近日，瑞安龙翔高级中学的校园广播喇叭传出副校长杨文发的声音，批评一起跨年级早恋事件。

recently,Ryan dragon senior middle school campus broadcast horn efferent vice President YangWenFa voice,Criticism together span grade early love event.

　　1月8日事发当天，就有学生在论坛、微博上发出帖子，议论副校长的最新“雷语”。有学生认为杨文发严厉、固执，亦有学生认为早恋等问题应该管管。

1 August the day,Have the students in the BBS/Micro blog posted,Talk about the latest vice President"Ray language".Have students think YangWenFa severely/stubborn,There is also love the students thought problems such as tube should be.

　　该校高二年级学生小李说：“他批评的主要是一名女生，说她不自重、不自爱，不知羞耻，是不是担心没人要了？”其后，杨文发的一段话让小李和其他同学大跌眼镜“女生如果是精神有问题就应该去瑞安第五人民医院(精神病专科医院)，要是没病就应该去××(指当地一处存在不正当服务的地方)。”

High school grade student xiao li said:"He criticized the main is a girl,Said she didn't dead weight/abjectly,shame,Do they worry that no one asked for?"after,A YangWenFa words let xiao li and other students levels"The girl if it is a mental problem should go to Ryan fifth people's hospital(Psychiatric hospitals),If you have no disease should go to xx(Refers to a local in improper service place)."

　　昨天上午，记者来到瑞安龙翔高级中学，就此事采访了该校学生。据学生们说，杨副校长对早恋问题管得很严。“早恋一旦被发现，会通知家长，甚至记过、停课。”女生小周说，为了避免“非正常交往”的嫌疑，有些男女同学间原本正常的交往和友谊都受到影响。

Yesterday morning,The reporter comes to Ryan dragon senior middle school,The interviews with students.According to the students say,The vice President to early love problem tube very strict."Early love once was found,Will inform parents,Even a demerit/closed."Girl xiao zhou said,In order to avoid"Abnormal communication"Suspected of,Some men and women between classmates had normal communication and friendship are affected.

　　有几名女生说，杨副校长在处理早恋问题时明显“重男轻女”，说的话令人难堪。

There are a few girls said,The vice President in the treatment of early love problem clear"Boys and girls",Said embarrassing.

　　尽管批评是不点名的，但不少受访学生都说知道是哪两名学生。男生们还告诉记者，学校食堂是男女分区的，没位置了才可以混坐。

Despite the criticism is not named,But a lot of students said know is which two students.The boys also told reporters,The school canteen is men and women of the partition,Have no position can be mixed sit.

　　就学生对自己教育方式的种种议论，杨文发称，他严控学生间的非正常交往是学校正常的管理工作，所做出的处理合情合理，无可厚非。“经过广播批评，两个学生已经不再密切来往。”杨文发说。

Will students to their education way's all sorts of discussion,YangWenFa says,He severely among students abnormal contact is normal school of management,The processing of a fair and reasonable,understandable."After broadcasting criticism,Two students are no longer close dealings."YangWenFa said.

　　问及这样批评学生是否会伤害他们自尊心时，杨文发说：“我虽然是在广播里通报，但没有点名、点班级，只是就事论事，教育其他同学。”对批评中“重男轻女”的情况，他说，早恋中女生的责任要大於男生，批评女生是在保护女生。

Asked about such criticism student might hurt them when pride,YangWenFa said:"Although I am in the radio bulletin,But there is no call/Point class,Just case by case,Education other students."To criticism"Boys and girls"situation,He said,In the responsibility of the early love girls than boys,Criticism is the girl in the protection of the girl.

