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　　据《现代快报》1月7日报道，1月5日，南京的买女士一夜失眠，脑子里全是儿子委屈掉泪的样子。事情原委是，买女士9岁的儿子在南京一小学上三年级。晚上回家，儿子委屈地告诉她，学校来领导视察，体育老师嫌他跑得不快，不让他去操场上课，语文老师见他单独在教室又怕影响不好，便让他到教师办公室站了一节课。

According to[Modern express]Jan. 7 days to report,On January 5,,Nanjing buy lady a wakeful night,Mind is full of son injustice tear drop appearance.Why is it,Buy ladies 9 year old son in nanjing in a primary school grade three.Go home at night,Son injustice to tell her,School leadership inspection,Sports teacher too he ran fast,Don't let him go to the playground class,Chinese teacher see him alone in the classroom again afraid influence not good,Then let him to the teacher's office got a lesson.

　　“胖就不能参加体育课吗？胖就给学校丢脸吗？儿子不是在围棋比赛中拿过奖，给学校争过荣誉么？9岁的孩子，稚嫩的心灵能承受得了么？”思前想后，第二天，买女士还是选择去学校找老师。据买女士介绍，孩子在学校不止一次受到了这样的“不公对待”。去年学校开运动会，全班同学表演团体操，老师独独不让儿子参加，还让他把家长买来的体操服“贡献”给其他同学。这则新闻一出，立刻引发舆论波澜，许多孩子家长表示，买女士儿子的遭遇不是个案。

"Fat can't participate in physical education?Fat will give school lose face?Son is not in the game of go game with compliments,To the school for the yao?9 years old children,Immature mind can bear it?"Think it through,The second day,Buy a lady or choose to go to a school teacher.According to buy lady is introduced,Children in school more than once was such"Unfair treatment".The school sports meeting last year,The whole class performance group,The teacher only don't let the son to participate in,Also let him put the parents buy gym suit"contribution"To other students.The news a,Immediately trigger waves of public opinion,Many children parents said,Buy ladies son's encounter is not the case.

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　　一位陈姓先生因自己的小外甥有过像南京这位小胖墩同样的遭遇，而在这一新闻的评论吧里向学校和教育主管部门发出了一连串的质疑:我就纳闷了，校园里出现个小胖墩，出现个打着石膏、拄着小拐棍的小孩，这不很正常吗？他们的出现到底怎样影响了学校的形象？为了应对上级检查，把小胖墩撵回家，这不是一种赤裸裸的教育歧视吗？

A Mr. Surnamed Chen for his little nephew had like nanjing the little overweight the same thing,And in this news comments in it to schools and education departments issued a series of questions: I just felt suspicious,Campus appear a little overweight,In a dozen gypsum/On a small children walking stick,This is not very normal?Their presence what influence the image of the school?In order to deal with the superior inspection,The small overweight drive home,This is not a naked education discrimination?

　　一位教育专家接受媒体采访时也表示，对于一名9岁的孩子来说，学校的这般做法是多么的冷漠和伤自尊。为了所谓“集体荣誉”而不顾孩子的内心感受的做法实在不可取。他呼吁学校如此这般为了集体荣誉的事，还是少干为妙。即使学校真是遇到一件涉及学校集体荣誉的事，也不可以名正言顺地歧视孩子、侵犯孩子们上课受教育的权利。南京这所小学的做法，一来伤害了这位小男孩的自尊心，二来破坏了孩子的规则意识。南京这所学校的做法，实际上是“教书毁人”。这样的老师何以为师？

An education experts accept media interview said,For a nine years old for children,The school this practice is so cold and wound self-respect.For the sake of so-called"Collective honor"But regardless of the child's feelings practice is not desirable.He called for the school so and so to collective honor,Still less do is wonderful.Even if the school is really met a involving the school collective honor,Also can not be perfectly justifiable to discrimination children/Infringement of the children by the right class education.The practice of nanjing this elementary school,Way hurt the little boy's pride,2 will destroy the child's consciousness of rules.Nanjing this school practice,In fact is"Teaching destroyed".Why such a teacher for the teacher?

本刊特评: This newspaper's review:

教育不应放弃每一个孩子 Education should not give up every child

　　南京这所学校发生的这一事情，看似个别，实则应引起教育界的关注。它给我们提出了一个问题，对于那些有特殊问题的孩子，比如身体胖，或者可能有肢体或者语言以及家庭等其他问题，我们应怎么对待？南京这所学校的老师的做法，对这位小胖孩心灵的伤害是很深的。从心理上，会让这位孩子产生自卑心理，他会认为自己就是一个没用的、被人看不起的、被学校排斥的孩子。进而，他会产生厌恶上学，上学有阻力的情况。发生这样的事情，我们成人都很难接受，何况对于一个9岁的孩子呢？

Nanjing this school happen this things,Seemingly individual,In fact should cause the attention of education.It put forward to us a problem,For those who have special problems of children,Such as the body fat,Or there may be physical or language and family and other problems,We should how to treat?Nanjing this school teacher practice,The fat boy heart damage is very deep.From psychological,Can let the child have inferiority mentality,He will think he is a useless/Being the best/School children rejection.then,He will produce the aversion to go to school,The school has resistance.Things happen,We adults, it is difficult to accept,How much more for a nine-year-old kid?

　　另外，发生这样的事情对于学校中其他的孩子也会带来负面的影响。孩子在这样的学校是不安全的，没有归属感的。孩子们会想，虽然这样的事情这次没有发生在自己身上，但以后会不会有学校不接纳自己的事情呢？所以发生这样的事情，看似就是一个小胖墩的个案，还是应引起教育界的关注。因为这样的做法，将使很多的孩子受到影响。我自己就遇到过这样的情况，一次去一个幼儿园调研，两个因为穿着有点儿破旧的小孩儿，被老师安排在角落里坐着，特别可怜。

In addition,Things happen for schools in other children will also bring the negative influence.Children in this school is not safe,No sense of belonging of the.Children will want to,Although such things this did not happen in yourself,But will not have school don't accept things??So things happen,Seemingly is a little overweight case,Or should cause the attention of education.Because of such a practice,Will make a lot of children affected.I just met this situation,A trip to a kindergarten research,Two for wearing a little old children,Is the teacher arranged in the corner sat,Special poor.

　　南京这所学校的做法，实在是弄虚作假。因为所谓的检查，我们就可以放弃一个孩子么？教育应该对所有的孩子都不离不弃，不能因为一个检查，就剥夺了一个孩子受教育的权利。

Nanjing this school practice,It is deception.Because the so-called inspection,We can give up a child yao?Education should be available to all children reckless abandon,Not for a check,Is deprived of a child suffer education rights.

　　最后，想对这位孩子的妈妈说，让孩子尽快忘掉这个阴影吧，不要再和孩子提及这个事情，否则会越描越黑。这位妈妈要做的是，给孩子制定一个锻炼计划，让自己的孩子在自信中的成长，因为自信心，将影响孩子的一生。(卢勤，中国少年儿童新闻出版总社首席教育专家)

finally,Want to the child's mother said,Let the child forget the shadow! As soon as possible,Don't mention this thing and children,Otherwise will be worse.The mother to do is,Give the child make a training plan,Let their children in the confidence of the growth,Because confidence,Will affect the child's life.(LuQin,Chinese children of press and publication of the principal office chief education experts)