儿子说，“他们管我太凶，不让我去上网，弄死他们，就没有人管我了，觉得舒服！” The son said,"They tube I too fierce,Don't let me go on the Internet,Kill them,Nobody tube I,Feel comfortable!"

　　母亲说，“出事前一周，我吓唬他说，再不听话，敢去上网，就挑断他的脚筋手筋。” My mother said,"Before the week,I scare he said,Don't listen,Dare to go on the Internet,Hand pick off his hamstring tendons."

　　父亲说，“我们不该吓唬他，只希望这件事以后，他能警醒和悔改。” My father said,"We shouldn't scare him,Only hope that this matter later,He can alert and repentance."

　　父母口中的温顺孩子小龙(化名)，实际上多次在学校打架斗殴，并遭派出所警告处分。这个染上网瘾的14岁少年，觉得父母管教太严格，竟用农药毒害父母哥嫂4人。你觉得这样的孩子该怎么教育？

Little dragon parents mouth gentle child(Not his real name),In fact many times fights at school,And by the police warning punishment.The 14-year-old teenager Internet addiction,Think parenting is too strict,With 4 pesticides poisoning parents elder brother sister-in-law.What education do you think this child?

　　因上网成瘾，受不了父母的严格管教，资阳市雁江区碑记镇宝山村14岁少年小龙(化名)，竟在食物中下毒，导致父母、哥嫂4人中毒。

Because of Internet addiction,Can't stand my parents strict discipline,Ziyang city wild goose jiang district town BaoShanCun inscriptional record 14 young little dragon(Not his real name),In food poison,Lead to parents/4 elder brother sister-in-law poisoning.

　　父母口中的小龙，是一个温顺的孩子，“就是不该有网瘾。”然而，民警却告诉华西都市报记者，读完初一便辍学的小龙，性格叛逆，多次在学校与人打架斗殴，并曾受到当地派出所警告处分。

Parents of little dragon,Is a docile child,"Is should not have Internet addiction."however,Police told west China metropolis daily reporter,After reading the first drop-out of little dragon,Rebellious character,Fighting with others in school for many times,And by the local police station warning punishment.

　　2月7日，小龙被资阳警方刑事拘留。昨日，小龙因涉嫌故意杀人被批准逮捕。回放

On February 7th,Little dragon is from the police criminal detention.yesterday,Little dragon was approved the arrest on suspicion of intentional homicide.The playback

　　

晚餐：一家5口4人中毒 dinner:A family 4 5 people poisoning

　　2月2日下午5时许，小龙一家5口准备共进晚餐，桌上只有妈妈炒的一大盘花菜腊肉。小龙说自己吃了冷饭，不想再吃了，爸爸、妈妈、哥哥和嫂子也未过多在意，吃起晚饭来。

At about 5 PM on February 2,Little dragon family of 5 to prepare dinner,Only mother Fried cauliflower of a market place in the bacon on the table.Little dragon said they ate cold food,Don't want to eat anymore,dad/My mother/Brother and sister-in-law didn't care about too much,To eat dinner.

　　哥哥吃了一口菜，觉得有股煤油味。爸爸老王认为可能是腊肉的味道，4人继续吃完晚饭。晚饭后不久，老王觉得肚子不舒服，浑身没劲，接着出现了呕吐和头晕症状。老王以为是感冒了，赶紧到村卫生院买了些感冒药。可是不久后，小龙的母亲、哥哥和嫂子也身体不适，到村卫生所一检查，医生诊断为食物中毒，立即将4人转往资阳市人民医院。

Elder brother to eat a mouthful of food,Feel the strands of kerosene.Dad Lao wang think may be the smell of bacon,Four people continue to eat dinner.Soon after dinner,Lao wang feel stomach uncomfortable,All the boring,Then came vomiting and dizziness.Pharaoh thought had a cold,Hurry to village health hospital to buy some cold medicine.But soon,Little dragon mother/Brother and sister-in-law also physical discomfort,To the village health clinic,The doctor diagnosed as food poisoning,Four people were transferred to the ziyang city people's hospital.

　　资阳市医院医生检验后确定为农药中毒，随即对4人进行了抢救。老王夫妇一度休克，被送进重症监护室，并下发病危通知书。

Ziyang city hospital doctors determined for pesticide poisoning after inspection,Immediately to the rescue of 4 people.Lao wang couple once shock,Was sent to the intensive care unit,And issued by critically ill notice.

