每每看着幼儿园其他小朋友骑着爸爸的马马肩回家，妍妍无不羡慕。为了让父亲每周看望自己一次，昨日，妍妍的母亲小楚作为监护人，委托律师将妍妍的爸爸晓军告到了渝北区法院。

Often look at other kindergarten children ride dad's horse shoulder to go home,Yan yan is envy.In order to let my father see myself once a week,yesterday,Yan yan, the mother of the little chu as guardian,Entrust a lawyer to tell yan yan's father XiaoJun YuBeiOu court.

　　然而，这一看似很亲情的索取却遭遇法律盲区：现行法律只规定离异父母有探望子女的权利，却未赋予子女受探望的权利。

However,,This one looks very affection of claim has been legal blind area:The current law only divorced parents have the right to visit them,Did not give their children the right of visit.

一对80后夫妻 A pair of husband and wife after 80

闪婚不久闪离 Flash flash marriage soon

　　今年26岁的小楚是合川区人，29岁的晓军是渝北区人，两人都喜欢上网，晓军爱打游戏，小楚喜欢和网友神侃。

This year 26 years old little chu is ocean area,29 XiaoJun is YuBeiOu,Two people like to surf the Internet,XiaoJun love playing games,Small chu like net friend ShenKan.

　　时间倒退回2006年8月的夏天，晓军和小楚在网络上浪漫邂逅，不到1个月，两人就不顾双方家人劝阻闪婚了。

Time back in August 2006 in the summer,XiaoJun and small chu romantic encounter on the Internet,Less than a month,Two people don't regard the family discourage the flash marriage.

　　虽然婚礼不是很隆重，但两人都觉得找到了爱的归宿。然而，当激情慢慢冷却回到现实生活中，两人开始面对生活的油盐酱醋茶，因生活琐事所累，他们感情逐渐冷却到了冰点。两年后，在女儿不到1岁时，两人又不顾双方父母极力劝阻闪离了。

Although not very grand wedding,But two people all feel found the end-result of love.However,,When passion slowly cooling back to real life,Two people to face life of oil salt sauce vinegar tea,Because life trivial,Their feelings gradually cooling to the freezing point.Two years later,In less than 1 year old daughter,Two people, regardless of both parents urging flash away from.

　　两人草草达成离婚协议，晓军净身出户，妍妍由小楚抚养，价值25万多元的房子归小楚，晓军不用支付妍妍的抚养费。

Two people caocao divorce agreement,XiaoJun clean body out of the door,Yan yan raised by small chu,Value of 250000 yuan of the house to small chu,XiaoJun don't have to pay for support of yan yan.

女儿得相思病盼望爸爸回家 Daughter have to the lovesickness hope dad home

　　单身妈妈小楚为了让女儿快快乐乐地成长，没有再嫁。时间一晃就过了4年，妍妍5岁了，在一家幼儿园上大班。小楚可能没有注意到女儿的变化，妍妍有时候回家呆呆地望着窗外，小楚问妍妍怎么回事，妍妍似乎懂事地什么也不说。

Single mother small chu to let his daughter grow up happily,Not to be married.Time by the four years,Yan yan 5 years old,In a class in the kindergarten.Small chu may not have noticed the change of the daughter,Yan yan sometimes home out of the window with a glassy stare,Asked the little chu yan yan how to return a responsibility,Yan yan seems sensible to say nothing.

　　几次发现这样的状况后，小楚这才意识到问题可能不是说几句话就能解决。之后，小楚发现，在幼儿园门口，妍妍放学后每每看到有年轻爸爸接小朋友，妍妍就会呆呆地看着他们。

After several times found that such a situation,Small chu didn't realize this problem may not be say a few words can solve.after,Small chu found,At the gate of the kindergarten,Yan yan often see young father pick up the children after school,Yan yan will still look at them.

　　妍妍的生活老师似乎也注意到了这一情况，提醒小楚注意孩子生活及心理健康问题。

Yan yan's life the teacher seem to have noticed it,Remind little chu children live and pay attention to the psychological health problems.

