“长辈式”年味问候 十大“毒舌”问题曝光 "Elders type"The festival atmosphere to ten"Poison tongue"disclosure

　　有对象了没？买房子了吗？啥时候生小孩？年终奖多少……过年了，对于许多年轻人来说，春运的拥挤可以忍受，回家后亲友的各种问题却是最可怕的“关卡”。是不是已经遇到一些亲戚朋友的“拷问”了呢？这些“毒舌”问题你招架住了吗？

Objects are not?Buy a house??What time to have children?How much year-end bonuses……The New Year,For many young people,Spring Festival transportation congestion can bear,Home relatives and friends of all kinds of problems is the most terrible"checkpoint".Have met some friends and relatives"torture"The??these"Poison tongue"The question you parrying?

　　

十大“毒舌”问题 The top ten"Poison tongue"The problem

　　1. 谈朋友了吗？什么时候结婚啊？

1. Talk about a friend?What time get married?

　　2. 小朋友，期末考试考第几名啊？

2. The children,The final exam person ah?

　　3. 去年赚了多少钱？

3. How much money last year?

　　4. 吃什么长这么胖啊？

4. What to eat so fat?

　　5. 工作怎么样啊？

5. Work?

　　6. 怎么还不叫人？长这么大还不叫人啊？

6. Why don't call a person?Long so big also don't call a person ah?

　　7. 今年多大了啊？(言下之意要给压岁钱吗？)

7. How old is this year?(The implication for New Year's money?)

　　8. 不打算再读研了吗？

8. No longer plan to attend graduate school?

　　9. 不认识我了吗？小时候抱过你呢！

9. Don't know me?When I was a child hugged you!

　　10. 啥时候买房呢？

10. What time to buy a house?

　　

面对询问 主动出击是王道 Face about initiative is the kingly way

　　面对长辈令人头大的“问题轰炸”，该怎样应付？对此，社会学家谭刚强表示：20多岁的年轻人，正是为将来打拼的时候，一切都还没有定下来，此时长辈们再询问婚姻或是事业上的各种问题，难免令人难堪，或是不知如何回答，这是现在许多年轻人害怕亲戚“碎碎念”的原因。

In the face of elder that big"Problem of bombing",How to deal with?For this,Sociologist tan strong said:More than 20 years old young man,Is the time to fight for the future,Everything has not been decided,The elders ask marriage or career problems,To avoid embarrassing,Or don't know how to answer,It is now many young people fear the relatives"twitter"The cause of the.

　　“但是长辈的各种问题，大多数还是为年轻人好，希望他们在外地能好好生活，因此，对于长辈的“碎碎念”再怎么不耐烦，也应该好好回应。”谭刚强说，对于这些问题，一味回避是不可取的，只会让亲人更加操心，应该主动出击，主动告诉亲人你的生活和工作状况，同时一定要表现出乐观、自信的底气，让长辈知道你过得很好，减少他们的担心。

"But the elders all sorts of problems,Most is good for young people,I hope they can have a good life in the field,so,For their elders"twitter"How impatient,Also should have a good response."Tan said strong,To these questions,Simply avoiding is not desirable,Will only make the family worry more,Should be proactive,Active tell loved ones you living and working conditions,At the same time must be optimistic/The confident style,Let the elders know you have had a very good time,Reduce their worry.

　　

年轻人反提问掌握主动 Young people the have the initiative to ask a question

　　面对亲戚们的问题，年轻人的感觉各不相同。有人认为这是一种关心的表示，毕竟平时离家在外各有各忙，过年团聚问问也是正常。

Faced with the problem of relatives,Young people feel different.Some people think that this is a concern,Away from home at ordinary times each have each busy, after all,Chinese New Year reunion ask is normal.

　　很多年轻人表示无奈。微博网友“二手宝马”如此描述：“又到了嘴角四十五度上扬微笑回答各方亲戚朋友的时候了。作为一个90后，小到所在学校的饭菜问题，大到毕业之后的工作去向，以及自己在学校里是不是谈朋友，都要被七大姑八大姨仔细询问一番。而自己却要耐着性子慢慢回答，但是心里却是一万个不乐意。”

A lot of young people said helplessly.Weibo users"Second-hand BMW"Such description:"45 degrees up to the corners of the mouth smile again time to answer all the relatives and friends.As an after 90 s,Small to school meals,After graduating from big to work,And talk to friends in school,Has to be extended/priest asked carefully.To sit through slowly answer on yourself,But the heart is ten thousand not willing to."

　　年轻人是不会“坐以待毙的”。有意思的是，有网友抛出了“反击”的“发言列表”：

Young people are not"Instead of the".It is interesting,Some netizens throws"Fight back"the"A list of":

　　1.女儿谈朋友了吗？啥时结婚？

1. The daughter talk about friends?What time get married?

　　2.儿子在哪复读？

2. Where is son answer read?

　　3.给孩子备婚房没？

3. Give the child for marriage room no?

　　4.血压血脂血糖正常吗？

4. Blood pressure blood fat blood sugar normal?

　　5.退二线了吗？

5. Refund the second line?

　　6.去年股票挣钱了吗？

6. Stock make money last year?

　　7.换新车摇号摇上了吗？

7. In the wave number?

　　网友“拖尼熊”表示：“一般问到6和8，亲友就昏死过去了，不会再问你婚不婚房不房生不生了。”年轻的网友们将此策略称为“先敌出击，唯快不破”。

Net friend"Tina bears the"said:"General asked 6 and 8,Relatives and friends came,Don't ask you marriage marriage room didn't room don't bore."Young netizens call this strategy"Before enemy attack,Fast break not only".