　

　调查：小儿子蓄意投毒 survey:The younger son deliberately poisoned

　　2月3日，老王家出事的第二天，宝山村村支书李树洪觉得不大对劲，向碑记镇派出所报了案，派出所民警立即展开了调查。

On February 3,,Lao wang, the second day of the accident,BaoShanCun yuwang Li Shuhong feel not yourself,To the inscriptional record town police station,The policemen immediately launched an investigation.

　　“一家人吃晚饭农药中毒，实在太蹊跷。”民警王浩说，他们立即对厨房内食物进行化验，发现一瓶炒菜用的清油中，含有剧毒农药特丁硫磷。“这是市面上禁卖的农药，怎么会混入清油瓶中？肯定有人蓄意投毒。”随后，民警在走访中发现，老王家5口人中，小儿子小龙当晚没有吃饭。“我们立即对他进行突击讯问，他很老实地交代了作案动机，因为父母对他上网管得太严，案发前一周他就有了杀害家人的想法。”

"The family dinner pesticide poisoning,It was strange."Wang hao said police,They immediately for testing food inside the kitchen,Found a bottle of used cooking oil,Highly toxic pesticide, butyl sulfur phosphorus."It is forbidden to sell on the market of chemicals,How can mixed in the clear oil bottle?Surely someone deliberately poisoned."then,Police found in the visit,Lao wang family of five people,The younger son xiao did not eat that night."We immediately as he was about to interrogation,He is very honest metasomatism of motive,Because parents Internet tube too strict on him,He had killed his family a week before of the crime."

　　

对话 dialogue

　　儿子：“弄死他们就没人管我了” son:"Nobody tube I kill them"

　　为什么要毒杀自己的父母？小龙说：“他们管我太凶，不让我去上网，弄死他们，就没有人管我了，觉得舒服！”

Why do you want to poison your parents?Little dragon said:"They tube I too fierce,Don't let me go on the Internet,Kill them,Nobody tube I,Feel comfortable!"

　　而在其父母、哥嫂中毒后，小龙也曾忙前忙后地照顾，直至春节前，4人全部出院回家。民警问及是否是因为后悔，他却解释道：“我忙前忙后，只是不想让人发现是我下的毒，是我干的。”

In his parents/Elder brother sister-in-law after poisoning,Little dragon was obliged to take care of,Until before the Spring Festival,Four people all go home.Police asked whether because of regret,But he explains:"I was busy,Just don't want to let people find are my poison,Did I do."

　　“因为家里管我太紧了，经常责骂我，妈妈又说(再去上网)要挑断我的脚筋手筋，于是就有了毒害他们的想法。”小龙说，2月2日，自己心里憋不过，便找到家中用剩下的杀枇杷树虫子的农药，全部倒进了厨房的清油壶里，准备将自己的爸爸妈妈、哥哥嫂嫂全部毒死。

"Because home tube I too tight,Often scold me,Mom said again(To go on the Internet)To hand pick broken my hamstring muscle,So there will be a poisoned their minds."Little dragon said,On February 2,,Suppress but in my mind,And he found with the rest of the family pesticides kill loquat worms,Pour all the clear oil pot into the kitchen,Ready to his mom and dad/Brother and sister-in-law all poisoned.

　

　父母：“他是个温顺的孩子” parents:"He is a docile child"

　　警方进一步调查得知，小龙读完初一便辍学回家，经常进网吧打游戏，因为没钱上网，他曾多次从家里偷钱，“有一次偷了他姐姐几千元去上网，案发前一周还偷了他哥哥几十元。”

The police know that further investigation,Little dragon after reading the new moon will drop out of school to go home,Often in Internet cafes playing games,Because no money to get to the Internet,Many times he stole money from home,"Once stole his sister thousands of yuan to surf the Internet,Crime also had stolen his brother few yuan the previous week."

　　小龙曾经的班主任介绍，他经常逃学，多次和同学发生矛盾，并打架斗殴，曾受到派出所警告处分。

Little dragon once the teacher in charge is introduced,He often play truant,Many times with my classmates,And the fight,Had been police warning punishment.

