为入学的新生喂饭、为大小便失禁的学生清洗、护理生病的学生、为忘记带饭学生的买饭……问到学生是谁帮忙的，孩子都会笑着说“妈妈”。杨晓华是一个从不把自己当校长的校长，孩子们也都亲切地叫她“妈妈”，这样一位年轻的女强人，在工作中永远是乐观，充满活力的。可是谁又知道她自己就是一位自闭症孩子的母亲。自闭症儿童通常被称为“星星的孩子”，这是因为虽然他们的人能被人们看见，他们自闭的内心却不易被人们察觉……

For the entrance of new feed rice/Incontinence for the students/Nursing the sick students/For the students forgot to bring food to buy rice……Asked the students who help,Kids will say with smile"My mother".YangXiaoHua is a never put himself when the principal of the principal,The children are affectionately called her"My mother",Such a young entrepreneur,In the work is always optimistic,A vigor of the.But who know that she is an autistic child's mother.Autistic children is often called"The stars of the child",This is because although they can be seen,They closed the heart is not easy to be perceived by people……

140余名自闭儿童的“妈妈” More than 140 autistic children"My mother"

　　从1993年毕业后从事特殊教育工作开始，杨晓华就时刻把自己从属于为残疾学生服务的角色。从事特殊教育事业已经有20个春秋，她把全部的心血和爱奉献给了这些残疾孩子。2004年，她担任了哈尔滨市启迪学校的校长。目前学校的学生已有140余名，很多学生都存在肢体不协调，生活不能自理的问题，她为入学的新生喂饭、为大小便失禁的学生清洗、护理生病的学生、为忘记带饭学生的买饭等等，问到学生是谁帮忙的，孩子都会笑着说“妈妈”。

Since 1993 after graduation engaged in special education work,Moments from his YangXiaoHua belongs to the role of services for disabled students.Engaged in special education career has 20 spring and autumn,She put all the effort and love dedicated to the disabled children.In 2004,,She served as Harbin enlightenment the headmaster of the school.At present, the school has more than 140 students,Many students are members,The life cannot provide for oneself,She for the entrance of new feed rice/Incontinence for the students/Nursing the sick students/For the students forgot to bring food to buy rice and so on,Asked the students who help,Kids will say with smile"My mother".

　　女人一辈子，其角色从女儿到女朋友，到妻子再到母亲，对杨晓华来说，前半生走得异常顺利，也许是“给你一些不给一些”的逻辑使然，她的噩梦开始于女儿出生后的一年。“我女儿出生时一切都很正常，哭声洪亮，一双大眼睛还滴溜溜地到处乱转，当时全家都沉浸在无比的喜悦之中。”回想起女儿刚出生时，杨晓华眼中流露出了母性的慈爱。

A woman for a lifetime,Its role from the daughter to the girlfriend,To his wife to his mother,For YangXiaoHua,First half go smoothly,Maybe it's"Some do not give some to you"Due to the logic of,Started in the nightmare of her daughter was born the year after."My daughter was born when everything is normal,Crying loud,A pair of big eyes is going round and round to turn around,When the whole family is immersed in the joy of."Recall his daughter was born,YangXiaoHua eyes reveal the maternal love.

听着女儿主动喊妈妈，感觉特幸福 Listen to the daughter initiative called mother,I feel happy

　　“女儿两岁之前一点儿也没感觉到她和别人有什么不同的地方，也能叫爸爸、妈妈、爷爷、奶奶，也是个人见人爱的小宝宝，连过路的陌生人也会停下来逗逗她。”但随着孩子的成长，渐渐地杨晓华发现，孩子的语言能力退化了，对周围的事物听而不闻，视而不见。这一系列的症状让这位从事特殊教育工作的母亲心一下子揪了起来，经过多位专家的诊断，只是作出了语言发育迟缓，以后孩子的语言发育也只是停留两个字的阶段这样一个结论。面对乖巧漂亮的女儿，杨晓华的心碎了。“绝对不能放弃女儿”，杨晓华通过查找大量资料，核对女儿的症状，了解了自闭症的含义，她知道女儿这一生都将离不开她的扶持。

