出售一名身高157、脾气有点怪、但人很好的2001年双鱼女，就读龙岗××初一，不烟不酒不蒲(注：逛夜店)，想在末日前找个爱她的人。要求不高，不蒲不烟不酒，身高170以上，年龄不要大过3岁，能够护着她爱她就好

Sell a height 157/Temper is a little weird/But people are very good 2001 Pisces female,In longgang * * first,Don't smoke not wine don't rush(note:Around nightclub),Want to find a love in the end before her.Demand is not high,Don't rush don't smoke not wine,The height of 170 cm,Age not greater than 3 years old,To protect her love her

　　近日，一名2001年出生的初一学生在“深圳单身解救平台”上公开发出微博，征一名宠自己的男友，并对对方做出了年龄大不过3岁、身高不低于1米7的硬性规定。该微博发出后引起网友一片“叹老”之声。在接受记者采访时，11岁的小当事人称年级里有一堆恋爱的，自己也不能落后。对此，专家表示，中学生异性之间交往，往往是出于好奇和对大人的模仿，应理性看待，但同时要明确禁止学生早恋。

recently,A born in 2001 in a junior high school"Shenzhen single save platform"On the public a micro bo,Sign a spoil their boyfriend,And to the other party made older but 3 years old/Height not less than 1 m 7 hard and fast rules.The micro bo issued cause net friend a piece of"Sigh old"The sound of.When accepting a reporter to interview,11 small parties say grade has a pile of love,His would not fall behind.this,Experts say,The opposite sex communication between middle school students,Is often out of curiosity and adult imitation,Should be a rational view,But at the same time to specifically prohibits students early love.

中学生微博征友 强调“真心”、“带得出街” Middle school students micro bo sign friend stressed"really"/"That street with"

　　微博时代，一些单身青年刚刚用微博“求解救”的方式获得了些许安慰，中学生就迅速跟上，加入了求解救的大军。

Micro bo era,Some single young just use the micro bo"deliver"Way to get some comfort,High school students will catch up with the,Join the deliver of the army.

　　记者在微博上以“深圳解救单身”为关键词进行用户搜索，搜出了40个结果，其中一个最活跃的微博粉丝多达17000多个，它一天可更新十多条微博，每一条都是一个单身小孩的“征友帖”。记者仔细查看了该微博最近一周的108条更新记录，其间除了一名1988年和一名1986年出生的80后，其余全都是90后，这其中贴出校服装的95后中学生又占了近一半。而 “深圳中学生单身解救”这个针对性更强的微博已经有7000多名粉丝，且名副其实的几乎都是中学生。

Reporter in micro bo in"Shenzhen save single"The keywords to search for users,Find out the forty results,One of the most active micro Po fans up to more than 17000,It is a day to be able to update more than ten micro bo,Every one is a single child"Sign friend for".Reporters carefully check the micro bo recently a week article 108 record update,Meanwhile in addition to a 1988 and a born in 1986 after 80,The rest is all after 90,The posted school clothes after 95 middle school students and accounted for nearly half.and "Shenzhen high school students single save"The targeted more micro bo has more than 7000 fans,And almost all worthy of the name is a middle school student.

　　这些征友微博大多会在不超过100个字的内容里介绍自己的身高、星座和要求，在要求里面“会疼自己”、“真心”、“不是玩玩的”是常出现的字眼，有人也对相貌提出了一定的要求，希望帅或靓，至少要“带得出街”。

These sign friends and micro pregnancy in not more than 100 words in the content of the height of introduce yourself/Constellation and requirements,In the requirements in"Hurts himself"/"really"/"The play is not"Is often appear of the word,People also put forward a certain appearance requirements,Hope that handsome or beautiful,At least"That street with".

　　记者与一名1999年出生、在宝安某学校读七年级的女孩取得了联系，她在微博里希望找一个“比我高，会疼我的，带得出街的”男朋友“陪过世界末日”。在跟记者的QQ聊天中，她告诉记者，前面她有一个相处了一个月的男友，因为他“太贱”，所以甩掉了。所谓“太贱”，小姑娘说是“花心”的意思，她对下一任男朋友的要求是：不要花心，不要恶心。"恶心’就是‘不文明"。

Journalists and a was born in 1999/A school in baoan seven grade girl made contact,She in micro bo in hope to find a"Is higher than me,Hurts my,Belt that street"boyfriend"With the end of the world".With reporters in the QQ chat in,She told reporters,She has a front spent a month's boyfriend,Because he"Too base",So to get rid of the.The so-called"Too base",The little girl said"Flower heart"mean,Her boyfriend for the next request is:Don't flower heart,Don't sick."nausea’is‘No civilization".

00后征友微博主：能宠我爱我就够了 After, a sign micro blogger:Can spoil me love me is enough

　　尽管一些网民对中学生征友有点司空见惯，但一条00后征友微博的出现，还是在网友中间引起了一片骚动。

Although some netizens to middle school students sign a friend a little commonplace,But after, a sign of a micro bo appear,Or in the net friend intermediate caused a piece of turmoil.

