网友吐槽那些爱搞破坏、不守规矩的孩子，专家呼吁给孩子成长时间 Net friend vomit slot those who love make to break/Unruly children,The experts urged for children to grow up in time

　　春节走亲访友，你遭遇“熊孩子”了吗？ The Spring Festival visits,You are"Bear children"??

　　网友吐槽那些爱搞破坏、不守规矩的孩子，专家呼吁给孩子成长时间

Net friend vomit slot those who love make to break/Unruly children,The experts urged for children to grow up in time

　　本报记者 黄淼君

Our reporter HuangMiao gentleman

　　大年初一开始，就是亲戚朋友间串门的日子。昨天，网络上一个关于“熊孩子”的吐槽贴，让许多网友感同身受，纷纷跟帖讲述自己碰到的“熊孩子”情况，并大吐苦水直呼头痛。

Lunar New Year's day started,Is between friends and relatives drop around day.yesterday,The network on a"Bear children"Spit tank stick the,Let many netizens empathy,Have the post about their encounter"Bear children"situation,And big beefing call headache.

　　何为熊孩子，为何大家对熊孩子如此头痛？如何看待这一现象？昨天，记者就此采访了杭州的一些教育专家，请他们谈谈对这一现象的看法，并为家长们支招。

What is bear children,Why everybody to bear children so headache?How to think about this phenomenon?yesterday,The reporter interviewed some of hangzhou education experts,Ask them to talk about the phenomenon of the view,And for parents to move.

　　“熊孩子”爱搞破坏不守规矩 "Bear children"Love make to break don't behave

　　“熊孩子”这一称呼来源于北方，泛指那些惹人讨厌的孩子。一般也有昵称的意思，表示对调皮孩子的爱称。昨天，网络上所用的“熊孩子”被网友们界定为那些乱翻东西、搞破坏、不守规矩的孩子。

"Bear children"The name comes from the north,Refers to those who hate in children.General also has the meaning of the nickname,Said the naughty child nickname.yesterday,Used in the network"Bear children"Be net friends defined as those who go through things/Make to break/Unruly children.

　　“今天是年初一，接下来会有一大波熊孩子即将来袭……他们的杀伤力是巨大的，他们会删掉你的存档，摔坏你的模型，划烂你的屏幕，甚至还死乞白赖地要抢走你心爱的漫画、游戏、玩偶……想反击？熊孩子及其家长会使出‘他还小’、‘不懂事’等必杀将你撂倒在地。所以，你准备好了吗？亲！”昨天，微博上这个关于熊孩子的吐槽贴令许多网友深感共鸣，并例举了许多00后孩子们破坏力的行为。

"Today is a new,Then there will be a great bear a child incoming……Their damage is huge,They will delete your file,Broke your model,Torn your screen,Even dead qi white to depend on to take your beloved comic/The game/doll……To counter?Bear children and their parents use‘He was a little’/‘No sensible’And will kill you flow fell to the ground.so,Are you ready?close!"yesterday,The micro bo about bear children's vomit tank stick to many users deeply resonate,After, and provides many examples children destructive behavior.

　　网友梧司虞说：“熊孩子毁掉了我要拼好的大型拼图……然后我再也找不齐拼图了”。

The net friend SiYu said:"Bear children destroyed I want to spell good big puzzle……Then I can not find the puzzle together".

　　网友黄龙生说：“恐怖啊，去年我的大部分心爱宝贝给无情掠夺了， 趁小妖怪们还没来，我得赶紧把我的宝贝藏好！”

Net friend HuangLongSheng said:"Terrorist ah,Last year, my most beloved baby to ruthless to rob, While the small devil still didn't come,I have to put my treasure hidden good!"

　　网友林易说：“曾经耗时两个月时间疯狂刷各种稀有宠物小精灵，被我妹一个‘开始新游戏’给抹除了，我觉得我的人生莫名空白了两个月……还有一次，我外甥女无理删除了我桌面所有的文件，因为她下载了一些她的动漫，结果搞不清哪些是我的，她就一起都删了。我的报告什么的，就这样没了……从此我只买带锁的电脑机箱”。

Net friend Lin yi said:"Once take two months time crazy brush all kinds of rare pet elf,Was my sister a‘New game’To wipe in addition to,I feel that my life sense blank for two months……There are a,My niece irrational delete my desktop all the documents,Because she had downloaded some her animation,The results do not clear what is my,She was deleted all together.My report of what,So didn't……From now on I only buy lock computer chassis".

