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　　2010年，佛山3至6岁在园幼儿人数19.79万人，学前3年入园率99.15%。今后两年，教育部门也预计学前3年幼儿园入园率能够保持在99%以上。如今，宝宝够年龄就上幼儿园似乎是每个家庭的不二选择，甚至有家长提前一两年就已经为孩子上哪家幼儿园操心。然而，或因为经济原因，或不认同现在幼儿园的一些教学理念，有这么一群家长的观念开始悄然发生改变，他们在孩子该上幼儿园的时候，选择了让孩子留在家中，由父母自己教育并照顾。在够年龄上幼儿园逐渐成为潮流大趋势，以及家长对学前阶段教育越来越重视的背后，这一群“少数派”的80后父母为何选择这样的另类学前教育，这种教育方式又有哪些优缺点？昨日记者通过走访了解了家长及幼儿园多方的观点。

In 2010,,Foshan 3 to 6 years old children in the garden the number 197900 people,Preschool 3 years RuYuanLv 99.15%.The next two years,Education department also predicted that preschool 3 years RuYuanLv kindergarten to stay above 99%.now,The baby is in kindergarten age seems to be each family's first choice,There is even parents for one or two years in advance has been on for children which kindergarten worry about.however,Or because of economic reasons,Or does not agree with some of the kindergarten now teaching ideas,Have so a group of parents' ideas began to quietly changed,They are the children in kindergarten when,Chose to let the child at home,The parents their education and take care of.In the age of enough in kindergarten gradually become trend trend,And parents to preschool education pay more and more attention to the back of the stage,A group of"minority"After the 80 parents why do you choose this alternative preschool education,This kind of education mode and what are the advantages and disadvantages?Yesterday reporters through visit the understanding of the parents and the point of view of the kindergarten.

　　文/ 记者陈昕宇

Wen/reporter ChenXin yu

　　图/记者龙成通

Diagram/reporter dragon into pass

　　

有80后父母选择让孩子不上幼儿园自己教孩子 After 80 parents choose to children in kindergarten oneself teach children

　　

有家长：这种教育方式既省钱又能保证“教学质量” Parents had:This kind of education mode not only save money and can guarantee"Teaching quality"

　　

有专家：与同龄人相处学习机会仅靠家庭难提供 Some experts:Get along with peers learning opportunities only on family difficult to provide

　　案例一

Case a

　　5岁宝宝一天幼儿园都没上过

5 years old baby one day he never went to the kindergarten

　　家住禅城的宝宝宁宁（化名）今年5岁，同龄的孩子已经在上中班，但她却一天幼儿园都没上过。“她现在的生活要比上幼儿园丰富多彩得多。”在佛山一家电视媒体工作的爸爸丁先生告诉记者，宁宁现在主要由妈妈照顾，为了更好地教育女儿，妈妈辞去了在杂志社当编辑的工作。

Live in the city of zen baby she(alias)5 years old this year,Age child has in the middle shift,But she is a day nursery school haven't been."She now life than in kindergarten rich and colorful than."In foshan a TV media work father Mr. Ding told reporters,She now mainly from mother to take care of,In order to better education daughter,Mother resigned as in the magazine when editing work.

　　按照爸妈给她制定的时间表，宁宁现在每天8时准时起床，和妈妈一起做早餐，妈妈在做早饭的时候会给宁宁放一些儿歌。吃完早餐后，宁宁就在妈妈的带领下出去跑步，然后到市场买菜。上午11时多回到家后，妈妈开始做家务，给宁宁安排的课程是画画，或者做手工，又或者练上半个小时的琴。中午午饭后，宁宁开始午睡，下午3时睡醒后，妈妈陪宁宁玩耍，然后吃点小零食。下午4时后，小区其他宝宝陆续从幼儿园回来，妈妈就带着宁宁到小区花园里找其他小朋友一起玩耍。

According to the schedule made by the parents to her,She is now at 8 every day to get up on time,And my mother cooked breakfast together,Mother doing breakfast will give she put some nursery rhyme.After eating breakfast,She is in the mother's led running out,And then to market to buy food.11 when back home,Mom started to do the housework,She arranged for the course is painting,Or do manual,Or practice on the piano for half an hour.After lunch at noon,She began to nap,Afternoon 3 when after waking up,Mother accompany she play,Then snacks.Afternoon 4 when,Village other baby has come back from kindergarten,Mom took she to the village to the garden to find other children play together.

