“不给自己买东西，我这个年也要一万二！年终奖全部除脱，还要吃老本。”

"Don't give yourself to buy things,I this year is twelve thousand!In addition to take off all award,Will glide."

　这个重庆崽儿害怕回家过年 The chongqing ZaiEr afraid to return home for the New Year

　　征集令 Solicitation to

　　过年，你回家吗？ Chinese New Year,You home??

　　过年，是中国人的传统，也是中国人的期盼。时间过得真快，一不小心我们又望见了“年”的背影。快过年了，有人欢喜有人愁。假如你不回家过年，是工作抽不开身，还是担心花费？是家庭矛盾，还是担心被逼婚？或者其他原因？欢迎你拨打重庆晨报966966公众服务中心热线，告诉我们，也许我们能够帮助你。

Chinese New Year,Is Chinese tradition,Also is the Chinese people hope.Time flies,And we see the carelessly"years"figure.Fast the New Year,Someone glad someone sorrow.If you don't go home for the Spring Festival holiday,Is work couldn't open the body,Or worry about cost?Family conflicts is,Or worry about being forced marriage?Or any other reasons?Welcome you call chongqing morning 966966 public service center hotline,Tell us,Maybe we can help you.

　　距离2013年春节，只剩下不到一个月的时间。有人忙着预订火车票，有人赶着置办过年货……网友“*lt*”却只能在网上倾诉自己的烦恼。

From the 2013 Spring Festival,Only less than a month time.Some busy booking train ticket,Someone had busy stock up on their doors……Net friend"Lt * *"But only in online pour out your troubles.

　　1月14日下午，“*lt*”在天涯重庆发帖称：“混的不好，不敢回家过春节，怕过年……”帖子引起网友们的共鸣，截至昨天下午5点半，帖子的点击达11845次，回复达237次。

In the afternoon on January 14,,"Lt * *"In the chongqing post said:"Mix well,Can't go back home to spend the Spring Festival,Afraid of Chinese New Year……"Post cause net friends resonance,At half past five yesterday afternoon,Post click 11845 times,Back up to 237 times.

怕过年 Afraid of Chinese New Year

　　除脱年终奖还要吃老本 In addition to take off the award will glide

　　网友“*lt*”31岁，是在外地工作的重庆崽儿，他大学毕业后留在河北，拿着一份不太高的工资，没有房子，没有车子，也没有女朋友。“*lt*”算了一笔账：一个月工资大概4500元，年终奖估计有8000元。而支出方面，租房每月800元，三餐一个月1200元，水电网费300元，烟300元，朋友吃饭请客800元。还有一些意外的支出，比如朋友生日、同事结婚等等，一个月最多存得到800-1000元。

Net friend"Lt * *"31,Is in the field work ZaiEr chongqing,After he left college he stay in hebei,With a high salary,No house,There is no car,Also don't have a girlfriend."Lt * *"Calculate a bill:A monthly salary of about 4500 yuan,Award an estimated 8000 yuan.And expenditure,Rent 800 yuan a month,3 1200 yuan a month,Water power grid fee is 300 yuan,Smoke is 300 yuan,Friends to dinner to treat 800 yuan.There are some unexpected expenses,Such as friend birthday/Colleagues get married, etc.,One month deposit most get 800-1000 yuan.

　　如果回家，往返机票及相关的车费至少2000元，两个关系不错的亲戚结婚，一个1000元，就是2000元。给父母一人1000元，又是2000元，30几岁的人，没正儿八经给父母买过啥子，这点钱都不好意思拿出手。剩下的就是走亲访友，还有小孩子的压岁钱，估计最少得2000元。

If the home,A round trip ticket and related fare at least 2000 yuan,Two relationship good relatives get married,A 1000 yuan,Is 2000 yuan.Give parents a 1000 yuan,Is 2000 yuan,And a few years old people,No formal give parents bought what,This money was too embarrassed to take out.The rest is visits,There are children's New Year's money,At least 2000 yuan.

　　一笔账算下来，“就算不给自己买任何东西，我这个年也要一万二！年终奖全部除脱，还要吃老本。”“*lt*”说工作这么多年，银行卡上的存款不足2万元。

A bill is down,"Even if not to buy anything,I this year is twelve thousand!In addition to take off all award,Will glide.""Lt * *"Said the work for so many years,Bank card deposit of less than 20000 yuan.

怕逼婚 Afraid of forced marriage

　　靠自己很难有车有房 It is difficult to have a car has the room on their own

　　昨天，通过站内短信，重庆晨报记者联系上“*lt*”，并聊起了QQ。“*lt*”说，因为自己已经过了而立之年，又是家中的独子，所以父母很为他的婚姻大事担忧。

yesterday,Through the station message,Chongqing morning paper reporter contact"Lt * *",And talking about the QQ."Lt * *"said,Because he has been thirty years of age,Is the only son of home,So parents very for his marriage concerns.

　　“其实之前也有人介绍过两个女孩子给我认识，但最终都因为我没房没钱而告吹。”“*lt*”说，他偶尔打电话回家，家里人总会告诉他，谁谁家的小孩都多大了，亲戚谁家又怎么样了，“我也知道父母盼着我能衣锦还乡，可是现在一个人在外，生存压力就已经压得人喘不过气来。”

"Actually before someone introduced two girls give I know,But in the end, because I didn't room have no money and fail.""Lt * *"said,He occasionally call home,The family always tell him,Who's children how old,Whose relatives again,"I also know that parents hope I can return home after getting fame or money,But now a person out,Survival pressure have pressure gadites out of breath."

　　而一年一次的春节回家，家里人肯定又要问女友、结婚的事。“但是现阶段，无论我再怎么节约，都很难完全靠自己有车有房。”

And once a year Spring Festival home,The family must have to ask his girlfriend/marriage."But at present,No matter how I'll save,It is difficult to stand on your own feet car has the room."

怕回家 Afraid of home

　　但不希望父母为他担心 But I don't want my parents to worry about him

　　但在过年回不回家的问题上，“*lt*”很坚定，“不管怎样，今年过年也还是要回家的！毕竟一年只回春节这么一次”，“*lt*”说，他是家里的独子，两个老人都盼着，自己也割舍不下他们。父母岁数也大了，养儿不容易，自己不能再让他们不放心呀！

But in the New Year's day back on the issue of don't go home,"Lt * *"Very firm,"No matter how,This year New Year's day and still want to go home!After all, a year only back to the Spring Festival this once","Lt * *"said,He is the only son of home,Two old people looking forward to,Oneself also can give up them.Parents age also big,Keep son not easy to,You can't let they don't trust ah!

　　“*lt*”打出了一串“叹气”的符号。回家，这个应该充满着温情的话题，却给而立之年的“*lt*”平添一丝沉重。

"Lt * *"Played a series of"sigh"symbols.home,This should be full of warmth topic,But to the thirty years of age"Lt * *"Smooth add a heavy.

　　“*lt*”说，这些话，他从未和任何人说起，更不愿意让父母知道。因为他不希望家人为他担心。只是春节快到了，想起小时候的春节，总是充满着急切的期盼，而长大了才懂得“过年如过关”的含义。

"Lt * *"said,These words,He never and anyone about,More reluctant to let their parents know.Because he didn't want his family to worry about him.The Spring Festival is coming soon,Think of the Spring Festival when I was a child,Always full of eagerly looking forward to,And grow up to know"Chinese New Year as pass"meaning.