　　今年9月，两个月假期后，妍妍回到幼儿园，又出现了发呆的情况，小楚以为妍妍得了什么病，将她送到重医附属儿童医院诊治，医生详细询问，判定妍妍可能心理上有阴影。

September this year,Two months after the holiday,Yan yan back to kindergarten,There was in a daze,What's up with small chu think yan yan,Send her to children's hospital affiliated with heavy medical diagnosis and treatment,The doctor ask for details,Determine the yan yan might have psychological shadows.

　　在幼儿园老师提醒下，小楚解开了谜团。老师建议小楚多让妍妍爸爸来接她，不想这个提议戳到了小楚的痛处。

Under the kindergarten teacher reminded,Small chu solve the mystery.The teacher suggested that small chu let yan yan dad to meet her,Don't want to poke the proposal to the chu of the home.

　　原来，每当妍妍向小楚询问爸爸去哪儿了，小楚都说爸爸到很远的地方出差去了，很快就会回来，随后岔开话题。

The original,When yan yan ask small chu where daddy went,Small chu said dad went to far away places on business,Will come back soon,Then branch off topic.

　　小楚开始不安起来，真相终究不能一直隐瞒下去，迟早有一天妍妍会知道一切。

Small chu began to nervous,All can't hide the truth,Sooner or later one day yan yan will know everything.

女儿状告爸爸 Daughter sued dad

每周看望自己 Every week to see myself

　　小楚几次给晓军打电话，希望他回来看望妍妍，却遭到晓军拒绝。

Small chu several times to call XiaoJun,Hope he come back to visit yan yan,But XiaoJun rejects.

　　前不久，晓军又接到小楚的电话，这次晓军在电话中道出几年都没回去看女儿的理由，“你以前经常在外面晃，我担心女儿不是我亲生的。”

Not long ago,XiaoJun and received little chu's call,The XiaoJun voice on the phone a few years didn't go back to see her daughter's reason,"You used to hang outside,I'm worried about is not my own daughter."

　　晓军的答复让小楚很气愤，但气愤归气愤，女儿肯定还是希望爸爸回家抱她亲她。

XiaoJun reply let little chu is very angry,But angry angry,Daughter was surely hope dad home hold her kiss her.

　　每每看着幼儿园其他小朋友骑着爸爸的马马肩回家，妍妍都流露出羡慕的神色。昨日，小楚作为妍妍的监护人，委托重庆昆德律师事务所杨振雨律师，将晓军告到渝北区法院。渴望得到父爱的妍妍在诉状中提了两点要求：每月支付抚养费500元，每周回家看自己一次。

Often look at other kindergarten children ride dad's horse shoulder to go home,Yan yan reveals the envy of all.yesterday,Small chu as yan yan's guardian,Entrusted by chongqing kunming's law firm YangZhenYu lawyer,Will XiaoJun tell YuBeiOu court.For the father loves the yan yan in the filed of the two requirements:Pay compensation fee is 500 yuan per month,Go home and watch yourself once a week.

　　昨日，小楚告诉重庆晚报记者，妍妍不知道她和晓军已经是两家人，前几天，妍妍说要给爸爸打长途电话，让他每个周末都坐飞机回家，带她出去玩。看着女儿天真的眼神，小楚潸然泪下。

yesterday,Small chu told chongqing evening news reporter,Yan yan I don't know her and XiaoJun is two family,A few days ago,A long distance call yan yan said to dad,Let him fly home every weekend,Take her out to play.Look at daughter's innocent eyes,Small chu shed.

　　离婚时已经约定晓军不出抚养费，为何现在又提出来？对此，小楚说，她现在没有固定工作，生活拮据，和父母的关系也很僵，只能让晓军承担妍妍的一些生活费。（文中当事人均系化名）

Don't divorce have agreed XiaoJun semen,Why now come up again?this,Said the little chu,She has no fixed work now,Living in reduced circumstances since,The relationship with parents is also very recently,Can only make XiaoJun yan yan some of the expenses.(The parties are aliases)

怀疑女儿不是亲生 Doubt is not his own daughter

有时进入前妻QQ空间看女儿 Sometimes into the ex-wife QQ space to see daughter

80后爸爸纠结 80 after dad entanglements

　　昨日下午，重庆晚报记者联系上妍妍的爸爸晓军，说起和小楚的浪漫，晓军在电话那边不住叹气，“算了，不想多说啥子了。”

Yesterday afternoon,Chongqing evening news reporter contact yan yan's father XiaoJun,Speaking of small chu and romance,XiaoJun doesn't sigh on the other side of the phone,"Forget it,Don't want to say what."

