羊城晚报记者 尹安学 通讯员 林晓丽

The yangcheng evening news reporter YinAnXue LinXiaoLi correspondent

　　一则离奇的亲情故事，在微博上近日被传开：30多年前，一个女婴出生才20多天，就被送人，20多年后，老母亲罹患癌症，最想见的就是这个被遗弃的亲骨肉。南京一个刚大学毕业的女孩深受感动，假扮“亲女儿”上门侍奉“母亲”两年多，甚至在出国之后还坚持为“母亲”找到了真女儿。遗憾的是，老母亲至死都没有见到真女儿，临走时，老人说：我没看到小女儿，却多了一个“亲女儿”，我死而无憾！

An offbeat love story,In micro blog has been spread:Thirty years ago,A baby girl was born just more than twenty days,And then sent people,After twenty years,Old mother suffering from cancer,The most want to see is this abandoned flesh and blood.Nanjing a just graduated from the university girl was deeply touched,pretend"Close daughter"Door-to-door service"mother"More than two years,Even after going abroad to adhere to"mother"Find the real daughter.It is a pity that,Old mother to death didn't see the real daughter,When he,The old man said:I didn't see little daughter,But one more"Close daughter",I died and no!

　　

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　　假女儿上门认亲 False daughter RenQin door

　　两年过去了，因为“女儿”的出现，当初被诊断活不了多久的朱官翠，一次次地趟过了险滩恶水，身体状况奇迹般好转，走在村头巷尾，几乎看不出是个病人。

Two years have passed,because"daughter"appear,They had been diagnosis can't live long ZhuGuanCui,Repeatedly through the EShui rapids,Physical condition better miracle,Walking in the village head and lanes,Almost can not see a patient.

　　2006年年底，刚毕业的大学生靳冰，正在南京的一间出租屋里看电视，一条寻找女儿的新闻深深打动了她。

By the end of 2006,Just graduated college students JinBing,Nanjing is a rent the house to watch TV,A search for her daughter's news deeply impressed by her.

　　电视里，一位叫杜方勤的老农民看着镜头，声泪俱下地说：“女儿，爸爸亏待了你，实在对不起你了。你妈妈癌症晚期已经不行了，开始生命倒计时了。爸爸希望你回来，见妈妈一面。你放心，爸爸不会要你抚养，只想见你一面。女儿，你尽快回来吧。”

television,A call DuFangQin of the old farmer look at the camera lens,In a tearful voice to say:"daughter,Dad was unkind to you,I'm terribly sorry for you.Your mother terminal cancer has not,The countdown began life.Dad hope you come back,See mother side.You can rest assured,Father won't make you raise,Just want to see you again.daughter,You come back as soon as possible."

　　靳冰后来得知，杜方勤的妻子朱官翠被诊断为直肠癌晚期，医院下了病危通知书，医生估计最多可活一个月。全家人在医院守了7天，昏迷的朱官翠终于醒了，开口就说：“我想看看我的小女儿。”

JinBing later learned that,DuFangQin wife ZhuGuanCui diagnosed late colorectal cancer,The hospital a notice under the terminally ill,Doctors estimate up to live a month.The whole family in the hospital keep 7 days,Coma ZhuGuanCui finally woke up,Open said:"I want to see my daughter."

　　所有人顿时傻眼，“小女儿”是一家人的心结28年前，朱官翠生下第四个孩子，因为家里太穷，朱官翠和二女儿还要治病，杜方勤与妻子商量，只好将这个出生才20多天的小女孩送人了。

All the people immediately dumbfounded,"daughter"This is a family of twenty-eight years ago,The ZhuGuanCui born four children,Because his family was poor,ZhuGuanCui and second daughter will cure,DuFangQin consult with his wife,Had to put this birth to more than twenty days of the little girl gave it away.

　　杜方勤的大女儿杜家玲告诉记者，家里日子好起来之后，一提起“小女儿”，爸妈表现得就很沮丧，后来大家都不敢提。

DuFangQin big daughter DuGuLing told reporters,Home after day better,At the mention of"daughter",My parents played very depressed,Then all dare not mention.

　　杜方勤当时一听朱官翠的这个要求，心里就很不舒服，“没想到老伴嘴里不说，其实这么多年一直在自责、内疚，我一定要圆她的心愿，把女儿找回来，了她的心病。”

DuFangQin was a listen to ZhuGuanCui of this requirement,My heart is very uncomfortable,"Don't say that her mouth,In fact so many years in remorse/guilty,I must round her wish,The daughter back,Her heart."

　　可是人海茫茫，到哪里去找人？当初送孩子时，双方有约定孩子送人后，亲生父母终生不得探望。

But the vast human sea,Where to go for someone?Had to send a child,Both sides have agreed to send people children after,His natural parents shall not see life.

