舞蹈、钢琴、奥数……孩子上培训班，家长也辛苦，不只是管接送，很多家长直接坐到培训课堂上，听课记笔记，全程当“陪练”。爸爸一下班就直奔培训机构给孩子占座位，然后妈妈来接力，帮着记笔记；一位妈妈在女儿的奥数课堂上，疲惫地睡着了；还有一位妈妈为了陪女儿学舞蹈，捏了块面包当晚饭，却始终腾不出时间吃……

dance/piano/aoshu……The child to the training,Parents also hard,Not only the tube shuttle,Many parents sat directly to the training class,To attend a lecture notes,Full when"practice".Father off went directly to training institutions to children for seats,Then my mom to relay,Help to take notes;A mother in her daughter's Olympic math class,Tired to fall asleep;And a mother to accompany the daughter learn dance,Knead a piece of bread for supper,But always those who have no time to eat……

　　

女儿补课 妈妈成了“同桌的你” Daughter make up a missed lesson mother became"Sit at the same table of you"

　　每周三晚上，文翁路某培训机构的教室里，坐满了“学生”。其中，有白发苍苍的老人，也有40岁左右的男女。他们来学习，不是为了自身充电，而是为了回家后能更好地辅导孩子。

Every Wednesday night,Wen wong address training institutions in the classroom,full"students".the,A white-haired old man,Also have forty years old men and women.They learn to,Not for their own charge,But to home to better guidance kid.

　　

全家分工 Family division of labor

　　

爸爸一下班 就去占座位 My father went to work for a seat

　　从下午5点放学起，战斗的号角就吹响了。“快点！快点！”莹莹（化名）奶奶催促着孙女和孙女的同学小玥（化名）。她们必须在1个小时内，从所在的二环路东三段抵达位于城中心的培训班。

The school from 5 PM,Battle horn blew it."Hurry up!Hurry up!"YingYing(alias)Grandma urged granddaughter and granddaughter of the students he small(alias).They must be in one hour,From the second ring road east three parts arrived at the training center.

　　此时，小玥的爸爸刚下班，他已在匆匆前往培训班的路上。他的任务是给两个孩子占到前排的好位置。

At this time,Small he father just off work,He has set up a file in the hurry to the way of training.His task is to give two children to the front of a good location.

　　孩子们乘坐61路公交车到猛追湾游泳池站，转5路到羊市街，再换乘109路到文翁路。奶奶很高兴，她们刚刚和下班高峰期擦肩而过，一路都比较通畅。抵达目的地时，还不到6点，给孙女带的香菇酱肉拌饭还冒着微微的热气。

The children take 61 bus to dashed after bay swimming pool station,Turn 5 road to YangShi street,To change to the 109 road to wen wong road.Grandma is very happy,They just and peak work pass,All the way are unobstructed.Arrived at the destination,Less than 6,Granddaughter to with mushroom braised pork with soy sauce mix rice also braved the heat slightly.

　　小玥的爸爸也圆满完成了任务。他占到了第二排最中间的两个位置。

Small he father also the successful completion of the task.He accounted for most of the second row between two positions.

　　

“旁听生”太多 "auditor"Too much

　　

教室贴须知 别和孩子抢座 The classroom notes and children don't stick the seat

　　晚上6点25分，能容纳40个人的教室已经坐得差不多了：15名学生，14名家长。

6 25 points,Can accommodate forty personal classroom has to sit about:15 students,14 parents.

