近日，国家人口计生委培训交流中心等机构发布了《2012-2013中国男女婚恋观调查报告》，该报告指出，男性对理想女友的要求多以“温和”居多，月薪2000多元即可。

In recent days,National population and family planning institutions issued training exchange center[2012-2013 survey report with Chinese men and women opinions about love],According to the report,With more males to ideal girlfriend's request"moderate"In the majority,More than 2000 yuan a month.

　　然而，女性对男性的工资要求却让不少男性望而却步。

however,Wage demands of men to women turned off many men.

　　报告显示，杭州“90后”女性理想男友的最低收入为6255元/月，“80后”女性对男友工资要求为7828元/月，“70后”则上升到7945元/月。

According to the report,hangzhou"After 90"Female ideal boyfriend a minimum income for 6255 yuan a month,"After 80"Female wage demands for her boyfriend is 7828 yuan/month,"After 70"Rose to 7945 yuan/month.

　　房和车向来是择偶的几大硬指标之一。报告显示，在杭州，71%男性认为房和车不是结婚的必要条件，但仅有35%的女性赞同该观点。另外，51%的女性认为，房子是结婚的必要条件。

Room and car has always been one of the choices of partner made by several big tough.According to the report,In hangzhou,And 71% of men believed that a car is not necessary to get married,But only 35% of women agree with this view.In addition,51% of women think,House is the necessary condition to get married.

　　据悉，去年，网上晒出2011年“中国十大城市娶老婆成本排行榜”，杭州娶老婆的成本为178.2万元，其中一套80平方米的房子需花费130多万元。

It is understood,Last year,,Drying out of the 2011 online"China's top ten cities marry a wife cost list",Hangzhou wife cost is RMB 1.782 million,One set of 80 square meters of the house will cost more than 130 ten thousand yuan.

　　“考虑到杭州的生活成本，这个收入要求也合情合理。”25岁的方一峰是杭州萧山人，他已经工作一年，目前月薪为3000元左右。工资虽不高，但因家里已为他准备好婚房，他并不担心恋爱成本问题。

"Considering the cost of living in hangzhou,The income is reasonable in her demands."25 square piece is hangzhou xiaoshan,He has been working for one year,Current monthly salary of 3000 yuan.Salary is not high,But for home have marriage room ready for him,He does not worry about cost of love.

　　俞阳在杭州一事业单位工作，月薪4500元左右，手捧“铁饭碗”的他显得很乐观。“公务员、事业单位的收入也没有这么多，但考虑到工作稳定，福利和社会地位不错，也有不少女生愿意选择。”

YuYang in hangzhou, a work unit,4500 yuan a month,In hand"Iron rice bowl"He is very optimistic."Civil servants/Institutions of income is not so much,But considering the work stability,Good welfare and social status,There are many girls want to choose."

　　杭州一家婚介所首席婚恋顾问陶言20日晚告诉记者，对理想男友的要求反映了女性的择偶标准，经济能力是一项“硬指标”。

Hangzhou a dating agency chief dating adviser TaoYan told reporters Wednesday night,Requirements of ideal boyfriend reflects women's standards,Is an economic capacity"tough".

　　陶言所在的婚介所主要提供高端服务，其中对男性的准入条件是“年薪10万元以上，具有房产或购房能力”。她认为，设定准入条件对提高相亲成功率有很大帮助，据统计，该婚介所2012年度会员相亲成功率达到80.3%。

Mainly provide high-end services TaoYan in the dating agency,The access is for men"Annual salary of 100000 yuan of above,With property or purchase ability".She thinks that,Set access conditions are of great help to improve the success rate of blind date,According to the statistics,The dating agency member dating success rate of 80.3% for 2012.

　　理想丰满，现实骨感。

The ideal plump,Real skinny.

　　记者了解到，去年6月，杭州市统计部门发布数据显示，2011年杭州市区全社会在岗职工平均工资为38837元，换算成月薪为3236元。

The reporter understands,In June last year,Hangzhou statistics department released figures show,2011 hangzhou on-the-job worker average wage is RMB 38837 in the whole society,Conversion into a monthly salary of 3236 yuan.

　　浙江省社科院助理研究员王平认为，从统计部门发布的数据分析，杭州男性平均月工资收入较全社会平均工资高一些，但也不会超过4000元/月。女性对男性的工资要求高于现实收入水平近2倍，是可以理解的。

Zhejiang academy of social sciences research associate wang ping said,From the department of statistics data released by the analysis,Hangzhou men's average monthly wage income is relatively higher average wage of the whole society,But not more than 4000 yuan a month.Wage demands of men to women is higher than real income nearly 2 times,Is understandable.

　　“近几年受一些婚恋节目的影响，单身男女对婚恋对象的要求出现虚高，在一定程度上影响了社会婚恋正常化。”王平分析道。

"In recent years, influenced by some dating shows,Single men and women appear artificially high to the requirement of marriage object,To a certain extent, affected the social relationship normalization."Wang ping said..

　　在他看来，物质基础会对恋爱、婚姻造成一定影响，但具体标准应由恋人双方衡量，报告的发布对社会具有参考性，但对个人的选择影响不大，不具备参考性。

In his opinion,Material basis for love/Marriage caused a certain influence,But the specific standards should be measured by both parties of lovers,Release of the report with reference to the society,But less impact on the personal choice,Do not have reference.