　　杜方勤只知道孩子被送到南京市区一户家庭条件不错的人家，其他一无所知。无奈之下，杜方勤抱着一丝希望来到南京找电视台求助。由于没有小女儿照片，他提供了大女儿杜家玲的照片，便于比对。

DuFangQin only know that children were sent to nanjing city a household conditions good people,Nothing other.Helpless under,DuFangQin hold a glimmer of hope to find nanjing TV station for help.Since there is no daughter photos,He offers the older daughter DuGuLing photos,Facilitate than.

　　电视里，杜方勤的眼泪触动了靳冰。想起弟弟溺水身亡后，妈妈急得要发疯的样子，靳冰很想帮帮这位病重的母亲。

television,DuFangQin tears touched JinBing.Think of brother after drowned,Mother urgent need to like crazy,JinBing wanted to help the seriously ill mother.

　　靳冰把想法告诉男友，男友脱口而出：“你跟这杜家大女儿长得很像啊。”

The idea JinBing tell her boyfriend,Her boyfriend blurt out:"You with the dow big daughter looks like ah."

　　男友的话，让靳冰有了主意：冒充“女儿”安慰老人！

Boyfriend words,Let JinBing had an idea:Pretend to be"daughter"Comfort the old man!

　　靳冰打电话给杜方勤，“我不忍心看着一个老人带着遗憾离开这个世界。”正在焦急等待的杜方勤，虽然盼来的是一个假女儿，但他还是很高兴，因为可以向老伴交代、了却她一个心愿。

JinBing call DuFangQin,"I can't bear to look at an old man with a sorry to leave this world."Nervously waiting DuFangQin,Though hope is a fake daughter,But he is still very happy,Because to her replacement/But her a wish.

　　2007年3月3日，杜方勤全家像办喜事迎接新娘一样，将靳冰迎接到家。靳冰说，那场景一辈子都忘不了：一进村，鞭炮齐鸣，村里老少都站在路边看着我，“在鞭炮的轰鸣中，一位虚弱的老人在大家的搀扶下向我走来，眼睛里全是泪水。当时见到我，杜妈妈的第一句话就是：‘女儿，我想你，我想你。"

On March 3, 2007,DuFangQin family like to meet the bride wedding as,Will JinBing welcome home.JinBing said,The scene will never forget:A high,Firecrackers exploded,The village, old and young, were standing on the side of the road looked at me,"In the roar of the firecrackers,A frail old man in all helped came to me,Eyes full of tears.When I see,Du mother's first words were:‘daughter,i miss you,i miss you."

　　靳冰一下子湿了眼眶，急忙跑过去抱住她，情不自禁地喊了声“妈妈”。两人紧紧拥抱在一起。这一刻，靳冰感受到杜妈妈的身体在颤抖。

JinBing suddenly wet eye socket,Rushed to embrace her,Can't help Shouting voice"mother".Two people embraced tightly together.This moment,JinBing feel du mother's body in trembling.

　　在屋里，朱官翠握住靳冰的手，再也没有松开过，不停地看着她，请她原谅。那天，靳冰也给杜妈妈梳头、泡脚、修指甲；晚上，靳冰就留在了杜家，与朱官翠睡在一张床上，两个人说啊、笑啊、哭啊，一夜未眠。

In the house,ZhuGuanCui hold JinBing hand,Never loosen over,Keep looking at her,Please forgive her.That day,JinBing also give du mother comb my hair/To soak the foot/manicure;In the evening,JinBing stayed at home du,And ZhuGuanCui sleep in a bed,Two men that ah/laughing/crying,Sleepless night.

　　“扮演”了两天女儿后，靳冰要和杜妈妈分开了。分手时,朱官翠送给靳冰一个包裹。靳冰回家打开一看，是28双绣花鞋，从小到大，杜妈妈每年都要给“小女儿”做一双鞋，祝她幸福。靳冰再次双眼湿润。

"play"Two days after his daughter,JinBing and du mother separated.Broke up,ZhuGuanCui to JinBing a parcel.JinBing home open a look,Is and double embroidered shoes,size,Du mother every year to give"daughter"Do a pair of shoes,I wish her happy.JinBing watery eyes again.

　　从那以后，靳冰每周都会“回家”，给杜妈妈炖汤、洗衣服、全身按摩。有时候，靳冰也会给杜妈妈带一些进口药物和补品，陪她到医院治疗。靳冰常常陪在病床前，为朱官翠换针拿药，这让杜方勤感动不已，同房病友也开始羡慕起朱官翠有这么一个懂事的女儿。

From then on,JinBing every week"home",To du mother stew/Wash his clothes/massage.sometimes,JinBing also can give du mother took some import drugs and supplements,Accompany her to the hospital for treatment.JinBing often accompany in bed before,For ZhuGuanCui in needle medicine,It makes DuFangQin deeply touched,I'm beginning to envy her wardmate also ZhuGuanCui have so a sensible daughter.

