godson misdirected waste a table".

　　原告认为，因冰心、吴文藻夫妇的墓碑属于文物，且价值不菲，吴山的行为毁损了财产。今年10月19日，原告为清除该墓碑的红油漆，聘请一家清理公司，预算费用共计9万元。原告起诉要求吴山赔偿损失9万元，并公开赔礼道歉。

The plaintiff think,Because of bing xin/WuWenZao couple of tombstone belongs to the cultural relics,And value does not poor,The behavior of the wushan damage property.October 19,,The plaintiff is to remove the tombstone red paint,Hire a cleaning company,The budget of 90000 yuan.The plaintiff sued for wu compensation loss 90000 yuan,And a public offer an apology.

　　质疑墓碑是否属于文物

Questioned whether tombstone belongs to cultural relics

　　法庭上，吴山的代理人刘律师对于冰心墓碑被吴山涂鸦损毁表示认可，但对于冰心墓碑是否属于文物，以及清理公司的资质提出质疑。刘律师称，他们对9万元的预算费用也提出了异议，认为价格偏贵，且未实际发生。

The court,Wu agent for lawyer liu bing xin tombstone is wu said graffiti damage recognition,But for bing xin tombstone whether to belong to cultural relics,And cleaning of the qualifications of the question.Lawyer liu said,They cost $90000 budget also put forward the objection,Think the price by your,And does not actually occurred.

　　庭审中，刘律师提交了大量吴山母亲的身体健康状况作为证据，称涂字一事不是针对原告一方进行侵害，而是针对吴山的父亲吴平。刘律师还代表吴山当庭读了一封吴山写的致歉信进行解释。

hearing,Lawyer liu submit a lot of wushan mother's health as evidence,Say the word coating is not a party to the plaintiff for violations,But at the father of wu wu ping.Lawyer liu also represent wushan wushan court read a written apology letter to explain.

　　在庭审最后，刘律师表示还是同意庭下协商解决此事。他说，不管是什么方式，由吴山出资也好，找其他机构清洗也好，双方都应该有态度，目的是把字除掉，这是对冰心的尊重。法官随后宣布休庭。

In the trial,Lawyer liu said the court agreed to talk things over solve this matter.He said,No matter what way,The capital contribution or wushan,Looking for other agencies or cleaning,Both sides should have attitude,Objective is to get rid of the word,This is the respect to bing xin.The judge then announce an adjournment.

　　致歉信

Apology letter

　　尊敬的审判长：

Respect of presiding judge:

　　我于2012年5月30日在我的爷爷和奶奶的墓碑上用红油漆写字来发泄对父亲的不满和失望。我的行为伤害了广大读者对冰心的深厚感情。对此我再次就我的鲁莽行为向公众真诚道歉，同时我也要向我爷爷和奶奶的在天之灵真诚道歉。

I'm on May 30, 2012 in my grandpa and grandma's tombstone with red paint write to vent to his father's dissatisfaction and disappointment.My behavior hurt readers to bing xin's deep affection.This again, I will my reckless behavior sincere apology to the public,At the same time I want to my grandpa and grandma by the soul of a sincere apology.

　　我爱他们。对于读者，冰心是著名的作家、慈爱的老人，而对我，她只是爱我的每天都多给几粒花生的奶奶。对于公众，那墓碑是缅怀他们的地方，而对我，墓碑下是我血脉的源泉、我的童年和我的回忆。奶奶生前的所有文字其实就是一个爱字。她曾说爱就是情义，付出为情，担当为义。

I love them.For the reader,Bing xin is a famous writer/Love old man,To me,She just love my every day for more than a few peanuts grandmother.For the public,The tombstone is remember their place,To me,The tombstone is the source of my blood/My childhood and my memories.Grandma was all writing is actually a love words.She said love is friendship,Pay for love,Bear for righteousness.

　　我做下这逆天之举。

I do this for fate.