　　家长旁听，是这个奥数培训机构的“传统”。补习班甚至对家长旁听做了经验总结，在教室显眼位置贴出了《家长旁听须知》：“亲，上课随意走动伤不起……上课手机乱响伤不起……最好的位置给我们的孩子，家长抢前排伤不起……上课和孩子抢答问题伤不起，上课坐孩子旁边指导更是伤不起，上课打呼噜是伤不起中的伤不起……”

Parents sit in,Is the Olympic math training institutions"The traditional".Cram school even for parents to sit in on do sums up the experience,In the classroom conspicuous position put up[Parents audit guidelines]:"close,Wander about in class can't afford to injury……Mobile phone ring in class about not hurt……The best position to give our children,Parents can't afford to hurt the front row……Class and children vies to answer first problem can't afford to injury,School children sit beside direction was not hurt,The class is not snore injury of can't afford to injury……"

　　好在莹莹和小玥班上的家长们都比较守规矩：四个相熟的妈妈坐在左手边倒数一、二排，课前热烈地讨论着最近几次考试孩子的分数和排名，铃声一响立马封口；爷爷坐在孙子背后；莹莹奶奶坐在最后一排，顺便给小玥的妈妈占了个座。小玥爸爸已经背着女儿的书包回家了，旁听工作留给了认真细致的妈妈。

May he YingYing and small class parents are behave:Four phase of your mother to sit in the left hand side a reciprocal/Two rows,The class discussed the recent test children score and ranking,The bell rang immediately sealing;Grandfather sat behind the grandson;YingYing grandma sat in the last row,By the way he mother for small accounts for a seat.He has little father carrying daughter bag to go home,Audit work to the serious and careful mother.

　　“这节课我们讲多人相遇追击问题。”年轻的数学老师微笑着说。学生拿出了教辅资料，家长掏出了笔记本。

"This lesson we speak many people meet pursuit problem."Young math teacher said with a smile.The students took out teaching material,Parents took out a notebook.

　　

家长听奥数 Parents listen to mathematical olympiad

　　

听了半小时 妈妈睡着了 Listen to the mother fell asleep half an hour

　　不得不说，家长当学生，当得真是非常称职。当老师问“这道题是不是该用方程啊”，学生还没反应，有家长已开始点头，还有家长发出了“嗯嗯”的赞同声。

Have to say,The parents when a student,It is really very good.When the teacher asked"This problem is to use this equation ah",Students also didn't respond,Parents had already began to nod,And parents sent out"Uh huh"Acceptance sound.

　　坐在倒数第二排中间的一位妈妈没有点头。整堂课，她一直低着头，在纸上画来画去。她被一道数学题难住了。

Sitting in the middle of the second from bottom row a mom didn't nod.Whole class,She always low head,On paper to draw a picture to.She was a math problem baffled.

　　“问，100以内能被3和5整除的数有多少个？”她列了好些方程式，写了又叉掉。“我们是刚刚转来的。”她不好意思地低声对记者说，之前的课都没有上，为了能跟上进度，她和娃娃下来还要练习之前的题目。

"ask,100 less than 3 and 5 can be divided exactly how many number?"She made many equation,Wrote and fork out."We are just to turn."She is embarrassed voice told reporters,Before the class didn't,In order to keep up with the progress,She and her baby down to practice before the subject.

　　对于65岁的小仪（化名）爷爷来说，上奥数课真是个艰巨的挑战。和其他家长只在笔记本上做笔记不一样，认真的爷爷复印了孙子的全套教辅资料。“这些题真的很难。”一堂课下来，他苦笑着说。但又不得不强打精神去听万一孙子有哪些地方没听懂，他听懂了呢？

For the 65 - year - old small instrument(alias)Grandpa is,The mathematical olympiad class is really a difficult challenge.And other parents only in the notebook notes is not the same,Serious grandpa copy the grandson of the full set of teaching material."These questions really difficult."Class down,He says with a wry smile.But had to thwack spirit to go to one thousand grandson what don't understand,He understand??

　　晚上7点零2分，上课32分钟后，一位妈妈终于支撑不住，头枕课桌，伏在女儿身边沉沉睡去。还好，她没有打呼噜。

7 PM zero 2 points,Class 32 minutes,A mother finally can not hold up,With desk,Fell on his daughter side went to sleep.Also good,She didn't snore.

