被村里的5旬老汉性侵后，龙岩上杭的10岁女童小田，很少再笑了。偏偏，同学和老师时常问起，令她不知怎么回应。渐渐地，她开始变得沉默寡言。

The old man was 5 ten-day after sexual harassment,Longyan hangzhou on the XiaoTian ten years old girl,Rarely then smiled.are,Students and teachers often asked,She didn't know how to respond.gradually,She began to become silent.

　　田妈很着急，这都快一个月了，可咋办？昨日，她致电导报龙岩新闻热线寻求帮助。

TianMa worried,This is almost a month,How can?yesterday,She call longyan newsletter news hotline for help.

　　事情得从这个月初说起。小田在镇里的中心学校上学，周一到周五寄宿在托管中心，周末才回家。

Things from this month about.In the center of the town XiaoTian school,Monday to Friday boarding in custody center,Go home at weekends.

　　一天，田妈洗衣服时，发现小田的衣服里多了几十元钱。田妈赶紧把孩子叫回家盘问。这时，小田才抖出实情：今年9月，同村的5旬老汉竟然用零食做诱饵，强行与小田发生了性关系。12月这回，已经是第三次。

One day,TianMa wash clothes,Find XiaoTian clothes in dozens of yuan.The child TianMa hurriedly call home questioned.At this time,XiaoTian to shake out the truth:September this year,The old man had 5 yas ten-day with snacks do bait,Forced and XiaoTian have sex.December this time,It's the third time.

　　次日凌晨，民警就将准备潜逃的嫌犯抓获归案。可经历此事后，田妈发现，原本活泼爱笑的“小公主”，不再蹦蹦跳跳，不再和小朋友一起玩，时常一个人发呆。

In the morning,Police will be ready to abscond suspects arrested.Can experience of the matter,TianMa found,Originally lively love smile"The little princess",Not scamper,No longer and children play together,Often a person in a daze.

　　刚开始的几周，小田还会跟田妈说，学校里的同学和老师常问她那件事，她都不知道怎么回应。再后来，话更少了。田妈很心痛。除了安慰孩子，她什么都做不了。

The first few weeks,XiaoTian can still follow TianMa said,School students and teachers often ask her thing,She didn't know how to respond.then,Less words.TianMa very heartache.In addition to comfort the child,She can't do anything.

　　昨天下午，记者咨询了厦门心灵空间资深心理咨询师曹凤芬。她认为，10岁的女童还处于懵懂时期，家长的角色尤为重要，“父母要多鼓励孩子，多花点时间陪陪她，给她心灵上的支持”。

Yesterday afternoon,Reporter consulting the xiamen heart space senior psychological consultant CaoFengFen.She thinks,Ten years old girl is still in the ignorant period,The role of parents is particularly important,"Parents should encourage children,Spend more time with her,Give her spiritual support".

　　同时，曹凤芬建议，老师、同学和旁人要给予受害者更多的关怀，这种关怀要自然，不刻意。最为重要的是，应避免在她面前提及相关话题，“每一次的提起，都可能加深她的心理创伤”。

At the same time,CaoFengFen Suggestions,The teacher/Students and other people to give the victims more care,This kind of care to nature,Do not deliberately.The most important,Should be avoided in front of her mention related topics,"Every mention,Could deepen her psychological trauma".

　　厦门市精神卫生中心、仙岳医院中西医结合科主任陈进东也表示，对于这种情况，家长和师长应该多关心。情况没有好转的话，可以做一次正规的心理辅导。“实在不行，考虑转学”。(海峡导报 记者 康泽辉 李贵荣）

Xiamen mental health center/Xian yue hospital of combining traditional Chinese and western medicine department director ChenJinDong also said,For this kind of situation,Parents and teachers should be more concerned about.If things don't get better,Can do a normal psychological counseling."Is not really good,Consider transfer".(Reporter KangZeHui LiGuiRong channel newsletter)