　　是为一个当年敢于嫁给冰心之子右派吴平的女人；是为一个当年面对着机枪给冰心送饭的女人；

Is that for a dare to marry the son of bing xin wu ping right woman;For a year in the face of the gun to bing xin to send rice woman;

　　是为一个根红苗正却不离不弃陪着被打倒的冰心一家度过苦难的女人；

For a root red seedlings are but buchibuqi accompany be defeated bing xin a through the hard woman;

　　是为一个三十年间守在吴文藻和冰心病榻之侧尽孝的女人；

For a 30 years inside the WuWenZao and bing xin sickbed side hoping woman;

　　是为一个善良的让保姆睡在床上自己却睡在沙发上照顾冰心的女人；

For a good nurse to sleep in bed but he himself to sleep on the sofa to take care of bing xin's woman;

　　是为一个以无瑕之情养活了吴平三十年而却没得到过一分钱的女人；

For a perfect love to feed the WuPingSan ten years but didn't get a penny of woman;

　　是为一个被人抛弃却没提出任何财产要求的女人；是为一个终于自己躺在病榻之上无人探望的女人；

For a is throw away but not put forward any property requirements of the woman;For a finally himself lying on his no visit woman;

　　她已为奶奶冰心一家四代付出了所有的所有，担当了一切的一切。如今她再也没什么可以付出了，再也担当不起甚至连自己脆弱的生命都难以担当。这个女人就是我的母亲。为了冰心的荣誉，六年的漫长诉讼没有向任何人谈及的母亲；为了冰心的荣誉，愿只留个名分容忍父亲去爱别人的母亲。

She has for grandma bingxin a fourth generation pay all of the all,Bear the everything.Now she never nothing to pay,No longer bear even their fragile life is hard to bear.This woman is my mother.In order to bing xin's honor,Six years of long action not to anyone about mother;In order to bing xin's honor,May only leave a adoption tolerate father to love other people's mother.

　　我可以接受父亲对母亲的无情，却无法接受连一次探望都不愿担当的父亲。作为冰心的嫡孙，为了我的母亲我可以放弃继承权，只希望父亲能对母亲这一生的情义给一点点补偿，补偿她仅仅是为你付出的巨大牺牲。好让人们可以坚信好人终得好报。

I can accept the father to the mother's relentless,But can't accept even a visit would not bear's father.As the DiSun bing xin,In order to my mother I can give up right,Only hope that my father mother in this life to the REINS to give a little compensation,Compensation she is only for you pay great sacrifice.So that people can believe that the good end well by doing good.

　　我爱我的奶奶，还有太多的人爱我的奶奶。感谢他们感谢骂我的人，骂声告诉我我错了。我也爱我的母亲，却很少有人知道我的母亲。天下无数不知名的有情有义的人们，告诉我怎样才能抚慰一个身患癌症的母亲；一个被诊断为极高危高血压的母亲；一个又被诊断出抑郁症的母亲；一个早已心碎的母亲，一个仍然在五十平米老旧宿舍里靠退休金生活的母亲。

I love my grandma,There are too many people love my grandma.Thank them thanks to scold me,Great tell me I was wrong.I love my mother,However, few people are aware of my mother.All the countless unknown sentient beings a righteous people,Tell me how to comfort a person suffering from cancer of the mother;A diagnosis is very high risk of high blood pressure's mother;A was diagnosed with depression mother;A mother has broken,A still in the square meters dormitory old on retirement pensions mother.

　　夜深了。闭上眼睛，爷爷和奶奶仿佛正慈目含笑地望着我，而我也好像紧攥着几粒奶奶多给的花生。

It was late at night.Close your eyes,Grandpa and grandma like kindness is eye smilingly look at me,And I also like clutch a few grain grandmother give of peanuts.

　　付出为情，担当为义。

Pay for love,Bear for righteousness.

　　尊敬的审判长，我愿意接受法律裁判的结果。

Respect of presiding judge,I'd like to accept the result of the law.