来源：郑州晚报 source:Zhengzhou evening news

不是这里的老师们结婚 It's not teachers get married

是100多个“自由恋爱”的孩子结婚 Is more than 100"Free love"Children get married

单膝跪地、戴戒指、拥抱、kiss To one knee/rings/embrace/Kiss

他们为什么这么做？ Why do they do this?

　　1月11日下午，一家幼儿园举行了一场隆重的“集体婚礼”。请注意，不是这里的老师们结婚，而是这里的100多名孩子“结婚”。婚礼有主婚人，孩子们穿着礼服互相承诺，小“新郎”要给小“新娘”戴戒指，他们的爸爸妈妈也在婚礼现场见证。

On January 11, in the afternoon,A kindergarten held a grand"Collective wedding ceremony".Please note that,It's not teachers get married,But the more than 100 children"married".The wedding officiator,The children wear dress commitment to each other,small"groom"For small"The bride"rings,Their mom and dad was in the wedding witness.

　　记者 张翼飞 文/图

Reporter ZhangYiFei text/diagram

婚礼现场很热闹，很喜庆 The wedding was very lively,Very happy

　　11日下午3点50分，幼儿园一楼大会议室里，一对对小“新郎”和小“新娘”排着队、手拉着手，等候入场。特别是小“新娘”，穿着洁白的婚纱，像小天使一样漂亮。

11 3 PM fifty points,Large meeting room on the first floor kindergarten,Pair of small"groom"And small"The bride"Lined up for the/hand,Waiting for admission.Especially small"The bride",Wear white wedding gown,Like the little angel beautiful.

　　他们的爸爸妈妈早早在台下等候，对于这场婚礼，家长们也很期待。

Their mom and dad in the early waiting for,For the wedding,Parents also are looking forward to.

　　4点整，婚礼正式开始，会议室里响彻着《婚礼进行曲》，小“新郎”牵着小“新娘”的手，依次走上台，顿时，礼花四溅，掌声雷动。

4 o 'clock,Wedding begin,From the meeting room[Wedding march],small"groom"Take small"The bride"hand,Walked onto the stage in turn,immediately,Fireworks scattered,A round of applause.

　　老师和家长代表担任主婚人，按照大人结婚的程序，新郎和新娘都要接受询问、宣誓。比如“妞妞，你嫁给了亮亮，他如果生病了，你会对他好吗？”“宝宝，你娶了丽丽，如果有别的小朋友欺负她，你会保护她吗？”

Teachers and parents held a representative officiator,According to the adult wedding program,The bride and groom have to accept inquiry/swear.Such as"niuniu,You married thanked,If he was ill,You will be good for him?""baby,You married lily,If there are other children bully her,You will protect her?"

　　主婚人还会问一个问题：“你为什么要和你选择的另一半结婚呢？”所有“新人”更是异口同声：因为我爱他（她）！

Officiator will also ask a question:"Why do you want to and you choose your partner get married?"all"new"Is all:Because I love him(she)!

　　小“新郎”们单膝跪地，给小“新娘”戴上结婚戒指。然后，在众人的祝福声中，或者紧紧拥抱，表达爱意；更亲密的，还当众吻了一个。

small"groom"To one knee the,To small"The bride"Wear the wedding ring.then,In all the soul.but about beats,Or embraced tightly,Expression love;More intimate,Also a Kiss in public.

　　一位姓刘的家长说：“这种形式挺好的，在这个幼儿园，我们的孩子比别的幼儿园的孩子懂得多，让他们体验一下结婚的感觉，消除好奇心，也是一种良好的成长教育。反正我挺支持的。”

A man surnamed liu's parents say:"This form of good,In the kindergarten,Our children than other kindergarten children know much,Let them experience the feeling of marriage,Eliminate curiosity,Is also a kind of good growth education.Anyway, I quite support."

　　据了解，当日有100多个孩子“结婚”，全部是“自由恋爱”。

It is understood,There are more than 100 children on that day"married",Are all"Free love".

这种“性游戏”，有利于日后性心理健康发展 this"Sex game",To psychological health development in the future

　　幼儿园的李园长说，3至6岁的孩子中，不少进入“婚姻敏感期”，比如有的男孩会对女孩说“我喜欢你”，有的女孩也会给自己喜欢的男孩送糖果，有的甚至就说要和对方“结婚”。

Kindergarten LiYuan long said,3 to 6 years old children,Many into"Marriage sensitive period",Such as some boy to girl said"I like you",Some girls also can give their favorite boy sweets,Some even said to each other"married".

　　恋爱、结婚、生子，对于大人来说，意味着很多东西：要开始对对方负责，对家庭负责，要学会成熟、忍耐，学会为人夫为人妻为人父母……这些和性离不开，而性，又是欲说还休的敏感话题。就有新来的家长，因为孩子说了“我要跟某某结婚”的话而有些紧张。

love/married/son,For adults,,Means that a lot of things:To start to the other party is responsible for,To family responsible for,Learn to mature/patience,Learn to be a wife RenFu parents……These and sex cannot leave,And sex,Is the sensitive topic of shyly placed your eyes on me.Have the new parents,Because the child said"I want to get married so and so"Words and some nervous.

　　其实，这正是因势利导、给他们灌输健康婚姻观的好机会。我们可以告诉孩子们关于男人和女人的角色，比如男孩可以当爸爸，女孩可以当妈妈。女孩长大以后，可以生宝宝、当妈妈。男孩和女孩长大后，会跟相爱的人结婚。

In fact,This is improve the occasion/To educate them healthy marriage good opportunity.We can tell the children about the role of men and women,Such as the boy can be a father,The girl can be a mother.Girls grow up,Baby can/When my mother.Boys and girls grow up,Will follow people who love each other get married.

　　他们举行“幼儿集体婚礼”已经不是第一次了，只不过这次规模最大。通过此前的实践证明，举行过“婚礼”的孩子，责任感更强，关系更融洽，更加自信和阳光了。

They held a"Children collective wedding ceremony"It is not the first time,Only this time the largest.Through the previous practice has proved,held"The wedding"children,responsability,Relationship more harmonious,The more confident and sunshine.