　　对小龙在学校的表现，老王和妻子知道的并不多，“他在我们面前是个温顺的孩子，只在小时候打过他，他偷钱进网吧，我们都是找回来，轻言细语地说服教育。”

Little dragon in school performance,Lao wang and his wife know not much,"He is a docile child in front of us,Just played him in childhood,He stole money into Internet cafe,We are all back,Light undertone to education."

　　“平常小龙的话很少，看着多乖巧的，就是喜欢上网，老王一家特别溺爱这个娃儿。”邻居们证实了老王的说法。

"Ordinary little little dragon,Look at the more cunning,Is like the Internet,Lao wang a special dote on the kids."The neighbours confirmed Lao wang.

　　为了小龙不再进网吧，他的哥哥专门买来一台电脑，牵好网线，希望他安心呆在家里。“但他依然整天泡在网吧，出事前一周，我吓唬他说，再不听话，敢去上网，就挑断他的脚筋手筋。”小龙的母亲说，可能是这句话让小龙信以为真，并怀恨在心。

In order to little dragon no longer into the Internet cafe,His brother bought a computer,Take good Ethernet cable,Hope he set his mind at to stay at home."But he still bubble in the net cafe all day,Before the week,I scare he said,Don't listen,Dare to go on the Internet,Hand pick off his hamstring tendons."Little dragon's mother said,Believe this may be a little dragon,And hold a grudge.

　　“我们不该吓唬他，只希望这件事以后，他能警醒和悔改。”老王说。专家说法“语言暴力”更易让叛逆期孩子走极端

"We shouldn't scare him,Only hope that this matter later,He can alert and repentance."Lao wang said.Experts claim"Language violence"Makes it easier for rebellious period children go to extremes

　　对于这一事件，教育工作者怎么看？昨日，资阳市教育局副调研员李华周分析认为，小龙个性十分冲动，是家庭教育缺乏心理疏导造成的。

For this event,What do you think education workers?yesterday,Ziyang city bureau of education, deputy researcher Li Huazhou analysis thought,Little dragon personality very impulse,Family education is due to the lack of psychological counseling.

　　李华周说，12-15岁的孩子正处于叛逆期，父母应多关心孩子的心理变化，孩子犯了错误，应该用亲情感化，而不是动辄打骂、威胁，“语言暴力”更容易引起孩子走向对立面，甚至做出极端的事情。同时，李华周呼吁，应加大对农村未成年人成长环境的净化，加大对“黑网吧”的治理力度。

Li Huazhou said,12 to 15 years old is in the rebellious period,Parents should be more concerned about the child's psychological change,The child made a mistake,Should use the family influence,Not often beat and scold/threat,"Language violence"Were more likely to lead to children towards the opposite,Even do extreme things.At the same time,Li Huazhou called for,Should increase the purification of minors' growth environment in rural areas,More to"Black Internet bar"The regulation of.

　

　记者手记 Reporter's note

　　责骂恐吓不是“教育” Scold intimidation is not"education"

　　在小龙家乡采访时，小龙的父母也承认，家中姐弟3人，他们对这个小儿子寄予厚望，当看到小儿子身上有坏习惯时，他们都会责骂。

In an interview little dragon home,Little dragon parents admits,Sister 3 people in the home,They have high hopes for the younger son,When he saw the little boy has a bad habit,They will scold.

　　小龙的父亲认为，日常的责骂就是“说服教育”，“是用语言在感化”。然而，最终因为母亲的一句恐吓，儿子向他们痛下杀手。“他才14岁，根本还不懂事，不知道轻重，进去关几天应该就会放出来。”小龙的母亲仍然觉得，儿子被逮捕了，也“只是吓吓他”。

Father thought of little dragon,Scold is everyday"Persuasion education","Is to use language in detention".however,Eventually because the mother of a threat,Son to them."He is only 14 years old,Don't understand,Don't know weight,In closing should put out a few days."Little dragon mother still feel,Son was arrested,also"Just scare him".

　　最疼爱的儿子走上犯罪之路，父母仍未从自身、从孩子身上找到原因。

Favorite son took to the road of crime,Still not from their own parents/From children find out why.

　　我想，如果能多一点心灵对话，少一些打骂恐吓，或许事不至此。

I want to,If can more soul dialogue,Fewer people beat and scold,Maybe not so far.