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　　在吐槽的同时，还有不少网友例举了对付这些孩子的办法。网友们各出奇招，比如喜欢缠着大人讲故事的孩子，可以讲几个鬼故事给他们听。对于那些喜欢乱翻东西的孩子，直接告诉孩子有炸弹。对于那些无理取闹的孩子，就比他哭得还大声。

In spit tank at the same time,There are not a few net friend enumerated the deal with the children's way.Net friends all surprisingly recruit,Such as like to tease adult children story,Can speak some ghost stories.For those who like to go through things children,Tell children have the bomb.For those who make trouble without a cause children,Than he cry also loudly.

　　不要用成人眼光去要求孩子 Don't use adult eye to ask for children

　　如何看待喜欢搞破坏的孩子？网友吐槽的这些方法可行吗？对此，记者也采访了杭州的一些育儿专家。

How to treat like vandalize children?Net friend vomit slot of these method is feasible?this,Reporters interviewed hangzhou some child-development experts.

　　“我个人觉得不用太在意，这是孩子人性的释放，成人们也不要太过苛责，对于现在这些独生子，我觉得更多的应当关注分享这个品质的培养。”杭州雅恩教育中心心理咨询师滕燕说，孩子活泼好动，不守规矩是人性的一种自然流露。但如果孩子很容易和别人发生冲突，很小气，这样的情况家长要注意一下。

"Personally, I think there is no need to care about,This is the release of human children,As people don't too cavil,For now the only child,I think more should pay attention to share the quality culture."Hangzhou education center, grace psychological consultant TengYan said,Children active,Do not keep the rules of human nature is a kind of natural language.But if the child is very easy and others conflict,Very stingy,That parents should pay attention to.

　　“春节期间走亲戚，刚好可以接触到许多家庭成员之外的人，家长可以在出门前给孩子准备一些小礼物，通过给别人分送礼物，引导孩子学会分享。”滕燕说。

"Relatives during the Spring Festival,Just can come into contact with many people outside of the family members,Parents can give children before going out to prepare a small gifts,Through to others distribute gift,Guide your child to share."TengYan said.

　　“熊孩子这个称呼太过了，要对这些孩子宽容，因为没有人一开始就懂所有的规矩，都是在不断学习和总结中，慢慢长大的。”杭州市教育科学研究所副所长韩似萍说，现在许多80后当上了家长，其实这些家长在小的时候也曾经搞过破坏，不守规矩，“不要用成人的眼光去要求孩子，需要不断从生活中体会各种经历，才会慢慢变成守规矩的人。”

"Bear children this call too the,To these children tolerance,Because no one to understand all the rules,Are constantly learning and summarizing,Slowly grow up."Hangzhou education science and deputy director of the institute Korea like ping said,Now many after 80 when the parents,Actually these parents in a small time also had done for destruction,Don't behave,"Don't use adult eyes to ask for children,Need to constantly from life experience various experience,Will slowly become mannered people."

　　“现在的孩子都是独生子，成长的环境就是所有的家人都让着他，把好东西都留给他。这样的成长环境，他们无法体会到什么叫尊老爱幼，也不知道什么是谦让。学校里的生活大多专注于读书，同学大多是读书的朋友，而不是生活的朋友，这些孩子缺少体会生活的环境。”韩似萍说。

"Now the children was an only child,Growth environment is all of the family members let him,Give good things to him.Such a growth environment,They can't realize what is doing a good job,Also don't know what is modesty.School life mostly focus on reading,Students are mostly reading friend,Rather than the life friend,These children are lack of experience living environment."Korea like ping said.

　　在传统文化中，春节头三天孩子们可以无大无小，成人们不妨对这些闹腾的孩子宽容一些，因为在宽容的交往氛围中，孩子们会慢慢体会到一些东西。韩似萍觉得，每一个孩子的成长不是家长要求出来的，而是通过不断的交往以及挫折后才慢慢体会出来的。

In the traditional culture,The first three days of Spring Festival, children can WuDaWuXiao,People might as well as to make the children some tolerance,Because the tolerance of the communication atmosphere,The children will slowly realized something.Korea like ping think,Every child's growth is not out of the parents' request,But through the continuous communication and setbacks before slowly out of the experience.

　　“家长可以在出门前和孩子讲一些道理，但是如果孩子没有按照要求来做，也不要斥责，请给孩子学习经验的时间和空间。”韩似萍说。

"Parents can before going out and children speak some truth,But if a child does not according to the requirement to do,Also do not rebuke,Please give the child learning experience of time and space."Korea like ping said.