　　温州市教育局基础教育处处长万小峰说，在早恋问题的处理上，不同学校有不同的做法，然而严厉的处分并不一定能达到良好的效果。高中生发生早恋，要从生理心理上对他们进行教育引导，而且最好是要进行个别疏导，在广播中公开让当事学生难堪，这种做法太过简单化。

Wenzhou city bureau of education foundation director all small peak said,In the early love of processing,Different schools have different practices,However severe punishment is not necessarily can achieve good effect.High school students love happen,From the physiological and psychological education guide for them,And it is best to carry out individual counseling,On the radio open to students embarrassing question,This kind of practice is too simplistic.

评论：如此广播训话无异“校园丑闻” comments:So the radio lectures"Campus scandal"

　　瑞安龙翔高级中学副校长杨文发近日在校园广播里公开批评学生早恋现象，由於语出惊人，引发各界热议。

Ryan dragon senior middle school vice President YangWenFa recently in campus radio openly criticize students early love phenomenon,Because something outlandish,Cause the from all walks of life of hot debate.

　　不可否认，这名学校负责人针对该校早恋学生所作的这番“广播训话”，初衷是好的。

undeniable,The name of the school in the school students love the remark"Broadcast lectured",Original intention is good.

　　也不可否认，如今学生早恋，是个让家长揪心、学校纠结的“家校难题”。

It is undeniable,Now students early love,A let parents come/School swirly"Home school problem".

　　正因为忧虑，把学生早恋看作洪水猛兽的，如今还颇有市场。或者认为早恋是种病，被列入了“好大夫热线”的诊治范畴或者认为早恋不道德，是一种不要脸的行为。

Because of worries,The students as a great disaster of early love,Now quite a market.Or think to early love is a kind of disease,Has been included in the"Good doctor hotline"The diagnosis and treatment of category or think to early love immoral,Is a shameless behavior.

　　尽管早恋确有其危害性，但因为对早恋存在这样夸大化和片面化的认识，於是为防止学生早恋，这些年来校园里频频出现雷人怪招：有老师在校园内偷拍来抓学生早恋的有学校设定“男女距离”，规定男女学生之间不能小於44厘米的还有学校规定食堂实行男女学生分区用餐的。听说语文课本删除民间故事《牛郎织女》，也是因为担心学生读了文章会受影响而早恋。

Although early love does the hazards,But because of early love such exaggerated is changed and one-sided understanding,So to prevent early love students,These school campus shocking GuaiZhao appeared frequently:A teacher in the campus candid camera to catch early love of students have a school setting"Distance between men and women",Between men and women students regulations not less than 44 centimeters and regulation of the school dining room to men and women students dining area.Heard that Chinese textbook delete folk story[cowherd],Also because of fears that the students read the article will be affected and puppy love.

　　其实，比早恋更加可怕的是，在预防学生早恋中，一些学校所表现出来的一种严重的不良倾向：对学生的极大不尊重，对人的极大不尊重。

In fact,Early love is more terrible than,In the prevention of early love students,Some schools represented a serious bad tendency:To student's disrespect,To the person's disrespect.

　　尊重人，应该是教育的起点，也是教育的依归。“教师应当尊重学生的人格，不得歧视学生，不得对学生实施体罚、变相体罚或者其他侮辱人格尊严的行为”这是多项法规都有规定的，也是教育工作者必须坚守的一条教育底线。

respect,Should be the starting point of education,The education is based on."Teachers should respect students' personality,Shall not discriminate against the student,Not to implement the corporal punishment student/Corporal punishment in disguised forms or other insult personality dignity behavior"This is a number of laws and regulations have prescribed,Is education workers must stick to a education the bottom line.

　　只顾着初衷是否良好，忘却教育手段是否合情合规，是否尊重学生，这种不良倾向如果不及时纠偏，那麽，类似“广播训话”辱骂学生的“校园丑闻”，就一定还会出现，而且，错了还不自知。

Only the original intention is good or not,Forget whether education means and compliance,Respect students whether,This kind of undesirable tendency if not timely rectification,so,similar"Broadcast lectured"Insult students"Campus scandal",Will still appear,and,Wrong also don't know.