　　晚上6:00，宁宁吃晚饭，等爸爸回家后就变成“父女时光”，由爸爸带着宁宁在小区附近上兴趣班，或者到小区游泳。晚上9时多，爸爸开始为宁宁讲故事。结束故事时光后，晚上10时宁宁准时睡觉。

At 6:00 in the evening,She eat dinner,And my dad got home becomes"Time father",The father took she near village in the cake course,Or to the community swimming.Night 9:00,Dad began to she tell a story.Story after the end of time,10 at night she go to bed on time.

　　为了让宁宁和更多的人群有接触，爸妈一有时间就会带着她到亲戚好友家玩，通过串门来增长见识和增加学习的机会。爸妈还经常到花鸟市场给宁宁买来小宠物，甚至在家里，宁宁还有一片自己的小菜地。

In order to let she and more people to have contact,Parents have a time will take her to the friends and relatives house to play,Through the door to enrich their knowledge and increase the opportunity to learn.Parents also often go to market to buy flowers she pet,Even at home,She have a piece of his own side dishes to.

　　宁宁这样的学前教育生涯到明年才会结束，爸妈计划，在宁宁6岁的时候为其联系一家幼儿园让她再上一年大班，在上小学前再让她适应集体生活，完成顺利过渡。

She such a preschool education career until next year will end,Parents plan,In the age of six she for its contact a kindergarten let her again large of the previous year,In elementary school before let her to adapt to the collective life,Complete a smooth transition.

　　

宁宁爸爸： She dad:

　　

家里有争议 效果还不错 Home controversial effect is good

　　宁宁爸爸称，选择不送她上幼儿园，主要是当时看了一本孩子教育的书籍，称孩子在6岁前这一阶段，是行为习惯养成最重要时期，而在这一阶段父母的教育影响至关重要。“我们想孩子在6岁前的教育主动权把握在自己手上。”丁先生称，在宁宁早两年还小的时候，家里对这样的决定也曾有过争议。“特别是家里的老人很反对，认为培养孩子的妈妈大学毕业，工作也不错，自己教就要变成主妇，另外孩子不上幼儿园培养结果如何仍是未知数。”丁先生称，最终他还是和妻子达成一致：自己教。

Dad said she,Choose not to send her in kindergarten,Main was read a book child education books,Says the children before the age of 6 in this stage,Is the most important period behavior habits,And at this stage of education influence parents is very important."We want to children in 6 years ago education initiative grasp in our own hands."Mr. Ding said,In the two years before she was small,Home to such a decision had dispute."Especially their old people is against,Think that develop the child's mother graduated from the university,Work is also good,His teaching will become a housewife,Other children in kindergarten culture the outcome is still unknown."Mr. Ding said,He ultimately agreed with his wife:Oneself teach.

　　两年后，丁先生对女儿的表现感觉非常满意。“现在她在电梯里见到人，都会主动叫叔叔阿姨好。”丁先生表示，和同龄上幼儿园的一些孩子相比，女儿显得更有礼貌和有爱心。

Two years later,Mr. Ding to her daughter's performance feel very satisfied."Now she saw people in the elevator,Will the initiative called uncle aunt good."Mr. Ding said,And some of the children in the kindergarten age compared,Daughter appear more polite and caring.