　　晓军说，当年考虑问题确实简单，满以为只要一见钟情就能过一辈子，然而，现实生活让自己根本没有心理准备。特别是妍妍到来，让生活全部乱套了。小楚除了坐月子呆在家里，其他时候依旧整日沉迷于网络，会网友夜不归宿时有发生，自己虽然打游戏时会忘掉身边的事，但无法忍受妻子的背叛。

XiaoJun said,When considering problems really simple,Think as long as love at first sight can for life,However,,Real life let oneself have no psychological preparation.Especially yan yan,Let the life all got.Small chu but after having stayed at home,Other times still indulge in the network all day,Will be net friend YeBuGuiSu happen from time to tome,Although playing games when they forget about the things around,But can't stand the betrayal of his wife.

　　晓军说，自己对小楚的背叛一直耿耿于怀，女儿是否自己亲生的也成了他无法释怀的心结。和小楚协议离婚后，自己确实一次都没有回去看过妍妍，也没有拿钱给妍妍和小楚，但有时候还是会用另外一个QQ号去看小楚的QQ空间，看看妍妍长得怎么样了。

XiaoJun said,Yourself to the betrayal of small chu has been,Whether daughter of their own has become he couldn't get heart.And small chu agreement after divorce,You really can't go back to see a yan yan,Also did not take money to yan yan and small chu,But sometimes will still use another QQ number to see the little chu's QQ space,See yan yan look like.

　　谈话中，重庆晚报记者注意到，晓军其实还是在乎妍妍的成长，只是一直不能打开心结。重庆晚报记者提议，如果怀疑妍妍非亲生，可以做一个亲子鉴定。不想，晓军一口拒绝了。

conversation,Chongqing evening news reporter noticed,XiaoJun actually still in the growth of the yan yan,Just can't open the heart knot.Chongqing evening news reporters,If you doubt yan yan than their own,Can a paternity.Don't want to,XiaoJun refused.

　　晓军表示，愿意在适当的时候回去看看她们母女，如今，他有了另外一个家庭，有一个两岁的女儿，所以，不愿纠缠于这件事。晓军说，如果小楚和妍妍确实生活上出现困难，他可以承担妍妍的部分抚养费。

XiaoJun said,Will at the right time to go back to see their mother and daughter,now,He has another family,There is a two year old daughter,so,Don't want to get drawn into this matter.XiaoJun said,If small chu and yan yan is indeed difficult to appear on the life,He can bear part of the compensation fee of yan yan.

重庆律师上书全国人大 Chongqing lawyer petitioned the National People's Congress

让破碎家庭的孩子 To break the child of the family

也能享受完整的爱 Also can enjoy full of love

　　妍妍的代理律师、重庆昆德律师事务所杨振雨律师坦言，妍妍的爸爸没有对妍妍进行探望，对妍妍的健康成长带来伤痛，但妍妍要求父亲对其探望，没有相应的法律依据，可能得不到法院支持，但请求父亲给付抚养费是合法的。

Yan yan's attorney/Chongqing, kunming, law firms YangZhenYu lawyers said,Yan yan's father not to visit yan yan,To the healthy growth of the yan yan bring pain,But yan yan asked his father to visit it,No corresponding legal basis,May not get court support,But ask his father to pay compensation fee is legal.

　　杨振雨律师称，《婚姻法》规定，离婚后，不直接抚养子女的一方有探望子女的权利，另一方有协助的义务。从规定可以看出，探望权是离婚后父母对子女的权利，享有探望权的主体是父母，子女是探望权的客体。

YangZhenYu lawyer says,[Marriage law]Provisions of the,After the divorce,The party does not directly bring up the children have the right to visit them,The other party shall have the obligation to assist.As can be seen from the rules,Visit right after the divorce is parents children's rights,Shall enjoy the right of visit is the main body of the parents,Children are the object of the visitation.