　　两年过去了，因为“女儿”的出现，当初被诊断活不了多久的朱官翠，一次次地趟过了险滩恶水，身体状况奇迹般好转，走在村头巷尾，几乎看不出是个病人。

Two years have passed,because"daughter"appear,They had been diagnosis can't live long ZhuGuanCui,Repeatedly through the EShui rapids,Physical condition better miracle,Walking in the village head and lanes,Almost can not see a patient.

　

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　　真女儿拒见生母 True daughter refused to see mother

　　2012年国庆节期间，朱官翠因病去世。临终前，她拉着靳冰的手说：我没看到小女儿，却多了一个“亲生”女儿，我死而无憾！

In 2012, during the National Day,ZhuGuanCui died due to illness.Before his death,She took JinBing hand said:I didn't see little daughter,But one more"biological"daughter,I died and no!

　　本来，除朱官翠外，杜方勤等人都知道靳冰是假的，但叫“妈妈”叫得越亲，“演”得越像，村里老少就越相信靳冰是真“女儿”。

was,In addition to the ZhuGuanCui,DuFangQin and people know JinBing is false,But that"mother"Call more close,"play"More like,The village, the JinBing believe is true"daughter".

　　大女儿杜家玲悄悄告诉杜方勤，她经过认真观察，发现靳冰长得与自己很像，两人的额头都有一颗美人痣，“再说，如果不是亲生女儿，靳冰干吗总是买那么多东西来。看到我们家里电视机旧，就换台新的。一年四季下来，靳冰也一直给妈妈买新衣服，不管是颜色、面料和做工，都很合心意。不是亲生的，哪有这么默契？”

The older daughter DuGuLing quietly tell DuFangQin,She after careful observation,Find JinBing grow and they are like,Two people's forehead have a beauty spot,"besides,If not own daughter,JinBing why always buy so many things.See our house old TV set,Just get a new.Throughout the year down,JinBing has to give mom buy new clothes,Whether the color/Fabrics and work,All my fancy.Is not one's own,Which have so tacit understanding?"

　　杜家玲的说法得到了杜家亲友的一致肯定：如果是演戏，哪能两年都没破绽？

DuGuLing that got du family relatives and friends consistent affirmative:If it is acting,How can two years are no flaw?

　　杜方勤开始有意无意探听靳冰身世，但每次靳冰都找理由搪塞。有次通电话，杜方勤直言：“你不是假冒的，你就是我亲生女儿。”

DuFangQin began to intentionally or unintentionally JinBing nose for life,But every time JinBing are looking for reasons prevarication.Once on the phone,DuFangQin the truth:"You are not fake,You are my own daughter."

　　杜方勤没想到，此后，靳冰一下子与他们失去了联系，电话打不通，找到靳冰工作单位发现已经辞职。这让杜方勤更加相信，靳冰是被自己吓跑的，她的确是自己的小女儿。

DuFangQin thought,Since then,JinBing suddenly lost contact with them,I couldn't get through,Find JinBing work unit found has resigned.It makes DuFangQin more believe,JinBing is yourself away,She is really his own daughter.

　　反复联系不上，杜方勤寻女心切，就来到江苏泗洪县太平镇一个偏僻村庄，找到靳冰的父母。

Can not contact again and again,DuFangQin eager for female,Came to jiangsu sihong TaiPingZhen a remote village,Find JinBing parents.

　　靳冰父母拿出女儿的出生证明、各种相册等，终于让杜方勤相信，靳冰不是他的女儿。杜方勤很失望。

JinBing parents took her daughter's birth certificate/Various albums, etc,Finally let DuFangQin believe,JinBing is not his daughter.DuFangQin disappointed.

　　得知杜爸爸以为自己是杜家小女儿，还到处找寻她的下落，靳冰有些惊讶。其实自己那阵子一直忙着出国，一时断了联系。

That du father thinks he is a du home daughter,Also looked around her whereabouts,JinBing some surprise.As a matter of fact, I NaZhenZi have been busy to go abroad,A broken link.

　　2008年底，靳冰与男友出国结婚。在国外，靳冰仍时常想起朱官翠思念女儿的眼神，心里平添一份牵挂，她发现已经放不下杜家人了。靳冰有了一个新打算帮杜家找到真正的小女儿。

By the end of 2008,JinBing married her boyfriend and go abroad.In a foreign country,JinBing still often think of ZhuGuanCui missing daughter's eyes,Make the same score in a kind of worry,She found that has not put d of the family.JinBing have a new plan to help du home find the real daughter.

