中大学生对同龄人进行“最想了解的性知识”调查，结果显示

College students are in to their peers"To know sexual knowledge"survey,The results show

　　小样本调查显示，逾八成同学关心如何应对性骚扰，逾六成人关心如何保护自己免受性骚扰

Small sample survey,More than eighty percent students concerned about how to deal with sexual harassment,More than six adult care about how to protect themselves from sexual harassment

　　遭遇性骚扰，亲友应主动给予理解和安慰，这是最为重要的

Encounter sexual harassment,Friends should be active to understand and comfort,This is the most important

　　大学生最怕性骚扰？日前，广东几位大学生在同龄人中进行的一项小调查显示，两成受访者曾有过被性骚扰的经历，最早的甚至可追溯到小学六年级。而“遇到性骚扰该怎么办”，成为超过八成的受访同学最关心的话题。同学们认为，这份调查说明现在的大学生更关心自己在性方面的合法权益，也在一定程度上说明，大学生遭遇性骚扰的几率可能比人们想象的要高。

College students' fear of sexual harassment?a,Guangdong several university students in the age of a small survey,Twenty percent of respondents had be sexual harassment experience,The earliest even can be traced back to primary school grade 6.and"Meet sexual harassment what should I do",Be more than eighty percent of students about the topic.The students think,The investigation shows that today's college students are more concerned with yourself in the lawful rights and interests of the sex,Also in a certain extent description,College students encounter sexual harassment risk may be higher than people might think.

案例 case

　　广东某高校大二学生崔杭（化名）曾遭遇过三次性骚扰，最早的一次竟然发生在小学六年级。“我发育得比较好，12岁时身高已接近1.6米，经常被人当成高中生。或许是因为这个原因，我老是遭遇‘变态佬’。”她说，第一次遭遇性骚扰发生在公园一间位置比较偏僻的公厕。一个猥琐的中年男人尾随她进了公厕，当她觉得不对劲，疑惑地回头时，惊讶地发现那男人对着她撩开衣服，露出了下体。

Guangdong a college sophomore cui hangzhou(alias)Encountered three times sexual harassment,The first time actually happened in primary school grade 6."I development better,At the age of 12 is already close to 1.6 meters,As high school students are often.Perhaps because of this reason,I always encounter‘pervert’."She said,First encounter sexual harassment occurs in the park a relatively remote location of the public toilet.A trivial middle-aged man followed her into the toilet,When she felt something was wrong,Doubt when back,Surprised to find that man to her LiaoKai clothes,Show the nakedness.

　　“那时年纪小，不懂得大声叫人来，也不知道逃跑，只是呆站在原地，害怕地捂住眼。”等她再睁眼时，那人已经狂笑着奔出厕所。小崔说，这恶心的一幕时常在她眼前晃动。很长时间内，她不敢一个人上光线不好或人少的公厕。有时，走在路上听到跟那个变态男人声音相似的笑声，自己都会控制不住地反胃、呕吐。

"When young,Do not know how to call out to people,Also don't know fled,Just stay standing in situ,Afraid to cover your eyes."When waiting for her to open your eyes,The man has a laugh wildly rush out of the toilet.Small cui said,This disgusting scene often in her eyes shaking.A long time,She dare not a person on the light is bad or less public toilets.sometimes,Walk on the road to hear with the abnormal man voice similar laughter,His will uncontrollably nausea/vomiting.

　　第二次和第三次都是在公交车上遭遇“咸猪手”。前一次发生在高二，“被摸时感到非常震惊、愤怒，事后觉得委屈，也有沮丧。”她不敢向同学诉苦，因为担心“人家会说‘是不是你不好，所以倒霉的事都出现在你身上’”。由于心理压力太大，小崔从那时起开始深受失眠的困扰。

The second and third are on the bus encounter"Sexual harassment".The first happened in senior high school,"When the hand was very shocked/anger,Afterwards feel wronged,Also have depressed."She dare not complaining to the students,Because of fears that the"The somebody else will say‘Did you not,So unlucky things appear in your body’".Due to the psychological pressure is too great,Small cui since then began to deeply with insomnia.