　　

陪读理由 Or relatives can apply for reason

　　

娃娃没听懂 家长可补讲 Baby don't understand parents can speak up

　　晚上7点半，气喘吁吁的小玥妈妈终于到了。趁着课间休息，她从随身带的保温杯里倒了杯热水给女儿。对比同桌的笔记，她十分庆幸自己还能赶上这堂课最重要的地方画图解题。

At half past seven in the evening,Panting little he mother finally arrived.Under the cover of break,She from portable take of vacuum cup pour a cup of hot water for his daughter.Contrast sit at the same table notes,She is very lucky that I can catch up with the class draw the most important place in problem solving.

　　“这个很重要，可以提高娃娃考试时的答题速度。”小玥妈妈一边做笔记，一边悄声对记者说。她的视力不好，老师字又写得小，坐在最后一排的她不得不一直用手扶高眼镜，眯着眼看。

"This is very important,Can improve the baby when the exam of reading speed."He little mother side make notes,Side quietly told reporters.Her eyesight,The teacher word and write little,Sitting in the last row of she had to have been use walking tall glasses,squinting.

　　教室一片寂静，只听到笔在纸上滑动的声音。睡觉的妈妈不知什么时候醒了，双手撑着头，看着黑板，眼神惺忪。

The classroom silence,Only hear pen on the paper sliding voice.Sleeping mother don't know when I wake up,Hands hold the head,Looking at the blackboard,Eyes though.

　　小玥妈妈是慕名到这个奥数培训机构的，其中一个重要原因便是允许家长旁听。“娃娃听不懂的，家长来帮忙听总好一些。”她想了想，说，“我有个朋友，娃娃钢琴十级了，家长也是一直陪着练。虽然家长弹可能不行，但耳朵的确练出来了，娃娃在屋头练琴，哪个音弹错了，她一听就听得出来。”

He is little mother traveled to the Olympic math training institutions,One of the important reasons is to allow parents to sit on."Baby don't understand,Parents to help to always better."She wanted to think,said,"I have a friend,The baby piano ten levels,Parents also stayed with practice.Though parents may not play,But the ear indeed practice out,The doll is on the house head to practice,Which sound bomb was wrong,She listen to listen to come out."

　　小玥妈妈说，自己的要求并不高，“小升初升一个二类学校，我就觉得可以了。”

He little mother said,His request is not high,"Another rise a second school,I feel ok."

　　

陪女练舞 妈妈顾不上吃晚饭 With female practice dance mother to eat dinner

　　为了取得艺术特长生报名资格，小玥妈妈花1500请老师给孩子编了支舞。孩子一放学，母女俩便匆匆往舞蹈室赶。路上，女儿简单吃了点东西，她自己买了块面包，但到最后也没腾出时间来吃。

In order to obtain art especially immortal qualification,Small he mother spend 1500 please the teacher give children made a dance.School children,Both mother and daughter and he rushed out to the dance studio.way,Simple daughter had something to eat,She bought a loaf of bread,But in the end also didn't have time to eat.

　　为了给小升初多加一个保险，小玥除了学奥数，还要练习舞蹈艺体特长生也是一条升学途径，她现在已经考到了民族舞十级。

In order to add another an insurance,He little besides learning mathematical olympiad,To practice dancing arts body especially immortal is also a way to study,She is now tested as a folk dance ten level.

　　但前不久，成都市教育局一纸规定，让这个求学之家更加忙碌。从明年起，考级证书不再作为艺术特长生报名条件，只有艺术人才大赛的奖状才能通行。

But not long ago,Chengdu bureau of provisions of a paper,Let the school home more busy.Starting from the next year,Cma certificate is no longer as art especially immortal condition signing up,Only art talent competition testimonials to traffic.

