问： ask:我和老婆用您的方法对5岁的女儿进行性教育，遇到了困惑。在和女儿一起洗澡的时候女儿总是喜欢玩我的“鸡鸡”，我女儿只要一玩我的阴茎，我就忍不住勃起，而且每一次洗澡，我女儿都要玩，有时候我女儿还拿着我的手去触摸她的小阴道。我真不知道这样下去会不会使女儿性早熟，有点担心。

My wife and I in your method to 5 year old daughter progressive education,Met confused.Take a shower together with daughter when always like to play with my daughter"Chicken chicken",My daughter just playing with my penis,I can not but erection,And each take a shower,My daughter to play,Sometimes my daughter also took my hand to touch her little vagina.I really don't know if it goes on like this will not make daughter precocious puberty,A little worried.

　　还有就是我老婆喜欢在一家人洗完澡后亲我女儿的小阴道。因为女儿人小些，给她讲的一些性知识好像她都听不进去似的。我女儿现在最大的兴趣就是和我一起洗澡，因为这样她就可以玩我的阴茎。我现在都有点不敢给她玩了，所以后来我就不和女儿一起洗澡了。还有就是，父亲和女儿一起洗澡到多大就不可以和女儿一起洗澡了？

There is my wife like in the family after bathing kiss my daughter's small vagina.Because people small daughter,Tell her some sexual knowledge like she won't listen to like.My daughter is now the biggest interest is and I take a shower together,Because so that she can play with my penis.Now I have a little can't give her to play,So then I won't daughter a bath together.There is,Father and daughter to take a shower together how can not and daughter a bath together?

回复 reply： 父母和孩子一起洗澡，不等于要有这么密切的性器官接触。女儿第一次摸的时候，就应该告诉她，这是私人部位，隐秘部位，不能摸。不能摸别人的，也不能让别人摸自己的。所以不能拉着爸爸手去摸。如果再这样，以后就不能一起洗澡了。这些教育是必须的，如果您和您太太认真看过我的书，我里面都会讲到这些，而不仅是简单地说父母和孩子一起洗澡而已。

: Parents and children take a shower together,Is not equal to want to have such a close contact with the organ.When the daughter first touch,You should tell her,This is a private parts,Secret parts,Could not touch.Could not touch others,Can't let others to touch their own.So can't took dad hand to touch.If this,Later can't a bath together.The education is a must,If you and your wife read my book,I will be in about these,Not only is simply say parents and children just take a shower together.

　　我们认为，到父母一方感觉不舒服时，就不应该一起洗澡了。您已经感觉不舒服了，已经不一起洗了，这样很对。但也要和孩子讲清楚，为什么不一起洗，不然这么小的孩子可能以为爸爸不爱她了，会伤害孩子。您可以说：因为我们是异性，你大了，要尊重彼此的隐私。

We think,A party to the parents don't feel well,You should not a bath together.You are feeling uncomfortable,Have not washed together,It is to.But also want to and children speak clearly,Why don't you wash together,Or so small children may think dad does not love her,Will hurt the child.You can say:Because we are members of the opposite sex,you,To respect each other's privacy.