台海网12月27日讯 （海峡导报记者 康泽辉 李贵荣）被村里的5旬老汉性侵后，龙岩上杭的10岁女童小田，很少再笑了。偏偏，同学和老师时常问起，令她不知怎么回应。渐渐地，她开始变得沉默寡言。

Taiwan network on December 27 (Channel herald reporter KangZeHui LiGuiRong)By 5 ten-day sexual harassment after the old man in the village,Ten girls XiaoTian longyan in hangzhou,Rarely smiled again.Thank god,Classmates and teachers often asked,She don't know how to respond.Little by little,She began to become silent.

　　田妈很着急，这都快一个月了，可咋办？昨日，她致电导报龙岩新闻热线0597—2321280寻求帮助。

TianMa very try so hard,This is almost a month now,But to do?yesterday,She call herald longyan news hotline at 0597-2321280 for help.

　　事情得从这个月初说起。小田在镇里的中心学校上学，周一到周五寄宿在托管中心，周末才回家。

Speak of things from this month.XiaoTian in the center of the town school,Monday to Friday boarding in custody center,Weekend didn't go home.

　　一天，田妈洗衣服时，发现小田的衣服里多了几十元钱。田妈赶紧把孩子叫回家盘问。这时，小田才抖出实情：今年9月，同村的5旬老汉竟然用零食做诱饵，强行与小田发生了性关系。12月这回，已经是第三次。

One day,TianMa wash his clothes,Found XiaoTian clothes in more than a few yuan money.TianMa hurriedly called children home question.At this moment,XiaoTian didn't reveal the truth:September this year,Village 5 ten-day grandfather had made bait snacks,Having sex forcibly with XiaoTian.12 month this time,Is the third time.

　　次日凌晨，民警就将准备潜逃的嫌犯抓获归案。可经历此事后，田妈发现，原本活泼爱笑的“小公主”，不再蹦蹦跳跳，不再和小朋友一起玩，时常一个人发呆。

The next day in the morning,Police will be ready to run the suspects arrested.Can be after the matter,TianMa found,Originally lively and love to laugh"The little princess",No longer leap to jump,No longer play with children,Often a person in a daze.

　　刚开始的几周，小田还会跟田妈说，学校里的同学和老师常问她那件事，她都不知道怎么回应。再后来，话更少了。田妈很心痛。除了安慰孩子，她什么都做不了。

The first few weeks,XiaoTian will tell TianMa,School students and teachers often ask her that,She didn't know how to respond.later,Words less.TianMa very heartache.In addition to comfort the child,She can't do anything.

　　昨天下午，导报记者咨询了厦门心灵空间资深心理咨询师曹凤芬。她认为，10岁的女童还处于懵懂时期，家长的角色尤为重要，“父母要多鼓励孩子，多花点时间陪陪她，给她心灵上的支持”。

Yesterday afternoon,Herald reporter consulting the xiamen heart space senior psychological consultants CaoFengFen.She thinks,Ten years old girl is still in the ignorant,The role of parents is particularly important,"Parents will encourage the children,Spend more time with her,Give her spiritual support".

　　同时，曹凤芬建议，老师、同学和旁人要给予受害者更多的关怀，这种关怀要自然，不刻意。最为重要的是，应避免在她面前提及相关话题，“每一次的提起，都可能加深她的心理创伤”。

At the same time,CaoFengFen Suggestions,The teacher/Victims classmates and other people to give more care,This concern to nature,Don't try.The most important is,Should be avoided in front of her mention related topics,"Every time the filed,Could deepen her psychological trauma".

　　厦门市精神卫生中心、仙岳医院中西医结合科主任陈进东也表示，对于这种情况，家长和师长应该多关心。情况没有好转的话，可以做一次正规的心理辅导。“实在不行，考虑转学”。

Xiamen mental health center/Xianyue hospital of integrated traditional Chinese and western medicine in ChenJinDong also said,For this kind of situation,Parents and teachers should care more.Things don't get better,Can do a formal psychological counseling."Really can't,Consider the transfer".