　　艺术人才大赛的舞蹈类比赛和舞蹈考级不一样。后者看动作，“把几个规定动作练熟就可以了。”前者则需要参赛者跳一支完整的独舞。小玥妈妈花了1500元，请了位老师给孩子编了一支傣族舞。当然，练舞她也是全程陪同可以帮女儿记一点动作要领。

Artistic talent competition dance class games and dance of cma is not the same.The latter the action,"Put a few compulsory practice practice is ok."The former is the need to jump a complete solo dance.He little mother spent 1500 yuan,Please the teacher give children made a dai dance.Of course,Practice dance she is also accompanied by the daughter can help take any behavioral essentials.

　　上个星期四下午，孩子一放学，母女俩便匆匆从城东往城南的舞蹈室赶。路上，女儿简单吃了点东西，她自己买了块面包，但到最后也没腾出时间来吃。

Last Thursday afternoon,School children,Both mother and daughter and he rushed from the east to south drive now.way,Simple daughter had something to eat,She bought a loaf of bread,But in the end also didn't have time to eat.

　　让她没想到的是，练了一个小时，女儿突然号啕大哭。“我不练了！不练了！”她伏在沙发上，用校服捂住脸哭泣。老师走过去想安慰小玥，但刚刚坐到小玥身边，女孩就猛然从沙发上弹起来，跑到了离老师远远的地方，继续抽泣。

Let her thought is,Practice for an hour,Daughter, weeping and suddenly."I don't practice the!Don't practice the!"She fell on the sofa,Burying his face in school uniform cry.The teacher went over and tried to comfort he small,But he just sat to small side,The girl is suddenly from the sofa play up,Ran away from the teacher far place,Continue to SOB.

　　“她有些累了。坐公交车来的时候，她一直在给我说，妈妈，我累。”小玥妈妈尴尬又无奈地对老师解释，头天的奥数课上到晚上9点半，到家时已是晚上10点过，还有一些阅读、背诵的功课。

"She is some tired.Take the bus came,She has been talking to me,mother,I'm."He little mother embarrassed and helpless to the teacher to explain,The day before the Olympic math class in the evening at half past nine,When I get home is already had ten o 'clock at night,There are some reading/Reciting lessons.

　　“我哭是因为累了。”小玥悄悄对记者说，她不想学了。

"I was crying because tired."Small he quietly told reporters,She doesn't want to learn.

　　“不想学什么？舞蹈还是奥数？”记者问。

"Don't want to learn what?Dance or mathematical olympiad?"The reporter asked.

　　“都不想。”小玥仰起头，笑了。

"All don't want to."He little supinely begin,smiled.

　　“谁都累，但有什么办法呢？”小玥妈妈告诉记者，她和舞蹈老师协商好了，把舞蹈课改到星期天。那天，娃娃只有两个小时的英语课，刚刚好。

"Who are tired,But what way?"He little mother told reporters,She and her dance teacher consultation well,The dance class changes on Sunday.That day,Baby only two hours of English class,Just right.

　　

编后 BianHou

　　课堂上当监工兼书童，回家后当家教。很多家长对自己的学习能力很自信。他们以为，自己上课的吸收率一定比孩子好，笔记一定比孩子记得全，回家后足以独立辅导孩子功课。培训班也看准了这个“卖点”，允许家长陪读成了激烈竞争下的一大优势。“贴身辅导、重复教学”的教育方式短期内可能会起到一定的效果，但从长远来看，家长和孩子的思维方式毕竟不同，长期陪练，会不会扰乱正常的教学进度，会不会让孩子产生依赖心理呢？这些都值得探讨。

The classroom in supervision and ShuTong,After coming home when tutor.A lot of parents for their own learning ability is very confident.They think,His class absorption rate must be better than good children,Note must be better than children remember all,After coming home to independent counseling children homework.Training also zeroed in on this"Selling point",Allow parents or relatives can apply for a competitive a big advantage."Personal counseling/Repeated teaching"The education mode in the short term may have certain effect,But in the long run,Parents and children, after all, different way of thinking,Long-term practice,Will disturb the normal teaching progress,Will not let the child have dependent psychology??These are worth discussing.