"Daughter did not feel before the age of two she and others have what different place,Can also be called dad/My mother/grandpa/grandma,Is loved by people of the baby,Even pass by a stranger will stop to tease her."But with the growth of children,Gradually YangXiaoHua found,The child's language ability degeneration,Listen to the things around,Turn a blind eye.This series of symptoms to the mother of the work in the special education heart suddenly pulled up,After the diagnosis of experts,Just made a language development delay,After the child's language development is only stay two words the stages of such a conclusion.With clever beautiful daughter,YangXiaoHua heart is broken."Absolutely can't give up my daughter",YangXiaoHua through the search a lot of information,Check the daughter of the symptoms,Understand the meaning of autism,She knew her daughter in this life will be without her support.

　　在残酷的现实面前，杨晓华带着孩子踏上了早期干预康复训练的漫漫长路。由于经济负担，她不能停下工作，平时只能由家中的老人来照顾孩子，所以下班之后陪女儿吃饭、看动画片就成为了她始终坚持的习惯。“都说女儿是妈妈的小棉袄，可能我的这件棉袄稍微薄了点儿，我也曾羡慕过那些有个健康孩子的母亲，但是人总要面对现实，这么多年，从帮助女儿康复这一点上，我更加地了解了自闭症儿童，我觉得这对我的工作是有帮助的。”

Before the cruel reality,YangXiaoHua took the children on the long process of the early intervention of rehabilitation training.Because of the economic burden,She can't stop work,At ordinary times only by the old man in the home to take care of children,So after work to accompany my daughter to dinner/Watching cartoon has become her habit of always adhere to the."Said her daughter is my mother's small quilted jacket,Maybe my this cotton-padded jacket is a bit low a little,I ever envy those who have a healthy child's mother,But man has to face the reality,So many years,From help daughter recover this point,I more understand the autistic children,I think it is helpful for my work."

　　经过几年的康复训练，杨晓华感觉女儿变得比以前懂事多了，在语言交流上有了很大的提高，情绪也稳定了不少，虽然十四岁的女儿智力还停留在四五岁的程度，但每当听着女儿主动喊妈妈，杨晓华就觉得特别幸福！

After several years of rehabilitation training,YangXiaoHua feel daughter becomes much more sensible than before,There has been a great improvement in the language communication,A lot of emotions and stability,Although 14 year old daughter intelligence also stay in four or five years old,But whenever I listen to the daughter to call mom,YangXiaoHua feel special happiness!

最大的成就感是孩子们有进步 The greatest achievement is the children make progress

　　2000年以来，杨晓华的学校不断有自闭症患儿的父母来访，他们迫切希望学校能够接纳自己的孩子。面对这些承受巨大痛苦的父母，面对一个个幼小的孩子，她想到自己的孩子曾被多家幼儿园拒之门外，想起那些自闭症孩子家长绝望的眼神，杨晓华觉得自己该为这些孩子做点什么。“如果有一个专门的训练康复机构，接纳这些‘星星的孩子’，让他们能接受正规的康复训练，无疑会给这些家庭带来希望”。2005年，“哈尔滨市启迪学校自闭症教育康复评估指导中心”正式挂牌，当年中心就接收了50多名自闭症患儿，杨晓华也成了“校长妈妈”。

Since 2000,YangXiaoHua school constantly have visit the parents of autistic children,Urgent hope that the school can accept their own children.Facing these bear great pain of parents,Face a young child,She thought of her children was rejected by a number of kindergarten,Recall those autistic children their parents in the eyes of despair,YangXiaoHua feel what to do for the children."If there is a special training institutions,To accept these‘The stars of the child’,Let them can accept formal rehabilitation training,Will no doubt bring hope to these families".In 2005,,"Harbin enlightenment education school autism rehabilitation evaluation guidance center"officially,In center is received more than 50 children with autism,YangXiaoHua has become"The headmaster mother".