　　上大学后，为舒缓自己的心理压力，也为了了解那些曾给自己带来痛苦的人的扭曲心理，她选修了心理学，试着抚平心中的伤痕。在论坛上，她发现跟自己同病相怜的人并非极少数，大家会交流应对经验。

After college,To relieve their psychological pressure,Also to understand those who bring you pain the distortion of the psychological,She took psychology,Try to ease heart wounds.In the BBS on,She found his misery loves company with not a few,Everyone will exchange deal with experience.

　　去年十月，当再次遭遇公车性骚扰时，她已经可以镇定地用力拍掉那人的“咸猪手”，当面痛斥“你想干什么？光天化日做这种事，你不怕被警察抓吗？”骚扰者灰溜溜地下车逃走。

Last October,When the bus again encounter when sexual harassment,She has been taken off calmly at the man's"Sexual harassment",, face to face"Do you want to do?Broad daylight do such a thing,You are not afraid of be the police to catch?"Harasser dejected to run away to get off.

　　“现在我常去网上搜索应对性骚扰的技巧。”她笑说，因为和公共场所的性骚扰相比，在今后要踏入的职场里，性骚扰事件也不少，自己要未雨绸缪，准备好应对之策。

"Now I often go to search the Internet to the skills of sexual harassment.""She laughed,Because and public place than sexual harassment,In the future to step into the workplace,Sexual harassment event also many,You want to save for a rainy day,Ready to of policy measures.

调查 survey

两成受访同学称曾遭遇性骚扰 Twenty percent of students say encountered sexual harassment

　　去年，中山大学公共卫生学院2010级本科生王琬萍等同学在老师的指导下，完成了题为“大学生最想了解的性知识”的学生科研项目。他们选择的样本不大，只有49人，“都是20~24岁的本科学生，很多人都有男女朋友，并可能开始考虑发生第一次性行为。”王琬萍说，或许因为这个原因，避孕、性行为和性病等相关知识，都是受访者比较关心的话题。

Last year,Sun yat-sen university school of public health of undergraduate level 2010 king Wan ping etc. Students under the guidance of the teacher,Finished the topic"College students to know sexual knowledge"Students scientific research projects.They choose to sample is not big,Only 49 people,"Is twenty to 24 years of undergraduate students,A lot of people have male and female friend,And may begin to consider happen first sexual intercourse."The king Wan ping said,Maybe for this reason,contraceptive/Sex and venereal disease and other related knowledge,Are all respondents are more concerned with topic.

　　然而，其中一组数据令几位同学既吃惊也困惑。“我们发现，高达81.36%的同学关心如何应对性骚扰的问题，还有61.02%的人关心如何保护自己免受性骚扰。”王琬萍说，在个人访谈中，有2名男生和9名女生表示自己曾遇到过性骚扰。而性骚扰的加害方既有异性，也有同性，多数为同龄人，也有校外的陌生人。其中有多人表示，被骚扰的经历最早追溯到小学。

however,One group of data to a few students both surprised and confused."We found,As much as 81.36% of the students care about how to deal with the issue of sexual harassment,There are 61.02% of the people are concerned about how to protect themselves from sexual harassment."The king Wan ping said,In the personal interview,Have two boys and nine girls said he had met sexual harassment.Sexual harassment and harm party both members of the opposite sex,Also have gay,Most of their peers for,There are also external stranger.There are many people said,The harassed experience the earliest traced back to primary school.

　　近年来，校园性骚扰案屡屡见诸网络，几乎每次都能挑动年轻网友的神经。或许因为这个原因，论坛、微博上出现的每篇“防狼术”教学帖，都会被疯狂转发。然而，回到现实生活中，大学生们仍然担忧：遇到性骚扰，该怎么防范？如何尽可能降低对自己的伤害程度？

In recent years,Campus sexual harassment case repeatedly been network,Almost every time can stir up young people nervous.Maybe for this reason,BBS/Micro bo appear on each"Defend Wolf operation"Teaching for,Will be crazy forward.however,Back to the real life,College students still worry:Meet sexual harassment,How to prevent?How to reduce as far as possible to their own damage degree?