　　昨天早上，某深圳单身解救微博贴出来一条2001年出生初一女生征友微博：“出售一名身高157、脾气有点怪、但人很好的01年双鱼女，就读龙岗××初一，不烟不酒不蒲(注：逛夜店)，想在末日前找个爱她的人。要求不高，不蒲不烟不酒，身高170以上，年龄不要大过3岁，能够护着她爱她就好。”一个上午该微博就跟了几十条评论，大多数网友都对00后出来征友感到“震惊”，接下来就是感叹自己老了。

Yesterday in the morning,A shenzhen single save micro bo stick out a was born in 2001 first girl friend sign micro bo:"Sell a height 157/Temper is a little weird/But people are very good in, Pisces female,In longgang * * first,Don't smoke not wine don't rush(note:Around nightclub),Want to find a love in the end before her.Demand is not high,Don't rush don't smoke not wine,The height of 170 cm,Age not greater than 3 years old,To protect her love her."One morning the micro bo with dozens of comments,Most of the people to come out after, sign a friend feel"shocked",The next step is to plaint oneself old.

　　该女生在私信中告诉记者，微博是朋友发的，她今年12岁，还没交过男朋友，她对男朋友的要求是“能够宠我爱我就够了”。记者问其学校有男女朋友的多不多，她表示“年级里面一堆，我们班两个而已。”

The girls in the usually letters tell told reporters,Micro bo is a friend hair,She this year 12 years old,Haven't paid boyfriend,Her boyfriend's requirement is"Can spoil me love me is enough".The reporter asked the school has more than a few men and women friends,She said"In a pile of grade,Our class two only."

专家建议 Expert advice

深圳中学心理老师：“练爱”正常，“拖手”不行 Shenzhen high school psychology teacher:"Practice love"normal,"Drag hand"no

　　针对中学生早恋的问题，深圳中学青少年心理专家王新红老师建议的态度是顺其自然。“其实中学生的所谓“恋爱”跟成年人有本质的区别。”王老师说，专门从事青少年心理研究的专家更偏向叫这种中学生之间的异性亲密关系叫“练爱”。“他们是通过与异性的接触，来认识自己，不以婚姻，也不以性为目的，大多数是这样，这是他们与成人恋爱最大的区别。”

According to the problem of middle school students to early love,Shenzhen high school teenagers psychological experts WangXinGong the teacher suggested that attitude is let nature take its course."In fact the so-called middle school students"love"With adults has essential difference."Teacher wang said,Specialized in psychology of teenagers experts call the middle school students to be more intimate relationship between the opposite sex that"Practice love"."They are through the contact with the opposite sex,To know yourself,Not the marriage,Nor in sex for the purpose,Most of it is,This is their and adults love the biggest difference."

　　王老师建议中学生还是要从友谊的角度出发，来处理异性关系，“真正谈恋爱，还是等到进入大学比较合适。”

The king the teacher suggested that high school students or from the point of view of friendship,To deal with the relationship between the opposite sex,"Really fall in love,Or wait until more appropriate to enter university."

深大师范学院教育系主任：校规应明确“禁止早恋” Deep big normal college education department:Rules should be clear"Prohibit to early love"

　　“大学也是学习的场所，也不应该恋爱。”深圳大学师范学院教育系主任赵卫说，他常在教室旁、校园里看到学生情侣搂搂抱抱，“看了十分难受，学校成什么地方了！”

"University is the place of study,Should not be love."Shenzhen university teachers college education department head zhou wei (b.1957 said,He often by in the classroom/Campus see students playing kissy-poo lovers,"See the very uncomfortable,The school into what place!"

　　赵卫认为，中学生恋爱如果达到了一定的规模，实质上反映的是校园文化建设的缺失。“现在很多学校，往往是大楼盖得好，但制度建设和精神建设都很欠缺。”在一些校园，尽管有相关的校规贴在墙上，但也没人管，家长忙，老师有的没责任心，有的又怕责罚了学生被媒体曝光，所以也视而不见。

Zhou wei (b.1957 think,Middle school students love if reached a certain scale,In essence reflects the lack of the construction of campus culture."Now a lot of school,Often is the building was built well,But the system construction and the construction of spirit is very short."In some school,Despite the related rules are stuck on the wall,But no one tube,Parents busy,The teacher didn't have sense of responsibility,Some fear the punish the students by the media exposure,So turn a blind eye to.

　　“我认为应该在校规里明确禁止早恋，对于学生一些不合时宜的行为，应尽早制止，学校是学习文化知识的场所，要还她本来的面目。” (仇日红)

"I think it should be in the school rules specifically prohibits puppy love,For students some inappropriate behavior,Should be released as soon as possible to stop,The school is to learn cultural knowledge of the place,She was really is." (Shameful episode red)