　　但杜方勤只知道，当时小女儿被送给南京一位姓戈的家庭了，后来反复多方打听得知，小女儿可能叫戈静。不过根本不知道他们住在哪里。

But DuFangQin only know,When little daughter was sent to nanjing a man surnamed gerben's family,Then repeated many about that,Daughter might be called GeJing.But don't know where they live.

　　在南京市公安局的帮助下，靳冰查询得知，在南京叫戈静的有230多人，通过综合考虑年龄、性别、身高等因素，最终挑选出5位最有可能的人。靳冰逐一走访，当来到第五位戈静的男友父亲所在的工厂时，刚好一辆车开过来，走下一个年轻美丽的女子，靳冰男友说，当时他就惊呆了：“我第一眼看到就确定她一定是戈静，因为她跟杜家大女儿几乎像一个模子印出来的！”

Under the help of the public security bureau in nanjing,That JinBing inquires,In nanjing GeJing that have more than 230 people,Through the comprehensive consideration of the age/gender/Factors such as height,Finally picked five most likely people.JinBing visit each,When come to the fifth GeJing boyfriend father in the factory,Just a car come over,Down a young beautiful woman,JinBing boyfriend said,At that time he was shocked:"The first thing I saw was sure she must be GeJing,Because she told dow big daughter almost like a chip off the old block!"

　　不料，手拿着结婚请帖的戈静一看到门口电视台的车，转身就往车上去。靳冰等人立即追上去。

but,Take a wedding invitation card of GeJing saw the door television car,Turn round and then went to the car.JinBing and catch up immediately.

　　戈静头也不回，靳冰说：“你妈妈快不行了，你不想见见啊？”戈静说：“她不要我了，现在才想起我，我是绝对不会去看她的。”

GeJing didn't look back,JinBing said:"Your mother is dying,You don't want to see ah?"GeJing said:"She didn't want me,Now just think of me,I won't go to see her."

　　靳冰说：“都这么多年了，还有这么大怨恨？”戈静说：“我没有怨恨，我就是不想看到他们，让我们忘记吧。”

JinBing said:"So for many years,There are so much resentment?"GeJing said:"I have no hatred,I just don't want to see them,Let's forget it."

　　“妈妈给了你生命，没她哪有你？”靳冰追问。戈静说：“那我把命还给她行不行？”

"Mother gave you life,Didn't she which have you?"JinBing ask.GeJing said:"Then I put the life to give her all right?"

　　经过多次劝说，戈静还是不同意去见亲生爸妈，她说怕伤害养父母的心。

After many persuade,GeJing still don't agree to go to see his own parents,She said afraid hurt the heart of the adoptive parents.

　　后来，戈静的丈夫告诉靳冰，其实戈静也很为难，她的养父母一直都很照顾她，现在他们身体都不好，她不希望养父母因为这件事心里不舒服。戈静还向靳冰赠送了她结婚的光碟。

later,GeJing husband told JinBing,In fact GeJing also very embarrassed,Her parents always take good care of her,Now they are not good body,She does not want to foster parents because it heart uncomfortable.GeJing to JinBing presented her married CD.

　　靳冰知道，既然已经找到了杜妈妈的亲生女儿，也该向杜妈妈坦白了。一天，靳冰试探地问妈妈：“如果我不是您的亲生女儿，您会难过么？”谁知，杜妈妈却说，她早知道靳冰是“假”的了。原来，是杜家小孙子泄露了“天机”，只是杜妈妈舍不得靳冰，她怕说穿了靳冰会离开她，便一直装糊涂。

JinBing know,Since you have found the du mother's daughter,Also the mother to du confessed.One day,JinBing tempted to ask a mother:"If I am not your own daughter,You will be sad??"but,Du mother said,She knew JinBing is"false"of.The original,Dubai is the grandson let the cat out of the house"Cat out of the bag",Just du mother won't JinBing,She was afraid of big JinBing will leave her,Has been dissimulation.

　　知道女儿不愿与自己相认，杜妈妈沉默了。虽然杜爸爸、杜妈妈很想去看“小女儿”一面，跟她说说话，可他们不想打破戈静的生活，她过得很好，他们已经很满足了。

Know his wish was with his,Du mother was silent.Although du dad/Du mother I want to see"daughter"side,Talk with her,But they don't want to break GeJing life,She had a good,They have already satisfied very much.

　　2012年国庆节期间，朱官翠因病去世。临终前，她拉着靳冰的手说：我没看到小女儿，却多了一个“亲生”女儿，我死而无憾！

In 2012, during the National Day,ZhuGuanCui died due to illness.Before his death,She took JinBing hand said:I didn't see little daughter,But one more"biological"daughter,I died and no!

　　尹安学、林晓丽

YinAnXue/LinXiaoLi