专家点评 Expert comments

性骚扰可令受害者精神受创 Sexual harassment can make traumatised victims

　　“遭遇性骚扰，常常对受害者造成精神创伤，尤其是对青少年的性骚扰，影响更为深远。”中山大学附属第三医院心理科王相兰副主任医师指出，在性骚扰受害者中，最常见的有情绪的改变，例如易恐慌、紧张、情绪低落等。部分受害者还会出现行为改变，例如对他人有攻击性，有些人则变得退缩，不愿和他人交往。

"Encounter sexual harassment,Victims often caused by trauma,Especially for teenagers of sexual harassment,More far-reaching influence."The third affiliated hospital of sun yat-sen university of doctor of vice director of psychology department WangXiangLan pointed out,In the sexual harassment victims,The most common mood changes,Such as easy to panic/nervous/depression.Part of the victims will appear behavior change,For example to others aggressive,Others become back,Don't want to interaction with others.

　　构成人身伤害、性质恶劣的性骚扰，还可能进一步影响受害者的性心理，导致婚恋生活受挫，如有小女孩被成年男性猥亵，长大后认为男人皆坏人，影响她和异性的交往；有些人则会出现性交疼痛、性冷淡；还有人走向另一极端，因身心受伤而自暴自弃，表现为性的放纵。

Constitute a personal injury/Properties of bad sexual harassment,May further affect the victims of the psychological,Lead to marriage life frustration,If there is a little girl was adult male obscene,Grow up to think that men are bad,Affect her relationship with the opposite sex;Some people can appear sex pain/frigidity;Others go to the other extreme,Physical and mental injury because of giving up,For the performance of the abandonment of sex.

专家支招 Experts move

亲友理解和安慰最重要 Relatives and friends to understand and comfort is the most important

　　遭遇性骚扰，该如何自救？首先，要勇敢地对实施性骚扰的人说“不”，果断报警或向周边的人公开寻求帮助。这有助于中止侵犯，避免事态恶化，最大限度地保护自己。其次，尽可能保留受骚扰的证据。有条件的同学可以将手机拍照、录音功能设为快捷键，方便快速隐蔽地保留证据，便于将作恶者绳之以法，使其受到应有的惩罚。

Encounter sexual harassment,How to save?First of all,Be brave to implement sexual harassment said"Don't",Decisive alarm or to the surrounding people publicly for help.This will help to suspend the infringement,Avoid worse,Maximum protection.secondly,Keep as much as possible by the harassment of evidence.Conditional students can take pictures will be mobile phones/Recording function set to shortcut key,Facilitate rapid concealment to preserve evidence,Facilitate the perpetrator to justice,Make it punished.

　　其次，不要自责，不要认为“别人不受骚扰，是我不好才被人侵犯。”受惩罚的应该是作恶者，而非被骚扰的人。再次，尽早向信得过的朋友和亲人寻求安慰。亲情和友情的支持，是最好的疗伤药。最后，如果对亲友倾诉，仍不能摆脱噩梦，可以向专业心理医生求助。

secondly,Don't blame yourself,Don't think"Others do not suffer harassment,Is my bad before anyone invasion."Punishment should be perpetrator,Rather than the harassed person.again,As early as possible to count on friends and relatives for comfort.Family and friends support,Is the best healing medicine.finally,If the relatives and friends talk,Still cannot get rid of the nightmare,Can to professional psychological doctor for help.

　　王相兰指出，如果身边朋友因遭遇性骚扰而痛苦不堪，亲友可以主动给予理解和安慰，这是最为重要的。情感的支持，可以避免令对方产生“我被大家嫌弃、抛弃”的感觉，加剧心理伤害。在安慰受害者时，如果受害者流露出自责、对未来绝望等悲观念头时，要给予纠正，鼓励其放下思想包袱，积极寻求心理干预。（文/记者任珊珊 通讯员江澜、李文敏）

WangXiangLan pointed out that,If friends because of suffering sexual harassment and pain,Friends and relatives can be active to understand and comfort,This is the most important.Emotional support,To avoid that make each other produce"I was the abandon/abandon"feeling,Intensifying psychological damage.In the comfort victims,If the victim show remorse/In the future, such as despair when pessimistic thoughts,To give correct,Encourage the drop thought load,Actively seek psychological intervention.(Wen/reporters as she JiangLan correspondent/LiWenMin)