　　

案例二 Case two

　　

梁先生： Beam sir:

　　

与其花钱上幼儿园 不如自己教 Instead of spending kindergarten teaching as oneself

　　家住禅城城南的家长梁先生的妻子原本在一家制衣厂工作，孩子上幼儿园时联系了几所幼儿园，发现一些好的幼儿园比较难进。而在家附近的一些民办幼儿园，每月费用算下来在1900元至2000元左右。“想想妻子原来一个月工作收入也不过2000元，还不如自己带。”梁先生如是说。

Live in zen city, south of the town of the original Mr Parents beam wife in a enterprise work,The child to the kindergarten contact a few kindergartens,Find some good kindergarten reacted comparison.And at home nearby some private kindergarten,The monthly fee count down to 1900 yuan in 2000 yuan or so."Think of his wife was a month income also however 2000 yuan,Bring your own as well."Beam said Mr..

　　还有的家长表示，不送孩子上幼儿园是在家附近找不到合适的幼儿园，因此想先自己在家带着，等到孩子4岁或者5岁，自理能力稍强些再上幼儿园的中班或大班。“我已经提前打听到消息，就是幼儿园小班或者中班多是35人，但随着孩子年龄稍大一些，到了大班一般会调整为40人一个班，会接受报名插班，我就是打算让孩子等这种插班名额。”禅城家长张女士告诉记者，找到满意的幼儿园不容易，因此暂时放弃把孩子送去幼儿园的想法。

Other parents said,Don't send children in kindergarten at home is near couldn't find the right kindergarten,So want to make his home with,When the child 4 or 5 years old,Self-care ability a bit stronger to kindergarten classes or executive."I have already found out about the news in advance,The kindergarten is small or middle shift is 35 people,But with slightly older children,The executive general will adjust for 40 people a class,Registration will accept them,I am going to let children before the quota."Zen city parents ms. Zhang told reporters,Find satisfaction kindergarten is not easy,Therefore temporarily sent her children to give up the idea of kindergarten.

　　

观点PK View PK

　　

另类学前教育 Alternative preschool education

　　

好不好？ good?

　　

有家长： Parents had:

　　在家教孩子针对性或更强对于现在家长在学前教育阶段的“反潮流”做法，有年轻妈妈表示愿意尝试。“如果家附近的幼儿园确实不大好，那还不如自己教。”家住城南的家长陈小姐称，幼儿阶段老师对小孩的心理养成影响很大。“现在的幼儿园1个班30多个人，最多配3个老师，孩子如果得不到关注和合适的教育，有些甚至产生逆反心理。”陈小姐称。

In the tutor children targeted or stronger for now parents in preschool education stage"Buck the trend"practice,A young mother said willing to try."If the home the nearby kindergarten don't really good,It would be better to teach yourself."Live in the south of parents miss Chen says,Early childhood teachers to form a child's psychological influence."Now the kindergarten class 1 more than 30 people,With the most three teachers,The child if we can't get any attention and appropriate education,Some even produce negative mentality."Miss Chen said.

　　不过家长刘先生却对此持观望态度。“首先两个人都要上班，没有这个时间。其次，孩子总是在家里自己玩，不跟其他小朋友交流，对孩子的成长不好。”

But parents liu had it in sidelined."The first two people all want to go to work,Don't have the time.secondly,Children always play at home,Not with the other kids communication,To a child's growth is bad."

　　

幼儿园： kindergarten:

　　

同龄人相处机会家里难提供 She gets along with her schoolfellows opportunity to provide home

　　“之前也听说过这样的案例。”有幼儿园园长告诉记者，选择把孩子留在家中教育的原因，更多家长选择把孩子留在家中自己教导的主要原因是出于经济方面考虑，这些家长多以80后为主，对国外一些学前教育方法有一定的了解，而且父母双方有一方收入相对不高，留在家中照顾孩子的多为妈妈，而妈妈也愿意接受这种安排。

"Before also heard of such a case."A kindergarten the principal told reporters,Choose the child at home the cause of education,More parents choose to take the children at home his teaching is the major reason for economic into consideration,These parents in 80 is given priority to,On foreign some preschool education methods have a certain understanding,And both parents have a party income relative is not high,Stay at home to take care of the children's more for my mother,But mother also willing to accept this arrangement.

