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如何让孩子远离性侵 尽早让孩子了解“性”--亲民维稳网络舆情监测室
2012-12-28

  最近,幼童被性侵的新闻频见报端。孩子对性的认知非常有限,如何培养他们的自我防范意识呢?近日,美国知名育儿杂志《父母》给家长建议,帮助不同年龄段孩子拥有更好的防性侵意识。 recently,Children were sexual harassment news frequency see made public.The child sexual cognition is very limited,How to cultivate their awareness of self?recently,The famous American parenting magazines[parents]Suggestions to parents,Help children have different age paragraph better prevent sexual harassment consciousness.

  

2岁至4岁 2 years to 4 years old

  认识性器官。对于性器官,不要一味说委婉语,阴道就是阴道,阴茎即说阴茎,更加清晰的说法有助于孩子了解性。

Organ in understanding.Organ for,Don't always said euphemism,Vaginal is vaginal,Is the penis penis said,Clearer that help children learn about sex.

  保护隐私部位。告诉孩子,除了他自己、父母或者医生(或者其他特别亲密的人)之外,任何人都不应该触摸他的隐私部位。如果有人这样做,告诉父母。

Privacy parts.Tell the children,In addition to his own/Parents or doctors(Or other are particularly close to)outside,Anyone should not touch his privacy parts.If someone to do so,Tell parents.

  鼓励孩子倾诉。不管孩子感觉到困惑或是恐惧,都鼓励孩子向自己倾诉。

Encourage the children talk.No matter the child feel confused or fear,Encourage children to talk.

  

5岁至8岁 Five to eight years old

  尊重孩子感受。如果孩子对别人的拥抱或亲吻感到厌恶或不快,请支持孩子的做法,向对方解释“孩子现在不想被抱,请理解。”

Respect children feel.If a child to others embrace or kiss scunner or unhappy,Please support the child's practice,Explain to each other"Children now don't want to be held,Please understand."

  去掉罪恶感。永远不要等事情发生再去补救。恐吓和羞辱常常是行凶者最有利的武器。因此,让孩子明白,但凡有人做些令人不舒服的举动时,这都是坏人的罪恶,自己要懂得去向别人求助和倾诉。洗澡时告诉孩子“有些大人愿意对孩子做一些不好的行为,而爸爸妈妈会保护你的安全,如果你感觉不舒服,随时都可以告诉我们。”

Remove the guilt.Always don't wait for things to happen to remedy.Threats and humiliation is often perpetrator the most advantageous weapon.so,Let the child understand,In every case someone do something uncomfortable when the move,This is all bad SINS,You want to know to others for help and talk.Tell the children while taking a bath"Some adult children are willing to do some bad behavior,And mom and dad will protect your safety,If you don't feel well,Can you tell us at any time."

  不单独上网。这个年龄段的孩子不适宜单独上网。限制孩子上网,有助于杜绝他们把个人信息透露在网上。

The Internet is not alone.This age children not suitable for the Internet alone.Limit your child on the Internet,Help to put an end to them to reveal private information on the Internet.

  

9岁以上 9 years old

  强调这不是他们的错。孩子逐渐长大,可能出现来自同龄人的性骚扰,孩子自身的发育也让侵犯者更加有机可乘。找机会和孩子谈谈这方面的事,也可以来个“头脑风暴”,研究在各种不舒服的情况下如何脱身。另外,始终强调如果别人对她/他行为不端,并不是她/他的错。

Emphasize that this is not their fault.The boy grew older,Peers may appear from the sexual harassment,Child's own development also let offenders given more.Look for opportunities and children to talk about this matter,Can also come to"Brain storm",Research in various uncomfortable situation how to get away.In addition,Always emphasize if others she/he misbehaved,Is not her/his fault.

  远离色情信息。互联网、手机、电影等都可能让孩子接触到色情的内容,尽量避免孩子接触到,并向其解释这些信息的弊端。尤其对女儿,要让她们明白自重和自尊是女人最重要的品质之一。

Away from pornographic information.The Internet/Mobile phone/Movies can let children access to pornographic content,Avoid contact with the children,To explain these information and its drawbacks.Especially for daughter,To let them understand self-respect and self-esteem is one of the most important quality women.

  值得信任的伙伴。有时候,性隐私的事情孩子难以向父母启齿。所以家长可以让孩子拥有一个值得信任的伙伴,并且能在孩子遇到类似困惑时及时转达给你们。总之,对孩子及早教育,培养他们的自我防护意识,多和其老师、朋友沟通,留心孩子的异常变化或者心情波动,就会让孩子受到从内而外的保护。(郭静超)

Trustworthy partner.sometimes,Sexual privacy things children to parents to form.So parents can let the child have a trusted partner,And the child can meet similar confused timely convey to you.In a word,Early education for children,Cultivate their self-protection awareness,More and the teacher/Friends communication,Pay attention to the child's abnormal changes or the mood fluctuation,Will let the child is from inside and outside of the protection.(GuoJingChao)


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