　　杨振雨律师认为，父母的积怨不应由未成年子女承担，父母双方由于感情破裂不对子女进行探望，无疑会对子女的健康成长带来很多伤害。探望权对于父母来说是权利，但更应该是义务。探望权应坚持以未成年子女为本位，在保护父母合法权益的同时，也应注重未成年子女的利益，以达到父母子女亲子关系的和谐。

YangZhenYu lawyer said,The bitterness of parents should not be borne by the minor children,Both parents because feelings broken no children to visit,There is no doubt that will bring a lot of damage to the healthy growth of children.Visitation right for parents is right,But more should be compulsory.Visitation right should adhere to the minor children as the standard,In the protection of the legitimate rights and interests of parents at the same time,Also should pay attention to the interests of the minor children,In order to achieve the harmony of parent-child relationship between parents and children.

　　昨日，杨振雨律师已向全国人大寄出了自己的立法建议，希望探望权的立法赋予子女的受探望权，让破碎家庭的孩子也能享受完整的爱。

yesterday,YangZhenYu lawyer has sent to the National People's Congress of his legislative Suggestions,Hope that legislation of the visitation right to children's visit,Let broken families also can enjoy full of love.

父亲不能拒绝女儿请求 My father can't refuse such a request for her daughter

　　妍妍要爸爸每周回家看她一次，这个要求能不能得到法院支持呢？

Yan yan to dad home to see her once a week,This requirement can be supported by the court?

　　昨天，重庆晚报记者把这个问题抛给了几个律师咨询QQ群，网友们普遍认为，作为爸爸的晓军应该无条件回去看女儿，多给女儿一些温暖。

yesterday,Chongqing evening news reporter throw the problem to several lawyers advisory QQ group,Is generally believed that the net friend,Go home to see daughter as a father's XiaoJun should be unconditional,Give my daughter some warmth.

　　网友们认为，妍妍幼小的心灵应该得到慰藉，毕竟女儿是父母的心头肉，虽然不归爸爸抚养，晓军也有责任和义务负担女儿的成长。

Net friends think,Yan yan young and small mind should be comfort,Are her parents treasured flesh and blood after all,Although not to father raising,XiaoJun also has the responsibility and obligation to burden the growth of the daughter.

　　在线的律师分成了两派，一派和网友的想法一样，一派则从法律的角度发表看法。抬出法律的律师提出，探望权是父母的权利，妍妍要求父亲每周探望一次于法无据，不会得到法院支持。

Online lawyer's divided into two groups,School and friends have the same idea,Who were from the aspect of law.Carry out the laws of the lawyer,Visitation is parents' rights,Yan yan asked his father to visit a after a week is not law-based,Not supported by the court.

　　重庆晚报记者从主城区几家基层法院了解到的情况显示，目前，随着离婚率不断上升，离异父母探望权案件也呈上升趋势，但子女要求父母对其探望，即受探望权，尚属探望权纠纷中的新类型。

Chongqing evening news reporter from the city a few court at the grass-roots level to understand the situation,At present,,Along with the rising divorce rate,Divorced parents visiting right case also shows ascendant trend,But the children asked their parents to the visit,Namely the visitation right,The new type of is visiting right disputes.

　　一些法官在接受重庆晚报记者咨询时也有两种观点：一种认为探望权应以子女为本位，不仅要保护父母的探望权，也应维护子女的受探望权，妍妍的要求应得到法院支持。另一种则认为，探望权是父母的权利，妍妍的要求于法无据，属于亲情慰藉，应从道德范畴进行规制，不应得到支持。（重庆晚报记者 唐中明）

Some judges in chongqing evening news reporter consultation when there are two kinds of views:A think visitation right should be with their children as the standard,Not only to protect the exertion of their parents,Also should maintain children's visit,Yan yan's request shall be supported by the court.Another thought,Visitation is parents' rights,Yan yan to the requirements of the ruling is not law-based,Belong to the family comfort,Should be the moral category,Should not be supported.(Chongqing evening news reporter TangZhongMing)