　　惠景幼儿园梁园长分析称，这样的做法实际也有弊端，因为在家的时候孩子得到的是父母无保留的关注和照顾，但在幼儿园，孩子处于一个大集体间，得到老师关注的机会是均等的，这样的环境就会促使孩子要学会和别人沟通合作的技巧，孩子也可以得到模仿同龄人作为参照物学习的机会，而这样的环境家里是不具备的。”

HuiJing kindergarten it long analysis says,This practice actually also has drawbacks,Because at home when the children get parents uncensored attention and care,But in the kindergarten,The child in a big between collective,Get teacher pay attention to opportunities that are equal,This kind of environment will make children to learn and others to communication, cooperation skill,Children can also get imitate their peers as reference the opportunity to learn,And such environmental home is not have."

　　梁园长表示，“虽然家长可通过尽可能多的时间为孩子和其他人提供接触的机会，但相对于有一整天的时间在幼儿园吃住玩，家里能够提供的时间空间其实很可能是不够的。”幼儿园园长称。

It long said,"Although parents can through as much time for children and other people to provide opportunities,But relative to spend the whole day in the kindergarten eat live play,Home can provide time space actually very may be not enough."Kindergarten the principal said.

　　

建议：上小学前上1年幼儿园很有必要 Suggestions:The elementary school on one year before it is necessary to kindergarten

　　“父母在3至5岁这段时间选择不上幼儿园，自己教育孩子的关键在于要确保孩子与其他群体合作交流方面有足够的时间和空间。”惠景幼儿园梁园长建议，假如家长确实要采取自己教孩子的方式，应尽可能多的让孩子多参加社会集体活动，同时家长要自己对孩子不同年龄阶段的成长特点有所了解，例如孩子哪一年龄段的动手能力应该注意培养，集中注意力的培养又处于什么时间等。

"Parents in 3 to 5 years old this time choose not to kindergarten,His children education the key is to ensure that children and other group cooperation exchanges have enough time and space."HuiJing kindergarten it long Suggestions,If parents really take oneself teach children's way,Should as far as possible much let the children to take part in the social collective activities,At the same time the parents to their children in different age stages growth characteristics understand somewhat,For example the child which age paragraph the beginning ability training should be paid attention to,Focus on training and at what time.

　　“而且这样的教育不能交给保姆或者亲戚，最好还是由父母自己把控。”梁园长同时建议，在孩子上小学前的1年，非常有必要让孩子上一年幼儿园，让孩子了解在集体生活中如何进行沟通交流。“因为校园生活是非常有规律的，例如一节课大概多长时间，孩子必须要坐下来。”梁园长建议，这一适应期越早开始越好。

"And such education can't to nurse or relatives,Still had better by the parents to take control."It also recommended that long,In the elementary school children before 1 year,It is quite necessary to let the child last year kindergarten,Let the child understand the collective life how to communicate."Because the campus life is very regular,For example a class probably how long,Children must want to sit down."It long Suggestions,The adaptive phase the early start, the better.

　　宁宁的一天（学习玩耍作息时间表）

She day(Learning to play timetable)

　　8时 起床听儿歌，陪妈妈做早餐

8 up to listen to children's songs,With mother do breakfast

　　9时 跑步，然后陪妈妈买菜

9 when the running,And then with my mother to buy food

　　11时~11时30分 画画或做手工或练琴

11 ~ 11 30 points to draw or do manual or practice

　　13分~15时 睡午觉

13 ~ 15 when take a nap

　　15时~18时 玩耍、吃点心

When 15 ~ 18 while you play/snack

　　19时30分~21时 爸爸陪伴上兴趣班或游泳

When 19 to 21 30 points when the father with interest or swimming

　　21时~22时 听爸爸讲故事

The 21 ~ 22 when my father tell a story

　　22时 睡觉

22 when sleeping