“压岁钱先放父母这儿，以后再给你。”这句话被不少年轻人称为在童年时父母说的最大谎言。春节过后，压岁钱再次成为孩子与父母“争夺”的焦点。

"New Year's money to put parents here first,Will give you later."Many young people called this sentence in childhood parents said the biggest lie.After the Spring Festival,New Year's money once again become a child with his parents"Competition for"The focus of the.

　　“以前还主动把收到的红包交给我，今年他揣进荷包就不肯拿出来了。”昨日，家住徐东的胡女士感叹，读小学四年级的儿子说要自己支配收到的3000元压岁钱，让她颇为烦恼，“你多说一句，孩子就躲到房里去，跟你冷战。”

"Had the initiative to receive a red envelope to me,This year, he went into the pouch he refused to take it out."yesterday,Ms. Hu in xudong,Read primary school grade four son said to own 3000 yuan of money,Let her annoyed,"How say you,Children go hide in the room,The cold war with you."

　　在武汉一家论坛上，不少父母也讨论起这个话题。一位爸爸说，孩子的压岁钱今年有上万元，可他非常不乐意压岁钱被没收，想存着买自己想买的东西，还指责父母没收不公平，“可这钱并不是大家白给的，我也给了别人家的孩子压岁钱。”这名家长说。

In wuhan on a BBS,Many parents also discussion on this topic.A father said,Children lucky money this year, tens of thousands of yuan,But he is very reluctant to New Year's money was confiscated,Want to buy what they want to buy there,Also accused parents confiscate the unfair,"But this money is not all white,I also gave other people's children lucky money."The parents said.

　　记者随机采访了7名中小学生，大多数孩子认为，压岁钱是长辈给的，应由自己管理使用，父母不应代管。而且随孩子年龄增长，这种想法愈突出。南湖中学一名男生说，自己想用压岁钱去买学习资料、衣服、鞋子等物品。

Random reporter interviewed seven primary and middle school students,Most children think,New Year's money was given by elders,Should be used by your management,Parents should not escrow.But as children grow older,The idea that the more prominent.South lake middle school, a boy said,You want to use money to buy learning materials/clothes/The article such as shoes.

　　粮道街中学政教主任柳康认为，有些父母把压岁钱全部“收缴”，用来补贴家用，这样很难得到孩子的认同，容易激起他们的逆反心理，形成矛盾。其实，父母首先应该让孩子明白，压岁钱并非是“不劳而获”，别人给了自己压岁钱，父母也给了对方的孩子压岁钱。

LiangDao LiuKang, director of the think of church and state street high school,Some parents put the lucky money all of them"Confiscate the",Used for household,So it is difficult to attract children's attention,Easy to provoke their rebellious attitude,Formation of contradictions.In fact,Parents should let children know in the first place,New Year's money is not the"Something for nothing",Others gave their New Year's money,Parents also give children lucky money.

　　“父母处理压岁钱要照顾孩子的心理需求。”南湖中学副校长朱红春建议，父母应巧妙引导孩子，对于年龄稍小的孩子，家长可与孩子一起商量压岁钱的用途；如果存到银行，也可与孩子一起计算储蓄产品的利息，启发其理财意识。对于较大的孩子，家长则可以引导他们自己制定理财计划，并提醒他们不要攀比。（楚天都市报 记者罗欣）

"Parents to deal with New Year's money to take care of the child's psychological needs."South lake middle school vice principal Zhu Gongchun advice,Parents should guide their children ingenious,For younger children,Parents with children together to discuss the purpose of the New Year's money;If the deposit to the bank,Also can be calculated with child interest of savings products,Inspired by the financial management consciousness.For older children,Parents can guide their own financial planning,And remind them not to compare.(Rossing chutian metropolis daily reporter)

　　（荆楚网 罗欣）

(Rossing of network of chaste tree hunan)