　　刚搬到新校舍时，楼内有很多后期工作要做，临近开学，她急着为师生解决水源、热饭的问题。亲自动手钻孔接水源，爬上爬下接电，七天假期都为学校的事情忙碌，没有休息一天。学校按时开学，没有因为这些而影响教育教学工作。老师们都佩服地称她为“能人”，因为无论电工、木工、维修等等，有她在，没有解决不了的事。

Just moved to a new school,Late floor there is a lot of work to do,Near the school,She is in a hurry for the teachers and students to solve water supply/Hot meal of the problem.Hands-on drilling by water,Climbing up and down the electricity,Seven days holiday for the school things busy,No rest day.School on time,Without because these affect education teaching work.The teachers admire to call her"Wise men",Because no matter the electrician/woodworking/Maintenance, etc.,Is she in,No problem too.

　　康复中心有个自闭症儿童叫小皓皓，在中心接受教育已经有八九年的时间了，“这个孩子的情绪一直不稳定，有时父母来接晚了，他就会情绪失控，前几天我在试图抱他，安慰他的时候衣服就被他咬掉了一块。”杨晓华告诉记者，在启迪学校，这样的孩子有很多，他们经常会在吃饭的时候突然掀翻桌子，将食物弄得到处都是，又或者，在放学和老师告别的时候突然伸手使劲儿地掐老师胳膊一把，在孩子们看来，那是对老师亲切的告别方式，但在老师的胳膊上，留下的永远都是青一块红一块地印记。

Rehabilitation center a autistic children call little Adrian,In the center to accept education have 89 years of time,"The child's mood has not been stable,Sometimes parents come to pick up late,He will mood out of control,A few days ago I was trying to embrace him,Comfort him when the clothes he bit off a piece."YangXiaoHua told reporters,In the enlightenment school,So the children have a lot of,They often have a meal of the time suddenly came off the table,The food make everywhere,or,In school and the teacher to say goodbye when I stretch out my hand vigorous to choke the arm,It seems to the children,That is kind to the teacher way of farewell,But in the teacher's arm,Leave a piece of land is always black and piece of red mark.

　　有的年轻老师想不通，“我梦想的教师生涯应该是站在三尺讲台上挥洒汗水，为什么现在却要憋在这样一间屋子里，为了一个动作重复几十、几百次，还要经常受到意外的伤害？”杨晓华在了解了年轻教师的想法后，耐心地劝导她们，从事特教工作一定会很苦，也会很心酸，但是只要坚持下去，看着曾经将自己的内心封闭得风雨不透的孩子们，渐渐懂得了交流与关怀，那种欢欣是一般教师无法体会的。“从能说单音节的，到双音节的，再到短句，太艰难了，每个进步都像一次新生”，杨晓华说。

Some young teachers think impassability,"I dream of teachers' career should be stand on the three feet platform sweating,But why now will suppress in such a room,In order to repeat an action a few/Hundreds of times,But also often accidental damage?"YangXiaoHua after understanding the idea of young teachers,Persuade them patiently,Engaged in other work will be very bitter,Also will be very sad,But as long as you stick to it,At once his heart closed to wind and rain of the children,Gradually understand the communication and caring,That joy is unable to realize the general teachers."From can say single syllable,The double syllable,To short sentences,Is too difficult,Every progress like a new life",YangXiaoHua said.

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　　儿童自闭症也称孤独症，是一种严重的儿童心理发育障碍。自闭症孩子性格往往极端孤僻，无法与他人交往，同时失去了语言能力，只能重复简单的动作。自闭症的病因在医学界一直没有定论，是目前无法治愈的疾病，只能通过康复训练来缓解病情。 （记者 夏雪）

Children with autism is also called autism,Is a serious of children's psychological development obstacles.Autistic children often extreme withdrawn character,Unable to communicate with others,At the same time lose the ability to language,Can only repeat the simple action.The etiology of autism in the medical profession has not yet been determined,Is currently incurable diseases,Only through the rehabilitation training to ease illness. (The reporter summer snow)